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Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by Aremu01(m): 8:36pm On Feb 24, 2016

Pls don't give in. If you do, you will SURELY regret it.
It's just a test of ur faith.

Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by ogtavia(m): 8:36pm On Feb 24, 2016

Don't do it....ur Mom will be fine...u will be fine....Trust God wholeheartedly .. ...meet people ...be happy and positive... apply for other jobs....In all you do...never ever use ur body for d wrong reasons and by dis....I mean..it is only right within the confines of marriage...bless your soul Lady ...

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Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by eduxerxes: 8:38pm On Feb 24, 2016

...And I've been searching for a faithful girl all my life. Pinkie!!!

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Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by emmysoftyou: 8:41pm On Feb 24, 2016

pinkiecutie:
good evening Nigerian's..

my heartfelt greetings goes to you guys once more as you this forum was instrumental to my getting a job last year August...

This is my story. I work for an auditing firm , name withheld by me. early this year I occasionally caught my boss staring at me provocatively I.e lustfully but I just took it as nothing serious because he has never made advances before to me.
Earlier this month, he started complimenting my looks and all, but I still not suspecting anything reciprocated by complimenting his good looks too..
After all who doesn't want to be in the good books of his or her boss..
On the 21st of Jan , he called me into his office and offered me a seat.
I sat innocently, and from there he started his talk about how hard working I was and all.
As if that was not enough, he drew closer and tried to fumble my breast..this man in his mid fifties , had no shame when I politely told him that I was still a virgin and that he should stop..
He apologized and asked me out of his office..
About three days later, he sent for me and presented my termination letter. When I opened the letter, a tear dropped off my eyelids as I saw in block black and bold letters "TERMINATION OF APPOINTMENT DUE TO REDUNDANCY" . I stood there for close to five minutes not knowing what to say.After a while I managed to utter a thank you sir and left to pack all my belongings out of the company..
I went home to meet my sick mom(my father is late, I am an only child), when I saw her state I couldn't just bring it upon my self to tell her that I was just sacked..
right now, all the money I have been spending has gone to my mother's treatment..
even to eat now is a problem, right now having 1000 naira is like a million naira...
I have considered giving in but my vow to keep my virginity till marriage is still strong ( this virginity till marriage is a family thing. my mom,mom's mom and so on where Virgins)
so confused right now lord please help me, in your loving kindness touch the hearts of men to look upon your daughter who has chosen to live according to your ways amen...

my dear dont shake at all,God will renew your strength,very certain about that cos he said he will never let the righteous to suffereth in vain.
the day i knew our God is alive was the day my family had a problems,i even gave up and commit the problems to God and i said to him through prayers that whatever will happen should happen. After that prayer, he surprised me and renew my strength. Dont give up. Since i left my past world,i ve seen countless of blessings,peace and favours from him.
My dear it s well with you. Just hold on, as for your mum dont be afraid,to me she is alright now..
just prays at midnite or tonight and she will be heal..

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Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by Nobody: 8:42pm On Feb 24, 2016

Aremu01:
Pls don't give in.
If you do, you will SURELY regret it.

It's just a test of ur faith.

thnks friend..

ogtavia:
Don't do it....ur Mom will be fine...u will be fine....Trust God wholeheartedly .. ...meet people ...be happy and positive... apply for other jobs....In all you do...never ever use ur body for d wrong reasons and by dis....I mean..it is only right within the confines of marriage...bless your soul Lady ...

[quote author=Aremu01 post=43220263]uplifting...
but my situation is getting dire..

God bless..

Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by adebayour26: 8:43pm On Feb 24, 2016

iamskiigii:
It's not worth it one bit...... Just a little temptation that will pass by. Hold on!

Bible say if u fail in the days of adversity, your strength is small.
What if yoh give in to him & he keeps demandibg for sex for u to retain your job? For how long are you going to do dat?

And being a virgin coz it's a family thing is not enough, I think your reason for being a vurgin should be probably for moral sake or religious sake. Have a good reason for your decisions.

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Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by Nobody: 8:46pm On Feb 24, 2016

pinkiecutie:

AMEN! AND AMEN..
THANKS FRIEND

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Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by adebayour26: 8:46pm On Feb 24, 2016

pinkiecutie:
thnks friend...but my situation is getting dire..

