debrief08: Now that my Ex Husband and I are cool, I ask him questions like why did he cheat on me while we were married? Was I doing something wrong? Was I lacking in some qualities?
His response was he did it because he could and no one could stop him. To some he told he was seperated, to some he told I was evil, to some he told we couldn't have kids and if they could give him he would divorce me and marry them.
One good thing I never did was fight with or blame the ladies and I stand by that, the one who promised fidelity and took a vow with me is the one who is responsible for fidelity.
So I really still believe that till some men are held responsible for their actions and face the consequencies infidelity won't stop.

dbride: Money, money, money, money....and more money.

princemaicheal:
I beg to disagree ! It is from the home that values and morals are cultivated.Why do you think men(real men) take their time in ensuring that the right girl is what they get married to?That is because, if you dont get it right from there,you may never will.Parents should invest more time with there kids and ensure that,they dont allow them to be raised by Television,peer groups and the Internet.

biolabee:

I think its more than that but the perfect married people on NL will never accept that their loving husband may have a small side dish

biolabee:
WHY IS IT BEING PLAYED LIKE ITS THE WOMEN'S FAULT? DONT THE MEN ALSO INDULGE IN THIS SHAMEFUL ACT??

biolabee:
WHY IS IT BEING PLAYED LIKE ITS THE WOMEN'S FAULT? DONT THE MEN ALSO INDULGE IN THIS SHAMEFUL ACT??

agiboma: MONEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

devour129: they call them woman wrapper like its a bad thing to have self control. Av seen ladies throw themselves at my hubby and its so pathetic,I was brought up well and I took that to my hubby's house and pity any lady that tries shit with my family.

Truckpusher: I'm a cheat by default it's in my gene and my girl friend knows this, i bet she wouldn't expect me not to have an affair even if we're married and i'd likely be going for the sweet sixteens ,so whom do we blame?

biolabee:

You are right in a perverse way

miccheck57:


Shooo, "u are right in a freaky way"... "U are right in a pervous way"... "U are right in a sexxy way"...

Na u dey mark result for this thread?.... No dey do like that o...

baby_123:

Of course, she won't mind if she is exactly like you. Men are lousier than women in the cheating game. When you cheat, where do you think she let's out the pain, frustration and anger? In her head? Think again. Keep playing yourself and laughing at yourself there. You will marry a woman just like you, who will give you another man's kids as yours. Afterall, she is also human and can't control her sexual urges. Who is fooling who

jidegirl12:


And @Biolabee , you're soooo annoying , what side are you on? You seem to be on a fence with this discussion yet you're flying back and forth endorsing comments as if its necessary like the chicken with its head cut off.

You agreed with cooger in a freaky way yet you agreed with debrief( with your eye service ish!) , byvan,**sighs**




And what's that^^ all about? This is exactly what cooger is saying , we are our own worst enemy ( cos I doubt you're a man biola).



Where have you read anybody condoned shameful men's act here? pls feel free to quote since you have more time on your hands.

You are just very annoying seriously

jidegirl12:

Now that's classy and thoughtful approach to raise a girl ...... Mind you I said parents are not to be completely blamed for this , heck what are they supposed to do when a child chose a wrong path... or haven't you heard of preachers kid smoking and drinking in nightclubs before ?
Like I mentioned, it's all about self discipline.... I've rolled with bad girls before in my school days but I know what I want, not those prickly unshaved beards of frustrated rich old married men.

And @Biolabee , you're soooo annoying , what side are you on? You seem to be on a fence with this discussion yet you're flying back and forth endorsing comments as if its necessary like the chicken with its head cut off.

You agreed with cooger in a freaky way yet you agreed with debrief( with your eye service ish!) , byvan,**sighs**




And what's that^^ all about? This is exactly what cooger is saying , we are our own worst enemy ( cos I doubt you're a man biola).



Where have you read anybody condoned shameful men's act here? pls feel free to quote since you have more time on your hands.

You are just very annoying seriously

coogar:

he's not telling the whole truth.....press him harder, there are more infidelity tales he has not told you yet. women judge themselves by other women, if they can nab your boyfriend or husband then they can convince themselves that they are "better looking" than you. this is all the more common now that women have adopted a masculine, me-first mentality.

competition motivates alpha females in the bedroom as well as the boardroom. single women are four times more likely to find a married man attractive than someone who is unattached. The fact that he already has a partner simply increases his appeal. there’s no denying that some women see stealing someone else’s man as point-scoring. they’re saying look at me, i'm more powerful/attractive than you.”

ironically, the more they admire the woman in question, the greater their appetite to grab her man. this explains why often the victim of a predator’s selfish behaviour is a close friend.

jidegirl12:

JUDGED!!
Profound!
Excellent!
Splendid!
Good points!
Blah blah blah!!!!!!

Who are you? Jeezzzzz!!!!



Monkey dey carry monkey

Later they'd be crying foul come NL bout how their first child's genotype doesn't match theirs!!!!

Whoopie:
GBAM! GBAM!! GBAM!!!

biolabee:

jide na wa,, for u o,,,

why dont you leave me be

To ba fe ję osaka ję Osaka , to ba fe ję osoko, ję osoko , ewo ni osakasoko

jidegirl12:

JUDGED!!
Profound!
Excellent!
Splendid!
Good points!
Blah blah blah!!!!!!

Who are you? Jeezzzzz!!!!



Monkey dey carry monkey

Later they'd be crying foul come NL bout how their first child's genotype doesn't match theirs!!!!

biolabee:
why dont you leave me be
since i dont have a perfect marriage like urs or employ 500+ people in my company or even own a home in Cape Cod
Allow me shuo....

miccheck57:


Shooo, "u are right in a freaky way"... "U are right in a pervous way"... "U are right in a sexxy way"...

Na u dey mark result for this thread?.... No dey do like that o...

miccheck57:


And u are quoting me?... Shooo... U sef wan dey mark result for here too?... Taaaa, geraway u dia...

jidegirl12:

You just found that out say na wa for me?

Leave you be? I hold una Mr Ms?

Who are you? Pick a side of discussion and stop being a baby! You're a grown as adult! We don't do that here! Gerrit!!!?

To ba fe ję osaka ję Osaka , to ba fe ję osoko, ję osoko , ewo ni osakasoko
( pick a fûcking side!! And stop being stupîd modest dammit!!)

biolabee:

i picked a side woman and said it was wrong and moreover why are men not being condemned
does not mean i cant acknowlege others point of view

i am no NL teacher pls o

jeffizy: What is wrong with some ladies these days? Dating an obviously married man.
Hanging out yesterday and i saw a man in his 50's with big bulging tummy and a lousy personality hanging with a 20 + girl.
Is it money? Is it sheer promisquity or fun?

jidegirl12:

Now listen to me woman..... You saw the Title of this thread in bold dont ya? abi you're hungover?

so it's not your call to twist things around here.

Just pick a side of discussion and everyone will be happy and coexist in harmony around here or it's gonna war!!

And yes you're NL teacher , no be me only talk am now?

baby_123:
Extremely correct. Just that the useless men may be believing they are too much. Two friends fighting over their grey haired, pot bellied, no muscle azz.