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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by adezie: 10:29am On Mar 19, 2022
toujurs:
You are a psychopath. You need medical attention
This was so uncalled for. Are you sure you are okay? I don't like picking calls too except from my husband. And there is nothing wrong with that. Introverts love to keep to themselves alot and when we come to a group like this, nobody should be made to feel bad for expressing themselves.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by alleazardous(m): 7:49am On Mar 21, 2022
realtem:


You have just mixed introversion with shyness. An Introvert chooses not to speak over reasons other than fear or low self esteem. Although I do understand that the two are somehow intertwined. Most Introverts need to work on that shy part of themselves.
Exactly people often mix them together. For me starting and keeping a conversation is not a problem but I dislike social gathering, snapping pictures I feel everybody is looking at me when I do, just stay indoor, listen to music and surf the net.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by LordIsaac(m): 7:44am On Mar 23, 2022
Hmmmm.....
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by DaveHarry(m): 5:50pm On Mar 23, 2022
DaveHarry:
I've been an introvert since secondary school days. At a time my classmates were were complaining to my seat-mates. I don't talk much, I don't make friends beyond the moment, I don't even like someone greeting me past once or twice a day. I like been indoors and doing my own things.....etc. most times I've tried to fight the lifestyle thinking maybe something was wrong with me, but I couldn't. I had peace when I found out there are other people like me with these same traits and more. I've decided to live with my myself, it's not intentional. It's normal being an introvert.
But the worst part of been an introvert is when you add drugs.....worse!

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by iamyemiakins(m): 8:35pm On Mar 25, 2022
iamyemiakins:
Whatsapp me on +2348134656117 to join our Whatsapp community wink

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Modupeola17: 2:42pm On Apr 03, 2022
My own part of introvert is this, I prefer staying indoors from night till dawn and vice versa, I don't like to socialise, I don't like to greet( great discomfort) and people term it as pride, I hardly have any friends, finding it hard to come out of my shell

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by parkervero(m): 5:49pm On Apr 03, 2022
Modupeola17:
My own part of introvert is this, I prefer staying indoors from night till dawn and vice versa, I don't like to socialise, I don't like to greet( great discomfort) and people term it as pride, I hardly have any friends, finding it hard to come out of my shell
You're doing well, nothing do you a

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by parkervero(m): 5:50pm On Apr 03, 2022
DaveHarry:

But the worst part of been an introvert is when you add drugs.....worse!
And PMO

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 3:38pm On Apr 05, 2022
parkervero:

You're doing well, nothing do you a
No she is not.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 5:37pm On Apr 05, 2022
grin
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by qekng40(f): 10:18pm On Apr 07, 2022
Hi, I'm new here.
I'm an introverted extrovert.
Welcome me smiley
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Khaysee: 2:53pm On Apr 09, 2022
We all have different characters
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 9:41am On Apr 10, 2022
qekng40:
Hi, I'm new here.

I'm an introverted extrovert.

Welcome me smiley

No

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 9:42am On Apr 10, 2022
Khaysee:
We all have different characters
No shit captain obvious.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by jkuvira: 10:19pm On Apr 13, 2022
BunbleBee:
Too much of introversion is bad, especially when it comes with lack of social skills like networking and public speaking.

I'm an introvert: I can play and enjoy myself alone, always indoors, few friends and running away from the spotlight.

I have lost out on lot of opportunities just because I couldn't stand up and utter two to three sentences. One of such is when we had a representatives of WHO visit my secondary school. An assembly of all students was held for them to address us. One of the representatives asked a question about hygene. The assembly was silent, I knew the answer but I was scared to speak up. So I told my classmate the answer, he gave the answer and guess what! He won a LAPTOP!

I went home crying and thereafter made a conscious decision to develop myself. Today, I'm still introverted with more improved social skills. I can relate well with people, address a gathering without little or no fright.

On the positive side, introversion has saved me from troubles and rejections. However, it encourages you to remain in your comfort zone which is bad for growth.




