should i take that as a compliment

, yes love,
pls could you kindly send ya E -MAIL ADD in to ma box, i ve a season s card for you, if u dnt mind, nice carribean girl, , i mean lady, , or is it woman, ,
PEACE

Hmmm,

Why Are Nigerian Men Attracted To Caribbean Women ,

well , the best person to ask might be kaecy5, since he is in love with me!

no wonder u 2 gone dead for a while! thinking

you're right

tell me when the next cocoyaye or something will take place

WHY ARE YOU PEOPLE ATTACKING "JAMAICAN"? WHAT IS THE PROBEM? JUST GET A LIFE

AND LEAVE US JAMAICANS ALONE.IF YOU DON'T WANT YOUR NIGERIAN MEN TO GET

ATTRACTED TO US,THEN ADD MORE SPICE AND ROMANCE TO THEIR LIVES.

heeeeeei!

At the risk of being crucified I will share my thoughts as to why I think some nigerian men may look to caribbean women.

I've had the privilege of becoming close with a few of these guys, and a couple things keep coming up.

1. They believe that Nigerian women are materialistic gold diggers who only go after guys for and with money.
2. They are quick to get married and take them to meet family members for first introduction.
3. They are not good in bed, or rather, they're not adventurous and don't know what to do, especially virgins
(abeg, doh kill de messenger)
4. They hide behind the church
5. They lie a lot for personal benefit.

Unfortunately I haven't gotten to know any nigerian women since I've been here to hear the flip side of this.

If you turn this around, it would seem that they like caribbean women because

1. They believe that Caribbean women don't care about money and are not materialistic
2. They believe the we are loose and will give it up easily without pressuring them into marriage
3. They believe that we are good in bed
4. They believe we don't lie

Hmm.

These are the facts.

My opinion however, is that if a nigerian man meets a trini lady or caribbean lady abroad, i assume it means she's constructive and not a "ghetto breed" as we call them here. (If he meets one in Trini she could be a money grabbin hood rat or a manager so he needs to be vigilant)

If this assumption is true (ie if she's constructive), then she is intelligent and independent, and also knows how to take care of her man (includes cooking) and does not pressure him to get married, because our culture is different from Nigeria's. She has her own goals and ambitions and doesn't necessarily have to be married to complete her life.

If he is a GOOD Nigerian man, then this might seem a refreshing change to him (no pressure). This perhaps explains the preferrence.

Or maybe he's just looking for papers

@idekeson

Nigerians like u give nigerians a bad name.

So u will play with caribeansgirls shame on u.i am dating a nigerian so what u are saying is that he is playing me.Well let me tell u he doesn't need anything from me i ask him to marry me because i love him just the way he is broke or not i don't like material stuff i love him cause he is real.

If i fuckup he will tell me and believe me he is a real nigga guy.

Weting they worry u.

hahaaa

@ superman why u dey laugh

@Sista i like the way u think.

I hail u my true sista

chillbabe

Weting dey worry u.

thats why i de laugh

can i be ur handbag boy friend babes

Carribbean girls give it up like that!!! If that's what they want well suits them. You don't need to waste you time on men like that!!! There are more decent ones out there.

Igbo, for someone who knows his way around, Naija babes also give it up "like that". The reason why Naija guys (not all Naija guys are like this) is mainly because of the exotic look. Also, some guys claim that the uneccessary forming and money consciousness of naija babes is a turn off. It varies from person to person I guess.

@coco29 the answer is simple, black babes have great butts white chics gat great hips. But carribean gat bothe butts and hips. Jeezzzzzzzzzzzzzzme those things are very nice

hmm i might say most nigerian men fall for carribean women because they have bigger backsides, u know we nigerian men can never resisist it when we seee big ikebe
thomas

ok i'm not married dont plan to be for the next 5yrs so i dont kno if u want to hear this but have you seen these women lately sexy, flat stomachs, most african women have huge tummys, and then many afr women on gettin there cling to tightly. but carribean? its fun most of the way.who knos u might be an exception

i thought this topic was locked

They aren't rude and sarcastic like nigerian girls. They don't front as bad also. That's the simple reason.

Cos they are not as MONEY GRABING, PATHETIC LYING, ARROGANT, UNAPROACHING, MATERIALISTIC as naija girls.



As simple as that, u dont like my comments? ur cupa coffee! 1,2,3,3,4 , , people cant be wrong at the same time.

@ Mellow

mellow:

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oceanblue:

Cos they are not as MONEY GRABING, PATHETIC LYING, ARROGANT, UNAPROACHING, MATERIALISTIC as naija girls.

As simple as that, u don't like my comments? your cupa coffee! 1,2,3,3,4 , , people can't be wrong at the same time.

Go through the entire post and read it through.  It's not a mistake.  The contrasts is widely clear.  They aren't self-centered as nigerian girls too. 

Take time through nairaland and see the vast majority of the posts by the females (especially sensitive topics men put out of curiosity). The replies are usually fronts (claim of innocency), lies, or insults (including sarcasm). I personally feel that they aren't positive-minded. There is no man in his right mind that appreciates anyone that isn't positive minded. Above all, they don't tell the truth. "The Wedding in Chicago" is one of many. They won't tell you about their past or what they have done. You'll be forced to deal with the truth after marriage.

Ivvie:

@ Mellow

Go through the entire post and read it through.  It's not a mistake.  The contrasts is widely clear.  They aren't self-centered as nigerian girls too. 

Take time through nairaland and see the vast majority of the posts by the females (especially sensitive topics men put out of curiosity). The replies are usually fronts (claim of innocency), lies, or insults (including sarcasm). I personally feel that they aren't positive-minded. There is no man in his right mind that appreciates anyone that isn't positive minded. Above all, they don't tell the truth. "The Wedding in Chicago" is one of many. They won't tell you about their past or what they have done. You'll be forced to deal with the truth after marriage.

as you can see i posted this topic a while back, when i was quite unaware of what i was asking, we are all africans with different cultures and believes that being said a woman has the right to be who  she want to be.  Ivvie  what does some ones past has to do with the present must a woman tell you her life story before you marry her?  i understand that some things need to be considered but it seems to me that you are quite bitter. just in-case you are wondering i am from the carribean

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londoner isn't it funny that i think, some carribbean men are USELESS
and i was born and raised in the sun.

men no matter what their culture will always reveal the cave man with in.

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londoner my Nija man can F k better than some caribbean men to

Coco29:

londoner my Nigeria man can F k better than some caribbean men to

well well well. hmmmmmmmmmmm. i will deal with you later on

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