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Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by philantoxx(m): 10:20pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
hotwax:bros na waoo.u just photocopy wetin dey my mind. |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Nobody: 10:22pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Have u heard perfectionism leads to isolation. most single ppl are perfectionist either knowingly or unknowingly most are also d perfectionism traps dem in self-centerdness so they have isolated demsleves |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Misogynist2014(m): 10:23pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Sanchez01: I consider this a rebuttal to the one you read, unfortunately, I find the argument weak, a little too weak, I'd say. Your thread, though seem to serve as a bit of encouragement to females out there, still, it has failed to tackle the real issue.What do you refer to as 'western world'?They are only freedom obsessed people.They still can't cheat nature.Whenever I see posts like this,I get infuriated because what is our fvking business on earth when we remain single.Even the 'almighty' Genivive Nnaji confessed being single is not rosy.We should stop thinking reality don't set on 'independent' women of d west,it's just that it's always too late when they realise that having a happy home and experiencing the joys of motherhood is sweeter than a billion dollar career.After freezing their eggs for 20 solid years of futile,selfish and materialistic adventure;they go on to buy sperm and do artificial insemination to give birth to their 20 year old son(pure barstard),a son they might never watch grow.Even 'feminist terrorists' like Chimamanda Adichie have married because they can still reason.POSTS LIKE THESE SHOULDN'T MAKE FRONT PAGE AT THE EXPENSE OF BETTER AND MORE EDUCATIVE ONES(IT IS INCITING,CRUDE AND VERY CONCLUSIVE DISPOSITION) 2 Likes |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Nobody: 10:25pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
ideology: Let's not make this post look so personal.I agree totally with 3 1 Like |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by 100Cents: 10:25pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
hotwax: Thank you for number 2 I have never dated an ugly lady anyway. Number 2 is just their problem. I even asked the last girl if she thinks I am not handsome, why is she with me, abi can't I be on phone calling ladies too ? This is the height of illiteracy and insecurity among young ladies. Placing on themselves a false sense of importance that her phone is always busy. " Answering calls that don't pay bills"... 3 Likes |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by daryoor(m): 10:26pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
my own question be say: why toto dey smell like crayfish? |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Nobody: 10:29pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Tink I'd like to meet you somtym... |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by sage2(m): 10:30pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie: No one generalized the problem of beautiful single ladies to their attitude or deliverance cases... @OP, listen to this lady. In her words of wisdom, therein lies the help you really need. If she were ugly, I would say, may be, because she is ugly. But then, she is as beautiful and elegant as they come. |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by GRAND30(m): 10:32pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
"Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised" (Proverbs 31:30). If you are beautiful and still single when you should be married in reference to your age, something certainly has reduced your chances. What could that be? Your personality is most likely culpable. Good-looking people (not excluding our dandy males) usually promote, invest and pride in their physical appearance while doing little to improve their skills or develop personal traits. Unfortunately they become stranded at crucial points in life when physical appearance means almost nothing and comes far behind real skills and acceptable personality. OP, only if you are not part of this society called Nigeria or Africa would I encourage every overdue beautiful single girl to grab solace in your motivational counsel. Otherwise...it's a lantern without flames in a dark tunnel. Lastly, as for beautiful singles who should be married already based on their age, I'd advise you sober up, peer into the past, review wasted proposals, purge your personality of excesses, let your physical beauty come second behind your inner beauty...and say a little prayer to your Creator! Expect another golden chance afterwards. 8 Likes |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by ogele: 10:34pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
All dis people wey dia ancestors don swear for say dem no go marry because of their bad character..., wey dey sleep with people husband, and people wife dem... How dey want tey get dia own naa... all of una wey dey shuk mouth for dis people matter na una sabi... Any person wey neva marry come dey shuk mouth for dis people matter, make him stop am... Dia case be like EBOLA. leave dia matter for matayase.... wait una no say something dey wrong with dem... if no be Ogbanje e go be Abikuu or Akwukwu(Epilepsy)... Dia cup don full tey tey... D only remedy na for dem to relocate go wia dia ancestors no go see dem... If u see wia dem dey waka for SHOPRITE e go be like say dem no dey shit. Food sef dem no sabi cook, na only indomie dem sabi cook.. Dem plenty for dis Lagos wella.... Nonsense people... dem sabi answer all dis oyibo name dem... like Lizzy, Becky, Shoma, Stephnie, Barbra... Dia men go come dey answer Lewis, Jude, Frenzi, Alex, Richie and Michael. If na for Warri, we for don give dem name tey tey wen i dey small. Na Aunty Rukewe n Uncle Ejiro na we dey call dem... 2 Likes |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Nobody: 10:34pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
...... [/quote]...seem lyk some1 I'd lyk 2 meet somtym! |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by 100Cents: 10:36pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie: No one generalized the problem of beautiful single ladies to their attitude or deliverance cases... Karchisbarbie. I dey find woman like you o. It is very hard as in hard to find a very beautiful lady with sound character. The ones I see are all married before 25. Seriously ! I I'll send you that email so you befriend that lady and teach her for me please. I see her as a younger sister, since 2011 way I for don do her like I do other ladies, I still dey hold body. Abeg check your email later. She is hard to understand... |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Transluxpaints(m): 10:39pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
still waiting for mr right wey get plenty money,wey go carry me go america |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by 100Cents: 10:42pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
