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Re: How Can A Parent Tame A Delinquent Child? by ggirl4real: 12:54pm On Dec 22, 2015
johnnycrew:
what kind of parent will arrange for boys to beat their child...r u dat kinda person? undecided

If that's the only solution, I won't mind doing that
Re: How Can A Parent Tame A Delinquent Child? by ggirl4real: 12:57pm On Dec 22, 2015
darepoju:

hmmmm...really serious...
n his parents stil av to provide him with basic needs..feeding, shelter etc..cos asking him to b on his own if he can't respect means more trouble .. not just to him. but to d parents n even d community.. bad guys/gangs are out there looking for recruits...right...!?
just help dem..talk to d parents ...since taming him demselves is difficult.. they need help... we don't have many reformatory institutions/centers in Nig. but I knw of 1 here in Kaduna state..
BORSTAL TRAINING INSTITUTE.. they can take kia of him..n am sure they ll help him..we have boys dat went tru borstal dat are now reformed..
pls n pls talk to his parents...
If his case is treated we ll have 1 less treat on our streets...
if not just picture wat he'd bcom if he continues like dis in d next 3-5yrs..

Thanks for your contribution
Re: How Can A Parent Tame A Delinquent Child? by ggirl4real: 1:00pm On Dec 22, 2015
[quote author=ChizzyMaris post=41202131][/quote]

Ok Sir. I doubt if the mum has beaten that boy before...She's always taking his insults lightly
Re: How Can A Parent Tame A Delinquent Child? by ggirl4real: 1:02pm On Dec 22, 2015
naobor:


My widowed aunts teenage son was once like this. The last straw was when he chased my aunt with a knife and almost stabbed her. The extended family got so angry and my mum and brothers went to their house and beat the boy to a pulp. After beating him, they took him to a military barracks in Abuja and accused him of being a boko haram just to scare him. I learnt he was sweating and pleading with the military men that he is not boko haram.

Behind, they settled the military men like 20K so that they will punish him military style. He swept the entire barracks and served military punishment for like two days. Before he was released he was made to write a statement that he will not cause trouble in the house anymore (unknown to him it was a fake statement). This happened 3 years ago and I think he was 19 or 20 yrs at the time and my aunt remains grateful to date. No trouble from him 3 years down the line.

I think your neighbors could learn one or two lessons from my experience and apply.

This is interesting
Re: How Can A Parent Tame A Delinquent Child? by ggirl4real: 1:03pm On Dec 22, 2015
PastorOluT:


U might not want to hear this , bt d truth is they need divine intervention, they need to serious pray for the boy before things go out of cos this aint ordinary. Though youthful exuberance is known at that age but nt this level, this is abnormal n beating or thratening him will only aggraviate things.

The parents should be real prayerful n get him to be saved, also if the parents are not saved they should do that ASAP before the devil destroy d family for the signs are written all over.

Thank you Sir

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Re: How Can A Parent Tame A Delinquent Child? by ggirl4real: 1:04pm On Dec 22, 2015
free2ryhme:


send that 16 year old to my house i will teach him to behave. I speak from experience.. Give him one month in my house his mother will give testimony in her church

Lol
Re: How Can A Parent Tame A Delinquent Child? by ggirl4real: 1:07pm On Dec 22, 2015
hungryboy:
eyen ado, ah join ndito Skolombo, That's the attitude of majority of kids who join a gang or cult group, Take him to a very bad cultist to drill him or an Army officer, And he will be warned that if he disrespects his parents again, He is a dead man, That boy will become very humble and respectful thereafter.
Ntoro ke ado ooo. Sosongo
Re: How Can A Parent Tame A Delinquent Child? by ggirl4real: 1:08pm On Dec 22, 2015
austine4real:
i knw u'r very stubborn
Lol! I'm not o
Re: How Can A Parent Tame A Delinquent Child? by ggirl4real: 1:09pm On Dec 22, 2015
lomprico:

The parents are to be blamed period! Am a 100% sure that they spared the rod when he was much younger and when he started exhibiting those traits now they have spoilt the child.

I thought about this too. Thanks
Re: How Can A Parent Tame A Delinquent Child? by maxti: 1:44pm On Dec 22, 2015
ggirl4real:


That's a good one! But his mum can't stand another person talking harshly to his son talkless of giving him up for discipline by soldiers.

Then they are the cause. I have seen worse cases. It was all settled.

