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Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by biola44: 9:35am On Sep 02, 2009 |
i think i u'stand wat topup n Uju are saying, both right but facing d harsh realities of our time nothing is right or wrong, it is wat it is and wat isnt |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by r231(m): 10:21am On Sep 02, 2009 |
Ujujoan: I am sure if you show a guy dat you LOVE & CARE for him wooing you won't be a problem so far your love is real, you always talk about what you want but never for once say anything about what u are going to give apart from ass to get what you want maybe you need to think about that and i guess dats why all d ladies here are against you not being HYPOCRITE. |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by v3: 10:27am On Sep 02, 2009 |
The society we live in today's one where money obviously comes first before anyother thing Uju, I understand what you mean by the "treasure" . . .as it necessarily doesn't have to include the extravagant luxuries that our so-called young girls obviously lust for in a guy. . . Thankfully, i got me a girl who's NOT really into that cash-for-hand, back-for-ground sorta thing *innit the language?*. . I could get her good stuff but then she'd refuse it all in the name of me wanting to impress her It's the 21st century and NO girl/woman/lady would wanna be in shackles forever. . .thats why we have young girls marrying men old enough to be their parents, prostitutes who want the "big life" the fast way, one-night standers (chop n clean mouth) etc. . . But then there're the good ones, like mine. . .who OBVIOUSLY ain't all about the cash (even when i have enough to splash on her) |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Nobody: 10:30am On Sep 02, 2009 |
topup: Why do they have to be independent of each other? The affection and the gifts, I mean. Why does it have to be an eithr or? Can't a guy express his affection and still be able to give his girl gifts? A guy travels out of the country and gets you a Swatch watch, as a girl he likes, and you rule him out and trying to buy you? Trying to force you to notice him? Thats a bit short-sighted if I should say. Your reservation should only be there when its obvious the man's not worth a dime in attitude and affection. But dont you dare victimize him cos he belives in buying you a gift or two. Dont make him apologize for being rich!! Ask Luther Vandross!! |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Nobody: 10:36am On Sep 02, 2009 |
v3nom4eva: Thank you so much for that!! Imagine a girl turning down her guy's gift because she thinks he wants to 'impress' her!! Thats absurd. You dont judge a guy for buying you a gift. I buy my BF gifts and it'd be silly if he thinks I'm trying to impress him. So I would be really silly to think his gifts are what tells his intentions. No decent lady will make her choice of a man based on gifts and cash and 'treasure', but that dosent mean its unacceptable to her when the guy does it!! |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by r231(m): 10:38am On Sep 02, 2009 |
Ujujoan: he is DEAD, lol now I knw what tickles you all a guy needs to do is go to NEXT clearance and spend £10 on you every month and d ass belongs to him, lol what your address |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by lonewolf: 10:38am On Sep 02, 2009 |
Wooing ko, wooing ni. A girl needs to get on her shit and have a lot to offer before I even consider some relationship tip. I mean, this is 2009. |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by v3: 10:39am On Sep 02, 2009 |
@uju I don't fink there's an either (except the guy's obviously not okay upstairs). . .when it comes to affection & gift, they're forever tied to eachother. . If i don't have the slightest bit of affection for you, why'd i in God's name wanna shower u wit gifts?? But then again, if it were to be a first-time affair (this is where most of us en tend to get it wrong), the impression we tend to give intending dates/girlfriends/future partners are that we can hold it down no matter the weather, Left to me, i'd be my real self, so in case she decides to be my lady. . .it wouldn't come as a shock/fluke to her that ALL i did back then was just pretense to get her. . . |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Nobody: 10:46am On Sep 02, 2009 |
r231: This thread is not about me personally because trust me, treasure's not my problem. This thread is about the whole idea of guys thinking they can buy a girl just because they gave her one or two gifts, when its supposed to be a gesture from the heart. And women thinking they'll be seen as materialistic if they accept gifts from guys, when in actual fact, some guys offer gifts from the depth of their heart!! I dont have to come to NL and broadcast what I have to offer a guy personally and my ability to 'love and care' is certainly not your problem. |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by IGWEUSA(m): 10:48am On Sep 02, 2009 |
@ Post Because all ladies are now "Financially independent and strong women", as they always claim. Hence, whats the essence lavishing money on someone who is in the same class with you. In other words, ADAMs don wise up |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by v3: 10:49am On Sep 02, 2009 |
lonewolf:someone's REALLY pissed. . . lmao!! |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by r231(m): 10:51am On Sep 02, 2009 |
Ujujoan: good for you |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Nobody: 10:58am On Sep 02, 2009 |
Uju again!! |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by v3: 11:01am On Sep 02, 2009 |
aysometin:Yes o. . .she's ALWAYS startin somefin |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Nobody: 11:03am On Sep 02, 2009 |
v3nom4eva: Did you fall from the sky? Havent you being on this thread for long? Every guy here claims they've grown wise so they dont spend a dime on girls. Even the ones they care for . . . Even the ladies sef, they claim they dont accept gifts, even from the guys they like!! I'm begining to think I live in a world of my own, where a guy offers to help me with my bills to ease the pressure on me and I appreciate him for being so kind |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Nobody: 11:04am On Sep 02, 2009 |
aysometin: LOL |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by v3: 11:13am On Sep 02, 2009 |
