₦airaland Forum

Is she depressed or what? Why did she let herself go? This is what she used to look like

toxtimmy:
How many of those men that want to marry her are richer than her father and mother combined?.... so in other words her parents are beneath those men she is talking about.

Your mother is possibly fat and old.

If she was good enough for your father, an old fat woman should be good enough for you.

-Your logic.

Solsix:
Good luck waiting for wizkid to propose to u. However you look at it men can't be loved unless they have money. Oluwa bless guys

It's not about being rich. Be richer than the woman you're after.

mrvitalis:
You obviously don't have ambition so you won't notice the obstacles placed... The low ceiling faced by people

This is the same question people ask igbos

Colonial masters left Africa in a structure that is almost impossible to progress... We were set up to fight and kill ourselves ( there was a reason France insisted to be sole arms supplier to its colonies)

Restructure Europe like Africa and watch them kill themselves in 3 years

Every country progressing today is either structured along ethnic lines or settler nations where indigenous people have insignificant population

You can't have a country like Nigeria n work it's impossible

You're just making Africans look like idiots.

Dantedasz:
You have been dodging this section. You are needed here. Why have you stayed away??

Lol its been a bit dry... what do you need me for?🤣

Dantedasz:
This is usually the default mode of Christians to defend the bible.
This is a book that celebrates mass genocide, misogyny, rape,human sacrifice, stealing,slavery,kidnapping and other numerous atrocities, yet you will see Christians being dishonest and fraudulent when you point out these atrocities to them.

Long time

That verse has nothing to do with Africans. The events in the bible have nothing to do with Africans.


Braids are very suitable for African hair.

Would you even approach a fat unattractive dark-skinned woman?

You can also assist her to lose weight, but no you'll jump and pass. You'll go for the woman that catches your attention.

This is hypocrisy.

Houseofglam7:
They think it’s covered in ice
🤷🏽‍♀️

It is !!

Please let them not go and ruin that place. Iceland is like a dream world. Top holiday destination.

muykem:
I disagree with you. She said Nigeria men are generous, that's a compliment. Do you want stingy people around you?

I thought you are supposed to be red pillers and fixated on building your life.

I thought men don't want to be seen as tools. How is it now that Kenyan women are complementing you for spending big?

Evolutionlove:
MuMuu.

I don't get Ladies with Money.

Only Fools Lowlives like you does such Stupid things.

This is just one of my Girlfriends though.

Even after offering to buy her things, she still ignored you. Classic nairaland male braggard

The blue ticks show the chat is from your end and it's you that got ignored.

Where are the recent chats of her bugging you up till now as you stated?

LasgidiOnline:
The streets are not constructed so how can we keep them tidy?

Contribute money and do it yourselves. No leader is coming to save your life.

Luckysbab:
The man allegedly took her in as ‘wife’. Or was she also ‘raped’ to have the two additional children at 22?

If it were reported to be a Northern man, the nature of comments here would have been different.

A child under the age of 18 cannot consent.

lexy2014:
Nonesense story. Who threw this boy away when he was a baby?

They now want to use rape to cover up this matter. Wetin concern rape concern throwing a baby away after accusing him of being a witch?

Exactly. As soon as a woman has a baby, her protective mothering instincts usually kick in. Minor or not.

She took the boy to one pastor and they called the boy a witch and she ran with it.

She is the true witch and she doesn't deserve to be reunited with that boy.

Reinaldo:
And you don't think poverty and poor education are the causes of that? In a country where systems work, that will not happen. Let's call a spade a spade abeg

So you need to be rich before you know that littering is wrong? 😂

oweniwe:
Why the emphasis on churches only? Is Christianity the only religion in Nigeria? The church is not responsible for the state of bad roads in the country. Churches build roads too. Just that there isn't much publicity about it.

Winners Chapel has offered to fix the entire length of the Sango Ota roads. The govt refused.

Who is responsible for building & fixing roads in Nigeria? It's the government

It's a matter of "Responsibility".

Is it right for a neighbor who is struggling to make ends meet to be feeding the children of rich next door neighbors whose parents are squandering their income on prostitutes, fancy laces and jeweleries and clubbing while their children are starving at home? It's not right. The most you as a good neighbor is to give the kids what you can afford once in a while. Let the parents wake up to their responsibility

So to say individuals and religious organizations should be building roads is very wrong in the first place. PEOPLE ARE PAYING TAXES & LEVIES FOR A REASON.

Do the governments abroad that built build beautiful roads & streets have two heads? Let the Nigerian governments sit up to their responsibility

The government has already shown you multiple times that they don't care about you. They have left Nigerians to their devices.

Calling on the government, just seems like a cop out.

If Nigerians can regularly buy aso ebi, the recent phones, monthly tithes. They can pool their income together with their community and sort out bad lighting, bad roads.

There is no community spirit and everybody is out for themselves.

As I said before, what people spend on and prioritise shows the kind of person they are.

Nigerians as a collective will rather chase a fantasy than deal with reality on ground. It's their form of escapism.

