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Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Nobody: 2:49pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
Princek12: You are right, I made mention of a guy paying the bills just to get the gril to say yes!! That was when I was talking about the wooing thing. But then they changed the topic to 'Why should I spend on a girl? Why bother? What happened to independence? Why cant you work for your money? . . . And I'm like 'Wao'! Now its even a crime for a guy to spend on his girl!! Even though NLders decided to digress from the topic, I still think my question is valid. Those days a man will take tubers of yams and goats to the family of his intended, just to make his intentions known to her family . . . If the family wants to give their daughter, they'll happily accept. If they dont, they tell him to go back with his gifts. These days, if a lady accepts gifts from a suitor, she becomes a gold-digger, if she rejects, she becomes a model wife!! These days, guys dont think they should offer ladies gifts because they think 'they are not worth it' Now I understand if you dont have any gifts to offer, or any money to spend, but why do you have to hold back when you can give, just because you assume the girl's a gold-digger |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by r231(m): 2:54pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
Ujujoan: dats not true if she is my girlfriend/wife/fiancée why not cus I will everything/anything for my woman cus i knw 100% dat she will do even more for me. |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by whitelexi(m): 3:06pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
Uju dearie, I dont believe this argument is still on, abeg slow down with this talk. will holla |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Nobody: 3:06pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
smooooooth: Thank you jare! At least you are being sincere . . These things dosen't have to come with flambouyance; afterall you can only give what you can afford. The truth of the matter is that men have lost respect for women, totally!! They justify it by making refernce to thier 'booty-calls', but all in all, its obvious that some guys have forgotten how to be decent. Of course they claim the women are to balme and some ladies here buy the idea, but I think this is all a proof that Men are begining to lose sight of their responsibilities!! |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Nobody: 3:09pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
whitelexi: OK!! |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by frank317: 4:06pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
rickie4us: uju,I wonder why you choose to ignore this post. how i wish you would answer, cos i belive this is where the argument ends |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Ben13: 4:50pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
lol. . . nice thread wooing has travelled long before the global recession. |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by rickie4us(m): 4:54pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
@ frank3.16 thanks for your comments , Let UJU answer to the post , we are waiting for her , Posted by: frank3.16 Quote from: rickie4us on Today at 11:52:29 AM @uju well, I don't know what you were expecting when you got here , From what I can observe, you are not quite satisfied with the comments of the guys , well, the truth is , no one is going to spend on a girl except they 'treasure' her in the first place, are you making yourself 'treasurable'? remember, what you get is what you deserve , the way you will be treated is exactly the treatment that you deserve , gone are the days of wooing , women have been claiming equal rights et al and some are even earning more than the guys , the simple truth is , the economy is not buoyant enough for all that spoiling , but of course, you can get some from pot bellied men |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by chic2pimp(m): 5:19pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
Ujujoan:Those days women did not earn as much money as men. Those days are long gone my dear. Welcome to the modern world. |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Nobody: 5:26pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
chic2pimp: @ rickie4us et al . . Now this is one reasonable argument!! Even though it dosent justify it, cos a gift dosent necessarily have to be what someone can't afford!! I only agree with the highlighted cos it supports my conclusion that men are shelving their responsibilities and maybe it's because the women now earn as much as they do!! I wonder who you guys are to judge who deserves what!! If you can't buy a lady the cheapest meal, you certainly won't be able to buy her a Car when you make the money!! |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by chic2pimp(m): 5:27pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
smooooooth:Women should also stand up to their responsibilities and be REAL WOMEN. It works both ways u know. |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Nobody: 5:29pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
chic2pimp: Yea but you guys should take the lead. Or aint you the stronger sex anymore? Tell us oh, cos women like us will happily take over |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Nobody: 6:08pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
aint nuttin going on in the bed you gotta spend that bread if u wanna get some head |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by ThiefOfHearts(f): 6:23pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
What happened to those days that guys pay bills, shower a girl with gifts, take her to exotic places, just to get her to say 'yes'!! They exist, they're just running from you |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by jidobaba(m): 6:30pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
Ujujoan: Yes, able-bodied, boil-faced, mustachioed women like you may take over. Later you'll be wondering why no one spends on you. Even last smallies for my zone dey complain say Sugar Daddies dey spoil dem. And, retract that fib- you're not in the States( or anywhere near 'em), you this Okota girl. |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by ayobase(m): 6:39pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
Uju, the earlier the better o! Nigeria Is Blessed. |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by chic2pimp(m): 6:44pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
