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Isn't her dad a father?

Gerrard59:
I am of the opinion that Nigerians in the diaposra who pontificate that Nigerians in Nigeria should not relocate should move back to Nigeria. And when they do, they should let go of their developed countries' citizenships and residency statuses. It is practicing what they preach.

No to hypocrisy.



Nigeria is pretty governable, and the economy is Africa's biggest. Haiti is a wasteland, poor, totally ungovernable and completely lawless. It is a magnified sh!thole! It is better to reside in Borno than in Haiti. Tensa20 has given OP options. She should do the needful.

Dooes that include Nigerians that were born in the UK, because you know we exist right?

You guys don't get it. If someone moves to a new country and struggles, it's not so easy to just move back. Look at Lagos state, alot of people aren't indigenous and they struggle. Do they conceive moving back? Who tells them to go back to their state of origin?
It is poor vulnerable Nigerians that truly need to relocate. The present stock are simply greedy and copyiing others. Phrankleen is trying to tell Nigerians as it is, back in the day Nigerians used to tell rosy stories about the West and lie about their achievements. Now people are telling them as it is and they're accusing them of holding them back and trying to stop their progress. Why are Nigerians so hard headed with a pack mentality?

It is sickening how ignorant Nigerians think moving to the West alone automatically guarantees their success or means they've made it in life. I'm not anti-japa, I support Doctors & nurses going to the West, these are people that are guaranteed to become somebody.


OK how about Jamaica?

lilvicky68:
A lazy man can be wealthy.. wealth must not come from hardwork.

An inheritance can make a lazy man wealthy

And he looses all that wealth in the next generation. For you to amass wealth, you need to have a high financial IQ.

They're about to call you a pick me.

The problem isn't that BW wear wigs/weaves, the issue is that the hair usually preferred isn't our natural textures. Bw wouldn't be mocked and it wouldnt be so controversial if they wear wigs that matched their natural hair.

Wear hair that look like you could have grown it. No lavish colours or ridiculous lengths.

BW could actually be the best looking race of women if only we become at peace with how we naturally look like. Our beauty is unique.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Look at this clown and his dirty room.

What's wrong with being picky as long as their criteria are not far-fetched and lofty? So, people should just settle for about anything because age is catching up on them (which I think exists just in the head)?

What's with the recent agenda of trying to cower women into settling? These dusty boys and their never-ending dirty jokes won't take a rest.

It's his ugliness for me😂

But his last point is true. People tend to "find the Lord" in their later years and it just reeks of hypocrisy.

When did she have a daughter?

So under which household will the child be under?

Gerrard59:
Fantastic! Finally, he gets to practice what he has been preaching for donkey months. Even though he holds unto his British passport, it is a wonderful first step in the right direction.



Every sane Haitian should strive to flee the country na. Is that question really necessary?

Lol. Why wouldn't he hold onto his British passport?

Exactly. Haiti is a poor country like Nigeria, so what's the OP's point?

torqque7:
Your reasoning is flawed..what do you mean by that?so because some black women in America tattoo a lot of crap on their skin then it is ok to do so?or it makes it right or ok?

You think because something is done in America then we in Nigeria or other parts of the world must follow suit?what a joke.

Do you also understand that many women in America are wayward and don’t have family values hence the high rate of divorce,baby mamas and moral decadence? Do you know that these actions have negative effects on the family and the children?do you know that majority of disturbed people are from broken homes and trained by single parents? So because American women don’t believe in a family unit and live their lives anyhow then we need to travel and learn from them and live our lives like them? Lol smh Look traveling overseas has absolutely NOTHING to do with common sense and morality.

She looks very Nigerian.

If this woman had been white, the comments here would have been very different

Nobody would say "marine kingdom", mami wata, "serpentine spirit"

CuriousStudent:
It is wickedness that shortens their life span not sucking up or endurance. If it's endurance,it is women that endure and suck up ( for fear that her complain will be nagging)
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I know you are atheist but in the bible it is stated that he who lives by sword dies by sword. The violent nature of men displays in the tragic deaths they endure.

Plus poor health choices. Smoking,drinking,sexual enhancers,any little change they get they head to the peppersoup joint and eat.
Poor hygiene and savage habits . If you notice those that complain of abominable health conditions like scabies,pimples on their private parts,Kellogg's,razor bumps and the rest (of which in the past they will have being isolated or gone quarantine) are men.


This causes their deaths

Loool..not sure about wickedness but I agree with your last points. Hygiene and health definately. They just don't pay attention to details like women. They're child-like in those areas

They should blame toxic masculinity that tells them its beta and weak to show vulnerabilities.

Look at how they complain that male victims of rape don't speak out...why are they not speaking out?

Ed12:
Through the history of mankind, man has been the saddle with the responsibility of providing for his family. If he fails at it.. he is not responsible..

Men are also very accountable

The thing in Africa is that they'll have more kids than they can afford. Why won't they fail?

KingAzubuike:
Fathers are trying please . If you think I'm lying , check around, more than 60% of nigerian homes don't have a father anymore. They are all late. I personally don't have one too. It's not easy.

Lol.

