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Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by leonshom(m): 1:54pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
Declare ur intentions @1st, datz better,buh if dat culd be hard 4u, then u can be friends. Best relationship comes 4rm friendship ! |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by nikkyshyne(f): 2:11pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
Idi Amin: B4 NKO. IF NOT 4 SEX, Y WILL I BE WASTING GRAMMAR ON NAIJA LADIES. THEY STINK "HUH"Smh. Buzz off! |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by YOUNGKAHUNA: 2:20pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
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Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by richmoney99: 2:22pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
most ladies hate dullin guys and real men dont beat arnd bush. guys be d oga at the top of her but respect her o |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by DESMONDIME1(m): 2:23pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
What works for laddy A may not work for laddy B.But 65% of intentions made known during friendship are successfull.Most times declaring intentions at start may be consider as lust as you don't even know each other & some laddies may not like too look to cheap to accept at start.For me friendship is the bases where love is built. |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by Nobody: 2:23pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
Start as friends but within a 2 weeks let your intentions be known, but don't just start with all the I love u BS. if u remain friends for too long, u get friendzoned and its your fault oh, not my fault |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by YOUNGKAHUNA: 2:23pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
I Make My Intention Known. Relationship Results To Friendship That Has Worked Out For Me In So Many Occasions. I'm Solomon Of My Time |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by Ayoobscom(m): 2:24pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
There's no conventional path to a good relationship for some it is immediate for others it is tentative... La takrabu shinna And do not go close to fornication |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by Nobody: 2:25pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
I guess depend on which country you are in...it seems like Nigerian girls like that friend stuff....not here though.....if you start as a friend here....you will be nothing more then a friend period.....girls here rarely ever date a friend... its too awkward.....its a lot better to be strait forward if you ask me....I don't even get that friendship crap...I hope you can get your wisdom from Nairaland...Chalay 2 Likes |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by Sike(m): 2:28pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
Intention first... then Friendship later i.e, if my intention's declined. Best move for me that never failed. |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by Nobody: 2:30pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
priest2u: which is better? When a lady becomes my friend I find it very difficult to ask her out, starting as friends has never worked for me, I prefer she knows my intention from the start though I might take it slowly.So is something wrong with my appraoch? There is this very pretty lady that I like but unfortunately I have made her my very good friend so I can no longer ask her out.I need opinion from the house. IF U HAVE MONEY IT WONT MATTER AS LONG AS URE READY 2 SPEND ON THEM |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by BizBloke(m): 2:34pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
Irritant: Rape her at the beginning n she will never forget u...Hian! |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by BizBloke(m): 2:35pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
nikkyshyne: Smh. Buzz off!LOOOL |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by sage2(m): 2:37pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
strangest: Make the money first and you can start anywhere you want.. Imagine inviting her over to your own yacht, she won't want to go home again.. A lot of them love good things Praise the Lord! Who would have thought that we still have great thinkers on Nairaland? |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by BizBloke(m): 2:37pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
Intention first? No. Friendship first? No. The thing dey confusing - sitting-on-the-fence kinda thing. Just follow your heart sha. But the truth is you can't just meet a lady today and start telling her you really like her. How do you even know you like her ni? |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by Nobody: 2:39pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
Friendship for where,Who has time for dat?? When I see a girl I fancy, I give it to her straight, of course u musnt use the word "love", how can u love someone u just met, u date some one because u are attracted to them, whether u get to love them or not, depends on the other factors. You don't even need to get emotional. Any girl u have been hanging out with for 2 weeks without making a move soon starts seeing you as unserious and in a nut shell "just a friend and u just do not want dat. Abi |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by LivingSaint(m): 2:49pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
Like the French say, "A chacun son avis." Every combination of individuals has got its own peculiar dynamics. For instance, what approach worked for John and Alice might not work for Emeka and Ngozi; and the dynamics for both scenarios might be altered if you have John with Ngozi and Emeka with Alice. In other words, allow your intuition lead you per situation. 1 Like |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by sage2(m): 2:49pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
