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Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by Nobody: 10:00am On Jul 31, 2014 |
Ahmed0336: bros look am againI guess he means a man who is like a woman |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by onose1(f): 10:00am On Jul 31, 2014 |
Things have to be done the right way....nd the right way is for a man to propose to a woman not the other way round |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by mydex93(f): 10:01am On Jul 31, 2014 |
My questions:..who wud wear d ringeven wen d guy eventually says yes, who wud foot d wedding bills...iwu wud bring engagement hamper to d oda's ouse??d guy or d lady??.. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by TrYcIa1(f): 10:03am On Jul 31, 2014 |
Hell no ...Before u propose to a man then be ready to take the lead in everything concerning the marriage |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by Janetozi(f): 10:04am On Jul 31, 2014 |
Tombilly: if she has money its okif she have money abi. U have just display ur shameless by commenting rubbish. Haba!!! So u will sell ur dignity and right as a man bcoz of money, na only u waka come? U will allow a woman to propose to u, then she will give u money to pay her bride price; by doing so, she is indirectly paying ur groom price. I know u will also agree to bear her surname, u and ur children. All this love for money, na only u waka come 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by destino24(m): 10:04am On Jul 31, 2014 |
Princeadebayo1: Chai....proposing to a guy no proper at all buh if u get d liver and kidney ,wetin u dey wait for,d best tin dat will happen is d guy will say "NO" and dat will be the end of Solomon garden em... i think its solomon grandie or so #justsaying back to the topic, i think anyone can do it |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by hayorbaami: 10:05am On Jul 31, 2014 |
Apparently, a lot of men don't find it okay, judging from the comments so far. Not even the man in the picture. He's obviously not excited about, his reaction is kinda like 'come on woman, get up and stop embarrassing me, I never ready for marriage" . I'm sure a lot of women would not mind proposing to their men when they are ready if only they don't get tagged desperate or pushy or cheap and end up getting a capital NO . |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by judedwriter(m): 10:05am On Jul 31, 2014 |
ThoniaSlim: HELL TO THE N.O. . .NOPE!Babes sef 2 dey form. If you c me now as I tall, dark and handsome, u go propose to me |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by M4gunners: 10:06am On Jul 31, 2014 |
Ok i dey come . |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by Lanceslot(m): 10:06am On Jul 31, 2014 |
Yes/No. |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by Princeadebayo1(m): 10:07am On Jul 31, 2014 |
destino24:lol....I know but if I no write am like dat ,an average Nigerian won't undastand ; . it depends but for me,I won't like if a girl does dat for me |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by Anthrophile(m): 10:10am On Jul 31, 2014 |
Women must be seen, not heard. paint it red with your actions and never in your words. You will save yourself some embarrassment if the feedback is negative and you will at least be able to say he'd just misinterpreted your actions. |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by Nobody: 10:10am On Jul 31, 2014 |
onose1: Things have to be done the right way....nd the right way is for a man to propose to a woman not the other way roundhi. Do ff bk lemme pm you. |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by Nobody: 10:11am On Jul 31, 2014 |
It all depends on the situation. But according to our culture its is "wrong" |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by akatonero(m): 10:12am On Jul 31, 2014 |
If she knows what she want it's ok before it's too late |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by MadCow1: 10:15am On Jul 31, 2014 |
justi4jesu: Me wait ke?! Even at 80, I fit still marry as long as pepper rest.. You after 40, them don put you on sales promo o!! 40% off, plus buy now get 1 Kia Picanto free and 50,000 Naira gift voucher plus all-expense paid Wedding.. 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by Judeoxide(m): 10:17am On Jul 31, 2014 |
My girl friend once did,I was shocked...later found out she was pregnant for onother guy at the time of the proposal..thank God I didn't go true with it... |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by heatmeup(f): 10:17am On Jul 31, 2014 |
abeg nothing wrong in it,charly boy's wife proposed orlando julius's wife did so no biggie |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by robosky02(m): 10:17am On Jul 31, 2014 |
for me its very ok for a lady to propose. infact most married guys now, it was there wives that proposed to them. you want to say its not true well the logic is that a lady can propose without SAYING IT. HOW By her action. 1) if you like the guy then show him the GREEN LIGHT 2) be accessablee to the guy. most ladies carries an ego which scares men away. 3) be nice to the guy. you cant expect to be rude to a guy and still expect a proposal from him. 4) increase your "good report'" around the neboghhood. be a person whom people can talk good of in the office or where you live 5) identify your target and play around him. but never give him that feeling that you are desperate baby if you do these he will creep to your house and release the word. but the truth is you actually set the ball rolling unknown to him 1 Like |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by hayoakins(m): 10:19am On Jul 31, 2014 |
I don't believe the occurrence of that event jo . A scene from a Nollywood movie it must be |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by Nobody: 10:20am On Jul 31, 2014 |
yes na, I don`t think there is anything wrong with that. |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by ThoniaSlim(f): 10:23am On Jul 31, 2014 |
judedwriter: You wish! |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by Magnetor(m): 10:24am On Jul 31, 2014 |
Fresia01: i wish we Nigerians can jux stop making it look like its a big deal for a gal to propose to a guy!? its really killing some gals,, me inclusive!!! wen a gal proposes, they guys look at her as being desperate and cheap so d gals jus. choose to die in silence!! nt fairHe who proposes is ready to pay bride price. Will she propose to me and den tell me when I'll pay d bride price, get resources to do d wedding,.......bla bla bla bla.....I wonder if she is allowed to do that. |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by Nobody: 10:27am On Jul 31, 2014 |
to me, its not wrong. But culturally, it is not encouraged |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by LaurelP(m): 10:30am On Jul 31, 2014 |
abdulkayus: It was a taboo many decades back but Yes its possible especially in d western world To me personally, I'd say there's nothing bad abt it |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by judedwriter(m): 10:30am On Jul 31, 2014 |
ThoniaSlim: |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by Nobody: 10:32am On Jul 31, 2014 |
not appropriate. |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by Tymax(m): 10:33am On Jul 31, 2014 |
Just wondering: Will he wear the "engagement ring"? |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by englishmart(m): 10:34am On Jul 31, 2014 |
I don't know. Ask those elders in your village. If it's okay by them, then who am I to say no? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by MadCow1: 10:35am On Jul 31, 2014 |
Tymax: Just wondering: Will he wear the "engagement ring"? Good thought. |
Re: Is It Ever Okay For A Woman To Propose To A Man? by ugeezee(m): 10:35am On Jul 31, 2014 |
Ha propose kee, tufiakwa! biko no lady should propose to me o, the way u treat my family, friends likewise those around u is enough reason for me to say halelujah and ask:pls will u grow old wit me? |
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