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Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Nobody: 9:02am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Sunofgod:You be real clown |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Lumpyy(f): 9:18am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Op please it may seem you dont know me,but its one day people get to know eachother,any help you can do for me sir?abeg abeg abeg! |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Nicepoker(m): 9:21am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Op u are staying in ekiti state for sure. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by jasonodogwu: 9:31am On Jul 09, 2015 |
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Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by asha01: 9:33am On Jul 09, 2015 |
StOla: |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Illuminator9(m): 9:39am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Pls continue to help them in d litu way dat u can, They may be nt be bale to pay yhu back Financially bt someday, in some other ways most of them will surprise yhu. ''What goes around'' |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by fanex: 9:40am On Jul 09, 2015 |
keep sending the money. if you do not need it someone else does. silly questions. why dont you include the government of Nigeria in your monthly charity... astrodome: |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by hasmuz(m): 9:40am On Jul 09, 2015 |
OREMUSSANCTUS: My G....congratulations, you just got employed to be Special Adviser to Shekau See advise |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by bayulll01(m): 9:45am On Jul 09, 2015 |
astrodome: I don't know why u decide to answer that morronn,these are my advice for you,don't I repeat don't harm yourselves all in the name you want to help some people,do what the lord has sent or put in your hearth to do,most nigerians are generally opportunistic and like taking advantage of someone,remember when you are down these same people will turn their head on u,then you will know that no one I repeat no one will help Cheers |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by ChynoBEATS: 9:50am On Jul 09, 2015 |
astrodome: Guy must you give when you dont have enough ni Whick kyn tin u dey do sef |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by OmoMorolake: 9:55am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Do your best and leave the rest. If your best ain't good enough for 'em, then they can take a hike, kiss ur ass or better still, ignore 'em.....end of discussion. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Daresh(f): 9:57am On Jul 09, 2015 |
astrodome: If you dont have, tell them you dont have. How diffiicult is that. I have a friends whose husband gave and gave. Paid rent for some, paid school fees tire. He was so busy paying he didnt save for the rainy day. When that rainy day came (he was fired), lo and behold, everyone found new solutions to their problems. They flew away, dont ask how he's surviving. Including his parents and siblings. Moral of the story? Always save for the rainy day. Those asking and asking don't really care about you if you don't have anything to give them. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by adepiero: 10:00am On Jul 09, 2015 |
We Nigerians are leeches, some of us find it hard to help ourselves instead we look for a Messiah in form of a friend or relative that can solve all our problems especially FINANCIAL Its even better for you that is living abroad but for those loving in Nigeria, it is hell reason being that you can decide to disconnect from them bit for those here, where you wan go wey them no go find you? And once you turn them down, you automatically become an enemy. Bit the question I always ask myself is that why can't they be contented with whatever they have or strive to get more instead of begging! Bro, you are not alone jare but you still have to give at some point so it counts as Charity |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by kittykat1(f): 10:06am On Jul 09, 2015 |
StOla: I used to be like you u until I realized that those I help even have had more money or savings than me. Then I was using nokia torch and helping ppl pay schools fees and this ppl were using smart phones. I had no car and ppl wet get car will come to ask me for money. Mumu me was being touched by their stories. Sometimes some even get landed property. In fact there was an aunt ( widow) that had like 3 landed properties in lagos and was crying and begging me to borrow money on her behalf. She asked me to go to the bank and use my name to borrow six million to and give her to finish her house. So that she can stop paying rent. In return she will dash me one room in the duplex. She cries to me almost every two days. She also comes to beg me for school fees. Me I don't even have any landed property o. Then, I had a period of financial crisis. Guess what everyone ran away. I went back to subzero. When I came back up, I had to borrow sense and start saving. Every month, I put 60% of my income in an investment account. Try standard chartered e-savers or high investment account, diamond bank also has a similar saving package. What I have left to pay my bills and survive is 40%. If change remain from that I help. If it doesn't remain, I tell them I don't have. 5 Likes |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by zeezahbee(f): 10:07am On Jul 09, 2015 |
