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Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by luvlyqueen(f): 3:03pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
legendary4luv:wetin you go do?, |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by holatin(m): 3:06pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
if not for pregnancy some women will still be single. so any which way. everlasting happiness na d koko. abi funke akinele, INI Edo no do weeding ? 3 Likes |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by BEN1986: 3:07pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
LouisVanGaal:Getting married before sex and to virgins |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by holatin(m): 3:08pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
if not for pregnancy some women will still be single. so any which way. everlasting happiness na d koko. abi funke akinele, INI Edo no do weeding ?? |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by sleekman(m): 3:09pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
BreezyRita:Madam both guys and babes try to play God 4 ur info. Yes its indeed morally wrong and everyone knows that but so also is d culture of bestman and bridesmaid. Do u know d bestman was invented by d scots/brits who needed a companion 2 hijack a beautiful damsel and forcefully make her a bride? Besided we say its morally wrong but then the question is who is a wife? Biblically and in the past, a wife is a lady who isn't a prostitute a man decides 2 call his own and the family agrees shikena. Na we carry long process put. When a lady has had so many abortions and u become aware and u want her 2 give birth 1st b4 marriage would u blame such a man? Or a lady likes a man and she hears rumours of his impotence and she wants him 2 'plant' b4 marriage, can u then blame her? So many bad culture of yesterday became d norm culture of 2day. In the early 19th century it was almost unheard of 4 a man and a woman 2 cohabit but fast forward into d 21st its a norm in most western nations. I for one strongly believe that marriage starts the minute a man and woman agrees 2 leave their parents house and coexist as one. That's what d bible says. The only thing is we want d traditional and d court for security shikena. Otherwise marriage is between 2 and needs no witness. |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by passionate88: 3:15pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
BreezyRita:How are they "ostracized"?... Don't they still go to church/mosque?, don't they socialize?, don't they still work?. Many are working class ladies and they still excel in their field of work... I always respect ladies that keep their heads up no matter what happens to them. "peeps" don't assume it's their fault... I don't assume that it's only the ladies that can keep a marriage intact, the hisbands have huge roles to play too. |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by whysquare4real(m): 3:16pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
A friend of mine is regretting not getting his wife pregnant before marriage. D wife is yet to get pregnant and it is becoming a source of worry to d whole family. Though I told him to keep faith in God Almighty. |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by legendary4luv(m): 3:18pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by bezimo(m): 3:24pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
As a Christian I will not subscribe to such practice since its sin before the lord. One of my respected mentor said concerning biblical sense for getting into marriage "courtship is not a time to check if your woman can be pregnant, rather doing such would sow a seed of shame and turn away the hand of Gods favour" |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by ThoniaSlim(f): 3:38pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
If that's a condition given by a man before he proposes, then I will thank my God for revealing his true nature to me and walk out of that relationship. I just dodged a bullet right there. |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by chronique(m): 3:55pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
For me,it's a big NO. Just incase things turn bad at the dying minute. I won't be forced to go on cos She's carrying my baby. |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Johnnoo(m): 3:55pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
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Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by nhiyo(m): 4:02pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
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Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by nhiyo(m): 4:03pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Cutehector4u: You shouldn't get pregnant buh you can have sex abi? |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Nobody: 4:05pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
nhiyo:u mean wit ur sister? |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by nhiyo(m): 4:09pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Why do will like deceiving ourselves, Is getting pregnant the issue? Does pregnancy jump on People. We should be addressing the issue pre marital sex. 3 Likes |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by nhiyo(m): 4:10pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Cutehector4u: Nope with you Mum |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by BreezyRita(f): 4:12pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
sleekman: Even in Bible times, marriage was marriage! You don't just live in a man's house cos you've agreed. No! There were certain procedures. Say the wedding is not necessary but there has to be parental blessings (traditional) and pastoral or priestly blessings (church wedding)....... Even a prostitute can be a wife! No one is to judge.. You're kinda biased here. Women commit abortions. Men get them pregnant and ok the abortion.. That's for another day sha...... As a man, you may have gotten a lady pregnant, suggested or enforced abortion...... Dumped that lady, moved to another. One probably more wifely. . You've decided to marry her but you wanna ensure she'll be able to bear kids cos your conscience is haunting you... ... You are playing God! We hardly see a case of impotent men being questioned or tested here in Naija. Its always the women getting tested..... #Get pregnant or remain single! For the impotent guys, they're like; I can get another woman pregnant. You're not ok, leave! 1 Like |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by link2jude(m): 4:16pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
What if a man marries a woman and after five years she couldn't conceive only for the man to discover that this woman can't bear children because of her past lifestyle, and the man happens to be the only son. |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Tallesty1(m): 4:23pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
A lady that knows her "worth" will not get pregnant before proposal. 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by LouisVanGaal(m): 4:28pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
BEN1986:..not 'really' my stance, meant that I would impregnate a lady who's NOT yet my wife...buh POLYBAG is allowed na b4 marriage . |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by LouisVanGaal(m): 4:43pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Tallesty1:1000 likes for you bro |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by LekanAINA: 4:46pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Well, looks to me like we've all passively agreed to the idea that sex before marriage is acceptable which is why we're giving tis discussion a chance at all. If that is granted, then pregnancy outside wedlock can as well be a part of the package too. It largely depends on the school of thought to which one belongs, but pesonally, i wont lose a sleep on it if it happens to me or even to my daugter! |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by remsonik(f): 4:46pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
i broke up with an ex cos of that,Worse still he pushed the wedding two years forward. Any man that ask you to get pregnant before marriage doesnt respect you enough. A real man would do the proper thing |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Godiloveu(f): 4:48pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Nursy: well, I want. to agree with u on this the Guy am dating ( sexing) he didn't actually say it but to me is like he wants ",d pregnancy ist b4 anytin. He is rm d southwest. And am seriously considering d move but am scare of him refusing to marry me after then. also, we dont c often becos of d distance of our places. And I think I might lose him if I dont. |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Nobody: 4:55pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
BreezyRita:Hmm i beta be careful oooo, i really hate sex before marriage i swear. |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Maximus85(m): 5:17pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
BreezyRita: this world's conscience is dead. God hates fornication and adultery. sex before marriage is a sin. not to talk of getting pregnant before marriage. people don't see this as a serious sin. its solo sad. |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Nobody: 5:18pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
see some guys comments here, so u want to be sure if she can still concieve, let me ask u, who do u think will marry those ones u spoil |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by doskie(m): 5:22pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
BreezyRita:Please what is the meaning of mbok in english? I won't argue. I like you so much Mmmuaah! Xoxo |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Nobody: 5:30pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
missberrypop5:wait till you click 37 |
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Nobody: 5:34pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
jossi994:lol, i wouldn't mind being single for the rest of my life. Marriage ain't a do or die affair. 1 Like |
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