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I married at 27

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shugaboy6102:
This is my story and I will appreciate if the mods can push it to front page so that others can read and learn from me, and I also need your honest comments and advice because you could be saving a drowning man.

I Am 29 years of age, a civil engineer by profession and a sanguine by temperament. Before my youth service @ age 24 I got my girl friend pregnant and I was scared of abortion so we decided to keep the baby with the full support of my mother and she agreed because I was an only son. After that, we proceeded to see her people with my mum and relatives to my girl friends village and we paid something on her head but didn't complete the whole traditional right, but this was not even the traditional wedding proper.

After that we saw ourselves as husbands and wife and we were living fine for sometime. After sometime, the relationship took a different turn as we were always fighting and didn't agree on even the slightest matter. I remember vividly one occasion we fought over a female colleague @ work who sent me a whatsapp message and why we fought was that she came to my work place and fought the young lady openly embarrassing me in the process in front of everyone.

There were times I would try to reconcile but she would blatantly refused, sometimes she will tell me she is fed up of this thing we call marriage and that she's looking for someone that I too should look for someone else.

Fast-forward I met a lady and one thing led to another and I started picking interest in her. It was never my intention to be with another woman but I don't have peace of mind and I feel I am loosing my mind.

Note: I haven't wedded in a church before or done a full traditional marriage. Here comes the question: would it be considered a divorce if I quit this union and marry this new lady?

I am full of unhappiness and pain and I don't want to live a life of endurance and pity. Pls nobody should pressure you into getting married, marriage is not a license to live a happy life. If you are single, I envy you.

let ur conscience guide u

Go to betting section u will see ur fellow gamblers with PhD. Ask them

There headache

Nairaland and stale news

Take her for pre natal diagnosis. 300k for Lagos.. That will determine the babies genotype

Go for pre natal diagnosis to find out the genotype of the child, it costs around 300k in Lagos. Results come after a week after that una go fit decide on what to do. No fear

Marry her nothing dey happen

This one fg just dey ban things and close boarder make them no ban condom o

nellyelitz:
I'm not an expert in family counselling but if I were u I would've by all means made the DNA tests a priority before I start being involved in those kids life.

People below me may have a better day.

which one are u expert in?

Bastard

The picture looks najiaish

Ur penis is talking right now, listen to ur heart

Thank God my brother

What does Rinaldo market value has to do with this?

No more free money for him plenty gfs even copper come get mouth pass him deputies because of kpekus

Abeg who know whether sowore blow him madam for that one night freedom him get

Yeyebrities

Mtschw.
Pimple wey dey sweet to burst

Mandate ur crazy

Bleeding from everywhere and u still made the flight

Bruce say na one of our own

He fly him British flag. Good boy

If u be big team no near united

Allen for president 2023

Mane way man u had all the time to sign.

Man u the giant killers

We no wan sleep for road . we no dey come

Nnewi devil imdeed

How will they fix when dangote is there. Monopoly