BabyDaddy20:15 hours in a day you are really hardworking. Even with that you ain't gonna get 6k. You never said you had other jobs, you said you earn $15 and make 6k. Anyways thats your wahala. Enjoy your 6k |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Kazrem(m): 10:11am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Jarus:You have done that "I hardly pick calls, don't reply facebook PM" to me even though what I asked wasn't finance but I understand. BTW As you said earlier the major cause is actually the person probably he/she has been flaunting his "wealth". |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Kizyte(m): 10:11am On Jul 09, 2015 |
bebe2:My bad! Maybe I got no time to understand well |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by holysina(m): 10:16am On Jul 09, 2015 |
I thoutght its only me oooo. the mstter serious. I have changed my line like 8 times and most times i put it on voice mail. i wander how they always get the new number. the moment you get to namdi azikiwe airport or murutala mohamed airport with ur bag and board a plain, form that moment expenses dom start be that, even if u are sleeping on the street. well we are the cux with the type of impression we creat during christmas periods |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Nobody: 10:22am On Jul 09, 2015 |
ayusco85:clap for thy self grey mattered lad |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by kay29000(m): 10:31am On Jul 09, 2015 |
astrodome: Chaii!!! With the situation I am in right now, I for like be your cousin o! |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by histemple: 10:34am On Jul 09, 2015 |
adepiero: |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Emexicoman(m): 10:34am On Jul 09, 2015 |
THAT U LIVE IN THE STATES DOES NOT MAKE U A DIAMOND BANK FOR SOMEONE, UR FAMILY DESERVE SOMETHING FROM U. BUT IF U LET THAT CONTINUE IT MIGHT ALSO BE ABUSED, SO I WHAT I SUGGEST U DO IS TO START UP A BUSINESS FOR THEM DOWÑ HERE AND BONE THEM FOR A WHILE. U R JUST giving THEM FISH RATYHER THAN TAKING THEM TO THE STREAM. AND ABNIUT FRIENDS BEGGING U MONEY THAT ONE DEY BUT I DONT EXPECT U TO GIVE A HEALTHY GUY MONEY TWICE IN A YEAR... USE UR HEAD .! |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by histemple: 10:40am On Jul 09, 2015 |
[quote author=adepiero post=35657912][font=serif]We Nigerians are leeches, some of us find it hard to help ourselves instead we look for a Messiah in form of a friend or relative that can solve all our problems especially FINANCIAL Its even better for you that is living abroad but for those loving in Nigeria, it is hell reason being that you can decide to disconnect from them bit for those here, where you wan go wey them no go find you? And once you turn them down, you automatically become an enemy.[color=#006600][/color] This false and hasty generalisation (We Nigerians are leeches) is a very serious offence and an insult to all Nigerians because I don't believe ALL Nigerians are beggers neither do I believe that this trait is not universal. Please be objectively constructive in whatever you say because you might indirectly and inadvertently offend others 2 Likes |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Edusouls(m): 10:44am On Jul 09, 2015 |
ice25:wicked girl,and when you beg for own help may they say no to you,just as you advice someone to say no to people that needs his help,greedy bitch, sorry for ur husband cos im brothers and relatives go suffer if im marry a stingy and greedy woman like u. 1 Like |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Nobody: 10:44am On Jul 09, 2015 |
drnoel:What's bead, Dr? |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by AOZealous: 10:45am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Ur post shows U already gat ur solution |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Ezebinaugwu(m): 10:46am On Jul 09, 2015 |
astrodome: Bro I leave in Adamawa too, yes book haram has been a problem in the north but that shouldn't be the reason he will use in disturbing you. We wey day here never die finish and we are doing great. Abeg give me his name and number make I help you warn am, he must be an Igbo guy I know |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by FOREXMARTS: 10:47am On Jul 09, 2015 |
The solution is simple, jump from the empire state building. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by ayusco85(m): 10:48am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Lacomus: What's ur own? |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Nobody: 10:48am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Kizyte:Nope...u did what we do here. Counting only d kids! Even some pple count twins as one because they conceived them once. Not good on ur economy...and sense of proportion. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by Acme77: 10:49am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Those asking and asking don't really care about you if you don't have anything to give them. |
Re: Help! Friends, Family & Former School Mates From Nig Are Killing Me With Demands by StOla: 10:56am On Jul 09, 2015 |
kittykat1: Good advice. I've also planned towing this line in the coming months. 1 Like |
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