₦airaland Forum

Rossikk:
If you know the number of Nigerians who had thriving businesses in Nigeria, and due to the whole ''oyinboland is better'' mentality, abandoned or sold their businesses, land, cars etc, and migrated to Europe or US, only to be working now as low-paid security guards and bus drivers, with no career prospects, you will weep. Most of them are too ashamed and broke to return back home, and simply continue working their menial jobs there.

Lesson: If you have a business in Nigeria, you already have what 95% of Nigerians in the diaspora wish they had - financial independence. Being your own boss. Do not throw it away to become a nobody in the west.

Samfloxin:
It is in his blood. His mom, Prof. Joy Eyisi taught me in Unizik , a very intelligent and meticulous lecturer. She herself was also persecuted in Unizik until she left for University of Abuja. Congratulations my brother.
IGBO NWERE MMADU !!!!
IGBO AMAKA !!!!!

IJOBA2:
WHERE IS CHIEF AUSTIN NDIGWE, EZE UZU OF AWKA

techmo:




Wike the APC mole in PDP, double spy agent like Dave umahi , PDP in the morning, APC at night

I can see through his Drama

*He installed Modu Sheriff Buhari's in law and 2 terms ANPP Governor on PDP

*Intentionaly installed another Political weakling like Secondus on PDP, rigging out strong politicians, ex ministers , ex Governor and Senators

*Fought Atiku's Nomination and vowed not to work for him in 2019 election

*Faulted Peter Obi's emergence

*First PDP Governor to congratulate Buhari on his Election Tribunal victory urging PDP not to waste time on supreme court

* Fought Sieriake Dickson , Ignored Diri's Campaign and secretly supported David Lyon

* Sponsored an Edo PDP Aspirant to file a litigation at Rivers High Court were his wife is a Judge to bar Obaseki from contesting Edo Primaries

*Openly called PDP a party of Tax Collectors making allegations that Obaseki bought PDP chieftains (which he truly did)




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alizma:
Congratulate him for carrying the baby or for delivering the baby? Pls which part of the world are you?

alizma:
Congratulate him for carrying the baby or for delivering the baby? Pls which part of the world are you?

Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.

Babatunde40:
You are living with someone and judging him for masturbating. Have you thought maybe your presence hinders him from bringing girls home. Pack and let him be

MelesZanawi:
Shameless stingy bastard. Useless Anambra bean counter. Thank God this idiot didn't win.

Waiting for 2023 let Umahi and Hope teach this fool a bitter lesson.

Kriptune:
Guys I need an urgent business loan amounting to 300k.

Any suggestions how I can get one besides bank and loan apps?

dangotesmummy:
Awon tenants e ama cheat e because to be a tenant in nigeria you have to have an element of craze meanwhile she seems like a friendly, funny and happy go girl.those are not the characteristics to get your money in this Lagos especially when they know she's female and single

But any congratulations makanaki

donstan18:
Wonderful writeup by the OP.

I think the questions should be,

1: How many wives do we have these days? : In as much as I know not your definition of wife, I can tell that we'v got few wives in Africa these days, what do we have? , we have ladies that wants to bear MRS, ladies that aren't emotional, financially, physically and spiritually committed before entering a marriage, ladies getting married for the sake of "I'm married" hence trying to avoid our African societal view on single ladies.

2: How many women turns out to be the woman their man use to know?
: This is where ladies usually fail woefully, we'v seen where couples who dated for 4-5 years divorced after 6 months of marriage, a guy while dating a lady will be helping in chores, won't be bothered much about your financial supports, won't even allow you do some chores for him, why?, possibly because there's this good and awesome woman he sees in you, but why do most of them normally changes immediately they marry you? Simply because you changed from the woman they use to know to another, feeling you are now his wife.

3 : How many women of these generation are child-minders, cooks, nursing mother, financial partner and so on?.
: Can a social media addict possess all these qualities? , we have many of them here on Nairaland , don't we?, we have married women who jumps from one thread to another to fight and quarrel with secondary school boys everyday here, are they not the wives we are typing about? Hahahah . ...how do you expect these set of women to possess all these above listed qualities?, how's that possible?, I might not leave here If I continue highlighting the proves that we have less wife materials these days.

4 : What's your definition of a wife?

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Do we still have the mothers we had then?, do we?
No, rather we have pinging mothers, social media addicts with no atom of shame.

The truth remains that every woman is directly or indirectly responsible for any actions and change in her husband.

With all due respect Mr Toke, the thread should be DO WE STILL HAVE WIVES ? , the answer to this question will give men a go ahead reason and order to tell and answer your question Where Is Your Wife?

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If only people practice what they preach online about relationship and marriage, we wouldn't have been suffering the problems we are facing in relationship these days.


Once again...Nice writeup.