pc guru: Love is a myth

Supergenius: was dat the question you were asked?

Rooneyboy: I'm going through this exact thing @ this point in my life, but the thing is that I'm the one avoiding the chic, she's just crazy over me, even despite seeing the hand writing clear in capitals on the wall.

No exaggeration, she calls me no less than 20times a day, I really feel bad for her because she's so ADAMANT.

How best and POLITE can I tell this girl off pls

Atown: [sub][/sub]
Maybe you played too hard to get for tooo long or you were just too stuck up doing the toasting phase. He may have loved you initially and maybe it faded away after d chase became too long/excessive.

I had this girl I really fell for. I tried everything on earth to get her to be with me to no avail. She kept telling me she didn't trust my motives, that naija guys are this and that. I'm like what the hell, judge me for me and not for what others do. She kept actinhg like she was a saint that had never dated anyone before. I totally dropped my guard for this girl but she just totally treated me like shait. Well, I got over it and I'm glad I did because I recently found out her ex was one of d frausters busted in h-town. All this while she dey date yahoo yahoo boy, dey make me feel like I be d bad person. Heard from someone she was interested but just wanted to see how serious I was. I was like, thank God my eyes are now open. If she's the only girl left on planet earth, then Man will go extinct because ain't nobody touching that.
Moral of the story, treat people nicely even if you don't have feelings because you may end up liking the person and the person will never forget how you initially treated em. Love also fades if you do "yanga" for too long

alexdidi: What's even more baffling is someone who doesn't love you back asking you to be friends!

sisipelebe: 2 guys in my life; d 1st one lvs me, bt i dnt lv him as much as i love d 2nd guy. D 2nd guy doesnt lv me dat much,stil searchin 4 oda gals, bt i lv hm so much. I wish i can swap d lv i av 4 him 2 d 1st guy. Evrytin wil b perfect....life itsef is nt perfect jare.

alexdidi: What's even more baffling is someone who doesn't love you back asking you to be friends!

Rooneyboy: I'm going through this exact thing @ this point in my life, but the thing is that I'm the one avoiding the chic, she's just crazy over me, even despite seeing the hand writing clear in capitals on the wall.

No exaggeration, she calls me no less than 20times a day, I really feel bad for her because she's so ADAMANT.

How best and POLITE can I tell this girl off pls

~Kaylee~:
Yes, I have. Happened to me when I was just fresh out of high school and damn, did it affect my self-esteem. You start to lose faith in yourself and even wrongly question your own existence.

The inferiority complex sets in, then you begin feeling less than you are really worth. Questions like "what's wrong with me?", "what does he find attractive in her that I cannot offer?", "am I seriously THAT bad looking?", swim in your head, and it doesn't take long before you start to feel like utter c.r.a.p. Inferiority complex can drive you borderline delusional and it's definitely not a good thing to be struggling with.

Honey, if you have a love that is unrequited for someone, it's not worth it reaching for what you know you cannot touch how much more have. Save it for one who would truly appreciate it and please, do not be in a rush to find that one. Things would progress naturally and he will find you in due time. In the mean time, focus your energy on something that is not emotion based. Go out and chill with friends. Get closer to your family. Things would work out eventually.

190: yeah!! flytefallz, adaobi and kalis

olajide_07: Yes - and it was hell, still is hell wasted years Lolz

190:

Young man, y u dey laugh

pc guru: if there was a dictionary and that was a word with a inage, my picture would be there, sad times,sadly no one can genuinely know if your partner can, the whole exes claimed to love me, but left me cold. though in a relationship nw, my brain has adjusted to the fact that history will play out itself, so am more prepared emotionally.