₦airaland Forum

bunsuq:
Does female circumcision really reduce sexual urge in them? I don't think so.
The woman should have disengaged from the man after the first experience with her first girl child.
An educated man who is saying his wife's opinion does not count? All shades of wrong in the relationship.

I'm about to open a thread on how women who underwent FGM truly feel..

This thread was defo an eye opener.

There was me thinking it's women pushing other women to get FGM. But here we have men championing the act.

immortal2:
Someone mentioned that circumcised women require CS to have their children. This is not true.

I never said anything about CS.

Surgery on the vagina itself to PROVIDE an opening, for a baby. You buffoon.

I'm still waiting for an answer, what do you mean by excess of the clitoris?

Come and tell me again how fgm is beneficial? https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/female-genital-mutilation-fgm/#:~:text=Female%20genital%20mutilation%20(FGM)%20is,megrez%20and%20khitan%2C%20among%20others.

Just make sure you can afford them.

immortal2:
It is only the excess of the clitoris that is removed. The women who are circumcised still enjoys se.x. The dont even need surgery to have a baby.

I am probably more educated than you are.

What do you mean by the excess of the clitoris??

It's like a crutch. People are addicted to their handsets.

ThinkinFaculty:
It's gibberish to you since you don't understand. That doesn't mean God doesn't. It's the same way when you hear a German speak and you don't understand German(language) all you hear will be gibberish.

Explain the meaning of what you say in tongues.

Opeyemiextra:
Exactly how do you know it's gibberish? I Tongues is the language of the spirit and it helps us pray according to the will of the father.

What is the meaning of what you're saying?

immortal2:
Female circumcision.
Why did the ancients practice it? They simply want to curtail the sensitivity of the female organs to stimuli
Was it harmful? Depends, the people have practiced as far as time can tell
What suddenly change? UN criminalizes, even calling it a universal right

My observation
Women who not circumcise are easily aroused. Their clothes can trigger them, especially trousers or tight clothes. Some have been known to relieve themselves by just rubbing their laps together till they get what they want.

The guys who designed this policy were simply following a script prepared by Alice bailey in her various writings. They only expanded it by attacking what has been practiced for thousands of years to curtail the sensitivity of the c.lito.ris.

 take god and prayer out of the education system -
 reduce parental authority over the children
 destroy the judeo-christian family structure or the traditional christian family structure
 if sex is free, then make abortion legal and make it easy
 make divorce easy and legal, free people from the concept of marriage for life
 make homosexuality an alternative lifestyle
 debase art, make it run mad
 use media to promote and change mindsets
 create an interfaith movement
 get governments to make all these law and get the church to endorse these changes

This is the way I see the matter, you can argue with your brain washed Alice Bailey and the UN Lucis trust.

How would you like to marry a woman that has no feelings whatever during sex and needs to undergo surgery just to have your baby?
Illiterate.

Fantazy:
Wether it's tradition or not, That woman is just too stubborn. Since it's not a taboo, why not succumb to your husbands order/opinion?
At least she went through it and nothing happened to her!
She might have a point by not wanting the child to go through what she went through, but for peace sake, why not give ur husbands opinion a chance!
Most women are the architect of their pain in marriages. Very stubborn beings!

Why can't he succumb to her opinion?

Or does only his opinion matter?

Would you like to marry a woman that has no sexual urge towards you or does ONLY your sexual urge matter ?

Illiterate.

nobilie:
The little girl is the doctor's daughter. The tradition is his. The decition is his. I wander how persons who may not have gone pass secondary school level call the dovtor names. The way and manner little girls go after sex this days is alarming. Dont forget we have diff experience in life. A female friend of mind who had three boys told me if she had a girl child, she would circumcise the child going by her experience at the university.
I know there are better ways to carry this female circumcision out. Some will massage the clit of the baby girl for days.
Do you know that there are families where the female clit grows so long and becomes uncomfortable for the female adult (like a penis)?
Those females are 24hrs honey.
Just think about it

Please don't breed.

od501:
All of you shouting education this education that. The dude is a licenced doctor, and baby in question is his. He can't do anything to hurt the child in question. What you all should be asking is, what are the advantages of female circumstition?

Cos the lady I checked, they circumcise the male too. So...what's the hype?

A doctor that passed through school. School didn't pass through him.

Female circumcision is FGM!

Drsmartphilips:
Aiming a dig at Islam and Muslims won't increase your adherents,we all know that Christiandom is where all the vices of the world thrive,from drug trafficking to prostitution,arms proliferation, homosexuality, bestiality if Christianity is not checked the world would be worse off, a religion where adherents don't think like humans

They're not happy in Gaza.
They're not happy in Egypt.
They're not happy in Libya.
They're not happy in Morocco.
They're not happy in Iran.
They're not happy in Iraq.
They're not happy in Yemen.
They're not happy in Afghanistan.
They're not happy in Pakistan.
They're not happy in Syria.
They're not happy in Lebanon.

