WOW! Interesting topic. I guess my man can screw someone on the side - if he wants to be ASSURED that I will be doing him the same as he is doing me. Cuz if he ain't takin care of his business at home ~ someone else will. It is good to see a good number of men here who understand faithfulness and know what real love is. Personally ~ I have no time for game playing. If u love me, I'll keep u so busy u won't see the light of day anyway!

one is the "wife" the other is the "mistress"

Iskwew:

WOW! Interesting topic. I guess my man can screw someone on the side - if he wants to be ASSURED that I will be doing him the same as he is doing me. Cuz if he ain't takin care of his business at home ~ someone else will. It is good to see a good number of men here who understand faithfulness and know what real love is. Personally ~ I have no time for game playing. If u love me, I'll keep u so busy u won't see the light of day anyway!

Iskwew,
u're obviously worth loving!!!!

Iskwew:

WOW! Interesting topic. I guess my man can screw someone on the side - if he wants to be ASSURED that I will be doing him the same as he is doing me. Cuz if he ain't takin care of his business at home ~ someone else will. It is good to see a good number of men here who understand faithfulness and know what real love is. Personally ~ I have no time for game playing. If u love me, I'll keep u so busy u won't see the light of day anyway!

You can say that again!!

u are a cow meat.

Sha,e dey happen say some people profess love for someone,while f**king someone else.Me l dey surprise ooooooooooo,but no be small thing,no be small thing,

hmmm, love and lust. (since he's digging outside wit some b***h, then I can slug it out rite in the house wit a gigolo or a handsome hunk) afterall 2 can play the game!

sylvex:

hmmm, love and lust. (since he's digging outside wit some b***h, then I can slug it out rite in the house wit a gigolo or a handsome hunk) afterall 2 can play the game!

hmmmmm

are they not two different things we like to make work hand in hand
u grow to love a person, thats if it even exists
for me its just a superficial over rated word that is relative depending on the time of the day

i guess the love we are talking about is interpersonal love and it comes in different shapes and sizes

Interpersonal love refers to love between human beings. It is a more potent sentiment than a simple liking for another. Unrequited love refers to those feelings of love which are not reciprocated. Interpersonal love is most closely associated with interpersonal relationships. Such love might exist between family members, friends, and couples.

Some feelings that are often associated with interpersonal love:

Affection: feelings of tenderness and/or wanting physical closeness
Attachment: satisfying basic emotional needs
Altruism: selfless or unselfish concern for another
Reciprocation: if love is mutual
Commitment: a desire to maintain love
Emotional intimacy: sharing emotions and feelings
Friendship: the spirit between friends
Kinship: family bonds
Passion: whole-hearted desire
Physical intimacy: sharing of intimate personal space
Self-interest: desiring rewards
Service: desire to help

Sexuality can be an important element in determining the shape of a relationship. While sexual attraction often establishes a new bond, sexual intention is considered undesirable or inappropriate in certain love bonds. In many religions and systems of ethics it is considered wrong to act on sexual desire for immediate family, for children, or outside of a committed relationship. However, there are many ways to express passionate love without sex. Affection, emotional intimacy and shared interests and experiences are common in friendships and kinships of all human beings.

Hope the bolded part helps, u can express love without necessarily having sex.

Sex on the other hand is a sport, its either u are good at it or ur not. its either u are talented at it or u re not. its either u have the right and desired equipments or u dont. and all these factors determines those whose tales are going to be told for years to come and those who will disapper with the sands of time.

I can love u but still love having sex with another. two isolated events. so no need to use one to justify another though they can come hand in hand. the lucky ones are those that not only find reciprocal love but are oppourtuned to be talented and also find a talented partner. that for me is what u call a jackpot

funny

saw a movie

today,kiss me again

there was a statement

made 'being monogamous is not in the human genetics'

and am somewhat inclined to agree,you might really love someone

and yet want to sample the field ,how yoyu go about this,defines your love life

why do we separate love from sex?

the world is sick and we are all victims of this madness,

love! such an elusive adventure!

Why should we not separate love from sex? Sex is 100% biological, as far as I know.

well, we are not better than dogs then, wild men in cloths, hiding under the guise of civilization.
aint reality a bitch?

