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IPDGP:
Let the ladies defend themselves

Is this topic directed at ladies or nigerian men?

Kobojunkie:
But none of that states that I am not married. Instead, It indicates that I am not close-minded enough to believe that even a 4-year-old does not have wisdom as far as relationships which marriage is after all.

Anyways, you are free to believe as you choose.

Are you married or not?

Newnas:
Because he isn't popular or loud?
You must be joking!

His haydays had passed.

Who threw who out of whose house?

Aarenasbaba:
My brother who is a lawyer would say there is no crime abusing anybody including police unless you bully them. He stressed that you should not beat anybody because they abuse you rather use d same energy to abuse the person back

In the shithole that's the case

Kobojunkie:
1. How do you know this for a fact abeg?

Kobojunkie:
First and foremost, marriage isn't rocket science, so this myth that only the married understand is foolish thinking.

Second, none of what you described in your op is unique to married folks. Even children in kindergarten with friends can relate.

Did you get married in-between the time you made this post till now?

completeskills:
You are right...plain reversed psychology

Reverse psychology, thank you!

Do the opposite of what is expected of you.

That's what I've been trying to explain, but I've been insulted left and right.

Newnas:
According to you, money is the factor that makes marriage thrive.

If it's true, then folks like Jenifa shouldn't have broken marriages because money isn't their problem.

Your comment only shows you're wallowing in abject poverty. Your poverty is not only physical again but it's already mental and psychological. People like you will do absolutely anything for money. People like you will neglect family, values and friendship for money. Money is the deity you worship.

You need reorientation.

Jenifa had money. Her husband did not.

Kobojunkie:
You tell me what you mean by thriving first then I can decide whether my case meets the criteria or not.

You're not even married abeg keep quiet.
Noise maker!

Zeal0000007:
thanks dear for your encouragement, I'm a sailor currently chasing my license hoping to get it before the year runs out, the license program is a six months course we started January to finish by July and least any company can pay as soon as u get the license is 500k upward, it's as not really being easy coping cos currently u need to be in class without working, I have not.been working.

She at the other end is a 18yrs gal, but thinks and behave like a 30yrs old woman very mature , humble and homy knowing what to do at all time, she has really been a piece of mind to me, I really suffer in my previous relationship.

Also for career , she has been learning chemist before she had misunderstanding with the woman she was staying with so had to relocate to my area where I met her at the market, so I have made an arrangements with a family friend so she could go over there and continue building herself in chemist , as soon as I'm balanced I intend setting up somewhere for her (chemist), that will be after our marriage.

Don't listen to all these religious hypocrites. You're bold and brave.

Aside termination. There is pre implantation genetic diagnosis. Almost like ivf. The fetuses that don't have ss will be selected and implanted back into your fiancé's uterus.

Can you commit to it though?

As couples can still have kids together

An educated hausa accent

Silentgroper:
Right...


"We" lol .. are you pretty faced too?? 😌😌😌


Nahhhhhhhh, I doubt that ....

Pretty girls are never mocked for their looks, so I don't know what you talking about miss🙄🙄🙄 ...


They are rathered body shamed due to their body structure..

Physique-shamed should I say.

Favor99:
What we need is unity. When Oyinbo and other races poo on Nigerians, often times some Nigerians will be defending the other race.

The disrespect and injustice from Black Americans is so glaring for all to see. How can you be defending them against your own comrades even when they’re clearly in the wrong?

Other races even when their comrades are clearly wrong, will still defend them. Us even when we are right, our own won’t defend us. It’s why Chinese and Indians mistreat us in Nigeria, because they can get away with it and our people don’t care about our own justice

Both groups are in the wrong. No dey form victim.

Favor99:
Both groups are guilty, but one side(their side) is much worse.

Africans are not the first group to trade slaves. Slavery and the trading of slaves has been going on since the beginning of human history.

Africans didn’t know how brutal slavery was like in America, as it was like no other type of slavery.

Plus slave trade doesn’t give an excuse to persecute another group 500 years later. Because they always give excuses and lies why the persecute Nigerians. Their favorite one is “it’s the white man.” It’s always the white man’s fault.

