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TemiBami2020:
Pls help me people. My world is collapsing. It's a marriage of 10years and blessed with 3kids (2 boys and a girl). Like every other marriages, we've had our own shares of ups and downs. No marriage is perfect.

Last month i went to work. By the time I came back the children were no where to be found, including my husband. Initially, I thought they went out or something. Around 11pm I got worried and called my brother in-law who is a police to track my husband numbers

He contacted other family members and he found out my husband left for UK with our children forever.

I don't know what to do. I'm running mad. Pls is there any authority I can contact in the UK? Or can I go to the UK/ British Commission in Nigeria to lay a formal complaint? Is there any NGO I can contact?


Modified For those saying I'm a bad wife, I'm not. I've been very supportive in a every way a wife can be. I've lived in both physical and verbal abusive marriage within the last 10years of my life. He's a violent man, adulterous, alcoholic and a fervent smoker. He gets drunk and get home and beat me up Infront of the children unprovoked. I have evidences and witnesses

I often threaten him I would take my children and go away cause I can't watch and allow them to grow in such a toxic home.

He outsmarted you. Always keep your plans to yourself.

greatness77:
why did he left her wife aside? he should have told her, let's call a spade a spade, the man act is very wrong, women have no right in nigeria what a shame, women have now become endangered species in nigeria

Did you read the concluding part of her write up where she has been threatening to run with the kids? And stop your mind game of saying women has no right in Nigeria because I've heard more stories of women running with the kids to overseas and for one day I haven't heard anyone saying men has no right in Nigeria.

greatness77:
some people are very wicked how will someone be supporting this kind of crime against this lady, d man is wicked and should be treated as a kidnapper, nigeria is a country where woman doesn't have single right, madam take heart your hubby is just a bestial man, go to twitter make a post about it and tag British embassy to nigeria and also NPF stop bringing your problems to nairaland because they can make u commit suicide, I cried when I started reading their comments

What exactly do you want to achieve? Bring them all back to shithole?
If you see who will kidnap you to a functioning country I bet you will be thankful and your parents will send ransome for them to keep you there. Let her be wise with her approach, kids will grow and come for her.

magkhan:
This is relative really. A man can be a bad husband but a good father. The two roles are mutually exclusive.

@ poster I know you are hurt but look on the bright side, [b]if they are truly in the UK don’t do anything to sabotage that move and bring them back to this Nigeria. They have a better future in UK than in Nigeria. [/b]If he is a good father and you know they’ll be fine with him, as painful as it can be, let them stay in UK with him. You look for a way to negotiate constant communication with them to stay in touch that’s paramount.

Then take the separation to develop yourself, I mean you’ve been given a ticket out of a bad marriage. Channel the pain and heartbreak to pursue success. Your kids will ALWAYS remain your kids. And who says you can’t relocate yourself to UK to be close to your kids?. Hopefully you are an independent woman. You can achieve a lot if you set your mind to it. But really don’t drag those kids back to Nigeria.

You think she cares? She sound like she has a crab bucket syndrome.

Lol she will everything to get them back to Nigeria so they can all suffer . I'm not sure your husband was a drunk and a smoker before he married you otherwise you won't be complaining. Madam anything you do will not only get him back but also get those kids back to this shithole. Let the kids grow up in a better place and they will come for you.

potbelly:
and cavani does the assist...

but trust Ole he will start Martial before Cavani for the next match...

Martial's form has been good besides he's putting Cavani's age into consideration so he doesn't burn out. I would rather start Martial then sub him than start and sub cavani.

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texazzpete:
You don't think it's prudent to show the broken screen properly?

It's not visible when turned off.

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The problem here is if the students will tell their parents who may also be landlords. The good deeds of that landlord to their wards can make them think again but I doubt the student will notify their parents.

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So my niece came around and got my TV cracked. She pushed the tower speaker which hit the side of the TV so I'm selling off. Fixing is 80K, I don't have that patience sending it to lagos for fixing. Bought the TV 450k from LG so all accessories are intact.


