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Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by davidif: 9:38am On Jan 08, 2016 |
@OP, Have you seen the movie "He is just not that into you". Thank goodness Netflix is soon coming to naija, it should be the first movie you ever see. |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by IMO22(m): 9:39am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Everyone's hrt is fickle buddy!!! U wear d shoes, I can't tell u wot to do. |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by Hemanwel(m): 9:40am On Jan 08, 2016 |
OP,the truth is: THAT GUY DOESN'T DIG YOU AT ALL!! But unfortunately for you,MAYBE the guy who truly cares about you has walked up to you with his "legedizbenz",but because he's still struggling to make ends meet now,you are ignoring him. cc dupsil |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by dayjee2010(m): 9:40am On Jan 08, 2016 |
He cares about you just a bit insecure cos of the distance...... Nobody is comfortable with long distance relationships |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by noblegrex: 9:40am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Ginaz:if you're tired of relationships, come to me and I will GIVE YOU REST. |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by patrickkkk: 9:40am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by durasome(m): 9:42am On Jan 08, 2016 |
dupsil:.he is not just your own. let go of him, thé early the better |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by ourchoice(m): 9:43am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Most sexually active men don't handle long distance relationship so well....they get bored easily in a long distance relationship. And to make it worst, there is nothing to remember for him....no intimacy to fantasize or discuss since you guys didn't have one...and he believe he's wasting time with you...that maybe one student is having sex with you while you are telling him stories. Most working class guys always have this innate belief that dating a student girl is a waste of time because to them, one student is having sex with the girl free of charge....either because of Indomie...assignment....closeness....exam assistance....little financial assistance, and when you check their fears so well...it is true. Remember most working class guys passed through school too....so they know what female students do in school...so they hardly believe that a female student isn't getting some sort of intimacy from some random student guys. Forget what people are saying here.....if you guys had any close intimacy before you went back to school...believe me, the guy wouldn't withdraw this fast.....but he's bored....when you call you ask: how's work...what did u eat today....what are u doing? nothing more....no intimate talks...no emotional talks...no nothing....it bores many guys...especially financially buoyant guys who think they have plenty better option than wasting time with a student far away having fun with some random guys for free. my little advice: if u are a virgin not ready for intimacy...don't love....don't go into committed relationship....keep only male friends...and be far...don't demand from them....be on your own until you are ready else, u will be heartbroken many times and may end up hating to love. go into a relationship when u know u are ready to give your all without holding back. So think again and plan well before embarking on your next relationship should this one fail 9 Likes |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by nigeriancuban: 9:44am On Jan 08, 2016 |
u ve been used and dumped. |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by Welcomme: 9:45am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Can u Imagine! I wish I can have a girl lyk u dupsil. The type of karashikas wey I dey meet, na so so to dey ask me for money. But trust a confirm guy lyk me, I dey always play fast one for their head.... Dupsil, move on. Dat guy just want to waste ur time. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by jamesbridget13(f): 9:45am On Jan 08, 2016 |
I advice u let him be. Move on with ur life. |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by Fraih(f): 9:47am On Jan 08, 2016 |
dupsil:What to do is to Move on with Life, he just needed a Distraction at that point and you happened to be around. This is your last year in school, thinking too much about Him can give you some headache, much will be demanded from you in this last phase. So let him go and make yourself happy again, do things that interest you and consciously take Him off, He obviously does not want you again. |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by blank(f): 9:47am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Adonis3: |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by omoTsexy: 9:47am On Jan 08, 2016 |
likila:. U are a FOOL and the said Idiot... I don't even know how people like think. Do u have to insult her... #muron# 1 Like |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by Nobody: 9:47am On Jan 08, 2016 |
The guy was actually not in love but in lust period |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by Okies27(m): 9:48am On Jan 08, 2016 |
dupsil:. Few girls I gave advice to ended up in-btw my sheets☺ so I will just keep my advice to myself. I am a nice guy though...but babe, concentrate on your remaining year and if he doesn't come around some other nice guy will. Good luck |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by Hoyehdayg(m): 9:48am On Jan 08, 2016 |
My dear, RUN! You are the last person on his mind |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by TheSpellChecker: 9:48am On Jan 08, 2016 |