Both groups are guilty of looking down on each other

I'm not talking about other kinds of slavery, I'm talking about chatell slavery that is relevant to AAs.

If you want to give excuses, will you allow white people to give theirs too?

If Nigerian men had a vagina they would be smelling just like the women they complain about. There's no health& fitness culture in Nigeria and that's why some women smell down below. People don't keep up with their health
Doctors have come out to complain that Nigerians would rather go to prayer houses, herbalists, babalawos when they have a problem. When the health problem grows they use doctors as their last resort.

Most Nigerians shower at least once a day.
A smelly vagina is often due to a condition and not poor hygiene.

BV, yeast infections and STDs cause odours. A normal vagina should smell neutral, not bad or perfumed either, somewhere in the middle.

Women, have all the sex you want but always use condoms. Semen throws off pH balance.

Favor99:
They have a lot of AA hate groups towards Africans/Nigerians similar to whites having hate groups towards blacks, but even worse and more brazen. Social Media and internet is filled with their xenophobia towards Africans/Nigerians. Look up the term African booty scratcher.

Oh you mean the usual beef between both groups? The beef goes both ways abeg
Both groups are guilty.

Remember that Africans are the reason AAs exist.

Silentgroper:
Instinct!!! ..


Most extremely pretty faced lots like yours usually have it flat back there and on the chest too ...

Women that look that, the late bloomers are called forever young.
We end up having the last laugh. We were mocked for our looks but we end up still looking 19 at 40

Favor99:
Ok, noted, makes sense. What of Black Americans, because their xenophobia is even worse.

Xenophobia in AAs? I haven't noticed. No be them own Amelica.

KarinaSlim:
Their accent sounds American.

Nigerians can be American too

headbasher96:
We go soon reach where guy go carry gun the waka the rape him fellow guys GOD u have been guiding my ass.hole pls continue to do so for me anybody that is interested in my ass holy ghost fire

Imagine how tired we are.

This is how hetereosexual women feel about men

Favor99:
Ok, I didn’t know that. What’s the correlation?

The bantu expansion.

Before any SAn calls Nigerians coons, remind them how they treated the khoisan people.

Silentgroper:
Marrying them or not isn't important here ..


All that matters is the sexual attraction.. as long as they're attracted to a big booty African, then it's finished..



White folks of back then are different from the ones from this age ..

Its seems you want to be adamant.

Even pornhub has released stats showing that ppl in Africa mainly view big behind while men in Europe view front.

Favor99:
Do you know how many whites and other races rip each other off. They dupe each other too. This self-hate I see here on Nairaland is disgusting. That’s why South Africans call you guys coons. After all she did refund him the money despite the initial wahala.

Do you know that everybody in South africa is an immigrant?

Silentgroper:
Yet they always want to fvck a big booty African woman ...


Lady, is all bullshiit...

That's different to marrying them.

Sara Bartman was such a spectacle to them because they they felt big buttocks were unusual.
They come label am medical condition stearopygia.

MyAmericandream:
Caucasian and Asian men. They say ladies with those kinda frames are out of proportion . It’s only black and Latino men that fancy backyard.

True. When they look at women, they look at how big their chest is. Whereas black men prefer to look behind.

Silentgroper:
that's some bullshiit...

Have you seen the women that they make supermodels? Do they have big nyash?

sukkot:
naija crackhead done run the guy street lol. happy new month Sharon

Same to you sir Sukkot

I just love the comedic and insightful perspective you bring to threads

Not anymore. They're all liars

sukkot:
You sef wetin you dey find for Newark ? That place is hell in earth . I have being there before. Full of crackheads and gangbangers. That landlady sounds like a crack head. That's her scam. She has no daughter. She wan use your 100 dollars to smoke rocks

You!! 🤣

dru23:
From experince when you do that . they will say you are rude and disrespectful etc .. Me I no send them all. And to top it off I avoid the yoruba elders. I can speak it very well , but na English I dey speak to them. But once you start speaking that Yoruba language omo forget o , they go wan use that to ride you .......i don't tell them which tribe I belong to

The disrespect is just a strawman that they love to use.