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Romance › Re: +18: If A Woman Tells You This, You Should Be Worried Not Excited. by 1Sharon(f): 6:55pm On Sep 16, 2023
If she was into you, she wouldn't try to manipulate you as you claimed.

Tell your gender to start helping each other instead of helping women.
Romance › Re: "I Would Have Stayed In My Marriage If I Had Kids"- Toke Makinwa by 1Sharon(f):
finallybusy:
She can’t create life. She would’ve long used it to trap the man.
How do you trap a man you are married to?

And how do you know she can't create life? She was only married to Ayida for 3 years.

Now that he got the baby he supposedly wanted from his ex-gf, why didn't he marry her? 🥴🥴

Hypocrites.
Crime › Re: The TRUTH About Disappearing MANHOOD Exposed!!! by 1Sharon(f): 5:55pm On Sep 16, 2023
Blakjewelry:
Lol I didn't expect you to understand what I wrote. I shared to cases that I heard up close, the first is unlikely because we all knows the guy. The second unlikely too because by the time I got there, they said the guy is testing the D with a girl in the oza room, so my question how come the penis thief is always been caught, infact I have never seen a man living without his manhood because it was stolen or have you?
Exactly. So why would you come here and repeat a story when you know it's all hearsay and BS?
Romance › Re: "I Would Have Stayed In My Marriage If I Had Kids"- Toke Makinwa by 1Sharon(f): 5:51pm On Sep 16, 2023
talented321:
With my loud....
Why saying this now? are you traumatized?
You go explain tire but no evidence..
When you think u have thousand of guys waiting for you outside but in reality they all want to chop and clean mouth...
Are u now regretting or what?
One of the happiest moment of my life is been born as a man...
If it was a man, would you have asked for evidence?

She left her husband because he had outside babies, she didn't leave him for a flimsy reason .
I wonder, did he end up marrying the ex-girlfriend he had a baby with? He ended up wrecking his marriage... for nothing.
Romance › Re: "I Would Have Stayed In My Marriage If I Had Kids"- Toke Makinwa by 1Sharon(f): 5:43pm On Sep 16, 2023
Aww.

I wonder. Did the husband end up marrying the ex-girlfriend? undecided
Family › Re: Why Do Some Women Hate And Maltreat Their Househelps? by 1Sharon(f): 4:54pm On Sep 16, 2023
NEUDUDE:
Funny how most want men to take care of their kids born out of wedlock but will never take care of the mans kid if that table were turned lol grin
There is this whole talk about men not wifing up a single mother either.

Nobody intends to be a step mother/father, it's something that just happens.
Family › Re: Why Do Some Women Hate And Maltreat Their Househelps? by 1Sharon(f): 4:47pm On Sep 16, 2023
sweetrace:
The problem is employing a minor. One should only employ an adult. As for buying the same thing for my house help as my kids, that is laughable. When I buy a piece of turkey or cake for my child, I do not have to buy it for my house help. I pay her a salary. I don’t pay my kids. If the house help does her job well and I am happy with her, I may give her a treat.
Most Nigerian women don't pay their househelps a salary, you know that. Don't be disingenuous. You say you treat your househelp well, I don't expect you to say otherwise.


Stop owning them. Period.
Romance › Re: Ladies Can You Date A Man Without Asking Him For Money by 1Sharon(f): 4:41pm On Sep 16, 2023
Tempulated:
Nice one.

Yes off course i can date a lady who doesn't like to cook because i'm a mild good cook myself. My cooking skills aren't top notch but i'm trying.

I usually prepare my meals myself. So dating a lady who doesn't like to cook isn't something i will be bothered about.
Nairaland men and bravado.

Romance › Re: Ladies Can You Date A Man Without Asking Him For Money by 1Sharon(f): 4:38pm On Sep 16, 2023
Obascoetubi:
na both oof us dey eat that food? na still my money she used cook am
No. If you don't want her to ask you for money. Don't expect any wifely duties either.
Romance › Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by 1Sharon(f): 4:38pm On Sep 16, 2023
NOwazobia:
But most of the time, the child(ren) is always with the mother, especially for the average Nigeria family where the man always comes home late.

In my comment I made on this thread, the Son, who is often fond of abusing his sister is most times with the mother, but the mother hardly reprimand him, sometimes she just keeps doing her thing why the daughter yell and cry.

Sadly, the mother is a victim of the dad's abuse for many years.
You're acknowledging that men don't spend as much time with the kids like the mothers, yet nigerian men complain that they aren't as celebrated as their mothers?

You want to say single motherhood is the source of all character flaws in someone, but when the fathers are there, they are BARELY THERE.

Yet Nigerian men want to call themselves the leaders and the head??

