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Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:44pm On Apr 04, 2015
Aviero:
We met last October . She helped me with a project and since then we got talking. I really liked her because of her nice qualities. So it happened that we started dating.

Now the problem is she is just too good to be true. I really don't know how to put this, but she's overly concerned about my well-being. All of a sudden she is just too nice and I'm somehow scared now. Whenever there is a misunderstanding, she will begin to apologize and start crying even though I'm the one at fault. That is just one.
Whenever she texts me and I don't reply, she will call. If I fail to answer her call, she will start coming over. When I ask her why she is so bothered, she will say she thought something has happened.
Recently, I no longer have my space. She is always around. She always want to be there when I hang out with friends. She doesn't even give me any chance to miss her. Now it seems I'm getting tired of her.

She doesn't let me do anything for her when I try to. Now it is as If I'm the babe.
Recently she jokingly told me that if she sees me with another lady she will poison me and she will kill herself. She wasn't looking serious but I became scared.

Now we have not even dated for more than 4 months and she has started talking of settling down.
I do not know if this is love or obsession. Because this is not the kind of love I asked God for..

Send her number gimme. 08106925386
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by PAGAN9JA(m): 1:55pm On Apr 04, 2015
Exjoker:
Lol... how possible Then how are you able to get hold of a computer there and I believe there is no resurrection in ATR

computers are cheap these days.

there is reincarnation. posession.
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by Danvianey(m): 1:56pm On Apr 04, 2015
Obsession?

I don't really think so.
If am to say, make that her comment "if I find u with another lady' I'll poison u and kill myself" as said by the girl, a serious one but to her, unserious. I mean, try to find out the message she was trying to convene.
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:59pm On Apr 04, 2015
gabriplane:
is she from Ogun state and light in completion?... Cos mine surname starts with A and her name ends in I.

She's an igbo girl but yes she's light in completion.
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:06pm On Apr 04, 2015
She is obsessed of u. U have to help her slow the pedal by talking thoroughly to her.

Besides are u her 1st love?
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by betterpikinn: 2:09pm On Apr 04, 2015
missbehave247:
Hahahahahahahahahahahahah. Was ones in your shoe
Lol!
Me too @ aviero.
I ran for my dear life grin Thank God for NYSC...
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by sukkot: 2:11pm On Apr 04, 2015
Rilwayne001:


Rara oo.. Ibadan lawa oo, Ibadan mesi Ogo, nile Oluyole. Ilu Ogunmola, olodogbo keri loju ogun. Ilu Ibikunle alagbala jaya-jaya. Ilu Ajayi, o gbori Efon se filafila. Ilu Latosa, Aare-ona kakanfo. Ibadan Omo ajoro sun. Omo a je Igbin yoo,fi ikarahun fo ri mu. Ibadan maja-maja bii tojo kin-in-ni, eyi too ja aladuugbo gbogbo logun, Ibadan ki ba ni s’ore ai mu ni lo s’ogun. Ibadan Kure! Ibadan beere ki o too wo o, Ni bi Olè gbe n jare Olohun. B’Ibadan ti n gbonile bee lo n gba Ajoji. Eleyele lomi ti teru-tomo ‘Layipo n mu. Asejire lomi abumu-buwe nile Ibadan. A ki waye ka maa larun kan lara, Ija igboro larun Ibadan. grin grin grin cheesy
grin grin this yoruba too strong for me sha. i understand a few of it though lol. i love ibadan. i used to hang out in university of ibadan at a point in time and went to places like bodija etc. my egbon went to university of ibadan too. there is a peppersoup joint called abe igi at the university
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by sukkot: 2:12pm On Apr 04, 2015
clovislouis:
. Na nairaland joke my guy
oh ok lol. trust your easter and good friday and everything is going fine
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by menesheh(m): 2:20pm On Apr 04, 2015
Aviero:
We met last October . She helped me with a project and since then we got talking. I really liked her because of her nice qualities. So it happened that we started dating.

Now the problem is she is just too good to be true. I really don't know how to put this, but she's overly concerned about my well-being. All of a sudden she is just too nice and I'm somehow scared now. Whenever there is a misunderstanding, she will begin to apologize and start crying even though I'm the one at fault. That is just one.
Whenever she texts me and I don't reply, she will call. If I fail to answer her call, she will start coming over. When I ask her why she is so bothered, she will say she thought something has happened.
Recently, I no longer have my space. She is always around. She always want to be there when I hang out with friends. She doesn't even give me any chance to miss her. Now it seems I'm getting tired of her.

She doesn't let me do anything for her when I try to. Now it is as If I'm the babe.
Recently she jokingly told me that if she sees me with another lady she will poison me and she will kill herself. She wasn't looking serious but I became scared.

Now we have not even dated for more than 4 months and she has started talking of settling down.
I do not know if this is love or obsession. Because this is not the kind of love I asked God for..


This is not the kind of love you asked God for?

