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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by kikies(m): 6:08pm On May 05, 2016
Go clubbing,party like a rock star,nice guys r always der(like me). Bt remain cool headed n classy.........no jokes oo
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by MentalCase(m): 6:10pm On May 05, 2016
It's your destiny tongue
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by sinistermind(m): 6:10pm On May 05, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks

Well, most Nigerians are social climbers and I know that some on here will already start sending you private messages. But the truth is that, there is someone out there for you, he might have approached you but you might have looked down on him. And please don't look the side of ur workers, BAD IDEA. Just keep an open mind, when u meet a guy, don't create the impression that you have it all. If he is broke, don't make any attempt to help him out because that love for you might turn to love for your money or better still, make sure both of u are close friends and study him closely and don't rush into the relationship. I'm sure pretty soon, i'll get an IV to your wedding to the man of ur dream. Don't lose hope, there's someone out there for you.

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by idupaul: 6:10pm On May 05, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks

This is a hard one ..what u need to do now is to strive to be in environments where everyone is richer and more ambitious than u so u can attract a richer man who would love u for urgent character and person and not Ur money. .you can try the boat club for starters.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Rooneyboy(m): 6:13pm On May 05, 2016
mizlolar:



I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Before I got to this stage I already knew u were ur own problem .
Ma'am , check urself inwardly and tell urself the truth .
U alone know the truth .
U sound so much like my boss , a very mature lady in her mid 40's that keeps saying , "I can never date a man that isn't working" or "I can never marry a man I earn more than" .

My dear , u are the cause of ur own problem.

I personally present myself as a broke a.s.s nigga , if a lady cannot like me for whom I am then so be it .

Pls NOTE : made men these days portray themselves as puppers .
.... Just enjoy the opposite sex company and forget about friendship or relationships.

U'll definitely find what u r looking for with an open mind.

# goodluck dear
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by ivyy(f): 6:14pm On May 05, 2016
hibiscus76:
It's because like charges repel while unlike charges attract..stick to one broke man and help his life to help yours
your idea is not bad but if the story is true, then i can understand her frustrations. Sticking to someone who genuinely loves you is not the problem, feeling used or being used is. No one appreciates that feeling. Male or female.

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by loomer: 6:14pm On May 05, 2016
In Governor osho's voice GO AND DIE
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Hazlett1988: 6:14pm On May 05, 2016
You can pray and wait for the right one
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by olagamalin(m): 6:14pm On May 05, 2016
DragonReborn:
https://www.nairaland.com/2912265/im-very-confused-state-right#42613462
https://www.nairaland.com/3085972/please-need-advice
Here's why NL ladies should not be taken seriously. OP went from being 23 and in her first long term relationship, to being a rich successful woman in her early 30s with bad luck in men, to needing a job and almost being scammed after applying for a job online.
Of which the babe has a link "on how to make people fall in love" on her profile. OP, pray tell this honourable forum ....What is your end game.

Cos you specifically requested I don't abuse you .... I don't think you are smart though.

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by ladycomfort(f): 6:14pm On May 05, 2016
There are many gold diggers in this country waiting to milk you dry. angry awon ole okunrin
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by femlake(m): 6:15pm On May 05, 2016
Na your kadara! grin grin grin grin grin grin wink
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by just2okworld(f): 6:16pm On May 05, 2016
Stelvin101:
If only broke men approach you for marriage then get rich, marry a broke man and make him rich. Period! I don't want to hear one more complain from you, not when you are not Dangote's daughter or that of Mike Adenuga. Next plz
Lolz
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by just2okworld(f): 6:17pm On May 05, 2016
ladycomfort:
There are many gold diggers in this country waiting to milk you dry. angry awon ole okunrin


Dem plenty o!!!
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by mukhcech(m): 6:19pm On May 05, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks


Would you marry me? Btw I am a muslim.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by abimbawealth(f): 6:19pm On May 05, 2016
Choi, God dey
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 6:19pm On May 05, 2016
Its Not your Fault. Keep ya head up. The Right Partner will Come at the Right Time By God Grace. Continue been strong and never lower your guide for any reason. May God heal your Heart.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by abimbawealth(f): 6:20pm On May 05, 2016
femlake:
Na your kadara! grin grin grin grin grin grin wink
Kadara ke...hmmmmm
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by ekefre4(m): 6:21pm On May 05, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks
just b urself n don't b desperate u will meet a nice guy.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 6:23pm On May 05, 2016
OP, what side of the car is the gas filler on your Matrix?

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by abimbawealth(f): 6:24pm On May 05, 2016
Rooneyboy:


Before I got to this stage I already knew u were ur own problem .
Ma'am , check urself inwardly and tell urself the truth .
U alone know the truth .
U sound so much like my boss , a very mature lady in her mid 40's that keeps saying , "I can never date a man that isn't working" or "I can never marry a man I earn more than" .

