You must be a proud brat.. As of now MTN foundation scholarship is the highest paying at 200,000 per session. NLNG is 100k and shell is 75k, so you need to tell me how you came up with such inflated figures. BTW you are not supposed to be in more than one scholarship. What's your full name?

sexkillz: You've been an obedient puppy from get go. Are you refusing to obey this time around because money is involved? You smelt money and suddenly remembered you have balls?

You allowed her run your life happily. You have never complained about her nor the sacrifices she has done and undergone for you. How many girls will teach and encourage a boy these days? Stand by him and make sure he takes his books seriously? Nudge him to apply for an exam, and coach him to success? Those are the qualities of a wife. It's a pity and a shame that you have chosen to look at the financial aspect alone.

A person who is grateful will share that money into 2 and give her half, just to show appreciation. Count how many blessings that have come to you because she was there. Now she is bad because money is coming your way.

Shame on you my brother, shame on you.

Some people do not know what they have, until it's taken away from them. In few years to come, you'll be looking for a "wife material".

How many present day wives have the interests of their husbands at heart like this girl does?

Smh.

1000 LIKES!!!

More money, more/new problems. I applied 4 NLNG too o. Abeg direct ur g.f to me cos i'll b willing to gv ha 5% of my 300k

yuzedo: Huh? Gold diggarrrrrr?? Is she Slimyem?!?!

...oh, never mind, can't be her.

Emi Yuzedo?
You go mit meah fore hause!

Don't be foolish
Never give anyone your account details, except you don't care of losing the money.
If you really want her to monitor your account, sign her number/mail for transaction alerts
Feelings can change in an instant, in life you shouldn't trust anyone 100%.
Datsall

my guy use GEJ style and tell her that you don't give a damn about declaring Ur assets

infoscope: You must be a proud brat.. As of now MTN foundation scholarship is the highest paying at 200,000 per session. NLNG is 100k and shell is 75k, so you need to tell me how you came up with such inflated figures. BTW you are not supposed to be in more than one scholarship. What's your full name?

hmmm?

freecocoa: I didn't even see this post before giving my advice so you see, I had a feeling this is what her reason could be.

I felt like that cos its something I would do but only if I'm sure the man I'm with isn't good with spending money.

OP I understand your skepticism cos tbh it takes a whole lot to trust someone with all you have but then, you should be able to make this decision based on how far you've come with this girl, is she the type who would stay with you through thick and thin? Has money always been an issue with you two? Does she have some money of her own and doesn't expect you to shoulder all her responsibilities? Is she materialistic? Am I handling money the right way? Do I give her a reason to feel I'm not my best when it comes to money issues?

Questions like the above are what you should ask yourself before reaching a conclusion.

she might exibit good behaviours now but, what happens if she change 2moro and runaway with the money. then pple go dey call am MUMUNI.

u can only try it if u are MIKE UNIFORM MIKE UNIFORM(MUMU)

infoscope: You must be a proud brat.. As of now MTN foundation scholarship is the highest paying at 200,000 per session. NLNG is 100k and shell is 75k, so you need to tell me how you came up with such inflated figures. BTW you are not supposed to be in more than one scholarship. [b]What's your full name? [\b]

Lmao, do you want to report him ni?

Symphony007: you make it sound as if i am berating her. I said it loud and clear that i love her but this issue is very sensitive and i don't want it to affect my relationship in anyway. I know when money gets in a relationship, disaster looms.

Your comment was very hurtfull.;(

But what you posted here about the girl you Claim to love is more than hurtful! What if she sees it? If not for her love and guidance, would that money be sitting in your account? Some girls would have dumped you just on the fact that you were not excelling in school, meaning you have no bright future, but she saw the potential in you, didn't give up on you, patiently coached you to bring out the best! Now you are suspecting her motives! Tomorrow when you marry a first class bitch, you 'll be wondering where you went wrong! Don't listen to advice from the negative ppl, the last man gave you the best and most mature analysis of the situation. You may just be missing your jewel of inestimable beauty! A word is enough for the wise!