dupsil: Oh fûck! Sorry, but I just can't forgive grammatical blunders. It's so much pain to eyes to read. I think you can do better because you were still coherent enough amidst all the numerous blunders. Alright. The thing is, in most relationships there's always a party that is so passive about the whole thing and the other party who wants the relationship the more. In this case, obviously it's you. You want it more. So that means it falls on you to do more just to keep the relationship going. Of course, you can still change all that as long as you can handle the consequences. I believe you already know that, huh? You can ignore him. You can stop making yourself available to him. You can start dating another guy, maybe, to make him jealous or something. You can also call it quits if you like. Those are some of the things you can do on your own part. The rest depends on him. So it's you against him. Who blinks first? Are you ready to gamble? Game on. Sorry, if you didn't find my advice meaningful by any means. I check grammar and spellings. I don't check relationships. There! |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by Nobody: 9:49am On Jan 08, 2016 |
How? nigeriancuban: |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by cowgirl9090: 9:49am On Jan 08, 2016 |
gunpoint:Nigerians gat no chill |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by Nobody: 9:50am On Jan 08, 2016 |
MrDoGood:true! You will be CHEATING and still be telling your distance guy that you love him! And the way WOMEN behave like parasite nowadays is not something to talk about. I guess that guy see her as a parasite and she is not making him believe that she is not a parasite 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by Ifebazz(m): 9:51am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Just play along. Get busy, with your books of course. Stop calling too. You will get over him sooner than you think. If he is Finance Minister, it will soon be 4 years and we'll know how busy he truly was. |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by tolutweety(m): 9:51am On Jan 08, 2016 |
IamLEGEND1: Truer words have never been said ! |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by ChynoBEATS: 9:54am On Jan 08, 2016 |
dupsil: bae calm down , stop whynin like my GF cos u sound like her" u dint call back ,u dont call ,not even a text ,am i disturbing u, tell me do u want us to quit, youre not caring " N I'd still be like Darling I'm BUSY I know its annoying cos almost all my close Female friends complain about the same thing..... But the truth is..... BUSY i can't say I am NOT But ALL the Time? ..is sometimes an Excuse i have to Give "re-phrase in simple English if you dont understand" 2me sorry i mean US "introverts" thats how we Roll Its not as-if we are not Caring but when we are fully occupied ....love has to sit on the Bench"tho we still do check up on it ,cos we cant loose it (when we know we need it) .. Just be a Jonathan n hv patience Lolz i feel he's an Introvert ...check am well well Do the immigration style check up on him....... |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by ourchoice(m): 9:55am On Jan 08, 2016 |
sonofananimal:More especially female students.....no working class guy trust a female student! The guy believes she's seeing some other guys in school....and his friends and colleagues will be telling him so too. So its very hard for a guy who just met you as a student and u denied him intimacy to believe that u love him and that u are not having intimacy with fellow students for free. If you observe very well nowadays....working class guys avoid going into committed relationship with female students, why? Because guys believe every female student have a student boyfriend who digs her for free while he will be far spending like mugu, that's the painful truth |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by Ginaz(f): 9:55am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by oluwasegun007(m): 9:57am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Although i dont have junior sista, but i'll advise u like i did. FACTORS THAT MIGHT HAVE MADE HIM CHANGE 1. Friend Factor: Although if he's acting based on this factor, then you should run away from him, reason being that he's not mature enough 2. Family Factor: This is a possible factor, which might be due to; your place of origin e.g igbo,hausa or yoruba (which is contrary to that of the guy), age difference, religion etc 3. Spiritual Factor: This factor is also a possibility. The guy might have gone for spiritual advise on the compatibility btw you two and maybe the outcome do not favour your union. NB: no mature guy will either face to face or over the phone or any medium whatsoever tell a girl that he's calling it off. MY ADVISE: For him not to have called you (for a week) under the pretense of being busy is no excuse, therefore i advise you to call it off informally inother to safe your final exam/project No need to tank me, take it has a New year gift from me |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by Modelling(f): 9:57am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Adonis3:Hell NO brother. She should rather stop it there till he shows he is still interested in a more serious way at that. Any further move by her will be a kind of humiliating herself. My dear sister, you have already tried enough, try to retain your remaining respect n thank God if truly u've not had sex with him. He will come looking for you if he is truly yours, face your studies for now and best of luck #myopinion 1 Like |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by Chubhie: 9:57am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Truth is if you are a person of value he won't let you slip off. |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by Bidex6444(m): 9:58am On Jan 08, 2016 |
All I have to tell u is for u to focus more on ur education. I'm a guy and I knw what it means when a guy is telling u that he's busy. Sis, open ur eyes and kick off his a*s. The guy doesn't need or want u maybe u haven't satisfy him with sex or something just be focus and u re still a student so to speak. There re beta options out there. ##Teamnononsense## |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by hahn(m): 10:00am On Jan 08, 2016 |
Chubhie: Not everyone appreciates what they have irrespective of the level of value 1 Like |
Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? Pls Help!!!!!! by Grandeur24: 10:01am On Jan 08, 2016 |
dupsil: Op, never forget a rule of thumb, " people always make out time for what they prioritize". You are probably not a priority to him, so move on with your life! |
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