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Tab4kids:
Don’t mind this guys on Nairaland. A man knowingly slept with a married woman and the only person the niggaaz want to heap the blame on is the woman?

Lol these kids on nl cannot shock me again

Outsiders are not obligated to help you respect your home or help you remain committed to your marriage. It is the duty of the person in marriage to respect his or her partner by turning down advances by outsiders who aren't obligated to do so.

Read that again and again.

Ishilove:
And what will happen to the man who was stråffing a married woman? The double standards is nauseating.

They are both willing participants in the adulterous affair and deception, and will both be dealt with by the karmic laws of retribution.

Outsiders are not obligated to help you respect your home or help you remain committed to your marriage. It is the duty of the person in marriage to respect his or her partner by turning down advances by outsiders who aren't obligated to do so.

cococandy:
I love how men encourage promiscuity. They cheer one another on when they behave like people with no self control. They call women who agree with them good women for tolerating such nonsense. Then, when the results of their actions come calling, they are crying about DNA tests.

The fact that you guys are “polygamous in nature” should tell you that many of you dipping in the same wells. What’s the natural outcome of that?

And you are the “logical ones”. Phew

After crying on this thread, you’ll go back to life as usual. Spreading your seeds in one another’s gardens and having others spread in yours.

The kids are just a result of community efforts. They should be a community responsibility as well.

Again men will always take the blame. In marriages, men are scum and cheats and the women are innocent until you mention DNA test.

CalliDora1:
Why would you even marry a woman you don't trust well enough in the first place?

It serves you guys right because when they say marry in the Lord, you'll laugh yourselves to scorn now you're all running Helter skelter like headless chickens looking for DNA that is not lost.

I want big boobs, I want big bumbum, I want beautiful face. At the last, no peace of mind as every man wants her too.

Marry the will of God and have some peace.

Nobody should come for me o. It's just daybreak and my brain is still initializing.....

Marrying in the Lord doesn't mean marrying who you trust but who you love. The Bible even told us that a man who trust himself is a fool but encourages us to only put our trust in God So I challenge you to show me anywhere in the bible where it tells you to trust anyone besides God.

Uzomacharles:
Please Who Has Idea Of Where I Can Get My HP Mini Laptop Swapped With Some Small Money Like 20k


Need help

Let me see the mini. I'm looking to buy

Money finish your eye clear and you feel its a curse. Truth is if you still have money you won't think of nay curse and will continue what you are good at.

Womanizing will ruin your pocket and you feel miserable. There's nothing like curse, you are your own problem.

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xamiel4:
My shoutout goes to;
1x2x3 the Don
dyrane
Iscom
These guys are the real MVPs. God continue to bless you.

didn't see that coming. I appreciate you so much bro. Compliments of the season.

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greatness77:
stop taking every word serious bro, the power of women relies in their tongue, these reminds me of a day when I was still struggling to survive dats about 5yrs now, i always quarrel with my roommate den so one day I bought an android phone this guy told me dat he will poison me to death or starb me if I'm sleeping and dat he will run away with my new android phone of 54k and my atm card, but[b] I overlooked everything and just see it as an empty threat[/b], till today notin happened and infact he is d one dat secured a good paying job for me today, what if I killed him just because he threatened me I would have been serving in prison by now, bro stop taking dis life serious.

Don't take threats lightly as a man.

TemiBami2020:
Pls help me people. My world is collapsing. It's a marriage of 10years and blessed with 3kids (2 boys and a girl). Like every other marriages, we've had our own shares of ups and downs. No marriage is perfect.

Last month i went to work. By the time I came back the children were no where to be found, including my husband. Initially, I thought they went out or something. Around 11pm I got worried and called my brother in-law who is a police to track my husband numbers

He contacted other family members and he found out my husband left for UK with our children forever.

I don't know what to do. I'm running mad. Pls is there any authority I can contact in the UK? Or can I go to the UK/ British Commission in Nigeria to lay a formal complaint? Is there any NGO I can contact?


Modified For those saying I'm a bad wife, I'm not. I've been very supportive in a every way a wife can be. I've lived in both physical and verbal abusive marriage within the last 10years of my life. He's a violent man, adulterous, alcoholic and a fervent smoker. He gets drunk and get home and beat me up Infront of the children unprovoked. I have evidences and witnesses

I often threaten him I would take my children and go away cause I can't watch and allow them to grow in such a toxic home.

He outsmarted you. Always keep your plans to yourself.

greatness77:
why did he left her wife aside? he should have told her, let's call a spade a spade, the man act is very wrong, women have no right in nigeria what a shame, women have now become endangered species in nigeria

Did you read the concluding part of her write up where she has been threatening to run with the kids? And stop your mind game of saying women has no right in Nigeria because I've heard more stories of women running with the kids to overseas and for one day I haven't heard anyone saying men has no right in Nigeria.

greatness77:
some people are very wicked how will someone be supporting this kind of crime against this lady, d man is wicked and should be treated as a kidnapper, nigeria is a country where woman doesn't have single right, madam take heart your hubby is just a bestial man, go to twitter make a post about it and tag British embassy to nigeria and also NPF stop bringing your problems to nairaland because they can make u commit suicide, I cried when I started reading their comments

What exactly do you want to achieve? Bring them all back to shithole?
If you see who will kidnap you to a functioning country I bet you will be thankful and your parents will send ransome for them to keep you there. Let her be wise with her approach, kids will grow and come for her.

magkhan:
This is relative really. A man can be a bad husband but a good father. The two roles are mutually exclusive.