Men don't live long is because they suck up whatever issues instead of being open about it.
Women don't do this. But for men, it's seen as weak and beta to show any vulnerabilities.

The life expectancy for men is the same around the world.

BlessedEnoche:
Sister can we stay on the topic, its about me coming to Nigeria and want to know why no nigerians want to go back home or their experiences, just for me to learn from them, thats all.

I dont know any Nigerian that want to relocate,when i ask them they are asking me if am crazy etc. As if Nigeria has war.

I know some Dutch expacts that lives there but they are expacts working for Shell or Heineken and they only talk good about Nigeria but my inlaws are talking bad.

People are travelling from ages to any part of the world, i want to show my kids the African lifestyle.

You want me to stay on topic but you want to be deceptive about your identity?

Why do caribbeans especially Haitians and Jamaicans want to escape the Caribbean?

Gerrard59:
I really hope he is cashing out, though. If not, na waste of time and the mumu subscribers. One wonders why has he not returned ever since? You see people who continuously say one thing and never do it. Ndi do as I say, not as I do. They never get to practice what they preach.

Phrankleen lives in Nigeria!

BlessedEnoche:
Am a proudly Black queen and even wish to be Nigerian by birth, my next life i want to be a Nigerian 😀

So why didn't you say you were Dutch caribbean to begin with? Begging it!

And where are you right now

BlessedEnoche:
Am from the island of Aruba, The Dutch Caribbean.
You are asking about my skin color?

Yes!

JeffreyJunior:
Story is about foreigner, a Dutch in particular but writeup smells Nigerian, the one that lives likely in Ogbomosho, not even Lagos or Abuja.

It's just like the case of "voice of Jacob but hand of Esau".

I'm fed up with fake stories here.

"Blessed Enoch"
😂

BlessedEnoche:
Dutch Caribbean sir, Aruba - google it.

What race are you? Because Caribbeans come in all races.

BlessedEnoche:
Nope sir, to travel is good.
Infact travel because its good for your experience.
Am not discouraging anybody.
We are working online for the past 14 yrs so we did not made our money "abroad" and we are still working, we are still very young.
But its about the mindset, taking risk and apart from that i like to take adventure.
There are millions of people now working online from different countries

Indians, Bangladesh etc are working online, there are alot of jobs you can do online without blaming the government, you only need a good internet connection.

I know my inlaws, nigerians are very intelligent, creative, hustlers, educated and hard working people, but its just the mindset to think that everything western is good if we continue to think like this, the westerner will never respect us and will continue to feel superior over us.

A westerner will not go to Africa/Caribbean for a "better life" (he will not come for benefits) , but he will come to invest or to do business.

I would love to see my inlaws go back home after sometime and stop looking down on Nigeria

Aren't you Dutch?

[quote author=BlessedEnoche post=123886158][/quote]I guess my family just decided it was time to go back

Because within that time the kids can be done with either secondary or Primary school and that enough time to get an immersive experience

Worriedwife:
He used harsh words on elderly people, rather than caution him without mincing words, you are joking around it. Alot of you are so badly behaved and raised

Is Buhari and Tinubu not elderly 🥴

jmoore:
Stop feeding atheists on this site. Their mission is distraction. Ignore!

Lol. It ain't atheist you have to worry about.

The biggest threat to a religious person is another religious person.

McStoic:
Say it again without crying 😅😅😅. . Who cares about the point of a grade A bluestocking. After removing the braces, try getting a psychologist to handle your inferiority complex. JJC.. Taaa...

You're just a dunce. I'll desist going back and forth with you to avoid hurting my brain.

Please don't breed and reproduce yourself either, public service!

Do it.

I relocated to Nigeria with my family and lived for 6 years. Did most of my primary Education. It helped me know my culture.

Be warned that your kids may not like Nigeria overall, but schools and extra-curricular activities will keep them going.

Give them a soft landing in Nigeria, put them in the best neighbourhoods, best schools, best leisure centres you can get.

4-5 years tops and then move back. Even the kids too will want to go back.

Don't move to any village to get the full "african experience"

McStoic:
Go and finish correcting your nonsense dentition first if that will boost your self image. I understand the environment you newly found yourself is giving you inferiority complex 😄😄
You are a silly little bluestocking. But don't worry, age will take care of that...

The environment that I newly found myself? What an idiot you are. And you just helped me prove my point without even trying.

You have egg on your face and you're trying to face with this weak punch. But you already revealed your unsophistication.

Damn oaf.

Epinigirls:
I love your braces 😍
They give me goosebumps

Lol cheers 🤩

Sleepy Joe😂

This will only work if you're rich yourself.

nappy760:
Una just dey prolong this matter...somebody drop the zoom link so external invigilators can act as witnesses biko.

The chat don too dey long

Lordreed, leftalone this is the best solution ☝🏾

Drop a link and let there be witnessss, I'm down

Those are not the same girls

Anny69:
Hi, how many years have you been using your braces?

Hi, it's been over 2 years...

Gppgn:
like seriously.. why would any lady put her picture here if not for attention.

I remember when nairaland men used to say women w/o any profile pic were ugly.

Anyway..you're just a troll, you've only been here for 2 months and you're already rocking the boat.

What's your old moniker?