pro01: “Men lose more conquests by their own awkwardness than by any virtue in the woman.”

- Ninon de Lenclos
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. . .therefore, I always try to avoid any form of awkwardness when dealing with the opposite sex. If intimacy does not occur after two private meetings (at most) in spite of my efforts, na waka be dat o. Better to opt out quickly with your playboy dignity intact, than to mumu yourself indefinitely. No be me one mgbeke go use test her 'fake virtue' acting skills. No time for B.S.

Sermwell: Experience have taught me to have sex in a relationship as soon as the oppurtunity presents itself! Even where the oppurtunity is not there, I strive to create one.

I have a girl in my hostel who is engage to a pastor in my school fellowship. The guy is the president of the fellowship and the lady is the vice president. The guy always come to my hostel and brag about how they cannot be intimate till marriage. But alas! I and this same lady make luv almost every weekend and we have been doing this since 100L! She is my very close friend and no one will ever suspect us because of the way she carry herself as a "holy" sister!...pls my guy if its your choice not to be intimate fine, but if its because of her, abeg knack the "thing" wella! If you don't, trust me someone else will.

190-the-clown:



its easy to clearly differentiate the men with 9-15" badonkey and those with 1^1/2 to 3 inch badonkey

cos there is NO way NO man would lay on a bed with a woman he loves and wanna marry and tell himself

No way imma touching this lady - LMAO!!

Okay okay i grab d logic lets all keep decieving ourselves

I waited for 19years before making love to my wife too

if you are a VIRGIN in this thread raise your hand

Idowuogbo:
Nymph-o! Let d chick b na... Hian!

Omo_Alata:

Lol idowu my sister, you know it takes one nymphoo to know another. You are just still on the closet

litetias: She will ask you herself abi? Just get ready to sleep for waiting room.

bishoppapi:

Bros, next time, dont be partaker of another man's sin. There is no difference between you and the sister in question. Sometimes, I wonder why our generation celebrate sins so much and then run to God when in trouble. All these 'knack am here, knack am there' you are doing will become nothing to you when old age begin to set in and most people will be angry at themselves for the way they wasted their lives on things that don't even matter in life. Then you will understand that living for God, living holy, doing what is right at all time is the whole essence of man. Furthermore, do not be deceived into believing that everybody does the same thing. You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty. An error does not become truth by reason of multiplied propagation, nor does truth become error because nobody sees it. Truth stands, even if there be no public support. It is self sustained. Your life is more important than the 2 minute of ejaculatory excitement passed down your pelvic muscles while you shake like jellyfish. Your life does not belong to you...Honour God with your life....sin is sin....a politician stealing public fund is not different from an unemployed graduate that has turned himself to 'bingo'....they have both committed evils....There is much to life and living than wasting your being. Stay holy, live holy...sin no more.

Ourboss: My wife & I dated four good years without intimacy and our honeymoon was as sweet as honey. Understanding matters a lot in any relationship.

SLIDE waxie: Have u checked she's not getting fuckd elsewhere?

That the first point!

Xtain ko, xtmas ni!


Is she's a virgin though...u might let her be...
If she's not? Give her one month and go gaga

Peace out!

Yield: A relationship can definitely last until marriage, without sex. But it would take a lot of discipline and control. The only thing you should be doing is kissing, preferably on the cheeks, cuddling and hugging. If you're going to kiss on the lips, make sure it doesn't lead to anything else. If you think her spending nights might lead to you two doings things you shouldn't be doing, then talk to her. Maybe her sleeping over, especially so often isn't a good idea. Seems she just loves your company and wants to spend time with you without sex, but you might have trouble restraining yourself. If she does continue to spend the night, you can read the Bible together and pray together, that would help keep your mind off sex. Spend time outdoors and do fun activities outside, sleep in separate beds when you get back home.

bishoppapi:

Bros, next time, dont be partaker of another man's sin. There is no difference between you and the sister in question. Sometimes, I wonder why our generation celebrate sins so much and then run to God when in trouble. All these 'knack am here, knack am there' you are doing will become nothing to you when old age begin to set in and most people will be angry at themselves for the way they wasted their lives on things that don't even matter in life. Then you will understand that living for God, living holy, doing what is right at all time is the whole essence of man. Furthermore, do not be deceived into believing that everybody does the same thing. You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty. An error does not become truth by reason of multiplied propagation, nor does truth become error because nobody sees it. Truth stands, even if there be no public support. It is self sustained. Your life is more important than the 2 minute of ejaculatory excitement passed down your pelvic muscles while you shake like jellyfish. Your life does not belong to you...Honour God with your life....sin is sin....a politician stealing public fund is not different from an unemployed graduate that has turned himself to 'bingo'....they have both committed evils....There is much to life and living than wasting your being. Stay holy, live holy...sin no more.

Jenams: na today u know say u dey crase?

Sermwell: Experience have taught me to have sex in a relationship as soon as the oppurtunity presents itself! Even where the oppurtunity is not there, I strive to create one.

I have a girl in my hostel who is engage to a pastor in my school fellowship. The guy is the president of the fellowship and the lady is the vice president. The guy always come to my hostel and brag about how they cannot be intimate till marriage. But alas! I and this same lady make luv almost every weekend and we have been doing this since 100L! She is my very close friend and no one will ever suspect us because of the way she carry herself as a "holy" sister!...pls my guy if its your choice not to be intimate fine, but if its because of her, abeg knack the "thing" wella! If you don't, trust me someone else will.

Omo_Alata:

The most important question here, are you faithful? how many have you entered? the truth shall set you free

princessayesha: Virgin or no virgin allow the innocent girl. If u think u can't abstain then let her be. Girls like her are needed to encourage the younger ones. @

V0lv0: A relationship can last as long as you both want without sex as long as you both have strong discipline and if you are both strong in faith it would help as well since it will be for religious purposes too. Those who are sexually active or have had too much partners will find it even more difficult to refrain from sex because of habit forming/addiction. There are some good guys out there(few rare ones but possible) who have self control and can wait. It is not easy and temptation can happen but I do not want to live with regrets and guilt. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3,5years and in a long distance relationship without sex and I choose to because of religious purposes, I also don't want any regrets and I do not want to be with many men only 1. If you keep moving from relationship to relationship then before you know it you would have slept with a lot of people. Some people are saying how do you know he is not faithful. I know my boyfriend and type of guy he is but if somehow he was cheating and fooled me that is his cross to bear and will be judged accordingly. Secondly those saying you need to test something before you buy it. When you go grocery shopping, to you eat the food then and there before you buy it? I believe that if you both love each other and have good communication as in what you want sexually etc then it won't be a problem. You can both learn together. However the more partners you have had then more likely you may not be satisfied as you have someone to compare it with. She is not like so and so. He is not like so and so but if you have no comparison then you will be satisfied with what you have. A sin is a sin but it does not mean you should sin when you know its still a sin. That makes it worse because you know its a sin. Anyways that's my opinion

shegzi: I think romance and may be no penetration can walk for me

youngds:
[size=18pt] mrine just clock 2year without intimacy last month, but with reasons though [/size]