ERCROSS: The bottom line is that some beautiful Ladies allows their beauties to get into their head... Bros errn, the ones I find have kitchen skills, can cook very well but you will not have peace of mind. She sees making calls as a hobby, upwards of 50 calls will enter in one day. Open her chat, you see another man calling her baby or honey. They are also very jealous. They don't want another woman come near you.. You talk, she will misinterprete what you said. You have to start explaining again. Chineke mee.. 1 Like |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Nobody: 10:43pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Am i supposed to comment here? Where are the beautiful single ladies sef? The fact is i cant even find or get to meet them. Maybe i am too choosy. |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by raphy(m): 10:49pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
quintybabee: I usually dont comment on post about single ladies and guys stereotypical mind set that the most important thing to ladies is marriage. It will surprise some men that some ladies don't want to be saddled with the resposibility that comes with marriage. I know these are minute compare to the majority who feel their live is meaningless without a mrs attached to their name. To say all babeswant to b married is gross generalisationnot all,guys think d same way deary.marriage is not by force but a choice.if someone is not yet married he can still adopt his or her own child ,and train them .when he/she knws e have wht it takes to bring up a child. 1 Like |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Onyiibazz: 10:52pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
I believe there's actually some pains the Op is trying to use this post to hide cos behind every 'i dont care', there are always a thousand of 'i cares' |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by HARDDON: 10:58pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
on why the b ea u ti ful ones r still single? 1)over estimation of self 2) they would rather see the wealth now than d prospects. and therefore willing to sacrifice future gains for temporal joy rude n crude |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by 100Cents: 11:02pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
jennylove7575: God knows marriage ain't for me. .I don't believe in spending the rest of my life with one man. Repeating same routine daily. I was watching a TV documentary somedays ago, about how Hungarian families were forcing their kids into marriage at the age of 14yrs. I was indeed gutted at the child abuse..people should be able to have choice...marriage shouldn't be by force but by choice....I recently met this guy on Nairaland, last week we decided to meet up at the Westfield shopping centre...when we met, for 5mins he couldn't say one word. He was startled. When he eventually opened his mouth to speak he said I can't believe am standing with crazy jennylove of Nairaland a very pleasant guy indeed....to be cont...... Phu.ck him now and move on to the next man. Nah trophy.. Last bullet : You are inviting frustration. I dated a beauty for 3 solid years. Her problem was as stated in this thread, she never believed she could be under a man till we met. Never knew she liked me sef. Numerous boyfriends she had before we met, I made her lose all. The last one was a tough fight which included beating for the first and only time in history. After all her shakara, cheating on me, insulting me, harassing me, one day she knelt down in front of me with tears welled up in her eyes asking me to marry her. Omoh, I felt like KING SOLOMON. She cried so bitterly. Boy, I felt for her. We didn't marry but it wasn't my fault anyway. She is a single mother now from 2 relationships after mine. Whenever a lady wan start her shakara for me, I normally want her to see that Ex and rate her but I won't tell her the story... Jenny, stop inviting frustration to your life.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Misogynist2014(m): 11:04pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie:Are you consoling yourself cos even many of the highly accomplished women in Nigeria are married.Even it's very hard for a man to build a reasonable career in a country like Nigeria,not to talk of a lady #TalkIsCheap.When you give birth to a child,space the second for about 2 yrs,with a well planned route to the top of your career coupled with the aid of your spouse,with your Mrs identity,your career will blossom. My dear talk beta tin cos being single is not freedom,it only robs off the opportunity of having a soulmate,with whom you can brainstorm and share ideas,provided you both have Christ in you and know the essence of marriage,which I doubt you do. 3 Likes |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Nobody: 11:08pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
MizMyColi: If it's entirely her business there would be no need for this thread The truth is that girls are concerned about getting hitched when they approach a certain age and with time desperation sets in especially past 35. People shouldn't act like it doesn't bother them,we know it does The main concern should be why a girl of age who wants to marry has not been able to What is the real reason men date you and when it comes time for marriage ,they leave you and marry another I have come to the conclusion that many ladies who are over ripe for marriage and want to marry but are yet unmarried have a hand in their situation Not all but a majority of them If they are sincere with themselves,they know this is the naked truth Any girl who wan marry go marry 1 Like |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Waspy(m): 11:10pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
daryoor: my own question be say: why toto dey smell like crayfish? |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Waspy(m): 11:14pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
I think its me.....I just don't get the "drills" behind this thread |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by 100Cents: 11:19pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Tallesty1: Thanks bro, women can lie. As good as truth... |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by ERCROSS(m): 11:19pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
100Cents:Lolz... Those gurls aint loyal.. |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by tellwisdom: 11:24pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Because, Nigerian gurls reek of dirty attitude |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by 100Cents: 11:32pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
quintybabee: Dear lord, what have I done, I should have kept my mouth shut. I dont wantto quote anybody but I feel the need to respond. Fear fear, quote somebody and get banned ! |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Nobody: 11:34pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Misogynist2014: Are you consoling yourself cos even many of the highly accomplished women in Nigeria are married.Even it's very hard for a man to build a reasonable career in a country like Nigeria,not to talk of a lady #TalkIsCheap.When you give birth to a child,space the second for about 2 yrs,with a well planned route to the top of your career coupled with the aid of your spouse,with your Mrs identity,your career will blossom. My dear talk beta tin cos being single is not freedom,it only robs off the opportunity of having a soulmate,with whom you can brainstorm and share ideas,provided you both have Christ in you and know the essence of marriage,which I doubt you do.firstly I wish I understood what you typed...but the little i understood, this highly accomplished women you talking about are not my mate, they are even older than my mother...so when I get to that age, you can tell me all this. |
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