Of what use are you as the head when you're completely oblivious to the antics in your own home?
Romance › Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by 1Sharon(f): 4:32pm On Sep 16, 2023
PrinceofSarcasm:
They are usually men raised by single mothers ...99% of the time
Majority of Nigerians are not a product of single parent homes.
Crime › Re: The TRUTH About Disappearing MANHOOD Exposed!!! by 1Sharon(f): 4:21pm On Sep 16, 2023
Blakjewelry:
It could be true because a guy in my own area was once accused, he was almost lynched. Very quiet guy, it took the intervention of people around the area to save him. Though I have seen a guy close who claim his penis was stolen Sha but I am yet to verify because the story differs. Some claim the shrinks some says it plane but one thing that is common is, all the dicks were replace.
Listen to yourself.
Romance › Re: Nigeria Women Abroad by 1Sharon(f): 1:31am On Sep 16, 2023
eazzzy1:
It is true. Nigerians are the most successful group of African immigrant in the world. Go to any post grad school or multinational organizations abroad, for every ten black people you see atleast six would be Nigerians.

It would be considered dating down for a Nigerian lady to date someone from other African nationalities and the average Nigerian woman would not date down.

A Punjabi friend told me of her Ghanaian colleague who liked a chick but a Naija guy was liking the same chick too, the Ghanaian guy gave up chasing. He told my Punjabi friend he couldn’t compete with a Naija guy.
You guys suddenly remember that for Nigerian women, it is dating down to date outside Nigerian men, but for Nigerian men dating out Is levelling up.
Romance › Re: Ladies Can You Date A Man Without Asking Him For Money by 1Sharon(f): 9:54pm On Sep 15, 2023
Yes. Can you date a girl w/o expecting her to cook for you?
Family › Re: Why Do Some Women Hate And Maltreat Their Househelps? by 1Sharon(f): 5:54pm On Sep 15, 2023
DaddyCoool:
Not at all. You must be joking. House chores are usually done by little girls not boys. Boys usually learn trade
Male househelps exist. They're just not popular.
Family › Re: Why Do Some Women Hate And Maltreat Their Househelps? by 1Sharon(f): 5:53pm On Sep 15, 2023
DaddyCoool:
Has nothing to do with third parties ruining homes. Hosehelps are simply too expensive in developed climes. And if you get a minor, you'll go to jail!
Yes and even those that can afford it, they pay them and they don't live in.

That way they can have a life for themselves.
Family › Re: Why Do Some Women Hate And Maltreat Their Househelps? by 1Sharon(f): 5:51pm On Sep 15, 2023
DaddyCoool:
When they are totally emotionally dominated by the wives and are grateful just to be ok with her, talkless of fighting for another person
Aren't you supposed to be the head of the home? undecided

How is it that your wife is dominating you?

Never employ them. Handle the chores yourself. 3rd parties ruin a marriage.
Family › Re: Why Do Some Women Hate And Maltreat Their Househelps? by 1Sharon(f): 5:49pm On Sep 15, 2023
Chasito:
When the house help get nyansh pass them, they get jealous grin
What is the reason male househelps aren't popular again? Isn't it due to the fear the househelp will sleep with their wives and daughters?
Family › Re: Why Do Some Women Hate And Maltreat Their Househelps? by 1Sharon(f): 5:45pm On Sep 15, 2023
lollybizzu:
NO we are not afraid; we just want our PEACE.

That rightly so, maltreating an house help is not one of those things a real man should not act on. Caution the woman, if it continues send the house help away and let her do her things by herself. You help when you are able to.
Nothing like househelp in Europe. The husband and wives handle chores themselves.

Nigerians are so comfortable with having strangers in their home. 3rd parties ruin a household
Family › Re: Why Do Some Women Hate And Maltreat Their Househelps? by 1Sharon(f): 5:38pm On Sep 15, 2023
Holysucker:
I dont know why they are like that..you will hardly see a man maltreat his househelp...but for women it's a diffrent thing entirely...
The men are complicit too. If they see the househelp being maltreated and do nothing about it.
Romance › Re: In Ur Opinion What Happens After Death? by 1Sharon(f): 5:28pm On Sep 15, 2023
Phones › Re: Whatsapp Channels Officially Launched In SA (MY PICS) by 1Sharon(f): 1:14am On Sep 15, 2023
TMKsouth:
You'll be able to follow your favourite celebs and organisations. Over time, anyone will be able to create their own channel and be followed by whomever from around the world.
So is it like twitter or what?
Romance › Re: Dating A Broke Man Is Torture by 1Sharon(f):
Since your ex was doing so much for you, why did you get into a relationship with this guy?

Men hardly want to be just friends with women that's why they don't like women having male friends. It hardly works.

The guy that assisted you, slept with you..didn't he?
Romance › Re: Homosexuality: What Changed? by 1Sharon(f): 12:11am On Sep 15, 2023
Eagba:
I don't know if it was you I had that argument with but I still stand my ground .... It's not easy to rape a full fledge girl. The physical dynamics is close to impossible without support
1 if a girl close her thigh strongly, you will need your hands to open em, while her hands become free
2 the penis is just a phallus and not an arm. You can easily hold n break it if him do anyhow



I once had a friend that told me that she was raped, I looked at her n let her know how that it isn't easily possible. Which she later admitted that she actually told the guy to stop n he didn't.

