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Munzy14:
Good bro...You have to.

Don't compromise bro...If you have decided to kill the friendship, also kill any feeling...till thy kingdom come, she will respect you for that.
You have become wiser for the next babe to value you more.

You only reedemed your ego as a man..Don't compromise it...

I read she want to cook for you, if she couldn't then, she should forget it now she messed up...

The tougher you get, the more attractive you become for the ladies..Let her be a friend from a distance.

What I am telling you, Is what I will do if it was me in this case...I value who value me..And move.

Munzy14:
Wawuuuu..

22o62021 congratulations you have taken the pills...Twice daily for five days..
Wahala for umu nwa...

She messed up the friendship by doing her sheet stuff with your own private time and was feeling like a hot cake..

I remembered I told you, you must get your own car this year.. Money stops rubbish.

But still, don't have sex with her...This will keep your respect intact...you shocked her...Just maintain your stand..

Man and woman no dey do friendship of visit me, I visit you...It is either you are lovers or friends with benefits...Only your blood sisters are entitled to that friendship of visit me, I visit you..


A man and woman meet for companionship and things of the heart...If na business na your fellow man be your plug.

Even in business, feelings may develope and get twisted which might end in tears...You no fit win woman when she takes it to public...

Ones again congrats for the sense acquired...

Mariangeles:
Na so you no trust her reach? Na wah o!




Abeg! No forget to cap us o.

Mariangeles:
I believe she likes him and wanted to make him jealous, and like the drama queen she probably is, she saw nothing wrong in the act she cooked up and played.
No bobo is mad.

Op said she offered to cook him his favourite meal to make it up to him, but omolomo said he doesn't want.
I think they like each other though.
Otherwise, op won't be this mad.

Mariangeles:
Your shakara wan come dey too much.

You like the babe jare!

Nyanabo:
Lol I'm also working on excel sheets right now

Bobxin:
Makes me think she's the girl who brother-zoned you, with the way you guys are fighting here.

nams77:
What kind of thread is this and a mod post this to frontpage.
What has come over seun and his mod lalasticlala, myndd44 , Dominique etc?
What kind of fuckery is this on front page?
I'm so ashamed right now!!!
Una fit ban me if Una like o. U guys are killing this forum. Even if you want to post a story with sexual undertone, no be this type na! This is so childish

Nyanabo:
Ok na, but you haven't told us what you wanted, advice or listening ears to your rant ? In life try to be specific, it helps alot

Mariangeles:
A lady will do anything to get the attention of the man she likes.

Find out whether she like you.
E fit be say she dey miss you sef.

Alohaa:
This your story bend bend,
Seems like you’re angry because she started seeing you as a brother
Because I don’t understand the last part of your story...

Ishilove:
Now I understand. Na see finish, indeed. People tend to take friends for granted until you shey werey for them.

Did you tell her that her behavior is the reason why you're cutting her off?

Titovanzel:
From ur write up, no mention of u having feelings for her or u asking her for a relationship. Yes, her action was totally wrong wrong on the said day, but u trying to make her a Bleep mate is petty, immature and baseless. Is this how u intend building ur bruised ego this 2022?
Guy, e show say u get serious low self esteem problems.

Mariangeles:
It could be that she likes you and wanted to make you jealous.

Ketapu:


Also, I will advice you to read the book titled Mode One: Let the Women Know What You're REALLY Thinking

That book has changed my life and the way I communicate with women. I went from a shy guy who was afraid to tell a womam my mind to a guy who just tell ladies exactly what is on my mind.

There are 4 ways to communicate with women called Mode 1, 2, 3, and 4 respectively.

The only way women will treat you the way that girl treated you is when you are communicating with them with Mode 2, 3, and 4.

ALWAYS COMMUNICATE WITH WOMEN USING MODE 1. That way, no lady will be able to treat you like trash.

You can download the book below. PLEASE, READ THAT BOOK AT LEAST 5 TIMES. Your life and mode of communication will completely change for the best.

https://ng1lib.org/book/701092/185b2a

Ishilove:
I don't understand this story. Op sees the girl in question as a sister, but he got mad when she went on a date with another man. Since you don't have any intimate dealings with her why are you now upset that she is being intimate with other men? Were you catching feelings??

Abi na me no read the story well?

Ketapu:
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TheRealOwner:
You did the right thing bro. That was utter DISRESPECT. it's not even about friendzoning or brother whatever. She made you cancel your plans for the day by her request, made you believe she's coming to spend the day with you, then brought a stranger to your own house again to take out

She even already knew it didn't make sense and was vexing but still went ahead with it. That was the height of see finish. Na to tell you say she wan use your apartment for short time with another guy remain

She's just trying to see how much insult and disrespect you can take before snapping

She's also trying to guilt trip you and emotionally blackmail you with 'you hurt her'. How about how she hurt you??

