₦airaland Forum

Munzy14:
A man is always searching for love and peace of mind...

Give him love and frustrate peace of mind, he will leave...(toxic wife)

Give him peace of mind, and hold love, he will hang around.( This is what side chics hold)

Give him love and peace of mind, he will forever cherish and go all out for you.(The wife he found and obtain favour from the Lord)..

So you're saying side chicks are now wife material?

I'm pretty sure the "Lord" condemns adultery.
Hypocrite.

Bola146:
Jesus!!! No need to look back on the children Do you know what they will be in future? It is well

He didn't even say the children he said HER children. He has already written the kids off.

Myhusband:
most time is not ordinary, these ladies go diabolical sometimes



sha pray not to meet complete mad chic

Oh and how do you think those women get to use juju on the men in the first place?

MALIGNANTGuest:
He didn't abandon them.
He possibly escaped PREMATURE DEATH.
The kids will understand in future.

Right. And if a woman left her husband, would you make excuses for her?

Geeman2006:
Are you his reality TV that you follow him everywhere & know where he is 24/7!
Or do you follow him to the bank or know if he has an arrangement with friends or family when he transfers money abroad!

Does anyone actually know! Have you heard his side of the story!

Can you just use your sense? If he lives abroad how can he spend quality time with kids?

Money doesn't replace the quality time a father needs to spend with his kids!

If a woman left her husband, would you care about her side or judge her instantly?

MiracleMe7:
Don't you know that most of these desperate ladies use kayamata on men? Or do you think this man married mercy with his clear eye for abandoning his wife and kids?
Pray such a thing never happened to you or your loved ones.
I can feel the original wife pain

And how do you think she obtained access to use kayamata in the first place?

Abudu2000:
as a divorced man myself i will do the same. Not that I understand what transpired bw them but from experience women of today wants to eat their cake and have it. I will not be trapped with kids to start struggling above myself just so your kids will become better for you after you keep poisoning their mind against me. We men want nothing but peace and if the second wife gives us that then no need looking back. That's how i see it.

Bunch of hypocrites in this thread. If a woman left her husband will you be making these excuses for her?

If you're not an absentee father, why will your kids be poisoned against you?

Geeman2006:
Nigerians don't like minding their business. Aproko and sons all the time. How TF does she know the man is not being there for his other children. Old news of how many years ago. Everyone has moved on.

The man is in Nigeria, the kid's arent.

How the fvck can he be there for them?

MALIGNANTGuest:
You LADIES should better wake up.
Men are not smiling too.
The INSULTS we get from you Ladies can only make us stronger and decisive.
A male divorcee, never leaves his Father's House, rather it's the Lady that goes back to her father's house. The Man may lose some of his properties including kids but he will never lose his HOME.

The KIDS will always retrace their steps when they are grown. Mother may infuse them with HATE speeches and discordant memories, but in the end, they will grow to know what distinguishes a MAN from a WOMAN.

Only a useless woman that divorces a man and has nothing going for herself, goes back to her parents house
Retrace their steps back to what? Why would they want to have anything to do with a man that abandoned them?

MALIGNANTGuest:
Would you have said this, if the same MAN was killed in the marriage?
Anyway, He didn't ABANDON them.
They should just Collabo and move on.
Life's too short. The earlier the have happier moments together, the better for everyone.

Excuse me? What's your point? He didn't abandon her, seriously ?

morinto:
I stay in derby town. Do u have idea about the place?

Chaiii sorry oo

If you're religious, look for a black church or mosque.

Go online dating , but this will work only if a guy is very good looking

Socialise with your colleagues at work

Volunteer in your local area

damosky12:
Let's be humane for once...

If Tiwa Savage were your sister or daughter, would you keep thrashing all over social media the way you lots are? Aren't you just hypocrites?

Don't you think the disgrace of the tape is already massive enough? The fact that she has no husband or any known confidant publicly fronting for her is there too. It's no brainer that this is a depressing time for her. What she needs now is help.

Depressing time. Didn't she say she changed the narrative?

I feel bad for her and the kids he abandoned

beauty7:
Nigerian women take good care of themselves.

We shave ourselves and use correct perfumes.


You can even lick our bodies.

Except that they don't.

When do you see fulanis mingle in society anyway?

OyinO:
There's nothing like God in Nigeria. If there's one, he's as miserable as the miserable suffering and smiling Nigerians he has watched sinking into endemic retrogression and incongruities. Shame on you fellowsheep. I'm not Atheist. Educated illiterate you are. If someone is not Christian or Muslim, he is Atheist, as if only those two religions or belief systems exist on Earth plane.

I was being sarcastic then lol

Funny enough I read a comment from an asian woman that does Brazilian waxes she said black women smell the worst.

If you know you don't smell, don't get upset

Stockholm syndrome.

Truthissupreme:
Are you aware that man and his wife are both medical doctors with striving hospitals even before been pastors

Try get brain

Lol, are they practising medicine?

eazzzy1:
The lady has lived her life while you are just about to start yours. You don’t want to be trapped in marriage at 23. If she can wait 6 more years.

Lived life at 29?

The 1st pic makes him look like a fuckboy/player/

In the 3rd pic, he looks fat.

Pussywar:
It’s you who has equated high body count to cheating. It’s you who’s being illogical. From where to where? Please, assimilate my statement well before coming for me.

Go and look up pair bonding.

CUMIN:
Steve jobs was fathered by a Syrian father and mother. But was adopted by American parents

He paid investigator to search his biological father...he went there to see drink tea at his shop but the father couldn't recognize him.

He left without introducing himself.


Imagine if he doesn't have the resources to do that. Part of him will be void.

These women are creating problem for the future just like the gang violence we see in black Americans society.

Lol imagine if he remained in Syria.

Yampotatocarrot:
I thought I was the only one that noticed it. The lady that initially gave the opinion made it look so "normal", yet someone like her will still say "she can never do it, but she doesn't see anything wrong when another does it... Coded werey"

I wonder why the OP didn't just leave his initial writeup and added that. Even went on to imply that guys who don't wanna date single mothers are not "real men"

Nonsense and ingredients

Lol, why are Nigerian scared of juju like that this? None of that shit works.

and I'm pretty Poco was being sarcastic, she isn't even religious.

DissTroy:
Are we all going to ignore the fact that some people are advocating hooking a man with juju on this thread? What is wrong with you people?

Isn't hypnotising a person against their wll a crime or are we going to ignore it because women are the ones doing it?

Now when a woman wears something as simple as waistbeads, men get triggered because you've all normalised juju.

Just small juju. You will be alright.

nurain150:
Likewise most men that re alpha don't date broke ladies, if you can't earn up to me atleast earn 70 percentage of my income, else OYo.

Not broke, but a rich man can still date a poor woman..but a rich woman won't want to do the same..its just a turn off for a woman.

nurain150:
Lol see ehen. I no fit marry a woman wey no earn pass me or equal to me.

Lol but then most women won't want a man that they out earn.

WHITELIGHTER:
But a man can marry a poor woman, yes? Oh maybe that's why some ladies are single at 50 because men too don't wanna settle for less

Are men and women the same?

Octopusssy:
It's not Victorian.

It is

LOL Poor advise.

She scammed you.

Kokobilo87:
ya donkey budaatum is tha george flyord nigger type. lazy ass old man

Say what ?