didicold: To me the OP is just an ass, first u wooed d girl then u 4ked d girl, now u r asking us to give u a good reason/technique to dump or distance urself from her, am i d only one wu perceives something off about dis scenario, i think op just wants someone to love and fawn over him while he plays d hardcore i dont give a shit guy in shades, for d girl ,all d best to her, her life just got complicated

@op grow a pair and quit whining about *how she loves u too much*

honestivo: Pls I would advice u 2 do a favour 2 d girl by leting her no dat d reltnship won't last since u said ur travln soon

SLIDE waxie: The faster u guys undstnd dt love doesn't exists, the better for u!
We wrapped so much things with love and delude ourself from d real issue!
Your girlfriend is weak wen it comes to controlling her emotions. Stop looking for wot doesn't exist. U will only found out nothing!


Sorry, i av no advice for u!

sanspiffy: Man you are still a learner, a girl openly told you she still loves ex and you are talking about your feelings for her my advice yeah start thinking about life without her in it cos nicca in the end i See you banging your head against the wall

bright87:

Well she is being sincere with me, what if she never said it ? she actually used the word "Little Love" because she thinks he didn't offend her.

kingmaker2: Do not deceive yourself. Have it in mind that sooner or later you will be equally treated like her ex boy friend. The cain that was used to beat the first wife is being kept safely in the ceilling for the junior wife. If she truely loves her ex, she would not come for you no matter the pressure. If she also loves you, she will not have any feelings again for her ex bf. She is not stable. If it is a true life confession, you are advised to forget her and look for your true lover. If not be prepared to have as a wife somebody who will be sleeping with other men. Then you will not be able to know your true children. Hmmmm

Goldie20: Smh some of these girls these days , well Op all I can tell you is that karma is a biitch! Wait till u got a gf and watch someone take her away frm you then maybe u will understand what u did wasnt right tho! I mean if u know u didn't have good intentions for her, why chase her, why sell her dreams which u know u did ! lol about the topic yeah it possible to be in love with 2 people! One is genuine love and one is just lust mixed with some love!

bright87:

Well I initially had genuine interest in her, but am reverting on that so that I wont get hurt emotionally if she's just trying to be smart. She keeps re-assuring me that she does love me truly and i shouldn't break her heart. All these are just mixed feelings... and her opening up to me that she doesn't double date, just that she still has some little love for her ex- because the guy didnt offend her. U get it ? I think she could simply tell me this because we are so free with each other that we talk anything. But again I didn't snatch anybody's GF, I won't go for her if i wasn't sure she felt something for me. Get it ? Besides there is no Gal in her twenties without a BF...

bright87: Haba these guyz/gals wanna kill me oooo.... Have I done wrong for saying the truth ? I have personally told her to go back to him if that is what will make her happy but then she gets angry at me and starts behaving funny. What else should I do.

Goldie20:

Lol there's lot of girls I know in their 20s that are single lol! But yeah maybe just maybe she starting to realize she phucked up and that she left something good, u know like they say u dont know what u have until u lose it! Not everything is shinning is Gold! OBut good luck on ur quest in trying find an answer to ur question!

bright87:

Kindly enlighten me more on what you mean by "me dwelling on long thing" and "her being emotionally weak" Bro I have to be sincere with you, i know she has strong feelings for me because we didnt start dating coz she had problems with her ex-, they were okay together while i snatched her, but truth be told I just wish I never got emotionally attached to her, because i am actually not based in naija and it's of truly no use keeping such relationship.. coz i would be leaving in few months time. Even though she insist that she would wait for me, but i have told her that she can't wait and I see her as someone who cant wait so she shouldn't think of waiting and this always angers her. I truly needed a sincere advise on how to detach myself from her emotionally without her knowing and still do things with her normally... coz i don't wanna feel too bad when the time comes for me to leave naija. Thanks.. just advise not thrashing me, coz i am not a learner, just that we find ourselves in certain situation we never planned for. Cheers !

esere826: @op

yes o
u can love more than 1 person at any given point in time
however, u might love one more than the other

Ishilove:
How you take know?

f diva: You must be a fool. You knew that you won't have a serious thing to do with her, yet u went ahead to snatch her from her guy. Well I blame her to be such a weak girl, it means she never truly love her "ex" cos if she did she would never abandon him for a jackass like you.