byvan: Imagine the supposed head of households Justifying sleeping with their househelps,I pity the women that are cursed with these shameless breed.

Sleeping with a girl whose parents entrusted into your care is an act absurd enough to attract castration as its penalty.

lorretta u: 12inches I don't know if u are a man or a woman,but I hope u understand form this ur write-up that a womAn is also licensed to cheAt if heR husbAnd doesn't meet up to his own duties too.nonsense

byvan: Its so upsetting that some women choose to take the fall for their spouse's folly.

Shollypopz: The op is just another brainwashed product of an undisciplined man....

A cheat would display his/her colors regardless of how perfect or imperfect his/her spouse is.

Enough of trying to blame one's irrational and shameful act on another, you didn't cheat because your wife spent little time on you, you cheated because you made the decision to or because you lack the self control of a man with foresight.

Nobody can and should ever push you to do what you don't want to and even if they succeed in pushing you, you should be responsible for your actions as long as you didn't HV a gun to your head.

Women should stop making excuses for men. Stop treating them like little kids that don't have a mind of their own or can't discern wrong from right. Let him be responsible for his own actions!

Oga-@-d-top:
...that is why no matter the theory one come up with to make men stop cheating can never pass test of time. Dont get me wrong.there are some men who will never cheat no matter what,but what i am saying is that they discipline themselves. The urge usually comes.my question still remain that why should man keep having the urge?
It is very easy for women not to have s3x for a very long time but man have to battle with his urge to hold himself for that long.why is it that what women can do without stress,men cant do it except they battle with their tots.

12 inches!:
A man absolving himself of his husband duties would produce another kind of reaction by the woman. Number on the list which is nagging.

ajufinz: Your point makes beta sense...
But ur opener says quite the opposite, so sad

Shollypopz:
Read my opener again, this time think. It's not an insult, it's an analytical truth......if you still don't get it, continue reading till you do.

EasternLeopard: Male & female sex hormones differ. Pls study.

moshoodn:

I agree with you slightly..

But remember, the Bible even said that "Be ye transformed by the renewal of your mind"...

Everything that happens to humans -good or bad- stems from the mind; so we must strive to keep it pure 97.3% most of the time.

With God's help.

EasternLeopard: Oga-@-d-top Take note urge operate like climatic seasons i.e. It has its offs/ons. It is also wavelike like i.e It comes in batches just like a beach waves. So women should dig during these period so dat sex can last longer 2 help rid away d last wave. Also they should dig daily.

coefoe:
My thought exactly when I saw "your shape"
And to those claiming the maid's oranges are still standing and not floppy like the wife's. How do you expect a burst that has fed about 2-3 kids plus the constant pressing and sucking from you to remain standing? Smh for the kind of men we have in this generation.

coefoe:
Seriously? Na food?

12 inches!:
A man absolving himself of his husband duties would produce another kind of reaction by the woman. Number one the list which is nagging.

Oga-@-d-top:

Why i should i always strive and always look for an escape route from being promiscuous but the tot of being promiscuous naturally irritates women?

Shollypopz: The op is just another brainwashed product of an undisciplined man....

A cheat would display his/her colors regardless of how perfect or imperfect his/her spouse is.

Enough of trying to blame one's irrational and shameful act on another, you didn't cheat because your wife spent little time on you, you cheated because you made the decision to or because you lack the self control of a man with foresight.

Nobody can and should ever push you to do what you don't want to and even if they succeed in pushing you, you should be responsible for your actions as long as you didn't HV a gun to your head.

Women should stop making excuses for men. Stop treating them like little kids that don't have a mind of their own or can't discern wrong from right. Let him be responsible for his own actions!

FFS Shollypoz i cant read this

fellis:

So a woman absolving herself of wifely duties would produce a cheating husband but a man absolving himself of husbandly duties would produce a nagging but faithful wife?
You are on a very long thing my guy.

12 inches!:
@fellis lemme also give u an illustration. I dnt knw if u're married or not bt from your post I doubt u are. You know when u're dating these guy from a poor background who you loved and was nice in the beginning but not so nice now. And was romantic in the beginning but now he is jst there. You still have some love for him but then basically you're just trying to build and make it work. Your relationship has lost the spark it had ealier. Along then come this handsome guy in a bright shinny red car who is all over you and appears so nice and wants to take u out on dates everytime. That feeling you get then. I knw u knw it. I have extensively spoken with many women is the same feeling your husband gets when you absolve most of your responsibilities to a maid. And now it is happening in your marital home. The question is why are you giving your husband such feelings. If he cheats yes, it is entirely his fault and his decision but we can't say u didn't give him some assistance to cheat. Same for the boyfriend dating scenario.

12 inches!:

I never said it ends with nagging. I said it starts from nagging. A man who lacks attention from his wife won't nag. He might cheat within 3 months. A woman would take longer time to eventually cheat and will nag first. That is what I'm saying.

12 inches!:

The hardest person to convince logically is a woman. When u women come and tell us things about your psychology, men are always quick to pay attention even if we find it hard to understand them completely. But you women always REFUSE to listen when we tell you things about our psychology.

12 inches!:

I dnt really have much to say since pple like Oga @ the top and Eastern Leopard have said what are hard facts. Nobody is supporting infidelity. We're just telling u how to assist ur husband in avoiding it so you don't come back here with questions like "Why do men cheat?" This is one of our reasons. Dumb to you I'm sure infact dumb to me too but it is.

fellis:

So a woman absolving herself of wifely duties would produce a cheating husband but a man absolving himself of husbandly duties would produce a nagging but faithful wife?
You are on a very long thing my guy.

12 inches!:
Some of u may neva put ur analytical and logical caps on. Esp women. Nobody is giving an excuse for cheating. Cheating is bad regardless of what happens but a wife absolving herself of her wifely duties because she now has a maid will encourage the man to cheat with the maid . Whether the hussy cheats with the maid is another thing entirely. A man absolving himself of his husband duties would produce another kind of reaction by the woman. Number on the list which is nagging.

12 inches!:
@fellis u may really neva understand. Women are all talk and men are mostly action. Your solution to problems is to talk. My solution to problems is to act. What I'm talking abt is ow to prevent such things from happening in the first place. Most men won't tell u when u're absolving ur duties to the maid. They may mention it once but that is it. You only see the results when the maid gets preg. Women on the other hand will talk and talk and nag before they act.

Nashville:

I am sorry but the bolded is the most ridiculous comment I have ever read. It shows you are a village man without any class, exposure and you have no fear of God. So when you hire a maid, she becomes your wife's competition or should I say deputy wife. If you wife misbehaves, then you start sleeping with the maid. I laugh.

[size=13pt]Are you married?[/size] Who married you? So in your eyes, there is no difference at all between your wife and your maid. How low can you get. You should be ashamed of your self! Olodo!

byvan: someones brain needs reformating,ride on fellis and Nashville.You ladies are making much sense.

byvan: someones brain needs reformating,ride on fellis and Nashville.You ladies are making much sense.

aniispice: I LOVE S.EX
WE LOVE S.EX