Lg 49"
smart 3D
4K upscale
Ultra HD
Magic remote
WebOS
Bezeless
Model: 49UB850T

Price: N150k N120k Christmas price

Location Asaba

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prince57:
Save for rainy days them no de hear. Anyways, get well soon.

There's nothing to save actually, forget the fact you see them on the TV, they are paid very little and nothing like royalty to keep the actors earning in perpetuity like we see in developed countries. For years, the actors have fighting seriously to enable them earn from royalty not just a one time pay like we see in our local movie contracts but instead of fighting in one voice the actresses who benefit more from just showing up on the screen opposed the whole thing.

Solatium:
Are soldiers not dieing in the US while on internal security arrangements, training and war simulations?
Do you know how many Armed groups domiciled in the US? Do you know what the authority goes through before they can keep white supremacists groups like KKK in Check?

Ani wèrè ní ẹ,you wey you no comot for your village dey talk about things you don't get to see.
People like you will continue to be foolish for life for as long as you continue to believe thing's are perfect elsewhere,it took the 9/11 and July 7 for the rest of the world to realised no where is safe.

The same internet you used in arguing blindly will educate you more about all these things

I would let you dine in your world of irredeemable foolishness so accept my apologies....... Everything you've said is 100% correct.

Solatium:
Thank God you just admitted its a useless way to die when fighting for an unjust course like the one you are chasing.
Again you are afraid of death, don't you know you die a honorable Death when you die wearing the uniform of your nation?
Are americans not fighting insurgent and rag tag armies in the middle east?
do you think they die a useful death?
People like u just get mouth,na coward una be,na una dey start trouble dey run.
wèrè

In the middle East not within America. You are so daft. The more I try to help you realise you are daft the more you exhibit a higher level of stupidity . I'm amazed you said you've travelled out of the shores of this country yet you display perpetual daftness.

Solatium:
You keep pointing fingers at the politicians all the time,what have you done to move the nation forward in your entire adult life aside from lame criticism and stupid agitations?
just point me one thing.
Some of you have personal dilemma that you can't resolve,yet you are poking fingers at others for not doing things right.
How I wish they can ceed a local government for you to govern for 4yrs and lets see how far u can go

Someone should go through this guy's profile and you will notice he's constantly looking for a way to get visa to exit to a better country. He's asking me what I have done for the country but so scared to ask those in power what they have done and still bold enough to shut out a young lady who is fighting against bad governance. If anything, you could be a politician trying to defend stupidity or a politician gay who lost his sense of reasoning due to 30k monthly pay to keep slaying any voice that speaks against politicians online.

Solatium:
Only an hopeless being will be talking this balderdash,if you want to spill your blood for a nation or for a genuine course,go join the military where you can do it legitimately.
i am sorry to disappoint to inform you that if you or anyone of other idiots die when trying to start an insurrection,na Sara death be that oo.
Government go even charge your corpse sef

Again this confirms you are not brilliant. You die a more useless death in Nigerian Army while fighting the same insurgents your government created to keep stealing from you through budgeting than die fighting to have a better government reforms.

I don't argue with senseless people who are intellectually handicapped. Abnormalities has become normal to you that you fight to keep your oppressors in charge till your last breathe.

Solatium:
Na DJ WITCH go liberate you?
Person wey never secure her future is who you are counting on to liberate you?
What gives you the assurance that those of you call for anarchy will even survive the whole thing by the time the dust is settled?

There it goes. You rather stay alive and be a coward than spill your blood to make the country you believe in a better place. She isn't a coward and if I may ask, what have those who secured their future done for you besides stealing national wealth?

Your problem is being egocentric just like your politicians. You think it's just by securing your personal future? If you care about yourself alone then those you don't care about will come to feed on you.

