₦airaland Forum

Eagba:
Legalized gay marriage so they will start adopting children and be Inducting them into homosexuality. Rubbish.
Those homos have a higher tendency in molesting children, raping adults and they have the most perverse minds ever. No gay can deny these

Last time I checked, heterosexual people do all those things.

JOACHINpedro:
At least to make sure she can affirm that she also bring smth on the table.
Those men are considerate

Cooking and cleaning is all it takes? Okay then.

JOACHINpedro:
A guy that does this doesn't need a woman again na. Check am

Even the men that can do all that still want a woman to do it for them.

Fahvvy:
I thought I was the only one put off by that thread ...

If obodo oyibo was as bad as they painted it, why haven't they returned back to their country? ...

Fact is, every country out there has its downs, however, the downs of some countries can rival the ups of other countries ...

Look at your nation for instance...
Some military men have now become instruments of bullies for "big men" ...

Some police officers now require that you wet their palm heavily, before they can do the jobs that they've already been paid for ...

Being "bad" is hailed as smart and being "good" is frowned upon and seen as f.oolish ...

Having light for 3 hours per day in some areas is seen as something worth celebrating ...

There's almost no difference between some security personnel's and thugs on the streets, cause you could be shot for exercising your right ...

So it's seems insensitive to me that someone who doesn't have to go through all these would give such advice seeing that the circumstance of that country is no difference from that of the zoo ...

My advice to anyone reading this is simple...
If you have what it takes to leave this country and you want to do so, PLEASE LEAVE ASAP!

But do your research well before leaving...

The same reason why Nigerians In big cities aren't relocating to their villages when they face hardships.


The people that truly need to japa are not the ones that are japaing.

Samantha124:
Well, your brothers never want to hear the truth.

They will do anything to avoid hearing the bitter truth and unfortunately, I don't have the energy for them today.

🤣

Another thing I hate in Nigeria is that hideous burglary proof.

Samantha124:
I foresee SA vs Nigeria war coming... So no comment...

Lol🤣 but he's saying what you said, Nigerian men are dating the scraps SA men don't want.

It's true and it applies anywhere

Samantha124!!

They tell nigerian women that south African women are far better but they can't tell us what it is that makes them better aside the physical. It is mere lust.

Anybody that dates outside their community is at risk of dealing with a reject of that community.

bewla:
you probably have never gone out of your religion to seek knowledge


Pls don't fill insulted am only trying to say it the best way I can.
be honest with your self and open minded toward Islam aask question
Lean then you can now judge for your self
Not what people say

😴😴 Not tryna hear it.

Muslims are either terrorists or terrorist sympathisers.

There really isnt such a thing like a Liberal Muslim.

Muslims always claim that majority of them are peaceful. If that was the case, why aren't they able to overshadow and suffocate the efforts of the extremist minority?

Deborah Samuel's killers still walk free. If majority of "peaceful" Muslims don't secretly condone the killing, they should fish them out.

Fertility issues can ruin a marriage sha

The more homophobic Nigerians are, the more it will keeping coming back to bite them.
You don't have to love gay people, but just tolerate them.
Legalise gay marriages and let them go about their business.

Or the more you'll keep seeing straight men/women being deceived into a loveless and sexless marriage by homosexual people trying to hide their sexuality.

Reminderz:
When a man has become sexually disciplined, he becomes dangerous... manipulations will rarely work on him, traps will rarely bring him down... When this has manifested, the women in his life realises that he has indeed become powerful and they will have to do more and bring more to the table to impress him... and in other sense, since he's not controlled by his sex, he's a master of his own self... and that would be quite intimidating to them...

you emanate the aura of abundance mentality... women enjoy sex more than men, but men are more drawn towards the act because of how we are wired and programmed... until you've reprogrammed yourself, you'll forever be slave to your sexual desires... this is why, only weak men and simps are easily controlled and destroyed by sex or anything related with sex... men who see sex as nothing, will never be moved to fvck anything on skirt.... since the men are always used to being initiating the act, the women have manipulated this and make men do the unthinkable just to have sex with them... kudos to weak men and simps once again... once you become powerful in the game and build your value, you'll realise women will kill themselves for your attention and to have sex with you...

I was almost raped by the women I was with when I didn't want to have sex with them... in fact, they did all they could to make me want it, but I didn't fall... was I hørny and extremely hard? fvck yes! they could see it.. but I taught them a valuable lesson and my worth grew more in their eyes... you know the kind of situation when you're looking at a delicious meal right in front of you but can't have a taste of it? exactly!

Lol. Sarcasm.

Stupid story.

Samantha124:
You could be right because a male nairalander once asked me for the meaning of Samantha and after I explained the meaning to him, he told me that his wife is pregnant and he wanted to give the child the name if it happens to be a girl.