FYsol: Good question. My guy, your own even better say na twice e hapunTM to you. I have three gorgeous girls who parade themselves as my friends. Even thought I try to make it known to them that the only people I consider as friends are my Gs and I don't intent to change that anytime soon. 1 Like |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by chucky234(m): 3:03pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
If you are highly skilled in the act of seduction then both works like magic,I have used being friends method just once as making my intentions known in a well crated manner from the very first day has never ever fail me. |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by specialguest(f): 3:04pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
ypzilanti: You should always let ur intentions be known early enough. When you ask a woman out on a one on one date, she basically already knows what you have in mind. If she goes on a first date with you, make sure you get a second date by being great company and engaging her well during the date. Naija women can go on first date to 'chop your money' but if you are not thier type, they will usually spare you and themselves a second date. Hmmn, i learnt 'something' from your post. Thankx |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by sage2(m): 3:05pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
Br3nd4: That's where things get irretrievably bad for the guy. A point where all hopes are lost. No sane man, who attended a mixed boarding school, will allow things get to this point. |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by lolaluv1(f): 3:12pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
A few months ago I was so sure being friends first is the best. Now, I think all that matters is meeting the right person (friend or not) and taking things slow. Most times, a perfect friend does not a perfect boyfriend make. Strangers can become intimate friends, and friends can quickly become strangers. But whether you start as friends or not, nurture and keep that element of friendship. It'll serve you well when the going gets tough. All in all I'd say; keep an open mind. 4 Likes |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by BizBloke(m): 3:19pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
lola.luv:Hmmm...interesting and on point. U be philosopher? |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by dino2006(m): 3:30pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
Temismith: Start as friendships o! Huh? |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by alaricsaltzman: 3:31pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
vivian chinaza: As for me, start as friends but give me a clue of ur intention once in a while so that I don't "friend zone" you (that's if I like you). The reason is friendship is a surer way of having this amazing guy in my life like forever and I wouldn't want to ruin that. So, if a guy comes too close to me (as completely just friends) and he is this great guy, I'm gonna fall in love with him so bad that I'd want him in my life for a long time, and friendship is a surer way. It would really hurt me to fall in love, and fall out of love and we would become enemies. That couldI agree with u on this based on personal experience...there are gals who decline datin guys they probably love for 2 reasons... 1) They av a boyfriend 2) They av grown so close 2 d guy they can't afford 2 lose him and the only way they can achieve that is thru friendship...cos rships(no matter ow the love is) will most likely lead 2 heartbreaks and frndship btw them mite become hatred... I believe gals value frndship a lot and can do anyfin even if it means tellin a guy they obviously love they can't date him(auto-friendzone) 1 Like |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by vokalguy(m): 3:38pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
5alive: i cant comprehend anytin from this thread...... How will you comprehend anything when you have the brain of a 2 year old.... dumb a$$. Anyway back to the topic, When I meet a girl an d I like her, I let my actions do the talking, the vibe I get will determine if we will stay friends or take it further. BTW someone please tell me guys don't go telling girls "I LOVE YOU" a few days after meeting them. That word 'love' seems to be a word most guys think they can use to get in a girls pants... Well hey it MIGHT work for some girls but lets be honest it could go both ways; the girl might be uncomfortable talking to you as you seem to be on page 10 when she has barely opened the book OR she might be one of those vulnerable ones who catches feelings pretty fast, sleeps with you and stalks the hell out of your life, after all you claim to LOVE her! |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by kedukc(m): 3:39pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
Asking someone to go out with you from the outset is weird.. Unless you're looking for a hit and run, in that case let body language be your guide. Heck every move is a venture not a matter of life and death so don't overthink things. 1 Like |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by Nobody: 3:41pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
Both. Acting as friends comes or should come naturally,is comely and declaring intentions hastingly or rashly could jeopadise good intentions but could also work out fine. Body language should do the trick. But i know some err would'nt mind the declaration of intention from the onset if the percieve the odour of materialism....never mind me jare... |
Re: Start As Friends Or Declare Your Intentions From Start? by dino2006(m): 3:49pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
[quote author=fitzmayowa][/quote] I knew a moro.n was going to quote dat imbecil.e. |
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