Take a bow from that relationship.

You seem like a girl who has self control and intelligent indeed. You have also made up your mind that
nothing anybody says will discourage you from dating the guy. All I can say is that you are allow to be
his friend but don't get intimate or closer than usual until you are 18. Am saying this because you might think
you have everything under control but most girls your age that lost their virginity, once made the same pledge
you are making now but they could not control their emotion when that moment came. For sure you can't always be
in an open place with him forever. He will use sweet mouth and cajole you to a coded place and trust me you wont know
when you oblige and before you say "123", your pant is down.

Please note that when you clock 18, is not a leverage for you to start having sex. keep yourself because premarital sex is bad.

First thing first go for a DNA test to be sure the baby is yours then come back for more advice.

It is imperative to be sure that the baby is yours!

street tins no easy.

street tins to easy o

widowhusband:
give him the semen let him use it to fertilise his wife. By the way where is he from, cos there are tribes that do that to their wife as hospitality to friends just asking

His wife can use syringe and inject your fluid in her when she is ovulating and the rest will be history.

You don't have to sleep with his wife.

Normal order is taking shape. UP Chelsea.

Crying won't solve anything bros. That girl is not your wife and you don't need any Babalawo to confirm that for you.

Her love for money and comparing you with her sister's boyfriend is enough red flag for you to let her go. Unfortuntely , you have made her the fulcrum of your life while she doesn't feel same way about you. She is just desperate to settle down. Marriage is a different ball game and when you eventually marry her, she will likely exhibit other bad hallmarks of hers. Almost everybody here is advising you to let her go because we all care about you and don't want you to say "had I know" in the future.

Don't feel bad because all your siblings are maried. Marriage is not a race and is not howfar but how well. So calm down and your true wife will come. Your current girl is surely a recipe for future disaster.

Money indeed is the root of all evil.

Trigger happy police Man.

Laudable motivation.

I believe everyone here is mature enough to take decision on their own. Hence, placing embargo on begging will be a wrong thing to do. I pray not to be in a situation that will make me come here to beg someday (God forbid)but hey, there are so many people who have needs but don't have the money to solve it. So if they come here to beg let them be. If you dont have the heart to help, there are others who are willing to assist. Do you think most of them that are begging today are happy to do so?

There are beggars everywhere in the world and nairaland is not an exception so deal with.

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Men don't like to be beating in their own game. Just get in touch with your Ex and have him come to your
house frequently or call you frequently and make your hubby is aware. You will see how angry your hubby will be. If he protest to it, then
tell him to do away with his ex before you do same. First to do no dey pain. some men sef don't know where
to draw the line.

Give a poor man money and you will see his true and real character.

Bisi thunder fire you there. useless Gay. Na Thunder go continue to dey fire you until you repent from this your disgusting act

Raw truth bro. Same thing I echoed in the original thread she opened. No relationship or Marriage that don't have up and down season.

But that does not mean you should bolt simply because you find a mere attraction else where.

US will never do business with Nigeria without no string attach. They give with one had and collect double from you with another hand.

Buying from us is nothing to celebrate about. The very day Nigeria stop doing business with the US, Will mark the beginning of

our socio-economic liberation. As far as am concern, the US is using modern day form of colonialism which is neo-colonialism

to keep enslaving us. Foreign direct Investment, Globalization etc. are all forms of their dubious encroachment model.

If we want to be amongst the world super power in terms of economic growth, then we must learn to cut all ties with the US

and look inwards and also do business with countries like China, Russia, Brazil, Japan, India and some of the developing countries

that are springing up. Dependency on US is highly detrimental to the future of Nigeria. Is it not the same US that refused to help us with

weapons to fight Boko Haram?

you people saw the handwriting on the wall yet voted for him again.

Constable is 45k
A.S.P is 140k

You are great ----Steve Crown


My woman my everything --Patoranking ft wandecoal

Why did you tell her half truth in the first place? you should have told her the whole truth from the inception that

another woman have a child for you. That way she would have trusted you even more. I doubt if she can ever trust you

again,that is if she eventually take you back. Keep begging her to forgive you and if she don't, move on!

NSUK. Nasarawa State University Keffi.

You are distracted by the other guy that is why. Hence, the reason why anything your boyfriend does, do not excite you anymore.
What happens if you refuse to marry your boyfriend and go on with the new guy then after another five years you become tired of him?
will you dump him and go for another? between what makes you feel he is better than your boyfriend? The devil you know is better than
the angel you don't. Slap yourself out of that illusion you are having else you might end up having an egg on your face with this new guy.

The earlier you tell your boyfriend the better for you.

You must respect the law of the land. her behavior is nothing but "treason"! How would she have felt or reacted if

some had done such during her Hubby's tenure?

icedbeatz:
you are one smart guy bro, hahahaha #6 cracked me up. Thanks for the tips and may God keep blessing you and your wife but is there anything you wished you knew or did earlier before marriage that you realized after marriage?

You most welcome bro and AMEN to your prayers.

Now to your question about "Anything I wished I knew earlier before marriage that I realized after marriage"


Hmmmmm well everything is okay and I can't complain because I knew from the start that Marriage is not bed of roses

and I zeroed my mind that regardless of any situation, I will try and sort it out with Wifey no matter what. However, if I

must answer your question, then the only thing I would have corrected if given a second chance is the issue of finance. I will

make sure I am comfortable at least to a reasonable extent. Why I said so is because it was very tough for me after my wedding

because Money no too dey and it was not easy at the beginning but thank God things took a drastic direction after a year of my Marriage,

God blessed me with a Job and things improved. So make sure you have a steady source of income because is important. Aside that, I will

marry my wife again and again and again if given the opportunity. Not like she is perfect o but she is someone I can leave with and can

easily forgive when she offends me.


Finally, Just a little advice for you bro. Marriage is a sweet thing if you marry your wife. I mean a woman who can go through the storm with

you no matter how fierce it is. I am saying this because by the grace of God I can tell you that I'm married to such woman and it has and is still

helping my marriage till today. Warm regards!

The following are the few tips that has kept me from straying or toeing that part of unfaithfulness:

1. I rush back home immediately after work. It helps me avoid unnecessary "waka"

2. I don't move with friends that I know cheat on their wives

3. I try as much as possible to avoid remote temptation from ladies. I don't allow them to come closer because it could be costly.

4.I buy things for my wife I see and like on other girls/ladies. It makes me concentrate on her more.

5. I make her watch her weight to keep her sexy

6. During sex we do it like boyfriend and girlfriend not like papa and mama. if you know what I mean

7. I pray to God also to help me not to cheat on her

8. beauty attracts me, so I made sure I married a beautiful woman so that I wont be eyeing other beautiful chics outside

9. My wife reads my SMS, chats and all. That way, it keeps me on my feet not be flirtatious.

10. Finally, Everything boils down to your personal commitment and resolve not to cheat because is not easy.


Temptation will surely come in one way or another, in one form or the other but how you deal with it matters!

yes I was right there with my wifey. I witnessed the pain and the eventual joy.

7/10

You talk as if getting pregnant is a unilateral thing. Why blaming her for getting pregnant this "time" as if she impregnated herself.

My friend you better man up and take responsibility.

God please protect her wherever she is and bring her back unhurt IJN.