I then asked him how far was his wife with the pregnancy, he never did replied me again...😂😂😂... Now that I think about it, it's quite funny..😂😂😂

Their paranoid cracks me up aswell 😂😂😂

He probably thought you were a witch and prayed against you😂

Samantha124:
Same here in SA, they work until around 8 months, but they'd still go out even during the maternity leave.

Is it a cultural thing there in Nigeria or they're just ashamed of people seeing them pregnant?

I think it's more cultural-induced phobia/paranoia.

In Nigeria, its not even the norm to ask a woman when she due or if she's having a boy or girl.

They'll think you're out to get them.

Samantha124:
So they really do hide?😂😂😂

I thought the op was just trolling them.

Yes. From 6 months, they're having hairdressers over to do their hair.

Over here, pregnant women can work up until their due date.

But when the women do it in culturaloutfits, why does it suddenly become okay ?

I've noticed it's only Nigerian women that do that.

bewla:
Your opinion


We are not terrorist

We are Muslim

You may not be a terrorist, but terrorism isn't a deal breaker for you.

Myer:
1. The birth-pang of natural birth is symbolic.
It normally should change a woman forever. It's a NDE that should make one put life and legacy in perspective.
It's difficult not to care for such a child when you know the cost of delivering them.

2. Nigerians don't appreciate CS. In Nigeria CS is also a NDE as some doctors can easily botch the process carelessly. Of course there's the cost implications.
However where it is painless, some mothers don't get that sense of essence of child-birth that instils a sense of purpose, legacy and responsibility into a woman.

I hope this helps.

Moroń.

Looks like yoruba

Kobojunkie:
A possessive man out of bitterness killed his wife by shooting her several time in the bathroom, but OP'S advice is rather that women learn to forgive their husbands.

Why didn't he forgive his wife lol, why did he shoot her?

Your mum wants to build with a broke man, you should be proud that your mother is an understanding girlfriend.


Who did your dad will his house too?

Even a broke poor woman shouldn't be getting married.

Op is preaching irresponsibility.

ExudeLoveToAll:
Very wrong assertion, life doesn't work like this.

Meeting a food spouse has nothing to do with been good or bad. Life can happen wether you are good or not.

Yet men tell women all the time that if they're unmarried at 30+, it's their bad character that caused it.

RonuRonu:
It's not a big deal

My only problem with Nigerian so called beautiful ladies is that after doing shakara on Social media they end up sleeping with Ugly Men.

Na curse

She is the female version of him.

Prisco4luv:
We suffered the stigma also.. especially in church

You didn't have to tell your church people anything, you don't owe them that.

What Nigerians don't understand, they tend to criminalise and spiritualize. The amount of rational Nigerians are 10%.

Skyview01:
More than three. I am a guy and the likely effect i can think about is the scar, takes longer to heal than vaginal delivery.

My wife had good doctors though and for the last child, my wife mandated that I be in the room during surgery to witnesses everything.

The cons:

1. Cost consideration.
2. Scars take longer to heal.
3. Take a longer time to recover.

Pros;

1.Relatively safe.
2.Vagina is intact for the hubby after childbirth. No tear .
3. It is faster. Less than 30 minutes to complete the CS procedures.
4. Less pain as my wife was sedated and unconscious.

All in all, you must have good doctors and if you would consider CS, i would recommend not more than two times if possible.

It's a very straightforward procedure in the West. It takes less than 30 minutes.

caandi:
that’s black man mentality for you!

A quick one!

I had a patient who had pre-eclampsia during her pregnancy, she’s a primigravida.
She was advised to carry out a selective ceaseran to avoid further complications prior to delivery

Her hubby blantly refused !

What was his reason? He said In his village no one deliveres thru that means and his wife won’t be the first.

She went into labour and for 4days she was in pains and labour was not progressing at all, she was stuck at 2 cervix dilation…

Atlast she went into epileptic shock and upon insertion baby had passed the meconuim already which was a very bad sign

Now it became a need for emergency CS!
It was the hubby’s sister that signed the form to commence surgery saying God forbid the lady wouldn’t die!

The hubby was looking like a lost puppy and crying crocodile tears while his wife battled for her life!

That day was hot for all of us as all the hcp had to rally around this woman in the theatre to save her life.

Thank God she delivered and the baby was resuscitated and later transferred for further treatment

Guess what the hubby was doing while we were operating on the wife, he went and called all this church ministry people to come to start kabashing in the Hospital, thereby causing Comotion with their noise

Our Md had to beckon on the gateman to walk them out!

What was the hubby’s gain? He spent more money for ER CS with advanced treatment for the child at the expense of the woman’s life!


Hmmm our problem in Nigeria is pure illiteracy and ignorance!

The thing I don't understand with Nigeria is , why is it that the husband gets to circumvent the doctors orders and decisions

What about what the woman wants??

Does her opinion on her own body not matter?

I've read quite a few topics on Nigerian men trying to circumvent a doctors decisions on their wives choice of birth. A doctor will advice on CS. The husband will come out to insist on VD!!

Don't mind them. Nigerians have a phobia of surgery in general.