Introversion doesn't encourage remaining in your comfort zone. Perhaps you were too shy to talk. I'm an introvert yet the loudest person in class during teaching periods in secondary school, not to add representing the school externally several times, spoken thrice in the university as a public speaker, all this despite being an introvert. And I intend to do more public speaking this new session. Perhaps you weren't sure hence lacked the boldness to speak up. I hope you've broken out of it cause that's one true inhibition.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Njoh1: 12:37am On Apr 16, 2022
Hi.. Guys
Pls,As introverts,how do we make money?
My major challenge
I'll appreciate contributions

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by oyetpel(m): 10:42pm On Apr 16, 2022
Njoh1:
Hi.. Guys
Pls,As introverts,how do we make money?
My major challenge
I'll appreciate contributions

I hate marketing, so I make money online now.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by 7thgod: 7:57pm On Apr 20, 2022
oyetpel:


I hate marketing, so I make money online now.
Expatiate

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by oyetpel(m): 6:21pm On Apr 21, 2022
7thgod:

Expatiate
Arbitrage
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 8:20am On Apr 24, 2022
How can one handle extensive burn out? My usual way of recharging is no longer working walahi!
It’s like some kinda devilish mental fatigue.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 8:27pm On Apr 24, 2022
litigator:
How can one handle extensive burn out? My usual way of recharging is no longer working walahi!
It’s like some kinda devilish mental fatigue.
Extensive rest. Lol
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Karleb(m): 7:21am On Apr 25, 2022
Many of you here are just wasting your lives.

The fact that you came with a default settings does not mean you have to live with it for the rest of your life.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by jkuvira: 7:01pm On Apr 25, 2022
Karleb:
Many of you here are just wasting your lives.

The fact that you came with a default settings does not mean you have to live with it for the rest of your life.

You're talking as if we do not lead successful lifes and lifestyles. It's not our fault you cannot comprehend a quiet mind in the midst of chaos. How about your own default setting, has it sent you to an unsatisfactory life. Why should you assume the same for introverts. Just live your life and let us live ours.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Karleb(m): 7:12pm On Apr 25, 2022
jkuvira:


You're talking as if we do not lead successful lifes and lifestyles. It's not our fault you cannot comprehend a quiet mind in the midst of chaos. How about your own default setting, has it sent you to an unsatisfactory life. Why should you assume the same for introverts. Just live your life and let us live ours.

Speak for yourself. A lot of comments here are "help me" comments and the senior introverts here just tell them to be themselves mostly.

People change when they don't like the life they live. Extroverts, introverts, ambiverts and whatever vert. But most of you here are so scared of change that you hardly advice others to consider change.

Anyways, you people are keyboard warriors sha. You'd rather attack than introspect.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by oyetpel(m): 7:47am On Apr 26, 2022
Karleb:


Speak for yourself. A lot of comments here are "help me" comments and the senior introverts here just tell them to be themselves mostly.

People change when they don't like the life they live. Extroverts, introverts, ambiverts and whatever vert. But most of you here are so scared of change that you hardly advice others to consider change.

Anyways, you people are keyboard warriors sha. You'd rather attack than introspect.

I think I used to see you in movie thread, I never thought you write all these.

People see this space as an avenue to express what they go through, yet you read it all and all you could think of is attack them.
For your info most of us are doing fine, but we just express what we go through here to improve on ourselves.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by jkuvira: 7:50am On Apr 26, 2022
Karleb:


Speak for yourself. A lot of comments here are "help me" comments and the senior introverts here just tell them to be themselves mostly.

People change when they don't like the life they live. Extroverts, introverts, ambiverts and whatever vert. But most of you here are so scared of change that you hardly advice others to consider change.

Anyways, you people are keyboard warriors sha. You'd rather attack than introspect.

Everyone is scared of change. Good for you who had the balls to change.

It seems you've not jammed an introvert before IRL and have a conversation hence you labelling them keyboard warriors. And, we do a lot of introspecting. If you read through you'd have noticed that.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Albertone(m): 1:21pm On Apr 26, 2022
jkuvira:





Introversion doesn't encourage remaining in your comfort zone. Perhaps you were too shy to talk. I'm an introvert yet the loudest person in class during teaching periods in secondary school, not to add representing the school externally several times, spoken thrice in the university as a public speaker, all this despite being an introvert. And I intend to do more public speaking this new session. Perhaps you weren't sure hence lacked the boldness to speak up. I hope you've broken out of it cause that's one true inhibition.

You might be an ambivert.But introvert?Nah!

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