And where are they happy?

They're happy in England.
They're happy in France.
They're happy in Italy.
They're happy in Germany.
They're happy in Sweden.
They're happy in the USA.
They're happy in Norway.
They're happy in ISRAEL.
They're happy in every country that is not Muslim.

And who do they blame? Not Islam. Not their leadership. Not themselves.

They blame the countries that they ARE happy in!

This would be funny if it were not true.

Samishiba:
Have sex is not the problem. Many people have sex and not became pregnant. The problem is the ausence of birth control. African countries don't have family planning and not offer free contraceptives. In my country the public health offer free contraceptives for women condoms and pills.
I don't understand why African countries can't. Many third world countries offer contraceptives why do African countries do not?

There are free condoms in Nigeria lol, they just don't use them

God1000:
easy dear, I created this thread for fun

I'm quoting her! Lol

And this is the person that said she's married.

Sounding like any woke feminist.

Keep on exposing yourself.

SporaD8:
Presenter: we heard your husband is running for the 2015 election...
Mama Peace: "Na who dey pursue am?!!"

"he could have marry your mother if your mother is educated"

Shithole counties reproducing themselves


We need a higher birth rate for more innovative people.

Tmberwolf1:
We don't keep fu*king records in this sh!t hole. But divorce rates aren't prevalent in this country... Besides the woman that asked that question was American, and I'm basically using her stats for her.

Mrbrownjay is a man lol

Tmberwolf1:
As much as you think you made sense, you almost did. Marriages don't last today because
MEN don't choose who they want to spend the rest of their lives with more carefully.
WOMEN don't have realistic expectations of marriage. Some if not most, marry because of money and financial stability and not checking for other things that would be useful in marriage.
Oh and by the way, 80 - 70% of divorces are initiated by women.

Is that the case for Nigeria aswell? Talk what you know abeg.

Foodqueen:
Put a towel round your boobs and holding it slightly with your hand as if it wants to fall off.

Huh

The mother doesn't even sound like she's grieving. She sounds pissed off.


Nigerians parents can be assholes with the victim blaming.

They're just hypocrites. You date someone for years and realise you aren't compatable?


Bs excuse

Nigerian movies have brainwashed alot of Nigerians.

Pimine:
Aswearugaaad

I deduced all that from the few details we were given. And it would be pretty weird for ordinary boyfriend without any future plans for her to suggest that, no?

This is why in my earlier advice to her, I told her that if she's sure the nicca wants to marry her and he makes enough money to take care of her and the new family they're gonna make together, she should scrap that school idea.

Exactly. Your fellow men can be weird sometimes, just deal with it. Don't make excuses for him.


If he was her fiance, she would have said fiance.

By design

JESHAL:
If she can't train herself to respect her boyfriend ultimatum how can she now respect her husband own, building wifely traits starts from somewhere, hopefully he's a serious boyfriend she committed to that's my only objection in the issue

He isn't a serious boyfriend. If he was, she would have said so. If he was a fiance, she would have said fiance.


Hes not her fiance or husband, why is he giving such an ultimatum?

@siofra,
Yet it was Nigerians like yourself that swallowed his stories, hook, line and sinker and were ever ready to be his useful idiot.


The two Americans with private access to the case were the ONLY people there who knew what they were talking about, yet they were shut down by you all.
Imagine thinking you know better than the people around the convicted man who had private access to the case and actually understood legal terminology?


Nigerians are idiots and easily fooled. If Nigerians had their way, that rapist would be a free man. All based on emotions, God, Jesus and no logic.

The 69 IQ is REAL.

Cc: chatinent

JESHAL:
It's not shaming but prudence
She has too pick between motherhood and career
She has too prove her love by making the right call

Is he her husband ?? Did he propose to her?

Why is a mere boyfriend telling her to make such a decision?

As I said. If he was her husband or fiance telling her to choose, I'd understand.

Pimine:
Aswearugaaad

How are you sure, girlie? Did you place the better suitor at a specific bus stop in the future?

These guys had plans - they agreed to get married but the girl obviously wants the nicca to wait for her to go and do masters abroad.
Abeg who MSc epp? She found love but wants to play betnaija with future better suitor

Where did you read that he's about to get married to her?
The guy was a mere boyfriend not a suitor or husband.

If he was either, I would understand why he wouldn't her to go.

But a boyfriend saying that is just jealousy.

He just wanted to keep her stuck. He's not her husband or fiance to tell her to make such a call.