This is the one you asked Satan for ugh


Sorry

continue asking God for love
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by alterswerve(m): 2:27pm On Apr 04, 2015
Aviero:
We met last October . She helped me with a project and since then we got talking. I really liked her because of her nice qualities. So it happened that we started dating.

Now the problem is she is just too good to be true. I really don't know how to put this, but she's overly concerned about my well-being. All of a sudden she is just too nice and I'm somehow scared now. Whenever there is a misunderstanding, she will begin to apologize and start crying even though I'm the one at fault. That is just one.
Whenever she texts me and I don't reply, she will call. If I fail to answer her call, she will start coming over. When I ask her why she is so bothered, she will say she thought something has happened.
Recently, I no longer have my space. She is always around. She always want to be there when I hang out with friends. She doesn't even give me any chance to miss her. Now it seems I'm getting tired of her.

She doesn't let me do anything for her when I try to. Now it is as If I'm the babe.
Recently she jokingly told me that if she sees me with another lady she will poison me and she will kill herself. She wasn't looking serious but I became scared.

Now we have not even dated for more than 4 months and she has started talking of settling down.
I do not know if this is love or obsession. Because this is not the kind of love I asked God for..

I think you should sit her down and tell her how you feel about this. Seriously! Many of us here (including me, cuz that's what I wanted to do initially) will just make jest of your situation and then it ends there. I have a feeling you once liked this girl, and its her obsession that's making you feel weird; so I think you should sit he down and talk to her, in a mature manner, slow and cool. Let her know that she's scaring you with her actions, and while you are telling her, let her know that its not that you don't like her, but that its her activities that's scaring you.
I wish you the best man; and if both of y'all eventually plan to get married, send me an IV.

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Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by benedima1990(m): 2:32pm On Apr 04, 2015
I fink you're feeling like that because you don't really love her



Search ya mind
If that's true
Plz tell her so that she can move ahead
Or else
I pity your condition later
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by Nobody: 3:03pm On Apr 04, 2015
mirexxx:
thanks smiley






You are always welcome
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by rhames(m): 3:14pm On Apr 04, 2015
you sound like:

You do not know the value of what you have until you lose it
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by yilly(f): 3:20pm On Apr 04, 2015
my bro, dis one na obssession. And wat she said "playerfully" dat she will kill u n kill herself, will one day b true. I advice u to remove ur shoe n ruuuuuuuuuuunnnnnnnnnnnn
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by gabriplane(m): 3:27pm On Apr 04, 2015
Linqsz:



Lol...it starts with A and ends with I

Bro...the matter dn tire me oh!
I guess they must know each other cos my babe always tells me thesame thing too...just be careful sha cos I just discovered that mine is a player and am also playing along with her cheesy
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by Cohsyn(m): 3:33pm On Apr 04, 2015
Aviero:
We met last October . She helped me with a project and since then we got talking. I really liked her because of her nice qualities. So it happened that we started dating.

Now the problem is she is just too good to be true. I really don't know how to put this, but she's overly concerned about my well-being. All of a sudden she is just too nice and I'm somehow scared now. Whenever there is a misunderstanding, she will begin to apologize and start crying even though I'm the one at fault. That is just one.
Whenever she texts me and I don't reply, she will call. If I fail to answer her call, she will start coming over. When I ask her why she is so bothered, she will say she thought something has happened.
Recently, I no longer have my space. She is always around. She always want to be there when I hang out with friends. She doesn't even give me any chance to miss her. Now it seems I'm getting tired of her.

She doesn't let me do anything for her when I try to. Now it is as If I'm the babe.
Recently she jokingly told me that if she sees me with another lady she will poison me and she will kill herself. She wasn't looking serious but I became scared.

Now we have not even dated for more than 4 months and she has started talking of settling down.
I do not know if this is love or obsession. Because this is not the kind of love I asked God for..


Lolz as funny as it sounds, I wish d one I keep has just 1/10 of that.
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by Tshaphilo: 3:40pm On Apr 04, 2015
my dear son pls run for your life o that is no love but obsession.
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by Thomsbuky(m): 3:45pm On Apr 04, 2015
Aviero:
If you were in my shoes, u will run.

To be in your shoe, I will be very happy meeting quality girl with right attitude that love you bad..What space do u need? You should have thought about that before starting serious relationship with the girl... Is it because you got no more chance to mess about, reason for tagging her obsession?

She mentioned death certificate awaiting you should you messed up.. Its like warning don't tastes or smell food that youre not going to eat.. Option available right now is run away leave town never for her to see you again, pride of being a man won't allow you. However, should you end the relationship, in couple of months, we will be discussing your fatality on NL, whether she's right or wrong to end love scene tragic sducidal.
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by Rilwayne001: 3:58pm On Apr 04, 2015
sukkot:
grin grin this yoruba too strong for me sha. i understand a few of it though lol. i love ibadan. i used to hang out in university of ibadan at a point in time and went to places like bodija etc. my egbon went to university of ibadan too. there is a peppersoup joint called abe igi at the university


That great grin grin my kind sire, so when are you coming back to 9ija? atleast Buhari has won
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by sukkot: 4:11pm On Apr 04, 2015
Rilwayne001:



That great grin grin my kind sire, so when are you coming back to 9ija? atleast Buhari has won
am working on it bros wink
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by vislabraye(m): 4:11pm On Apr 04, 2015
Aviero:
We met last October . She helped me with a project and since then we got talking. I really liked her because of her nice qualities. So it happened that we started dating.