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Solatium:
So many illiterate here.
All she said still remains an allegations,yet to be proven.
Do you think if there is massacre in Lekki as been peddle by this idiot the diplomatic community will not inform their home government?
This girl don cast,forget her desperate appeal to international bodies so she can have an asylum claim approved.
e go soon clear for your eye

Suffer never tire you? For all I care you could be Lai Mohammed, after all NL is a faceless forum.

Harryfrosh:
Good evening everyone... I'm just really annoyed and angry right now because of what's going on between @bdemix and @omicpet.. Last two weeks ago.. I was scrolling the offerup thread and saw @bdemix post about Samsung note 20 ultra TLC 370k... I called him around 3am that day because I need phone urgently.. I talked to him that day about price and he insisted on the 370k... I said OK... I'll pay... And later asked him when the phone will land... Just to know maybe i can wait or not... He said in between two weeks... I said I have no option than to wait then... I paid him 70k and last week Saturday he called me that the phone is now in Nigeria and @omicpet will handle the waybill... I transferred the remaining balance of 300k... I now asked about the waybill bill... He said @omicpet company will handle that... I told him I'll like to know the actual price... So I can pay everything.. Then I went on to tell him I want home delivery.. Because I just moved to ibadan without knowing any place... And to also be on the safe side... He said Lagos to ibadan should be around 3k or 4k but maximum of 5k... I said OK... I sent him 4k... I was expecting home delivery... Then a man called me around 7pm yesterday.. The man said he was to deliver a package to me... I was really confused.. I called @bdemix just to confirm because I don't really understand... @bdemix said he was expecting the waybill number... And he also mentioned that to me yesterday morning when I asked him for any updates... He said he already sent 3k to @omicpet office and he'll call then in the evening to ask for the delivery number... Just for a public transport man to called me about the package... I said OK no problem... I went to challenge street spending #300 like 1 hour plus to my place.. I called @bdemix before going and getting there around 8:30pm yesterday evening... Driver is not there... I called him and he said he's still in elewe.. I don't know that place.. I asked around and they said elewe is in Lagos.. I feel angry... But I have 370k phone at stake... I told myself I'll wait... Around 9pm I called the man again and he said he was around ogere... I also don't know that place... I keep calling @bdemix to tell him what's going on and my displeasure about the situation... Around 10pm the man is no longer going through... I keep telling myself to wait.. Till around 12am and all the area is empty... Only me and I look for hotel around... The one available is occupied.. I don't just know what to do and I'm really scared... I was just thinking then I saw a filling station.. I walked in and explained what's going on to the filling station security man and the man pity my condition and let me in.. I sat on a bench till 4am I can't sleep because I'm really scared... Exactly 4am I called @bdemix to let him know I slept in the street... But he don't pick up.. I guess he was sleeping.. I called the driver and he went through... Hello sir... I slept inside filling station because of you yesterday and I was just crying on the phone because I've never expected that to happen to me at all... Sleeping in filling station... Empty place... The man said if I see him myself... I'll pity him.. He said he was robbed coming to ibadan.. I don't know what to say.. I called @bdemix again and he picked up dis time around 4:30am.. I explained everything to him on the phone and he told me not to worry that I'm safe... I said OK.. Already around 5am cap already moving... I stopped a cap and went back to my place... Around 8am the man called me again to come to the park.. I put on my clothes and board a cab again and on getting there.. I saw the man really damaged.. His car was also damaged like seriously.. I start feeling scared and nervous.. The man explained what happened to me how him and his passengers were robbed and injured... He now said my own package was stolen by the robbers... He said because the package is not that big.. He put it in front of the car and that's how the robbers was able to cat away the phone and other passengers phones and money... In dis junction, I don't know what to do or say because the man is really injured and his car is also damaged badly... I called @bdemix to explained and he said I should hold the driver responsible... That I should called police on him and all that... Me.. I don't want all dis stuff that's why I paid for home delivery and gave you my home address which you asked for... After all back and forth... I was able to invite some police to the discussion... The people around won't allow the police to do anything because they keep saying if the robbers killed the man like they killed a driver last week who will be asking questions... I called @bdemix and he said i should not agree and hold him very well.. But how na.. He now suggest using Army officers... I don't know any army here in ibadan... I called a junior brother who is army in Lagos and he called some of his friends in ibadan and they also showed up... When they arrived... They asked questions and they said all of us should go to where the robbery happened... We entered and on getting there... It's true robbers operate in the area over night... People around the area confirmed that and the person who towed the man vehicle also showed up that it's one of his friend that paid the man 20k towing money.. The army said we should go back and getting back... The oldest man among the army called me to corner that the situation now should be between me and those who sent the phone... He said I should call them.. I called @bdemix and he said I should call @omicpet and calling @omicpet he asked me did i paid for home delivery and I said yes.. He now asked if I sent my home address.. I said I sent it to @bdemix.. He then asked if I received a call about my package and I said a man called me around 7:30pm yesterday.. He now said since the man called me about my package and the phone already left his jurisdiction and the only thing for me to do is to hold the driver... The Army officer behind is really angry about that statement... But me.. I'm just tired... I don't sleep all night because of my phone and now the phone is nowhere to be found.. I now beg the man to calm down and help me because I'm really tired of everything.... He now went back to the driver to negotiate and the driver said he bought his car just few months ago via higher purchase and still paying debts monthly... But he should be able to pay 200k and keep paying 20k weekly.. The man... His wife and his two children are all crying.. The man said they paid him just 1k for the package... Remember I sent 4k for home delivery... I called @bdemix about it and he said the money is too low... But me I don't just know what to say again or do... I went back home and just trying to get some rest since yesterday.. But I've been trying to reach @omicpet since... Not picking up... And it's like @bdemix is also not ready to say anything about it... And to make things worse... The driver called me not long ago that his car dealer heard about the robbery and the man insist that he must pay his car money finish first and that he the driver will not be able to meet up with the phone money again... I called the army officers and they told me the case is between me and @bdemix and @omicpet that all of us should be able to reach agreement... I called @omicpet again not going through... I don't just have anywhere to than to create dis thread for others nairaland should also see to it and help out... 370k phone and 4k waybill and currently nothing to show for it