Girls if a stupid guy try raping you n you know you are not in full support and he's not wielding any weapon or no external blackmail, stand your ground , be not afraid time and exposure is on your side. Try to grab his deek and never let go. ( Drag and squeeze no stop with every evil reasons you have without pity)
You sound quite insane.

I never knew that women are now stronger than men.
Romance › Re: Homosexuality: What Changed? by 1Sharon(f): 11:06pm On Sep 14, 2023
Skyview01:
You must have a low opinion of men if you think all men must have raped a woman before.

This opinion may have been formed as a result of observing the men in your life or a personal life experience of your involving the men around you.

It may be a normal event for them to rape a woman but trust me, it would be quite myopic to view all the millions of men in the world through the lenses of your personal interactions or life experiences.

Most men don't rape women!
Not all. I know that. I'm using his logic against him.

If he wants to generalise gay men as rapists, he shouldn't complain when women do the same to men.

If homosexuality is evil because gay men molest kids.

Why are heterosexual women still dealing with men?

Heterosexual men are more of a threat to women, than gay men are.
Nairaland General › Re: What Immediately Tells You That A Person Had A Traumatic Past? by 1Sharon(f): 11:02pm On Sep 14, 2023
Zxcvbnmghtr:
When someone is always talking ill about women. And always hateful, envious of successful people.
He is bitter because a girl said she didn't like his igbo accent.
Romance › Re: Homosexuality: What Changed? by 1Sharon(f): 10:55pm On Sep 14, 2023
Eagba:
don't run into the hands of gays hoping to be safe. If a man rapes a woman, I think he should be given life same as our politicians.
I'm not a rape apologist
This you? :


Eagba:
I want to assume you are a woman. Your vagina muscle alone can break his penis. Maybe you were tóo scared to know your own strength.
I'm not underating rape victims. But one on one, no man easily rape a woman if she stand her ground.
Romance › Re: In Ur Opinion What Happens After Death? by 1Sharon(f): 10:50pm On Sep 14, 2023
pansophist:
But why is it only Nigerian ghost that have these stories? White people die once, Nigerians die more than once.

Why?
🤣
Notice how the Nigerian stories always sound the same?

They're all liars.
Romance › Re: In Ur Opinion What Happens After Death? by 1Sharon(f): 10:47pm On Sep 14, 2023
Bahamas95:
I have been hearing stories like these since I was a child but don't know if they're real or like the match between India and Nigeria.

I lost my cousin many years ago and a family friend claimed he saw her in Benin, 2months after she died..... People were just screaming that day in our house but I kept my cool, don't know if the man was under the influence of alcohol.
It's just a look alike he possibly saw. Since there are at least 9 people that look like us in this world.

There are apps where people can find their lookalikes. It's really never that serious.
Romance › Re: Homosexuality: What Changed? by 1Sharon(f): 10:42pm On Sep 14, 2023
Eagba:
Keep fishing
On a final note you and your gay bro should continue but don't me supporting any law that will legalize gay, cos soon after that, you ppl will seek to adopt little children to start a sick family.
Don't except me to support ppl that are predators.
straight men are more of a threat to women than gay men

Child marriage is all over Africa, what have you done to protest it?

I've never seen a pedophile being lynched in Africa. I've only ever seen vulnerable old women and men accused of stealing necklaces being killed.

A woman complains of being raped and you hypocrites come out to quickly prove see was lying. Most Nigerian women have been molested.

Should we now throw heterosexual men in the bin? We still put up with you.

You're just a hypocrite, you don't care about children.
Family › Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by 1Sharon(f): 10:35pm On Sep 14, 2023
Klass99:
This sounds like my dad and almost every Nigerian man I know. Sadly you may marry, have kids and still make the same mistake your father and mine did.

Because you men don't ever listen to your wives when they try to caution or shield you from the pack of wolves you call your relatives. You wrongly assume your wives are selfish or hateful and they don't want you to help your families. That's usually not the case.

Women can see how your blood relatives are often entitled, lazy, covetous or envious and they want to take advantage of you. However majority of you are unable to see what your relatives are really like and you carry blood is thicker than water on your heads like gala. Until blood shows you shege then your wife's words of caution start to make sense.

I smile and shake my head when ignorant men say things like a wife is not your blood or relative. Your own blood relatives will wound you quicker and faster than the wife who is not related to you. Most of us grew up seeing this happen in our parents' homes but we become adults and think it can't happen to us, after all blood is thicker than water na.

Oh....and genuine condolences for the loss of your father, that must have been really rough. I spoke with mine today and I can't wait to go see him. None of us is promised tomorrow.
Saying your wife isn't your family is very misogynistic.

When you marry you become one with your spouse, like a team. Even their bible says that.

The family you're about to create takes priority over the one you left behind. The man's parents will die, his siblings will marry and face their own lives. It's you and your wife up till the end.

Alot of Nigerian men see as it as control when they're corrected by their wives
Family › Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by 1Sharon(f): 10:23pm On Sep 14, 2023
Great man all around but can be arrogant

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