They say, behind every successful man, there is a woman..

Its really dicey! She's not your wife but a girl friend and she is mostly responsible for the heights you'v attained..

I can't say to give or not to give but if I were in your shoes, I swearagad, I'l give her everything she ask. Seriously I'm not kidding you. Its a privilege to have a girl friend more intelligent that you. That's what I crave for all my life. Something like a Power couple.

Imagine a real cream brilliant girl with a Bad boy. The combo is final.. Recipe for the Top.

Follow your mind sha.

Symphony007: Hey guys. My girlfriend and i have been dating for a while and we are in the university.

She is a genius, i'm not dull but slightly lazy and rhusty in some courses.

Since we started dating. She took it upon herself to tutor me.

Forced me to go to night classes and read, supervise all my assignments. And surprisingly i improved greatly and i sat for NLNG and SHELL scholarship.

At the end shockingly. My name came out and today i am getting 300 thousand from LNG per session and 200,000 from shell. So plus the money i get from my parents.

My account is chilling but now my girlfriend is asking me to share all my financial data with her, from ATM pins to account details and investments.

It's really bothering me cause i don't think it's right but yet i don't want to seem ungrateful. My friends have told me not to try it.

Now i am not stingy, i buy her gifts and take her on expensive dinners. But why does she want those details and do you think i should trust her and give her?

remember she is the foundation of your academic success, u can assist her financially but dont let her n your friends control you over your money

ajas baba: guy dont try it oh.dont let her to also teach you how to spend your money.

i tink u shud trust her if u truely love her

...it's like you know what you want,you just want people to approve your decisions.please don't allow her access to your funds because all of her gestures will lead to your destruction.all the best...

What?

Symphony007: Hey guys. My girlfriend and i have been dating for a while and we are in the university.

She is a genius, i'm not dull but slightly lazy and rhusty in some courses.

Since we started dating. She took it upon herself to tutor me.

Forced me to go to night classes and read, supervise all my assignments. And surprisingly i improved greatly and i sat for NLNG and SHELL scholarship.

At the end shockingly. My name came out and today i am getting 300 thousand from LNG per session and 200,000 from shell. So plus the money i get from my parents.

My account is chilling but now my girlfriend is asking me to share all my financial data with her, from ATM pins to account details and investments.

It's really bothering me cause i don't think it's right but yet i don't want to seem ungrateful. My friends have told me not to try it.

Now i am not stingy, i buy her gifts and take her on expensive dinners. But why does she want those details and do you think i should trust her and give her?

Men!!! SMH
If you can allow her tutor you to academic success, why not allow her tutor you to financial success? Or at worst, she go chop your money with you, which isn't a bad idea AT ALL, AT ALL, considering she helped you up.

Recognise a help-meet when you see one mate. Good luck.

sexkillz:
How many present day wives have the interests of their husbands at heart like this girl does?

Smh.

NONE.

Format
1) Open Two more accounts (apart from the one your scholarships funds are paid into)
2) divide all your money into three; leave 1/3 in the scholarship account, and put 1/3 in each of the other accounts.
3) Let her know the details of 1 of the accounts (must never be the scholarship account).
4) whenever she asks for where the other money is tell her you have invested some of the money.
Try her with this method to know her intent and trust or untrust her completely afterwards.
I hope this helps.
Between you're lucky o, You alone NLNG and Shell scholarships. I was only able to get TOTAL(ELF) Petroleum scholarship in my own days

My brother please don't even try it. If she's not ok with what u give her she can go. Because the truth isill still leave you one day

infoscope: You must be a proud brat.. As of now MTN foundation scholarship is the highest paying at 200,000 per session. NLNG is 100k and shell is 75k, so you need to tell me how you came up with such inflated figures. BTW you are not supposed to be in more than one scholarship. What's your full name?

