oliverdon:
Biblically is wrong but un dis nature we are now i support it bc most marriage dis days now after all d waste of money no show for child,now who is at lost?

missberrypop5:
yeah, its a grown trend these days. It is so wrong. Its a no no for me. I can't and i won't do it.

Cutehector4u:
She shouldnt get pregnant.... Its called fornication....

Kelvin0:
I heard from a source who pleaded anonymity that an average Nigerian lady has gone tru abortion like 3 times b4 marriage hence the mistrust....
#no man will like to marry a mother of dead babies...
After destroying their w*mb dem go come carry their load come drop for ya head the source said!!!!

doskie:

So if she's not pregnant it means she's not been tasted?

mariagrant10:
I just want to share my experience with the world on how i got my love back and saved my marriage. I really love Louis so much that i can not even do without. I was married for 7years with 2kids and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and arguments almost every time... it got worse at a point that he filed for divorce... I tried my best to make him change his mind & stay with me cause i loved him with all my heart and didn't want to loose him but everything just didn't work out... He moved out of the house and still went ahead to file for divorce... I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful man who eventually helped me out with spell... I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly cause I was desperate and left with no choice... He did special prayers and used herbs... Within 2 days he called me and was sorry for all the emotional trauma he had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily, the kids are happy too and we are expecting our third child. I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news... Just thought I should share my experience cause I strongly believe someone out there need's it... NOTE THAT he will ask you to pay a small token amount of money to get the materials to work for you. You can email DR SANJAY via (sanjaylandofsolution606@gmail . com or +2348176363653) Don't give up just yet, the different between "Ordinary" & "Extra-Ordinary" is the "Extra" so make extra effort to save your marriage/relationship if it's truly worth it.

BreezyRita:

Which are you in? Which do we talk about on NL?

Harmvirus:


My thought exactly.. @op, I won't do it

BreezyRita:


You think? Agreed. Some may not know their worth. But others that do, are forced by society to do this. You know how our society frowns upon an unmarried lady?
So they think,; "If it'll make him marry me, why not?"
I can't blame them. I think the guys should learn to accept their women. And not test drive!

BreezyRita:
What I detest is the fact that these guys try to play God.... Or what else do you call it??
They say they're making sure the woman is fertile and will bear children.

I've seen where a guy did that. His first gf of 2 years left him cos she wasn't comfy with the arrangement. He met a new woman. Gave her his ultimatum...... She agreed. Got pregnant..... 2 months later, they were married.
A few months later, there's a miscarriage. Doctor says she can't get pregnant or give birth anymore.

My point?? You never know. A woman may getting pregnant doesn't guarantee her giving you kids.
I pray I don't find such a man.

Cos those village elders no dey gree.... They have eyes that see when you're just a week gone.

BreezyRita:
Ok. This is a hotly debated issue....
I'm sure the guys will bash me.

There seems to a growing trend.... Guys saying their women are to pregnant before proposal or any marriage rite. I condemned a guy's stance on this and thought I'd be supported. But I was surprised. Even women took sides with the guy! It was shocking!

And guys, what's the reason behind this assertion??

So what do you think??
Should a lady get pregnant before she gets proposed to or should she walk out of the relationship??

Youngpo413:




you are correct...
My elder brother needs to see this too cos the guy sabi test drive,hehehehe...we dey call am EKPE ITUT!

passionate88:
Both sexes are guilty of it.. The females want a guy that's good in bed while the male want a fertile woman.. Because you are a girl, u will view the demands of the guy as harsh, while some guys (I inclusive) will see the demand(s) of the female folks as harsh..

luvlyqueen:
ladies need to understand dat getting pregnant before marriage dosnt guarantee,he's going to marry,lot of guy use dat to decieve lot of girls,my own be say any man who proposes dat to me i go pour am hot water

natureblack:
I go for pregnancy before marriage



Some b!itches are soaked with postinor 2

passionate88:
What I'm trying to say is that you deciede what you want to listen to... I know of some single ladies that are advanced in age, some are single others divorced and "the society" hasn't killed them..

Kelvin0:
I heard from a source who pleaded anonymity that an average Nigerian lady has gone tru abortion like 3 times b4 marriage hence the mistrust....
#no man will like to marry a mother of dead babies...
After destroying their w*mb dem go come carry their load come drop for ya head the source said!!!!

Cutehector4u:
lol wat if yu r pressurized to do it...lets b realistic now,... Ur fiance is insisting u must....nd his family is also insisting....maybe due to the fact that ur fiance's brother's wife is still barren and they fear dat ur fiance might not hav any child so they want to be sure yu r pregnant befor they accept u into the family... Now believing that sex outside mariage is a sin, will u giv in to their pressure or because of ur belief, quit the rship u hav built wit ur fiance.... Provided that tym is not on ur side anymore....

mariagrant10:
I just want to share my experience with the world on how i got my love back and saved my marriage. I really love Louis so much that i can not even do without. I was married for 7years with 2kids and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and arguments almost every time... it got worse at a point that he filed for divorce... I tried my best to make him change his mind & stay with me cause i loved him with all my heart and didn't want to loose him but everything just didn't work out... He moved out of the house and still went ahead to file for divorce... I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful man who eventually helped me out with spell... I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly cause I was desperate and left with no choice... He did special prayers and used herbs... Within 2 days he called me and was sorry for all the emotional trauma he had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily, the kids are happy too and we are expecting our third child. I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news... Just thought I should share my experience cause I strongly believe someone out there need's it... NOTE THAT he will ask you to pay a small token amount of money to get the materials to work for you. You can email DR SANJAY via (sanjaylandofsolution606@gmail . com or +2348176363653) Don't give up just yet, the different between "Ordinary" & "Extra-Ordinary" is the "Extra" so make extra effort to save your marriage/relationship if it's truly worth it.

BreezyRita:
Ok. This is a hotly debated issue....
I'm sure the guys will bash me.

There seems to a growing trend.... Guys saying their women are to pregnant before proposal or any marriage rite. I condemned a guy's stance on this and thought I'd be supported. But I was surprised. Even women took sides with the guy! It was shocking!

And guys, what's the reason behind this assertion??

So what do you think??
Should a lady get pregnant before she gets proposed to or should she walk out of the relationship??