It's a test of time, it won't be too long bcozu realise that God is with you in it all.
Check: 1Cor 10:13 & 2Pet 2:9

Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by Nobody: 8:47pm On Feb 24, 2016

emmysoftyou:
my dear dont shake at all,God will renew your strength,very certain about that cos he said he will never let the righteous to suffereth in vain.
the day i knew our God is alive was the day my family had a problems,i even gave up and commit the problems to God and i said to him through prayers that whatever will happen should happen. After that prayer, he surprised me and renew my strength. Dont give up. Since i left my past world,i ve seen countless of blessings,peace and favours from him.
My dear it s well with you. Just hold on, as for your mum dont be afraid,to me she is alright now..
just prays at midnite or tonight and she will be heal..

I have mildly considered giving in though..
but God's strength will strengthen my resolve...

thanks sir

Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by Nobody: 8:49pm On Feb 24, 2016

pinkiecutie:
he isn't evil.. but his thoughts are..
thanks my friend.

.What's this one saying? He is not Evil but his thoughts are? undecided

Walahi Your Brain needs to be Reset

BTW I'll be Back! Let me get some Popcorn so I can finish this Blockbuster

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Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by ogtavia(m): 8:49pm On Feb 24, 2016

pinkiecutie:
thnks friend..

do you think God doesn't know ur situation is getting dire....av you read in d bible where being surrounded by a cloud of witnesses was mentioned...my mom always tells me sum tin...."its is always darkest before dawn.....it becomes increasingly difficult wen u are getting to d end of tough times....hang in there buddy...

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Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by Nobody: 8:53pm On Feb 24, 2016

Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by chemmerfrank(m): 8:53pm On Feb 24, 2016

I wish i could give you a job right now..

Try not to give in...its a test of faith...pls dnt fail.

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Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by RichYoungNigga: 8:54pm On Feb 24, 2016

Give up your virginity, at least you will get a job in return.

I lost mine for free.

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Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by Nobody: 8:55pm On Feb 24, 2016

YES!

Sell it

Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by Jerryolumide(m): 8:57pm On Feb 24, 2016

pinkiecutie:
Oh What A Life! Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job?

good evening Nigerian's..

my heartfelt greetings goes to you guys once more as you this forum was instrumental to my getting a job last year August...

This is my story. I work for an auditing firm , name withheld by me. early this year I occasionally caught my boss staring at me provocatively I.e lustfully but I just took it as nothing serious because he has never made advances before to me.
Earlier this month, he started complimenting my looks and all, but I still not suspecting anything reciprocated by complimenting his good looks too..
After all who doesn't want to be in the good books of his or her boss..
On the 21st of Jan , he called me into his office and offered me a seat.
I sat innocently, and from there he started his talk about how hard working I was and all.
As if that was not enough, he drew closer and tried to fumble my breast..this man in his mid fifties , had no shame when I politely told him that I was still a virgin and that he should stop..
He apologized and asked me out of his office..
About three days later, he sent for me and presented my termination letter. When I opened the letter, a tear dropped off my eyelids as I saw in block black and bold letters "TERMINATION OF APPOINTMENT DUE TO REDUNDANCY" . I stood there for close to five minutes not knowing what to say.After a while I managed to utter a thank you sir and left to pack all my belongings out of the company..
I went home to meet my sick mom(my father is late, I am an only child), when I saw her state I couldn't just bring it upon my self to tell her that I was just sacked..
right now, all the money I have been spending has gone to my mother's treatment..
even to eat now is a problem, right now having 1000 naira is like a million naira...
I have considered giving in but my vow to keep my virginity till marriage is still strong ( this virginity till marriage is a family thing. my mom,mom's mom and so on where Virgins)
so confused right now lord please help me, in your loving kindness touch the hearts of men to look upon your daughter who has chosen to live according to your ways amen...

You have no assurance that you'll keep the job even if you lose it to him

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Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by UnknownT: 8:57pm On Feb 24, 2016

Well, technically you have been sacked, even if you give you, what's the guarantee that he will 're-employ' you? He will chop you and clean mouth

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Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by Analysiscorner: 8:58pm On Feb 24, 2016

Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all.
He has certainly heard your cries.
What is wrong with your mum?

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Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by CuteEmma(f): 9:02pm On Feb 24, 2016

"lord please help me, in your loving kindness touch the hearts of men to look upon your daughter who has chosen to live according to your ways amen... "

Are you looking for Advice or soliciting for funds??

Secondly, I hope this isn't what I think it is..

