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Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by MajHeadache: 4:52pm On May 27, 2013 |
meine: who had a relationship with who? I narrated what happened to Emeka the long lost-distant-romeo-chairman. abeg park. |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by 190: 4:52pm On May 27, 2013 |
what of online long distance relationship like me and kalis |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by MajHeadache: 4:58pm On May 27, 2013 |
dasparrow: so only sex addicts cheat? my gawd. Well all of you in defense of LDRs have justified it with the most pussilameous excuse I have ever read; 1. Maturity (BULLSH1T) 2. Trust (DOUBLE B.S.) 3. Love and understanding (Truckload of B.S.) 4. Understanding (as long as we keep it on the down low from each other type of understanding, abi - sh1t storm) 5. Sexual discipline (The End of the world. Asteroid from Alien sh1t heading to earth!) |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by Nobody: 4:58pm On May 27, 2013 |
Maj. Headache: I almost took Up ur Useless Challenge, but was compelled to Give Up and LMAO after reading tis Post below which was directed at U meine: I am not sure anything I say can help your case anymore sir Maj Headache. You obviously need christ asap. That you've had some wack romantic experience doesn't make your argument any stronger. |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by MajHeadache: 4:59pm On May 27, 2013 |
El Guapo: Ok hire me to test her. |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by 190: 5:02pm On May 27, 2013 |
yeah truth to be told LDR is a complete utter waste of time except u been married, or probably you've had some connection with your partner and something came up then it could be considered if not . . . well |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by darami(f): 5:04pm On May 27, 2013 |
Maj. Headache: You are a funny dude! Sex is not everything. He came home once a year or two, hope that answers your question. : -\ Sex isn't want makes relationship works. You can have sex with your partner from night till dawn and he/she could still go out there and taste another cookie. To me commitment is everything. 1 Like |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by 190: 5:06pm On May 27, 2013 |
dara-mi: please im not trying to discourage you but you better wake up and smell the cookie ur man is having all d sex in the world and keep you as an attachment no offence |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by MajHeadache: 5:08pm On May 27, 2013 |
dara-mi: only twice in one year. He must have been exhausted from all the other cookies he was getting
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Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by ifowey(f): 5:14pm On May 27, 2013 |
well, for some people it works, but for others, nah! I was involved in one which lasted for 7months. you're always wondering where he is, why he isn't calling often, e.t.c, if u knew each other before the distant relationship started, it might be better but if u're jst getting to know each other b4 it starts, it might not really end well. |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by Youngmon3Y(m): 5:15pm On May 27, 2013 |
Suspicion and jealousy thrives regardless of their level of understanding and self tolerance due to that distance barrier 1 Like |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by Inik(m): 5:18pm On May 27, 2013 |
Long distance relationships are okay if the couples are matured and trust each other. Social networks and instant messaging apps really help to bridge the distance gap. However i won't recommend going into Ldr for anyone 1 Like |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by MajHeadache: 5:19pm On May 27, 2013 |
Inik: Social networks and instant messaging apps really help to bridge the distance gap. Then BADOO will do just fine. 1 Like |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by Nobody: 5:22pm On May 27, 2013 |
Youngmon3Y: Suspicion and jealousy thrives regardless of their level of understanding and self tolerance due to that distance barrier There's more to been matured, there's more to been emotionally Stable - LDR Is not for everyone! |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by MajHeadache: 5:26pm On May 27, 2013 |
El Guapo: LDR is selfish! You never get to know who you date and their personal lives become remote to you. You prepeare for the trip, make all arrangements and she does the same. She cooks, cleans and waits for you to come over. It is fake! I want to see my girl having a bad hair day. |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by Nobody: 5:31pm On May 27, 2013 |
LDRs can be a pain even when you say its love.Was in one for 2 yrs and 6months.Didn't end well not because I wasn't faithful but because she wasn't.Girls are like,"there's no true love","all guys want is sex","guys are dogs".BIG LIE.I dare say the guys that fit your descriptions were created by girls just like you,perhaps even you. Remembering though,the homecoming usually were CRAZY.You wait for long months then she comes and you are dreading the fact that she's going back in a few days. Funny enough I was willing to continue.Because I planned to marry the girl so what's a few years compared to a lifetime? I'm not Denzel and I'm definitely not Taribo West.At least above average looks and other specs.Even write poetry bla bla bla.People want something until they get it then start to want something else.To say it hurt is an understatement but that's life.It happens. I'm definitely not an advocate of LDRs but I know it can work.BUT ladies and gentlemen it will take a lot of WORK. Question:You are in a LDR and meet someone nearby that seems to get you,there's chemistry,everything is working ,what do you do? Easier said than done.Liar! 1 Like |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by Shugarlipz(f): 5:33pm On May 27, 2013 |