Nigeria produces the richest pastors in the world, but the general populace is poor.

How is this happening?

No society can ever be successful without the basic institutions in order.

It's not like you see in the movies. Painkillers will make the process easier.

Love800:
Pls which are the carribean countries?
Which continent are they located too.

The Caribbean is a region on its own. Just under North America.

oweniwe:
But about religion.

People do it for their compounds. The people that have money sometimes do it for their street too. There's a man on my side, HRM Friday Abaja who interlocked every single road in his community (umukwata).

Even in my community, someone bought nddc to tar up a large chunks of the internal roads.

So people can do it. People that give to religious institutions have their reasons. You can't tell them how to spend their money

If they don't want to be told how to spend their money, they shouldn't complain about the conditions based on their money choices.


What people spend their money on says alot about who they are. The only good looking institutions Nigeria can boast about are lavish churches. That indicates what Nigerians prioritise: greed, fantasies and delusions.

Megaflex:
Did you read the write up at all? Read it again then quote me

And did. Did you?

Dshocker:
But eyes were plucked out 🙄

The write up said her eyes were not mutilated and in the pic, her eyes look intact

livebullet:
These things are very rampart now because of the soft walking porns we have as girls everywhere....it's not easy for men nowadays. Everywhere you look , you see a half naked girl who has the assumption she is well dressed on body revealing clothes...

The victim may not have being the cause, but she possibly was just a soft target for the many fantasies baba had in his head.

Pls girls make una help society....

Does that explain why Nigerian men are fond of raping their underage daughters?

ovcwality:
op you have a very low IQ, even if they give you Nigeria to govern for 100 years it will not change, because you don't have any solutions. And stop lieing, African countries with a good GDP per Capita have good roads, I followed an Indian they were amazed how the roads were nice, is only when they start reaching Cameroun to western Africa that the roads become horrible again. And all the Caribbean countries with good GDP are neat because the depend on tourism. I have never been there but I have seen some on YouTube, either you have a very low IQ or something must be wrong with your brain

Only the tourist areas in some Caribbean countries are neat.

In Jamaica, they advise tourists never to leave the hotel resorts. African countries are alot safer than Caribbean ones.

Ibrahimlagosian:
;DImagine,Black people criticising themselves for being black.Nawa

If it wasn't for white people criticising each other, slavery wouldn't have ended.

We should be allowed to criticise other all we want.

juman:
Jagaban is the answer.

No politician will save your life.

Raydos:
It does not have to be super expensive, Just a well paved roads with sidewalk and an underground drainage system, And this folks make it seem like it is a rocket science!!

China are building a whole city in just a year

And we are here can't even build a modern city after over 71 year of independence, And you want me to believe we have high IQ?

Having IQ is your ability to solve problems, Which we failed at it woefully!!

Below is a village in The U.S, what is hard in achieving this??

The culture also has to change. You can't have a street like this if you want to throw trash every where.

Reflect7:
ILLITERATE OF AFRICAN HISTORY.

NAME ME ONE AFRICAN HISTORY BOOK YOU HAVE READ IN YOUR ENTIRE LIFE.

JUST ONE!

Stupid school dropouts coming here to type about an African history they know ABSOLUTELY NOTHING about.

just ZIP your lips about AFRICAN HISTORY, because you know NOTHING.

You haven't the slightest clue how many black African cities filled with MULTI-STOREYED BUILDINGS AND MONUMENTS, including our own Benin city, were bombed and burnt down by the colonialists across Africa, to erase evidence of African civilization.

YOU HAVE ZERO CLUE ABOUT ANY OF THIS.

So how the hell do you know ''how Africa was'' when the Europeans came here?

You have NO CLUE how Africa was, so SHUT UP!

Why don't YOU shut up? Who do you think you are?

You're just proving the Op's point. They were able to do all those things you alleged because they were able to outsmart you and were more advanced.

If Africans had the capacity, why haven't they replaced those buildings and monuments since 1960?
Singapore was able to build up their country in the same time period.

The black race is the oldest race on the planet and has had a 200,000 year head start. But somehow, you're the babies of this world.

oweniwe:
For environment to be dirty like that is normal in Nigeria. That's the mentality. People don't see anything wrong with it.

Secondly No money. The authorities that are supposed to do it are not doing their job. Is it the common citizens that are struggling to make ends meet daily that should be doing their job for them?

To put fine environment like that in place requires a lot of money.

Individuals are looking for how to get and pay bills.... Govt officials/civil servants are more concerned about securing their future before they live office.

So it's very a difficult challenge to overcome without dedicated willpower and funding

Lots of money that Nigerians will rather use to invest in a church rather than their community.

Raydos:
This is what New York look like in the 1870s

And it's pretty sad that most Nigeria street don't look as organized as this even after 153 years apart!

I've said this before that the colonisers didn't set Africans back and whatever they took was just a bonus.
Because Europe was already far developed than the people they met in Africa.

Even Ancient Rome was far ahead compared to Nigeria.

Poor thing.