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You guys are talking unnecessarily. I will also speak to the seller on how to get this resolved. You had a phone conversation with him and there are recorded call logs which can be retrieved when needed. So don't be boxed because of screenshots.

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UnbanEbenezar:
abeg make we rest with this DJ witch matter.
We have serious issues facing this country

What are you doing about the issues personally? A lady like you is doing something personally on international stage and you are in the bathroom saying we have serious issues without any meaning contribution towards solving it. If you don't have a voice then listen to people who do.

double0seven:
Hope you flogged that small girl small

LOL I just couldn't. She's not the hyper type that would damage things intentionally.

Harryfrosh:
and that's why I paid 4k for that.. From Lagos to ibadan.. I expect home delivery and I emphasise on that

You paid the expected amount for registered courier service and they boycotted so they both have questions to answer.

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SHIIITHOLE:
Ghanaians don’t encourage Ghanaians breaking the law in their country or in other countries. If you break the law anywhere, you have to face the law. It is different if you didn’t break any law.

Do you know what it means to break the law vs being hired for a show as an international artist? Why would the government give approval for such show as well as the organisers getting the needed clearance only for the same government to turn back and arrest artistes instead of organisers?

SHIIITHOLE:
Did you say Ugandans are better than Ghanaians? How? Where?

If those artistes were arrested in Ghana you won't even see a single Ghanaian sympathies with then or blame the show organisers.

IamD18:
New song loading.....


Omah Lay ft Tems.


Song title: Uganda

This is, if Asaba Nollywood producers haven't produced a movie for it already.

Those Asaba Nollywood peeps are just a bunch of squirrels running around the town.

PureMe01:
u simple proved him right moreover,ur own purchase price will be absolutely far less than that

That's not me bro. Like I said I have my receipt of purchase from LG and its N450k as at the time I bought it. Head to LG shop and confirm.