AdeniyiA:
...and you think you've answered him with your own post
Kindly lets have your own correct nd concise answers ...

Dawezz: ahahahahahahahahahaha una see wetin i dey talk?.....abeg abeg babe....if you no won do...carry your loadu dey goooo "IN RICKY ROSS'S VOICE".terrimatix: Well, a lot of people do it for different reasons..I did mine because i wanted to marry her and since she was a virgin i respected her decision..Finally one idiiot from nowhere came and disflowered her under my nose, lesson learnt in such a hard way

rahymat: Sex is not compulsory in a relationship because there is no assurance dat u will get married to her.do u knw y most ladies are not virgins wen they get married its because guys theyve dated fooled dem into believing dat sex is compulsory in a relationship.so ladies pls stop listening to guyz dat says sex is compulsory they just want u to meet their selfish needs because they always have d urge to have sex unlike us.so pls lets zip up until marriage.

timmyboy5050: eehya,sori.....

valdes00: Hell No wil I go into a relationship witout sex, it aint sure we r gona gt married. I culd remember wen she told me no sex in our relationship, cos she made a covenant with God.... I reminded her abt it when we were on d 2nd round..... I guess she tinks God wil understand....

tuffgongjo: And spending is necessary?

Neatboy: I have been in such relationship so many times. Most of these ladies take these religious guys for granted because of their religious stands and moral compass. Most of my friends that always jagged these ladies always have them so loyal and attached immediately after sex. The real truth is that, if you've met a good and virtuous lady you'll realize that sex is just secondary. Relationship is like the two sides of same coin. Although it's not marriage, that's the more reason the efforts to sustain and maintain it should be from both sides. You can enjoy it without sex, believe it or not. Sex will not make you one with him/her, but trust, hope, faith, teamwork and love. Just try never to associate sex with love and you'll understand what I'm talking about.

arsetalks: I can understand the OP's feeling. It is a difficult situation too be honest. However, it doesn't have to be for sex.

I was in such a relationship, she was sincere with her past ( she dated some real idiots who got what they wanted and left) and her strong WILL not to have sex till marriage. I spent on her, I even went as far as trying to flaunt a business for her and when we discovered she had a brain tumor, I footed all the bills for her tests ( and not small money with the number of tests we had to do and the amount of meds we bought to keep her painless till the surgery). I also ensure she gets all the money she needed after surgery. She DIED. And I had no sex with her but I had true love and received same and can beat my chest and say she was sincere and would have married me if GOD didn't have some other ideas.

goodygirl1: I can relate cos am presently in one....mutual agreement...no sex but we've been helpmates for eachoda when the other person is down even without demanding...it's not all about sex and money....love and understanding matters most....

AustinEke: Some ladies refuse sex in a relationship, yet Gv it to some other guy on a daily bases TAX FREE. As for me my logo is NO SEX, NO MONEY. When she says she's saving it 4her future husband, I say I'm saving my money 4my future wife. 1-1.

Truth24: I wonder ooo.... Me sef I don tire for everything about love and relationship, na book JOB I dey face now....

eddieblaize: any relationship based on sex is bound 2 suffer. Love is wat both partners shuld expect n give 2 one anoda n nt sex..

Ezegozie: lol, please no fight oooo.

just asking because its very confusing to me.

I dont even know why most Girls (Nigerian girls especially) see sex as a very big gift to their boyfriend.


the man you take as boyfriend loses his money to take you out
the man you take as boyfriend loses his money to buy you some gifts and recharge cards
he calls you almost everyday and yet when it comes to that special thing they need from you (which you even enjoy), you start giving excuses.
If you dont love him, why not tell him, so that he will look for somebody else, instead of defrauding him

A last longing association, should be symbiotic

so my innocent question still remains.

"WHAT IS THAT SYMBIOSIS IN A SEXLESS RELATIONSHIP"

lepasharon: Is a relationship only about sex?

Dawezz: Trailer Jam person for una family?....why you dey tell me sorry...na me trailer jam?

ramdris: Can any lady answer this question with all sincerity: willu ccontinue dating a guy for several months without asking for nothing or taking nothing apart from just regular " I Love u" from him?
If no,den How do u expect us to understand no bleep relationship Co's I can't n will never.

valdes00: Hell No wil I go into a relationship witout sex, it aint sure we r gona gt married. I culd remember wen she told me no sex in our relationship, cos she made a covenant with God.... I reminded her abt it when we were on d 2nd round..... I guess she tinks God wil understand....

AdeniyiA:
what about his destination?

rahymat: Stop attributing sex to money,if u have money to spend on her y not.dat doesnt mean u should b selfish

Evathyst: Sex sex! Hia! Na food? D primary motive of most guys wen asking a gal out is jst to bleep her. Yet, dey recite all sort of lov poems to disguise thr 'lustful' intention. Telling her stuff lyk 'U'r d air I breath' bastard!



I cover my p*ssy with d blood of Jesus!

eddieblaize: any relationship based on sex is bound 2 suffer. Love is wat both partners shuld expect n give 2 one anoda n nt sex..

MissMalia: na u go knw...c ya mouth lyk feel among.Shuld al relatnshp b based on Sex?

rahymat: Stop attributing sex to money,if u have money to spend on her y not.dat doesnt mean u should b selfish