faith551:


Yea there are gay Africans, In every twelve there must be a judas, gayism (if u'll permit my use of words) didn't originate from Africa and the weak ones who are easily carried by the tide are free to join but they can't and wnt be used to judge the majority.
Talking about the way Africans threat women, looks like you are still making comparisons with the West. For the records my grandfather treated my grand mum fine, my dad threats my mum like a queen, he even cooks sometimes you know, so why wnt I and my brother do thesame to our future wife? It's sort of an individual decision.
Since the whites are the once who threat their wife's fine as u seem to insinuate from ur post, which of the two worlds (Africa and the West) record higher rate of divorce and why

Justfollowit:


Were you drunk when you came up with this?

Anyways, there is a difference between believing in something and actually realising it.

Beamborla:

anybody with phallus and healthy sperm can impregnate a lady, me love.

It takes a strong woman to carry the pregnancy and go through labour successfully.
Your two girlfriends are actually the strong ones here

MrsChima:


Women rights isn't glibally and you know that! I have stated in my posts if you care to read it that womwn in western societies have some rights and they are still dealing with sexism and discrimination!

For the rest of the world...women oppression is a mofo!

- In the West employment are gained by merit and has nothing to do with gender. Same with Nigeria

- In politics women have a level playing field as the men. Likewise Nigeria.

- In business and corporations there's no restriction of the position on which a woman can be promoted once she meets the requirements. Likewise Nigeria.

- In religion, especially Christianity, women are free to become pastors and deacons and its same for Nigeria.

And it's same for for other sectors.

- In the West, however, in the domestic fronts women are more empowered than the men. Whenever there's a feud between a couple, the laws have been structured to give the woman the benefit of the doubts and in the event of a separation the man is usually kicked out of his home while the woman stays with the kids. The woman also gets a huge chunk of his wealth if alimony cases are filed. Where's the inequality in the West?.

The African feminism should come clean and tell us where they seek for an equality in the society apart from the domestic front. Don't we have top bankers, entrepreneurs, and women in top corporations in Nigeria?. Why weren't they restricted from attaining those heights?. Does the African woman seek equality and want laws that would enable them suppress the man at the home front, kick him out of his home and also sue for alimony and fraudulently acquire his wealth?. Nonsense upon nonsense!

ronald4lif:


You keep repeating yourself. Why do women love to play the victim?. Where exactly is the inequality that feminism crusaders want to reverse?

faith551:


It's not all about Africa's norms, it's all about European culture infecting the fabrics of our dear continent. Whether we like it or not men were built to take care of women, protect them, and cater for them, that's why we are naturally possessive when it comes to our female counterparts.
You can take a cue from lesser mammals like the lions,how then can a woman be equal to a man when all this natural hints points towards one direction.
I in no way support maltreatment of the opposite gender, no reasonable person will do that. Sometimes I laugh at the frivolous culture of the West, they have nothing important to think out or invent like their fore-fathers, all they do now is lazy about trying to counter the laws of nature, supporting lesbianism, gay rights, bestiality, feminism, atheism I mean what type of human being doesn't believe in anything.
My question is why can't we influence them with our own culture. My brothers and sisters WE ARE STILLL UNDER THE SHACKLES OF OUR COLONIAL MASTERS!!

MrsChima:


I actually think men are the victims of hysteria and paranoia!

Feminism is not a new movement just do you know. Feminism fought since the beginning of western civilization where women did NOT have rights. They were viewed as maids and cumbuckets to rich men. Women weren't allowed to vote or obtain formal education!

Women weren't allowed to express political views unless her husband grant her the permission under his supervision!

If a wife was divorced she received nothing BUT she isn't allowed to work outside the home to fend for herself! She was dependent on a man and if he didn't care about herself she was flicked!

Feminism empowers to get out snd get yours and your husband can't ts keep of you Bleep ice feet under!

sylvalord:
Don't include atheism. I don't see anything wrong with questioning these laughable doctrines that religious institutions teach and its not necessarily a western norm. Religion brainwashes while atheism liberates.

sylvalord:
Don't include atheism. I don't see anything wrong with questioning these laughable doctrines that religious institutions teach and its not necessarily a western norm. Religion brainwashes while atheism liberates.

ronald4lif:


You see why I keep reiterating that modern feminists are heartless and evil. In the past, they were never allowed by their men to work and didn't have any career. But all that has changed now as women are taking up influential jobs and position in the society. Yet, they still fight for a huge chunk of the man's wealth after a divorce.

The gender equality laws in the West should be revised, men seem to have become endangered species in the hands of women who want it all to themselves. They seek equality and at same time want to be worshipped by men. Confused lots.

ronald4lif:


- In the West employment are gained by merit and has nothing to do with gender. Same with Nigeria

- In politics women have a level playing field as the men. Likewise Nigeria.

- In business and corporations there's no restriction of the position on which a woman can be promoted once she meets the requirements. Likewise Nigeria.

- In religion, especially Christianity, women are free to become pastors and deacons and its same for Nigeria.

And it's same for for other sectors.

- In the West, however, in the domestic fronts women are more empowered than the men. Whenever there's a feud between a couple, the laws have been structured to give the woman the benefit of the doubts and in the event of a separation the man is usually kicked out of his home while the woman stays with the kids. The woman also gets a huge chunk of his wealth if alimony cases are filed. Where's the inequality in the West?.