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Re: How Can A Parent Tame A Delinquent Child? by SAMBARRY: 2:19pm On Dec 22, 2015
tearoses:
What were the parents looking at before now
He didn't just start this yesterday
How did they bring him up?
Imagine the effrontery . . the kid threatening to beat up his mother.

It may be too late to get this boy back on the right line. at 16 he is almost an adult and if he offends, he will be treated like an adult.

The problem with kids like this is that the whole community suffers. soon he will be out there being a nuisance to everyone.
oba ni,koyiti baje.he's still redeemable. At least he's not yet 18 but he needs to be put back in line before he becomes uncontroable. Im crayfish never bend that much
Re: How Can A Parent Tame A Delinquent Child? by austine4real(m): 2:21pm On Dec 22, 2015
ggirl4real:

Lol! I'm not o
isokay na
Re: How Can A Parent Tame A Delinquent Child? by ggirl4real: 3:04pm On Dec 22, 2015
Daninya11:
-he should be educated
-he should be trained properly
-he should be lead properly
-he should be motivated rightly
-he should be loved, valued and appreciated
-he should be rewarded when necessary.
-he should be properly counselled
He should be Prayed for..

A CHILD IS LIKE A PLANT THAT HAS TO BE NURTURED, MANURED AND PRUNED BEFORE IT GROWS INTO A BIG TREE.

A PROMISING TALENTED CHILD MUST UNDERGO A RIGOROUS PROCESS TO BECOME A FULFILLED PRODUCTS.

This is beautiful
Re: How Can A Parent Tame A Delinquent Child? by hungryboy(m): 3:04pm On Dec 22, 2015
ggirl4real:

Ntoro ke ado ooo. Sosongo
nko aba ke Calabar, Cos many secondary school students now in Calabar are cultists, Especially public schools, Ke ntuk eyin abiara ema.
Re: How Can A Parent Tame A Delinquent Child? by Nobody: 3:34pm On Dec 22, 2015
ggirl4real:


This is beautiful
Tnx
Re: How Can A Parent Tame A Delinquent Child? by darepoju(m): 6:31pm On Dec 22, 2015
ggirl4real:

Thanks for your contribution
uwc..
Re: How Can A Parent Tame A Delinquent Child? by June24th: 7:50pm On Dec 22, 2015
ggirl4real:


Thanks for your contribution!

None of those instances you've mentioned is the case here! The parents are not so rich but they make sure they provide everything for them.

Also, I don't think there's any form of physical abuse in their home!

My major observation is that the dad is hot-tempered. Maybe it's genetic.
Okay, I just pray God heals him of any emotional trauma or whatsoever he is going through
Re: How Can A Parent Tame A Delinquent Child? by ggirl4real: 12:15am On Dec 23, 2015
luckyboss:
You mean the guy is from calabar? OP, My advice; Help me ask his parent who any of them ate an angried Dogs' meat before he(the guy) is inpregnated. because it's the spirit of an angry dog that is working in him(the guy).

Lol
Re: How Can A Parent Tame A Delinquent Child? by ggirl4real: 12:18am On Dec 23, 2015
excess4luv:
This is the genesis of the nuisance we see in our society today, parents failing in the early duties of child upbringing. sparing the rod and spoiling the child, many over pamper kids as if they(kids) are demi-gods.
There are few measures that can be adopted as fast as possible.
* that child might have joined small cult group in school or neighbourhood, find out and create more friendly time to talk with him.
** visit his school to find out his real attitude in school and his real friends, let the teachers council him most times in school.
*** are the parents financially stable? if yes let them change his school without being violent about it.
****watch his spending attitude and cutdown financial assistance offered him without pointing to his bad attitude.
***** the parents don't seem to be religious but may need to try more prayer commitments von his behalf.
****** when the above listed measures fail, the father should employ all forceful means to teach him some lessons.

parents should know the real job of childupbringing






The boy is preparing to write waec so no need for the change of school...

Besides, they don't interact with other children in the environment..always indoors even when their parents are out.
Re: How Can A Parent Tame A Delinquent Child? by ChizzyMaris(f): 9:31am On Dec 23, 2015
ggirl4real:


Ok Sir. I doubt if the mum has beaten that boy before...She's always taking his insults lightly

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Lol, i'm not 'sir' sha. I'm female. wink
ggirl4real:


Ok Sir. I doubt if the mum has beaten that boy before...She's always taking his insults lightly

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Lol, i'm not 'sir' sha. I'm female.

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