Why can't one have both?

Intelligent gentle girl........with a degree in patient understanding.

(Love of football is an added bonus)

McWhillion: Intelligent girls.
Intelligent girls are most times gentle anyway.

Me I no gentle o.

50percent f both is good, so men shuld luk out for a woman with both

GentleMimi: Intelligent woman all the way,no argument there.
I'll choose intelligence over gentility. Gentle peeps could be wickedly dangerous,you know? The intelligent woman knows how to handle situations as it deems fit. The man can go out and confidently leave his home in the intelligent woman's care.
The intelligent woman influences the children too. Makes them smart and active.
God forbid,but if the man passes away,the intelligence of the woman is needed for her children to make it in life with the few available resources.
The intelligent woman is not necessarily bossy or arrogant,just a lady who knows what she wants and then goes about achieving it in the easiest ways possible.
The man cannot be at his peak at all times in terms of mental capability. Sometimes,he needs a mentally strong woman to give him the required push.
Note: it is only strong men that take up the challange of an intelligent woman. Weak men want ''gentle'' pushovers,whom they can control like puppets on strings.

1000 likes - you said it all!!!

bushdoc9919: Intelligent gentle girl........with a degree in patient understanding.

(Love of football is an added bonus)

Daz me.

Nothing more to add

GentleMimi: Intelligent woman all the way,no argument there.
I'll choose intelligence over gentility. Gentle peeps could be wickedly dangerous,you know? The intelligent woman knows how to handle situations as it deems fit. The man can go out and confidently leave his home in the intelligent woman's care.
The intelligent woman influences the children too. Makes them smart and active.
God forbid,but if the man passes away,the intelligence of the woman is needed for her children to make it in life with the few available resources.
The intelligent woman is not necessarily bossy or arrogant,just a lady who knows what she wants and then goes about achieving it in the easiest ways possible.
The man cannot be at his peak at all times in terms of mental capability. Sometimes,he needs a mentally strong woman to give him the required push.
Note: it is only strong men that take up the challange of an intelligent woman. Weak men want ''gentle'' pushovers,whom they can control like puppets on strings.

Fam, Intelligence Over Everything!


It's All I Crave in My Woman.....A wife you're not afraid to leave your kids with. Truth is, When I See or Meet Any Woman, Who Craves Any Of The Afmag Channels/Programs Maybe Save (Jacob's Cross), Bruh, She's By Default Out Of My 'Potential Wife's" List.


The Weakest Link For An Smart, Ambitious & Success Craving Man, Is To Have a Gentle Dullard As His Wife.

andromida: Iron sharpens iron, So one man sharpens another.

Your wife is going to be your closest companion so choose wisely.

you know when iron is sharpening iron, it makes so much noise and the whole environment becomes unstable.

Depends on OP's definition of gentleness.

Nature must have a way of balancing this two extreme attributes. Sometimes intelligence solves no problem but rather ur meekness to issues make u overcome them. I would rather go for a gentle woman dan go for an intelligent woman who nags a lot. Most times opposite actions and reactions fit perfectly. I believe a man's preferences in the long-run wud certainly influence the woman. Most crumbled homes are those with women too intelligent for the man to handle. I choose to stand by the exclusive middle.

Meet me somewhere in between

Both

Intelligent girl any day any time.

passionate88: Why can't one have both?

There is that why settle when you can have both.

Most women hate every letter in the word 'SUBMISSIVENESS'.I think I'd prefer a balance between intelligence and gentility

kennygee: Most guys are intimidated by intelligent women, they want a gentle woman who will just say "how high" when they say jump without complaining. While an Intelligent woman will ask you why you want her to jump and offer a better way of doing it if there is one.

So guys o, we are waiting, which do you prefer?

You stay in DELTA and He stays in Lagos,
you said it won't work coz of distance....
You stay in DELTA and he stays in UK You
said love is all that matters.
hmmmm.. Their is GOD ooooooooo!

Amusaopeyemi:
Me I no gentle o.

Of course there are exceptions, that's why i said most not all.

GentleMimi: Intelligent woman all the way,no argument there.
I'll choose intelligence over gentility. Gentle peeps could be wickedly dangerous,you know? The intelligent woman knows how to handle situations as it deems fit. The man can go out and confidently leave his home in the intelligent woman's care.
The intelligent woman influences the children too. Makes them smart and active.
#GOD FORBID #,but if the man passes away,the intelligence of the woman is needed for her children to make it in life with the few available resources.
The intelligent woman is not necessarily bossy or arrogant,just a lady who knows what she wants and then goes about achieving it in the easiest ways possible.
The man cannot be at his peak at all times in terms of mental capability. Sometimes,he needs a mentally strong woman to give him the required push.
Note: it is only strong men that take up the challange of an intelligent woman. Weak men want ''gentle'' pushovers,whom they can control like puppets on strings.

Wetin God go forbid?
smh

Men should be concerned on what their priorities are. If you value intelligent frank talk over anything else, then the former will be good enough for you. If you value submissiveness and crave that touch of gentility, then the latter is your babe.
None is particularly better than the other

However if you can't handle extremities, then cut 3yrds of each and you'll have enough to sew one nice agbada

The important thing is being happy. Prioritize and work from there.

Your club is gentle,besides,Messi looks gentle

Amusaopeyemi:
Me I no gentle o.

chinziaski: you know when iron is sharpening iron, it makes so much noise and the whole environment becomes unstable.

No be that kind sharpening. this kind you are talking about is blacksmith workshop style. The sharpening is a blend of minds to heal,enhance,expand,increase,make dreams come true,be more all things good all things happy.

nationwide24: If you are talking about wife material as your topic reads, none of the two qualities.makes anyone a good wife material although both are important attributes.

true

GentleMimi: Intelligent woman all the way,no argument there.
I'll choose intelligence over gentility. Gentle peeps could be wickedly dangerous,you know? The intelligent woman knows how to handle situations as it deems fit. The man can go out and confidently leave his home in the intelligent woman's care.
The intelligent woman influences the children too. Makes them smart and active.
God forbid,but if the man passes away,the intelligence of the woman is needed for her children to make it in life with the few available resources.
The intelligent woman is not necessarily bossy or arrogant,just a lady who knows what she wants and then goes about achieving it in the easiest ways possible.
The man cannot be at his peak at all times in terms of mental capability. Sometimes,he needs a mentally strong woman to give him the required push.
Note: it is only strong men that take up the challange of an intelligent woman. Weak men want ''gentle'' pushovers,whom they can control like puppets on strings.

true. I agree with your post. I prefer intelligent lady. Though i've met gentle and intelligent lady. The environment has made a lady with such qualities(among other) rare. Its awesome to be with one.

Intelligence is it for me. Jst that most very brilliant chicks ar not that gorgeous. Dnt knw why...

I wonder which one the ladies would prefer:An intelligent or a gentle man.Waiting for a thread like this.

Intelligent joor, will gentel put food ur tabel?

Gentle. Intelligent galz can make ones life miserable because the will claim to know all and could also end up controlling their husbands .

andromida:

No be that kind sharpening. this kind you are talking about is blacksmith workshop style. The sharpening is a blend of minds to heal,enhance,expand,increase,make dreams come true,be more all things good all things happy.

for that to happen, you'll need a gentle intelligent girl.

Irony of life!

eminemkayc: Intelligence is it for me. Jst that most very brilliant chicks ar not that gorgeous. Dnt knw why...