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Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by HBB1(m): 9:04pm On Feb 24, 2016

Let the idiot go and die jor, God will make a way, begin to thank him in advance

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Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by bennymark(m): 9:04pm On Feb 24, 2016

So Virgin still dey Nigeria, maybe Lil kids below 5 sha.

Keffi and Unibuja babes Don legitimise olosho

Junior secondary skul cclique of girls (6) f*cking one Alhaji in turns so nobody will notice dia absence (wheere I did NYSC)

Small kids doing mummmy and daddy play and experimenting how wild society has bcome.

God help us

*back to you, you know what to do, nobody can advice u more than u can advise ursef on dis subject cos if u wan give am d pomo, all wetin we advice go fall on blind ears *deaf sorry

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Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by LesbianBoy(m): 9:04pm On Feb 24, 2016

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Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by McSterling(m): 9:05pm On Feb 24, 2016

pinkiecutie:
Oh What A Life! Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job?

good evening Nigerian's..

my heartfelt greetings goes to you guys once more as you this forum was instrumental to my getting a job last year August...

This is my story. I work for an auditing firm , name withheld by me. early this year I occasionally caught my boss staring at me provocatively I.e lustfully but I just took it as nothing serious because he has never made advances before to me.
Earlier this month, he started complimenting my looks and all, but I still not suspecting anything reciprocated by complimenting his good looks too..
After all who doesn't want to be in the good books of his or her boss..
On the 21st of Jan , he called me into his office and offered me a seat.
I sat innocently, and from there he started his talk about how hard working I was and all.
As if that was not enough, he drew closer and tried to fumble my breast..this man in his mid fifties , had no shame when I politely told him that I was still a virgin and that he should stop..
He apologized and asked me out of his office..
About three days later, he sent for me and presented my termination letter. When I opened the letter, a tear dropped off my eyelids as I saw in block black and bold letters "TERMINATION OF APPOINTMENT DUE TO REDUNDANCY" . I stood there for close to five minutes not knowing what to say.After a while I managed to utter a thank you sir and left to pack all my belongings out of the company..
I went home to meet my sick mom(my father is late, I am an only child), when I saw her state I couldn't just bring it upon my self to tell her that I was just sacked..
right now, all the money I have been spending has gone to my mother's treatment..
even to eat now is a problem, right now having 1000 naira is like a million naira...
I have considered giving in but my vow to keep my virginity till marriage is still strong ( this virginity till marriage is a family thing. my mom,mom's mom and so on where Virgins)
so confused right now lord please help me, in your loving kindness touch the hearts of men to look upon your daughter who has chosen to live according to your ways amen...

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Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by DrDxtrz: 9:05pm On Feb 24, 2016

kingofchess:
lemme ask u this question....is ur virginity for sale? if yes, u can go ahead and sale it...but, if no. u know wat 2 do.....I will pray 4 u this night before I sleep. ur mum MUST get well ijn....ur dream job will locate u ijn.

you play chess?

Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by diva90: 9:05pm On Feb 24, 2016

How much was he paying you previously? Ask yourself if it's worth the risk or sacrifice of losing your dignity. Also there is no guarantee that you will still have the job even after sleeping with him. I would say that you should let it go and seek other options. God will provide, trust me when I say there are people in way worse situations than you are. All the best!

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Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by Eluwilussit(m): 9:07pm On Feb 24, 2016

kingofchess:
lemme ask u this question....is ur virginity for sale? if yes, u can go ahead and sale it...but, if no. u know wat 2 do.....I will pray 4 u this night before I sleep. ur mum MUST get well ijn....ur dream job will locate u ijn.

A big AMEN!

Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by Chiscomax(m): 9:08pm On Feb 24, 2016

Use the virginity to pay your bills.

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Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Feb 24, 2016

send me your pix and qualifications plus proof you are a virgin and I'll marry you and all your problems will be over

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Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by nell2: 9:08pm On Feb 24, 2016

it is not worth it for anything in the world. cos you would so regret it.

Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by lexyril: 9:08pm On Feb 24, 2016

Hello young lady, tht is our naija men for you but not all men are like ur boss cos im a man too. Its not everybody tht have conscience. If you don't mind, you can e-mail me ur bank details. Just want to give a helping hand but I will strongly advice you not to allow the devil that lives in ur boss life to go against ur wish. My email is lexyril30@gmail.com

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Re: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by kingofchess(m): 9:09pm On Feb 24, 2016

DrDxtrz:

you play chess?

yes dear....I am the king of chess. no 1 can stand me

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