My dear , u are the cause of ur own problem.


I personally present myself as a broke a.s.s nigga , if a lady cannot like me for whom I am then so be it .

Pls NOTE : made men these days portray themselves as puppers .
.... Just enjoy the opposite sex company and forget about friendship or relationships.

U'll definitely find what u r looking for with an open mind.

# goodluck dear
Bros, I feel there's a difference between presenting oneself as a broke as* nigg* and a gold digger...well, that's if her story is true...
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by bisi16(m): 6:24pm On May 05, 2016
DragonReborn:
https://www.nairaland.com/2912265/im-very-confused-state-right#42613462
https://www.nairaland.com/3085972/please-need-advice
Here's why NL ladies should not be taken seriously. OP went from being 23 and in her first long term relationship, to being a rich successful woman in her early 30s with bad luck in men, to needing a job and almost being scammed after applying for a job online.
Nice 1
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by goingape: 6:25pm On May 05, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks
This poverty parasitic WOMEN will be coming here and be talking RUBBISH.

Is your father rich?


I guess your mother was a gold digger when she married your mother, no wonder you got this demented MENTALITY!


You are a disgrace to black women and your type need to be throw to the forest.

NAIJA WOMEN ARE very STVPID set of creature!

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by focus7: 6:26pm On May 05, 2016
To start with the gold diggers that have always proposed to you are guys in your environment that knows your background though you don't know many of them. Try this, don't accept a proposal from anywhere near where you lives, and try to go to areas you might not be known for your daily activities like shopping, business, church and other things. Also before you accept a proposal try to do some fact finding about the guy particularly what he does, make that aspect a must, meaning he must be gainfully engaged, sometimes his poor background does not really matter as some guys with poor background has real dignity, another factor you must consider is his vision and purpose for life, visionless guys are mostly liabilities and gold diggers. Find out if such a guy has what it takes to build up little things to greatness and if he will be willing to support you take to the next level the resources your dad left behind for you, that doesn't mean you are going to be exposing who you are so early but you just take your time to do a thorough assessment of whoever before you throw yourself at him. One more thing to be sure of is if he's not the type that is intimidated by the woman's status. But above all commit everything to God in prayer He will guide you to the right person. And hear this you just rightly position yourself the man will come looking for you don't be that desperate looking for the man.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Bgorgeous: 6:29pm On May 05, 2016
My sister find pastors
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by pepigeorge(m): 6:29pm On May 05, 2016
what other assets do u have apart from daddy's wealth. sorry to ask, are u pretty? are u humble or arrogant? are u bossy?
check yourself u may be doing something that is making dis men go for your money rather than love.
maybe u are going for handsome guymen wen u are not matching their standard base on beauty, just the daddy's wealth.... just check yourself cos there are still a lot of decent men
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by sorepco(m): 6:30pm On May 05, 2016
Lolar i think ur mum sees how flamboyant yr life is and is worried...she even asked u to tone it down. U cant c the flamboyance in your style but it attracts the gold diggers just as blood attracts sharks.
Tone down...since u want a real jusband n not to play around. I suggest you start by toning down your dressing and perfs. Stop looking too sopjisticated. Be more casual in your outlook. Some guys can smell or see from afar a fendi...d n g .. channel..ysl and co from a mile away. Try n look simple but not cheap!!
As for the 4 guys at work...warn dem off. Na gold digging they want do u



mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by HiliaryAutos(m): 6:31pm On May 05, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks


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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by joshuaidibia(m): 6:31pm On May 05, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks
upload ur pix without make-up lemme see how beautiful u are. Come to my house,lets make love,lemme see how good you are,cook afang soup come,lemme see how good u can cook. If you pass all this tests,then i go find rich husband 4u. Mtcheeew
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by sorepco(m): 6:32pm On May 05, 2016
Did tiwa.s guy not marry her cos of money? N fame?


iPopAlomo:
Scam 101...

Anyone that believes this cooked up story can believe anything...
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by frubben(m): 6:33pm On May 05, 2016
Marlvin:
Your story seems fake, I dunno if you noticed the loopholes ?

God bless u, its a well compose lie. Very fake
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by scachy(m): 6:34pm On May 05, 2016
Quite bad experience.stupid n childish underhanded tricks to scam people of their hard earned money
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by G8Arthur(m): 6:34pm On May 05, 2016
u are the architect if ur own problems. U will never attract humble men with ur lifestyle. That is the truth. U need to cut down and disguise a bit then pray for wisdom and spirit of decernment.

I will suggest u look into churches if you are a Christian and go to a church where u are not known. Avoid using car to church. Attend prayer meetings and services like a normal casual worshipper. Then watch out for those that are not looking at u or seeking for ur attention.

Backup plan with prayers bcus busy bodies are still in churches also.

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