Now the problem is she is just too good to be true. I really don't know how to put this, but she's overly concerned about my well-being. All of a sudden she is just too nice and I'm somehow scared now. Whenever there is a misunderstanding, she will begin to apologize and start crying even though I'm the one at fault. That is just one.
Whenever she texts me and I don't reply, she will call. If I fail to answer her call, she will start coming over. When I ask her why she is so bothered, she will say she thought something has happened.
Recently, I no longer have my space. She is always around. She always want to be there when I hang out with friends. She doesn't even give me any chance to miss her. Now it seems I'm getting tired of her.

She doesn't let me do anything for her when I try to. Now it is as If I'm the babe.
Recently she jokingly told me that if she sees me with another lady she will poison me and she will kill herself. She wasn't looking serious but I became scared.

Now we have not even dated for more than 4 months and she has started talking of settling down.
I do not know if this is love or obsession. Because this is not the kind of love I asked God for..



cheesy tongue. No worry, all your konji problems are over..
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by donbenie(m): 4:17pm On Apr 04, 2015
pasqal09:
Isn't that a good thing?
No,it's not a good thing,she's showing obsessive tendencies..coupled with the paranoia of seeing him with another babe could prove deadly..
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by donbenie(m): 4:18pm On Apr 04, 2015
pasqal09:
Isn't that a good thing?
No,it's not a good thing,she's showing obsessive tendencies..coupled with the paranoia of seeing him with another babe,could prove deadly..
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by Rilwayne001: 4:20pm On Apr 04, 2015
sukkot:
am working on it bros wink

All right sire....abi se ema je indomie,? mo nse indomie lowo lowo bayi grin grin
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by ikupakuti(m): 4:26pm On Apr 04, 2015
@poster i dont think u really luv dis geh

U jst wan chop clean mouth & waka to de nxt 1 available not knowing she‘ll be de 1 to pause ur “player“ button

U don get another shadow be dat o, so start seeing her as such lols

And dont take her theory of poisoning u as a bluff ooo

Shey u don see the praticals urself

I know dia type she means buisness. Goodluck
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by kehny25(m): 4:38pm On Apr 04, 2015
Dude run..she is an obsessed lady..
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by drehdinho(m): 4:44pm On Apr 04, 2015
rokiatu:
humans are so confused. When shes good you doubt her, when shes not you don't want her. undecided undecided
Your axiom here doesn't work in this kind of situation. The lady is simply old and has wasted her early days doing nonsense I guess,now she wants someone she's going to shift all her problems on...Op my advise for you is to pray over it and remember that all that glitters aren't gold.
Abo oro na n so fomo luabi( a word is enough for the wise one)
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by Nobody: 4:54pm On Apr 04, 2015
gabriplane:
I guess they must know each other cos my babe always tells me thesame thing too...just be careful sha cos I just discovered that mine is a player and am also playing along with her cheesy

Thanks alot man...guess I'll follow your path

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Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by sukkot: 4:58pm On Apr 04, 2015
Rilwayne001:


All right sire....abi se ema je indomie,? mo nse indomie lowo lowo bayi grin grin
indomie ke ? lol. cant remember when last i had noodles. like 10 years ago sef. but you know the good thing about noodles ? you can eat it raw. it taste like chinchin exactly grin
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by Rilwayne001: 5:03pm On Apr 04, 2015
sukkot:
indomie ke ? lol. cant remember when last i had noodles. like 10 years ago sef. but you know the good thing about noodles ? you can eat it raw. it taste like chinchin exactly grin

Chin-chin ko, puff-puff ni grin grin
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by sukkot: 5:08pm On Apr 04, 2015
Rilwayne001:


Chin-chin ko, puff-puff ni grin grin
In fact i think i am going to get chinchin recipe online now. or maybe meatpie. lol. bros if i tell you all the foods i have made just from online recipes. i have made puffpuff, buns, suya, moimoi, donkwa, akara wink
Re: I'm Scared Of My Girlfriend by Emmafe(m): 5:12pm On Apr 04, 2015
fairygeh:
shocked Rokiatu,what is this on your dp?Jesus christ of Nigeria ooooo
cheesy mogbe,see asssss
Although ,my hips is 43 inches,I want more o,abegi,what are u doing to this ass nitori Olorun
*Two hands up* Tuwale for the guy/guys managing this enterprise. Diz disgust mie o, dnt knw wot guys see in heavy container.

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