Oga FBI, abeg dress commot!

DONT EVER TRY IT.
U CAN ASSIST HER WITH CAUTION.

infoscope: You must be a proud brat.. As of now MTN foundation scholarship is the highest paying at 200,000 per session. NLNG is 100k and shell is 75k, so you need to tell me how you came up with such inflated figures. BTW you are not supposed to be in more than one scholarship. What's your full name?

LoL..
Well truth be told, during my time in Uniport, the highest fee I ever heard being paid out per session in scholarships were for students indigenous to Bonny island where NLNG is located, and that was 150,000Naira.

Poster,
Whatever that case may be, I don't see why your girl should need your bank statements and ATM pin to monitor your accounts. Like someone rightly said, email/SMS notifications to her phone can do that job effectively.

Go to the bank change the alert fone number to hers and anytime u withdraw the alert goes to her fone hence she is monitoring the spending.... thats all

I don't even expect you to ask this question.This lady has been there for you ever since. You achieved all these because of GOD, AND BECAUSE SHE WAS THERE FOR YOU. How many ladies care about there guy's academics,talk more of forcing them to read? If u were d one in her shoes and she doesn't want to share her financial matters with you, how will you feel? From your story, i believe that this gal is not a wayward gal, but a sensible and intelligent gal. Y do u have to be skeptic when it comes to money issue? Lemme tell you, i have my fiance's Pin(for ATM),i know his full salary, and how he spends it, he even calls me when his salary is being paid...I didn't ask for these, he called me to tell me; AND I WILL NEVER GO BEHIND HIS BACK TO WITHDRAW MONEY. Really, she deserves to be given a little share of the money sef...But above all, u av to trust her with little, before entrusting much to her.

Symphony007: the scholarship was exclusive for natives of NLNG and shell host communities. And she not from any. I am.

NLNG scholarship is for all students of the federation, I don't know much about shell's criteria... The only firm I know that does this host community of a thing is Agip... But one can still apply for it even if one is not from a host community but do study pure science including economics and I think accountancy..

It might just be a test to see what level of relationship you guys are.....seeing that she might have contributed immensely to your academic development. She wants to know what's her place in your world.

My advice is to ask her exactly why she needs those details.. then use your discretion to decide whether to give it to her or not... but decide wisely.... she seems to be quite smart.

sexkillz: You've been an obedient puppy from get go. Are you refusing to obey this time around because money is involved? You smelt money and suddenly remembered you have balls?

You allowed her run your life happily. You have never complained about her nor the sacrifices she has done and undergone for you. How many girls will teach and encourage a boy these days? Stand by him and make sure he takes his books seriously? Nudge him to apply for an exam, and coach him to success? Those are the qualities of a wife. It's a pity and a shame that you have chosen to look at the financial aspect alone.

A person who is grateful will share that money into 2 and give her half, just to show appreciation. Count how many blessings that have come to you because she was there. Now she is bad because money is coming your way.

Shame on you my brother, shame on you.

Some people do not know what they have, until it's taken away from them. In few years to come, you'll be looking for a "wife material".

How many present day wives have the interests of their husbands at heart like this girl does?

Smh.

Hmmm...very thick one from a wise fellow!

Heatblast: Don't be foolish
Never give anyone your account details, except you don't care of losing the money.
If you really want her to monitor your account, sign her number/mail for transaction alerts
Feelings can change in an instant, in life you shouldn't trust anyone 100%.
Datsall

i really like this advise. yes, she can monitor, but you still have the atm pins.

Girl matter dey fear me pass devil. My advice,no try am. Why must she know? She doesn't need to be bothered except you spend like a prodigal son.

maxwello.yg:

Are you not a man? So at your age you are not yet able to spend your money wisely huh? Now a Nigerian girl is doing it for you. Probably if you succeed in marrying her, she would be telling you how to spend your money and what to spend them on. I smh@u

Guy easyoooo!