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My dear women drug men to sleep with them; isn't that rape? More than one woman can hold on a man; isn't that rape?

The truth is that women too rape men

Still not reason enough for the guy to have shown the girl's nude pics to his frnds and even have to upload it on his watsapp.
don't u find fault with that?

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Still not reason enough for the guy to have shown the girl's nude pics to his frnds and even have to upload it on his watsapp.
don't u find fault with that?

Now re-read what you wrote Honestly I can't even accept an unclad pix from any girl. Why will any sane girl send unclad pix to her lover?

I hope you don't do that cox you sounding so pricked at the guy's action.

It is "morally wrong" to PUBLICLY share details (pictures, text, Emails, documents, e.t.c) given to you by someone..IN CONFIDENCE.

Notice l said "morally wrong" because "LEGALLY" speaking, if you give something to someone, it becomes theirs... and what you do with your "possession" is your decision. You cannot be legally liable for "giving it out" to others.
No one is ever "legally liable" for a GIFT. that is trite in law.

But on "moral grounds", it is a reprehensible behaviour!

Having said that, let me also look at the story from a "WHOLISTIC ANGLE".

*I hope we all go back to the original thread and everyone who condemned this guy as a RA.PIST, without hearing the full gist or without the common sense to see that the story was cooked-up, needs to kneel down and ask God for forgiveness.
I also hope we all learn a lesson here: When it comes to relationship and emotional issues" between two people (Rape, Divorce), dont be too quick to apportion blame. Calm down and be wise!

*The other point l will like to make is this: Destroying evidence, in a criminal investigation, especially where the life of ne person is in danger and their freedom and liberty is under "grave threat", is a CRIMINAL OFFENCE called PERVERSION OF JUSTICE.

Gbemisola (the lady) cannot use "payback" as an excuse, under the Law, for her criminal acts: She destroyed the guy's phone, which would have proved his innocence on a grievous and heinous allegation as R.APE! So she maliciously lied to the Police, made false allegation of R.ape, perverted justice and destroyed evidence!
She also destroyed the guy's Laptop which would have contained other "Electronic evidences" of what actually happened!
(Though, such evidence can still be retrieved by forensic experts who have the know-how... even if you burn the phone and Laptop!)

Judges dont take that kind of acts lightly at all because it makes their job difficult and could lead to miscarriage of justice.

When you report an 'offence' to the authorities, you cant at the same time take actions that prevents them from knowing the truth!
"Those who come to EQUITY (The Law), must come with clean hands"


I hope the guy gets a good Lawyer because if we weigh both actions (Boy and Girl) on Legal grounds, she is in for a lot of trouble.
How does she expect any sane Judge to believe ANYTHING she says, now that it has been established that she is a liar, a manipulator and a "falsifier of evidence"?
How does she expect any judge, to believe her story of "blackmail", that the guy was askin g her for money, once the guy denies the story as a lie? Who will the Judge believe, based on available evidence?

Yes, the guy erred "morally" in sharing those unclad images of hers, the motive, we are yet to know (but we sure cant taker her story, hook, line and sinker, for the Holy truth, anymore)
We can only listen to what reasons the guy can say, for doing so..... but it is not a good thing to do, Its a betrayal of trust.


I guess she is receiving "good, legal advice" and hence her intention (with her parents) to settle the matter amicably out of court


Finally, Guys, warning for you: The issue of S.ex is now a weapon in the hands of the opposite gender!
Be wise, dont let your life be ruined by a woman on the account of having s.ex with her!
if you must have a sexual relationship with a woman, have it at the back of your mind that she can use it to destroy you by claiming it wasn't con-sexual ..but R.APE!

1.) Ask CLEARLY if she wants to make LOVE. "No is No", The days of "Body language" is no longer tenable! Its a TRAP! I know it spoils the fun but it could mean the difference between a life in jail and freedom!

2.) Set your phone or Camera or CCTV into "Record Mode" ... just anything (audio or Video), to back you up, incase she changes her mind (and God knows, they do that so often, nowadays! ).
Every 'young guy' should have this as "default mode", when a lady is with him alone and alone!

4.) Dont show it to anyone except your Lawyer, if you ever need to.

5.) And ladies, please dont lead a guy on.... only to do a U-turn when you know he is turned-on! If you dont want s.ex, dont act or suggest it.
"If you don like the heat, stay out of the Kitchen"!


The world is no longer what it used to be! From Climate change, to legalized Perversion, e.t.c, the change is here now... ADAPT or get EXTINCT!




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Yes, the guy erred "morally" in sharing those unclad images of hers, the motive, we are yet to know (but we sure cant taker her story, hook, line and sinker, for the Holy truth, anymore)
We can only listen to what reasons the guy can say, for doing so..... but it is not a good thing to do, Its a betrayal of trust.

The guy claimed he didn't share the photos. In this age where all kinds of mischief makers and walk flowers who don't have their own lives but live off others by extension (parasitically) will h@ck into people's phones and computers, it is possible. Also anybody who gets physical access to the phone and it isn't password protected or manage to acquire it can easily transfer the photos. So, if you don't want your nvde photos all over Cyberspace, don't send them.