The African feminism should come clean and tell us where they seek for an equality in the society apart from the domestic front. Don't we have top bankers, entrepreneurs, and women in top corporations in Nigeria?. Why weren't they restricted from attaining those heights?. Does the African woman seek equality and want laws that would enable them suppress the man at the home front, kick him out of his home and also sue for alimony and fraudulently acquire his wealth?. Nonsense upon nonsense!

MrsChima:


Hmm. I haven't thought of atheism in that point view. We were taught that atheism is about rebelling against God and not having any spiritual relationship.

I am not religious but I am spiritual and believe in God. I don't conform to what man think God wants us to live.

bknight:


Since you are not drunk, kindly explain the above sentence in bold.

faith551:



Hahahahahaha, I gave two ladies twins and u say they are the strong ones? Not to worry na quadruplet I go give you

sylvalord:
come to think of it dear mrschima; that a "loving God" will throw a person into a lake of fire just because the person refuses to serve him? That even if a person does good, obeys the law and gives to the poor, a God who claims to be loving will cast him into a lake of fire just because he didn't acknowledge him? Will you as much as burn your child's hand no matter what he/she does? Yet a God who claims that he loves us and created us in his image will burn us forever if we as much as tell a lie. How reasonable does it sound.

shockwave91:

did i mention how much i love you? No? Ok. I LLOVE YOU!

sylvalord:
come to think of it dear mrschima; that a "loving God" will throw a person into a lake of fire just because the person refuses to serve him? That even if a person does good, obeys the law and gives to the poor, a God who claims to be loving will cast him into a lake of fire just because he didn't acknowledge him? Will you as much as burn your child's hand no matter what he/she does? Yet a God who claims that he loves us and created us in his image will burn us forever if we as much as tell a lie. How reasonable does it sound.

ronald4lif:


I don't like to delve into religious argument because most of the time it lacks logic and it's based on a book written decades ago. But one thing I know for certain is that my parents wouldn't threaten me with fire and brimstone if I go against their will. They would embrace me no matter my perceived flaws and shortcomings. This is something I'm not sure the Biblical God would guarantee me of since the Bible keeps warning us of his wrath if we deviate from his laws and commandments. Why should God punish me and send his wrath to destroy his children just because they failed to keep to his commandments. Where's the love?.

bknight:


So what is the rationale behind feminism in the west where 'we are equal' is clearly shown in action? My point is only to show that women of renown throughout all history of the various peoples of the world have made their mark naturally knowing we are equal and didn't see any need to be so pushy about equality like today's woman.

More like a conceited insecurity

MrsChima:


Anyone who is lonely and desire companion will be vulnerable at some degree but isolating someone for the sake of protection is wrong!

Women do not need to be treated like eggs and I am sure the change in societal trends would be accepted and appreciated!

MrsChima:


You are wrong! There are womwn who work inside the home and hold reputable careers I can't say the same for the men.

There are womwn who maintain thwir kids while pushing a pen at corporations I can't say the same for men.

I don't know what is your definition of a woman but it is not definitely your opinion of what you think a woman is.

If we would to enforce the ideal role of a male...the average man wouldn't pass. We need to stop being silly and know everything isn't about us or complicated.

MrsChima:


Religiously, it does make sense but spiritually it doesn't make sense. Spiritually, a person who continue to engage in Bleep in even after knowing it is a sin because filth can't enter the holy place. If there is a heaven then it would as keep sense to remove the sin to protect the holiness. It has also said in the bible people would be given a chance to redeem themselves and makecwhole to enter heaven but refuse to do so and are cast to the fire.

God is a loving God because he is willing to forgive and make you whole if you ask him but it is your free will to live your life and you will be judged by your actions. There are grace and mercy and that's what makes God loving.

blublahd:

and men are weak by your analogy?

MrsChima:


There you go again...who are you to say what a woman should or shouldn't do?

If she want to carry a ton of bricks...what is your business?

Justfollowit:


I was expecting you to type this

I want to have a child, I can't just get pregnant. I have to find a willing partner to realize my want.

I feel men and women are equal. That is not the end. If the society I live in believes that I am inferior; I am inferior. If the society merely accepts that I assn equal however fails to put in place policies and infrastructures to ensure that the male gender treats me as an equal; I am still not equal.

Therefore if I believe that I am equal to a man. I have to act like it and be treated as an equal to truly feel like an equal.

ronald4lif:


I don't like to delve into religious argument because most of the time it lacks logic and it's based on a book written centuries ago. But one thing I know for certain is that my parents wouldn't threaten me with fire and brimstone if I go against their will. They would embrace me no matter my perceived flaws and shortcomings.

This is something I'm not sure the Biblical God would guarantee me of since the Bible keeps warning us of his wrath if we deviate from his laws and commandments. Why should God punish me and send his wrath to destroy his children just because they failed to keep to his commandments. Where's the love?.

Beamborla:

Our discussion was narrowed down to childbirth.

I really can't answer your question, Sir
Strong or weak, it all depend on individual(male or female) as far as I'm concerned

sylvalord:
Religion and spirituality work hand in hand, one cannot exist without the other. With this writeup, are you telling me that if ur child keeps being rebellious you will warn him and if he refuses to adhere to your warnings, you will feel good burning his/her hand?

Beamborla:
Lolz! Abeg o

shockwave91:

i can't carry 2 50kg cement bags. But u shouldn't do it either just to feel "equal". Like i said before, that's HORSESHIT!

MrsChima:


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