@ poster I know you are hurt but look on the bright side, [b]if they are truly in the UK don’t do anything to sabotage that move and bring them back to this Nigeria. They have a better future in UK than in Nigeria. [/b]If he is a good father and you know they’ll be fine with him, as painful as it can be, let them stay in UK with him. You look for a way to negotiate constant communication with them to stay in touch that’s paramount.

Then take the separation to develop yourself, I mean you’ve been given a ticket out of a bad marriage. Channel the pain and heartbreak to pursue success. Your kids will ALWAYS remain your kids. And who says you can’t relocate yourself to UK to be close to your kids?. Hopefully you are an independent woman. You can achieve a lot if you set your mind to it. But really don’t drag those kids back to Nigeria.

You think she cares? She sound like she has a crab bucket syndrome.

Lol she will everything to get them back to Nigeria so they can all suffer . I'm not sure your husband was a drunk and a smoker before he married you otherwise you won't be complaining. Madam anything you do will not only get him back but also get those kids back to this shithole. Let the kids grow up in a better place and they will come for you.

potbelly:
and cavani does the assist...

but trust Ole he will start Martial before Cavani for the next match...

Martial's form has been good besides he's putting Cavani's age into consideration so he doesn't burn out. I would rather start Martial then sub him than start and sub cavani.

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texazzpete:
You don't think it's prudent to show the broken screen properly?

It's not visible when turned off.

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The problem here is if the students will tell their parents who may also be landlords. The good deeds of that landlord to their wards can make them think again but I doubt the student will notify their parents.

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prince57:
Save for rainy days them no de hear. Anyways, get well soon.

There's nothing to save actually, forget the fact you see them on the TV, they are paid very little and nothing like royalty to keep the actors earning in perpetuity like we see in developed countries. For years, the actors have fighting seriously to enable them earn from royalty not just a one time pay like we see in our local movie contracts but instead of fighting in one voice the actresses who benefit more from just showing up on the screen opposed the whole thing.

Solatium:
Are soldiers not dieing in the US while on internal security arrangements, training and war simulations?
Do you know how many Armed groups domiciled in the US? Do you know what the authority goes through before they can keep white supremacists groups like KKK in Check?

Ani wèrè ní ẹ,you wey you no comot for your village dey talk about things you don't get to see.
People like you will continue to be foolish for life for as long as you continue to believe thing's are perfect elsewhere,it took the 9/11 and July 7 for the rest of the world to realised no where is safe.

The same internet you used in arguing blindly will educate you more about all these things

I would let you dine in your world of irredeemable foolishness so accept my apologies....... Everything you've said is 100% correct.

Solatium:
Thank God you just admitted its a useless way to die when fighting for an unjust course like the one you are chasing.
Again you are afraid of death, don't you know you die a honorable Death when you die wearing the uniform of your nation?
Are americans not fighting insurgent and rag tag armies in the middle east?
do you think they die a useful death?
People like u just get mouth,na coward una be,na una dey start trouble dey run.
wèrè

In the middle East not within America. You are so daft. The more I try to help you realise you are daft the more you exhibit a higher level of stupidity . I'm amazed you said you've travelled out of the shores of this country yet you display perpetual daftness.

Solatium:
You keep pointing fingers at the politicians all the time,what have you done to move the nation forward in your entire adult life aside from lame criticism and stupid agitations?
just point me one thing.
Some of you have personal dilemma that you can't resolve,yet you are poking fingers at others for not doing things right.
How I wish they can ceed a local government for you to govern for 4yrs and lets see how far u can go

Someone should go through this guy's profile and you will notice he's constantly looking for a way to get visa to exit to a better country. He's asking me what I have done for the country but so scared to ask those in power what they have done and still bold enough to shut out a young lady who is fighting against bad governance. If anything, you could be a politician trying to defend stupidity or a politician gay who lost his sense of reasoning due to 30k monthly pay to keep slaying any voice that speaks against politicians online.

Solatium:
Only an hopeless being will be talking this balderdash,if you want to spill your blood for a nation or for a genuine course,go join the military where you can do it legitimately.
i am sorry to disappoint to inform you that if you or anyone of other idiots die when trying to start an insurrection,na Sara death be that oo.
Government go even charge your corpse sef

Again this confirms you are not brilliant. You die a more useless death in Nigerian Army while fighting the same insurgents your government created to keep stealing from you through budgeting than die fighting to have a better government reforms.

I don't argue with senseless people who are intellectually handicapped. Abnormalities has become normal to you that you fight to keep your oppressors in charge till your last breathe.

Solatium:
Na DJ WITCH go liberate you?
Person wey never secure her future is who you are counting on to liberate you?
What gives you the assurance that those of you call for anarchy will even survive the whole thing by the time the dust is settled?

There it goes. You rather stay alive and be a coward than spill your blood to make the country you believe in a better place. She isn't a coward and if I may ask, what have those who secured their future done for you besides stealing national wealth?

Your problem is being egocentric just like your politicians. You think it's just by securing your personal future? If you care about yourself alone then those you don't care about will come to feed on you.