@post
because that's not real love

If my understanding based on other people's explanation of love is correct then there is no way for you to risk the life of someone you "love" like that by screwing around. It's impossible to truely love someone and do anything that will hurt them. I heard a story that I consider true love, a man was walking with his pregnant girlfriend when someone started firing shots at them so he jumped on top of her to protect her. He was killed but no one can question whether or not it was love. If you are screwing around and claiming love I bet you will never risk your life to save hers. Actions speaks louder than words, so don't go around like an empty barrel echoeing love so the sound waves can bounce off an make you seem deeper than you acutally are. Even if you use protection there are other diseases that condoms can't protect and the sad thing is that women are symptomic while men are asymptomic so even if you get genital warts (human papilloma virus) it is dormant in you and then you will transfer it to the one you "love" and then she will become infertile and we know how Africans are understanding towards women that can't reproduce.

Topic
Its a bad thing to do,trust me

dont get it wrong screwing somebody doesnt necessarily mean u love the person as in u guys love
for me love is an adjective meant to qualify a verb eg
i love screwing u
i love talking with u
i love having u as a partner
i love u as if u were one of my own
i love screwing around
i would love to love ( dats if it exists)
like i said screwing is a sport so read no meaning to it
would u have had a different view about screwing if there were no STDs and HIV/ AIDS
i bet u would

zara your name is sexy

ppl who have no control and awon olori buruku do that

@ poster

I am sorry to disappoint you.
You have lost the world record as the jackass of the year.
You aren't the first to do it and you won't be the last.

These people sef.
They come online seeking help when their real intention is to get admirers.

always the women folk making noise
but they have forgotten this thing is not possible if they dont share the same view
and na them do am pass
go come nairaland dey rain insults on people
the guy ask question
just try answer or shut the f up
which one come be insult

sex is sport
love comes from the heart
i can love someone without necessarily having sextual feelings towards her dont u guys get
they are mutually exclusive
but by choice can be united and dats for the lucky ones who find true love and a good sportsperson
like i said dats like hitting jackpot

@ don1demaco u sabi ur own thing, let me sabi my own

when you are young passion is something that comes with love.
As a matter of fact passion is a never dying feeling.
You can stop feeling your partner after so many years of union but u'll still find it with someone else.
If the poster were 50 i could understand him.
But how can a young vibrant man love a woman and have no sexual feeling for her?
That is crazy.
There is passion without love but there is no love without passion (at least initially).

there u go again
trying to use age to justify ur agreement with me
there are some people u see and all u do is lust over them that does not mean u love them
meanwhile some people were born to be loved and u might not be attracted to them passionately as per sex
u can love someone passionately without having sextual feelings towards the person
the point is we still have active people at 70, 80 in the game so what has age got to do with it
is the passionate part of love meant to die after age 50
do u call dat love

"hey woman i loved u passionately when we were young but now that u are old i dont have the passionate part of luv 4 u but i still luv u"
doesnt sound right to me
means u were there for the sex all along, not love if u love someone no matter the condition, age of time the feeling never changes thats why its a dangerous word to use and why some people believe it doesnt exist

Sweetheart we are not talking about mother/child or father/child relationship. We are talking about love between man and woman.
There is nothing you can say to hold your arguementation.
How can u love a woman and feel no passion for her?
Do you know what that means?
That yours is a simple affection she can find anywhere.
When you love someone, you can't resist holding, kissing and caressing that person.
Why do you think most marriages collapse these days?
It's simply because when there is no more attraction, there is not need to keep on going.
Passion is everything.

love the words u used there, holding, kissing, caressing but not sex
so do u now get my point
sex is a sport so love cannot be used or seen in the same way as sex
the feeling that mostly comes with sex is Lust not Love
4 me u grow to love and it never fades

well, i dont see anything wrong with that as long as the two party can consent to it.havent u heard of sex parlour in canada.where couples go and exchange partners with other couples they have never met.they still go home happily married.it's all about understandin, i can do it!

that is a very crude summation.

Love does not deceive. If u trully love someone, then why screw anoda!!

It happens all the time oh, so whats the rave about?