agabaI23:

May be your English scare them away

JJYOU:

u no get money for your pocket yet you want ngr woman in london. na u bring her here abi?

topup:

Well, I've heard from other Nationalities that dating a Nigerian woman is an accomplishment .

It kind of annoys me the extent of games the 'worst' ones play, it's like they're hard, but why??

I mean this forum is such a shocker, I'm part of other forums and people in general seem to be more at ease, and advice is not so defensive and hard. Because of this I think it's not just Nigerian girls who're hard, it's more like Nigerians are hard, maybe it's the fact that Nigerians seem to always be fighting and aren't known for being subtle or quiet. This is a HUGE generalisation, but I just mean it's common.

The international students at university usually are slightly stuck up (from the fact that they come from a very wealthy background and wealthy people tend to 'shako' so much) - especially the Lagotians, otherwise, the Nigerian women I know are just very cautious. They seem really hard because - I hate to say this - but our culture makes them not so open to admitting that they partake in regular sexual activity unlike other cultures/British culture.

I'm not sure what exactly I'm trying to convey in my response aside frrom the fact that I can see where the poster is coming from.

deji2005:

In the Uk, why so difficult to date nigerian girls in Uni, base on I and colleague experience is like you build friendship and try harder and harder to let her know you like her or as we know it tosting but she always giving excuse that am very busy or I have exam.

I mean to com to fact are they the only ones having exam this does not apply to student it applies to some nigeria gilrs here no matter how you try is like the way you tost nigeria gilrs is different compare to other girls infact I have friend saying all this online techniques waste of time dont work on nigeria girls is that trough

This is common among some nigeria girls here, guys I think you need to get your fingers out and help me out here, your contribution will be appreciated I Know you"ll agree with me

Please not due to foul language been use on nairaland, this my personal views and inner thoughts please make your comment clears as I dont like abusing words neither do I do it to other and this does not mean an attach on my nigeria queens

~Sauron~:

Difficult to date Naija Uni babes in the UK? Is that a joke?
They are like pure water. Which schools are we talking about here??

oyinda.:

The difference is naija girls and most black girls I know don't usually just date just for fun. they are more critical of the type of people they pick because you really have to be critical when it comes to black guys.   to be serious. unless you're the type that's just dating for fun or sex.

am a naija girl at a uni speaking from experience.
and the thing about international students. lol. I'm not an international student and I do agree that they can be cliquey. Try hanging out with girls from other countries beside nigeria. maybe ghana or sierraleone where they have fewer numbers. The larger the number, the cliquier they get. lol

Treetop20:

where is this statistics from?

~Sauron~:

I wonder o.
The OP lacks confidence to woo Naija chics.

~Sauron~:

Are u serious??
I never had problems with Naija babes in the Uni.
They are more willing to accept dates because there are so many other options.
You decline, your loss.

It seems you school in London.

oyinda.:

Naija girls (or i'll say African girls in general) are definitely less willing to accept dates than other girls.

no I don't school in London. i'm in the US.

~Sauron~:

The reverse is the case here.
Naija gurls are bored to death here and asking em out on a date is the best offer they can get.
Geezers get tired of Naija babes sending text messages as a reminder.

Oooops.

oyinda.:

then they must like you individually. 

but if going on dates is the only way for them to prevent themselves from boredom they're wierd 
but then again all naija girls are not the same. just speaking for the african girls at my school and just the nigerian community i've been part of since moving here.