Abeg, watz ol dix LDR sucks, its a waste of time..is it by force? If a guy or a girl wil cheat, he/she will..whether u guys see evriday or not doz not mata... A cheat wil alwayz remain a cheat..now tell me y some couples cheat? |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by Nobody: 5:49pm On May 27, 2013 |
Shugarlipz: Abeg, watz ol dix LDR sucks, its a waste of time..is it by force? If a guy or a girl wil cheat, he/she will..whether u guys see evriday or not doz not mata... A cheat wil alwayz remain a cheat..now tell me y some couples cheat? Dearie Expect them to give U horrendous Stewped replies to this! |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by 4nez(f): 6:07pm On May 27, 2013 |
I am also in a long distance relationship and I must say its workin out pretty good. When you both have trust, communicate evryday n also visit one anodr when its appropiate then definately it ll work out until one is able to move down permanetly to d odr one base..it mite nt work for sum pple buh it works for odrs wit true commitment... |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by AZeD1(m): 6:19pm On May 27, 2013 |
190:I'm in a long distance relationship , i'm a guy and i have not had s3x with anybody. You might feel comfortable sticking you "thing" in any gutter but some men have pride and integrity. 4 Likes |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by Nobody: 6:24pm On May 27, 2013 |
Life generally is a RISK, even the life that we all have is not certain, talk more of something that we made. But on a more serious note, LDR isn't an easy journey to embark on- it takes risk-takers to embark on it. So my advice is this: If you can avoid being in a LDR, pls RUN!!! But if you are left with no choice, then you have to take the risk, who knows if yours will be amongst the few successful LDRs Over population, harsh economy, modern civilisation, technology, modern fashion, internet/social networking websites have all contributed to increased rate of infidelity amongst couples (married or those in relationship). So as we are speaking, no one of us is certain of what his or her partner can do or is doing, only God in heaven can be trusted with all our heart. Just be wise in whatever it is you are doing, people are BAD! And everyone is a SUSPECT, I can only vouch and trust MYSELF ONLY! 1 Like |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by Nobody: 6:25pm On May 27, 2013 |
DailyNews: Life generally is a RISK, even the life that we all have is not certain, talk more of something that we made. Best reply ever!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by Nobody: 6:30pm On May 27, 2013 |
It works most times, just keep yourselves busy and focus more on the future. Kissing and hugging everyday aint gonna put food on the table. 1 Like |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by Arsenate(m): 6:31pm On May 27, 2013 |
Maj. Headache:you are my hero, Major. I wanna be JUST LIKE U when I grow up. |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by otswag(m): 6:34pm On May 27, 2013 |
The truth is its stupid to start a relationship as a long distance one.Even a relatively new relationship,probably a few months old,is almost impossible 2 sustain and very frustrating for both parties esp if they would be apart for a very long time;but if it has been on for a long time and for some reason,education,work or anything separates them,its probably not a bad idea to try and sustain it.its gonna be hell but its not impossible. |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by Nobody: 6:40pm On May 27, 2013 |
otswag: The truth is its stupid to start a relationship as a long distance one.Even a relatively new relationship,probably a few months old,is almost impossible 2 sustain and very frustrating for both parties esp if they would be apart for a very long time;but if it has been on for a long time and for some reason,education,work or anything separates them,its probably not a bad idea to try and sustain it.its gonna be hell but its not impossible.I love honest people who comment intelligently and logically, and that's exactly what you did, thumbs up! The risks in LDR are much more than the profits, and you know in business, when the risk is more than the profit expected, then it is a no-go-business. To succeed in business, always weigh the risk involved. DISCLAIMER: Pls I am not discouraging anyone from entering into a LDR or encouraging anyone already in a LDR to quit cos I am only contributing to the discussion based on my own little knowledge and witness, thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by Lawalemi(m): 6:41pm On May 27, 2013 |
I love Nairalanders for their anonymous and candid opinions |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by Nobody: 6:45pm On May 27, 2013 |
DailyNews: I love honest people who comment intelligently and logically, and that's exactly what you did, thumbs up! Well they will soon start saying you had a failed LDR. |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by pouch(f): 6:55pm On May 27, 2013 |
it's all about a attitude. you need a good dose of the fear of God, and love for your partner, to succeed in a ldr. |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by Evestar200(f): 7:17pm On May 27, 2013 |
Mine works,,and am still in it |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by Nobody: 7:44pm On May 27, 2013 |
Mine is working.as a matter of fact,I'm getting married soon.you all will be invited. |
Re: Long Distance Relationships: Just Say No To The Torture. by Nobody: 7:47pm On May 27, 2013 |
A-ZeD:I love you |
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