You can tell her you've forgiven her, but your apartment is off limits to her. I recommend at least 2 months, make everybody brain reset properly

Jeon:
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The bridges were burned Now it's your turn, to cry

Cry me a river

Cry me a river

Cry me a river

Cry me a river

You know that they say that somethings are better left unsaid

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Just like you just did little kid..
Next time you don't cry when a woman hit you hard..
It hurt you so bad that your weak self had to create a thread huh?

Common baby boy be a man..grow up aiit..

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Pls keep mute and stop being brainless aiit..no one cares about your "fantasy sexual ordeal"
Stick that balderdash deep down your throat and flush it or you could give your fellow dewy eyed ones..

You keep acting like some macho kid online..common kid get off and stop telling everyone about your little steps..no one wants to hear that little boy..

Dreytonisback:
There's nothing wrong in keeping female friends
I have more female friends than guys bc female friends are the realest than guys

Life is not all about fvcking toto upandan
Many guys out there need females friends with no strings attached to just be chilling together.

I could remember about 4weeks back when I visited a beach in Lagos island called Elegushi beach
After enjoying myself, me and my guys decided to smoke some Canada loud at the other end of the beach where they're less people .
While smoking my blunt , this locally looking bit*ch who must've had enough to drink just hit her leg against mine
And I have this hatred for ladies who bleaches their skin, she was the type
Instead of this Bit*ch to apologize she still insulted me for no reason lol
Afonja girl for that matter, and this same girl was giving me some blue light ever since we were inside the bar but I frowned at her instead bc she's far from my type , besides she came with guys naw

"Now here's the moral of my story"

There's no way I could beat her up bc I'll be blamed despite everyone knows that she's wrong , call it strength of a woman
If only I had a female friend with me , she would have dealt with that girl for insulting me.
You Gerrit? If you don't Gerrit forgetabourrit

Lights up my kpoli in peace

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Are you seeking an advise or this is your usual unwarranted story?
Nobody wants to know what ensued between you and a gal..you had sex or not is no one's business..
If you like have s*x or not it's no one really care..

Bringing what a girl did to you shows how naive you are..there are little things you get over and stop crying about..
If you want to leave her good.. if you don't want her to come over to your house good for you..
You made your choice already no point posting it..

We have been friends for years, people keep asking me if she was my girlfriend but I dismiss that even in her presence. I don’t hide my sex life with other girls from her, same way she don’t hide her activities with men from me. My friends kept calling me a fool for not sleeping with her, My body does not move when I’m with her, I see her as a younger sister cos she comes for advice .

She has not been in a relationship for one year now but she do go out with guys which she tells me.

On new year day. She was the second person I wished a happy new year after I finished speaking with my parents, she told me that she may come to my house that day.

I was already prepared to go out when she called me , she said I should suspend anywhere I was planning to go because she was coming to spend the day in my place. I suspended going out, went out and bought drinks for she and myself.

About 20 minutes that she came, she received a call , I heard her describing the name of my street, telling the person to stop in front of the house that she is upstairs at her friends place.
The next thing she did was that she picked up her hand bag and told me that , one of her male friends is taking her to watch movies in the Cinema. I did not say a word.
Then she said, I know say wetin I wan di now go vex you, I still did not say a word. She stood up and asked me how she looked, I told her beautiful ‘ She opened the door, Smiled and said to me, I will call you and left. I was angry but I held my anger.

The next day she called , I did not pick her calls, it went on for 3 days and I still did not pick. On the 4th day she came to my house with her female friend and I was siting with 2 other guys. She apologized in their presence and everyone blamed her.
She admitted she was wrong but I was only smiling, she thought I have forgotten what happened.

The next day she came to the shop again and met my colleagues whom I have told the story already, the blamed her and she apologized.

I later called her and told her that this year 2022, I will not keep female friends, it’s either we are fûcking or doing business. I told her that she should stop coming to my house , except she wants us to be fücking then she can be coming but if not she should only come to the shop for business purposes and nothing else.

Since I said that to her, she has been telling everybody that I hurt her by telling her not to come to my house.
Many guys have asked me to forget what happened and still allow her to be coming but I stood my ground and will never change my mind.

She told one of my colleagues that she has no feelings for me because she sees me as a brother. I asked them to tell me which of her fathers wife gave birth to me. We are two different tribes from 2 different states.

She saw me this evening and was still complaining that I hurt her.

Any girl that comes to my house now is either we have sex or don’t come.

PearlFid:
Is very expensive, the one I bought in Edo was plenty, enough to make small stew.