Ujujoan:The saying goes What a Man can do, a woman can do better. Abi no be so ?. Its high time u lot prove that saying right. Take the lead and woo us. Instead of complaining make u show us how it is meant to be done. Ujujoan:I also wonder who you GIRLS are to judge how we choose to spend our money. If she can't pay for meals when she earns the same amount as I do(or in some cases more than I do), I can begin to imagine wot she'll be like when I start earning millions. |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by eldee(m): 7:31pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
ThiefOfHearts:You actually believe ladies should still get bribed into relationships after all this talk of gender equality?? |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Nobody: 8:36pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
They exist, they're just running from you Tongue Yea, I can see them camping outside your door!! Neway, I've been advised to let you guys win. so una don win!! |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Vuitton(m): 9:01pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
Ujujoan: Wonder who your adviser is Hope not you are not being mislead Men like me love miss independents on that Beyonce kinda tin. We 50 - 50 love can also split the bills 50 - 50 Its a new day so maintain your ego |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by C2H5OH(f): 9:10pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
Guys have become sharper than razor blade . Dudes like chic2simp have learned to become more frugal when spending on girls nowadays. If you take into account the beautiful fact that hot-looking perfect-figure babes are in abundance and are cheaply willing to act as sperm receptacles for next to nothing. Why pay more until you want a serious long-term commitment with a decent woman? |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Nobody: 9:16pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
smh |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Vuitton(m): 9:19pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
C2H5OH: True |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by C2H5OH(f): 9:40pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
@stilletos forgive me. I almost forgot to respond. I guess you are misinterpreting my message.My point here is that women give up their canal treasure way too quickly these days. I wonder, could it be because of the distorted way in which they perceive their bodies because of the media?I did misinterprete some parts of your previous post. Women giving up their "canal treasure" only confirms the historically unspoken truth that women are just as Hot and as ever-ready to sleep around as men are. They are just much better at being closet freaks. Men working for their women is not submerged in material spending alone. There are a plethora of other more efficient methods that a man can employ to make a woman feel on top of the world; material spending is only one of the possible ones. If the women paid more attention to these other efforts they wouldn't be too selfishly concerned with "treasure wooing". Guys are now heavily reliant on other cost-effective models of expressing their love. We can save the "treasure wooing" for when we reel in the hot catch. And, If everyone waited until the ideal "I do" moment to give up their "canal treasure", I would be happy because I get to marry my virgin , but overall we would have too many constipated, grumpy, <violent?> people walking around. I would prefer to have it that way though, since it would probably shift the people's focus toward living for GOD? That's purely speculation on my part. You can always opt for reconstructive surgery, but I'm sure you know that's a fool's way of brandishing a defective product as "new", and being the profound feminist that you are you wouldn't want to take that low-road. |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by ThiefOfHearts(f): 9:41pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
Uju, I no need such "camping> i wasnt raised poor so nothing can impress me. Sorry eldee: where does it say that I said any of the sort? I'll be waiting for a quote. |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Sauron1: 9:44pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
C2H5OH: +1
This. |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by bolanleodu: 9:56pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
why are girls so intrested in the money and not the man. f**king money slaves ~Sauron~: |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by eldee(m): 9:58pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
ThiefOfHearts:Hehehe . . . was just setting that trap for you. I'm just looking for these halfway feminists that want the best of both worlds. |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by chic2pimp(m): 10:01pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
C2H5OH:Omo na so we see am ooo. Men have to be frugal nowadays. If not ,dem go chop your money finish and leave u with next to nothing. |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by ThiefOfHearts(f): 10:54pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
eldee: Oniranu. Although gender equality doesnt mean a guy should never buy a girl something nice. After all despite the gender equality you lazy dorks still expect a good meal from your women, no be so? |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by oyinda3(f): 11:00pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
What happened to those days that guys pay bills, shower a girl with gifts, take her to exotic places, just to get her to say 'yes'!! what days/era was this? I don't think guys generally ever did that. . i mean that has to be the most stupid thing a guy could do. what if she says no? of course the girl will take the gifts even if she doesn't want him. and even if she does says yes, what happens after? the gift, money supply just stops? is the girl supposed to remain with him after that? how silly |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Sauron1: 11:05pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
chic2pimp: TBH, today's women don't really care about em gifts and incentives BEFORE the relationship. Of course, they don't complain when showered with the gifts but it's not a prerequisite like it used to be in em days. There's acute shortage of good men these days so women scrap for anything in trousers. The days of take me to the cinema before i kiss you are well and truly OVER. |
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