@uju yes. . .i fell from the sky & no i refuse to follow the thrend of men feel thet've become sooo wise they'd NOT wanna spend on they women. . .i guess my kind are only a handful. . . |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by biola44: 11:24am On Sep 02, 2009 |
;d ;d ;d |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by rickie4us(m): 11:52am On Sep 02, 2009 |
@uju well, I don't know what you were expecting when you got here , From what I can observe, you are not quite satisfied with the comments of the guys , well, the truth is , no one is going to spend on a girl except they 'treasure' her in the first place, are you making yourself 'treasurable'? remember, what you get is what you deserve , the way you will be treated is exactly the treatment that you deserve , gone are the days of wooing , women have been claiming equal rights et al and some are even earning more than the guys , the simple truth is , the economy is not buoyant enough for all that spoiling , but of course, you can get some from pot bellied men , |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by biola44: 11:55am On Sep 02, 2009 |
lmao |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by v3: 11:56am On Sep 02, 2009 |
biola44: seconded!!! LMYO!! |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by rickie4us(m): 12:02pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
this is a man wooing his treasure , (the woman is also wooing the man's pot belly in return for all the goodies she gets from him) these are the type of men you will find wooing , the regular guys are not so into it anymore ,
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Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by v3: 12:09pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
rickie4us: Gawd abeg o!!! I no fit laugh again o!rickie |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by etolaiya(f): 12:17pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
i don tire for guys and girls alike! guys are looking for excuses not to spend some girls are forming independent while others just wan chop while the very few ones like d poster just want a lil something once in a while to make her feel good big deal! to the guys that are not spending, try to( at least a lil) to the girls forming independent, when u marry pay all the bills (sheesh why marry?) the others that want to chop, some magas are still out there (efrebo!) to the very few ones , God dey! lol! |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Amjustme: 12:31pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
Girls come too cheap these days BUT for those who still 'KEEP" themselves they have em guys all over begging to spend their money on them. |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Pancs(m): 12:33pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
Joan dat name rings a bell,a friend of mine hooked up wit dis jo who started makin expensive demands frm de guy afta just a wk of frienship so he had 2 cal it a quit.Is dat y u'a doin dis topic? U galla wake up |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by biola44: 12:46pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
hmmmmmmmmm |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Princek12(m): 1:27pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
Ujujoan:Uju, Uu, Uju! How many times did I call you? Three. You are such a flip-flopper, saying one thing before and another thing now. You posted the question and you appear to be missing the issue. You said that what happened to a guy spending, paying bills, just to get her to say yes. Inferentially, that means the guy should do all the spending when he meets her; she has not said yes or is saying no; before any commitment on her part or reciprocal favorable treatment from this girl; and he should do all that spending including paying her bills just to get her to say yes. You did not post a question about how a girl will appreciate a little spoiling from her man, which is what you are saying in this post but not what your original question is. To change your stance in the middle of this argument is a copout and a punk move. Most guys won't mind doing that to a girl after they are in a relationship, committed or engaged or married, and the guy is sure that his money won't be going to waste, because the same girl may say no. Mugus, Old, ugly, pot-bellied guys, and guys who lack substance or self esteem and think that that is the only way to get a girl will probably pay your bills just to get you to say yes. But, come on, this is 2009, men should be smarter with their money and invest wisely, because the girls will be chasing you when you are financially OK. Like I said earlier, I am sure a lot of guys will woo you with cash if you stand on the side of the road and sell that stuff, like some girls in Lag or Abuja. Uju, don't be a flip-flopper. You also talked about how does a guy expect to meet a decent girl with that mentality. Have you ever asked yourself: how do you expect to meet a decent guy with your own mentality? Think about it before responding to this, if you ever do. |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by Itohan123(m): 1:29pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by smooooooth: 1:52pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
i think i know what uju and topup want, a guy that will sweep them off their feet. okay u two wait make i go buy BROOM. ok, on a serious note, me think they both have a point, guyz have forgotten how to treat a lady nicely, they have forgotten that ladies have deeper emotions, that needs to be touched, they no longer give ladies the deserved respect, thats why most of them can raise their hands and hit their women, cheat without care. i'm not talking about the cheap booty calls we get often, i'm talking about the real women, the decent women in our lives, how we treating them, thats a question for all guys. we shld stop putting the blame on the cheap whores, or the economy melt down, etc. its a well known fact that cows give more milk in a friendly environment, so if you treat that lady right, she will understand when the economy is down, she will love you whether u got a dollor to your name or not. Gifts are neccessary in a relationship, they mean alot to women, i am not saying u have to spend a fortune to get them something, even the little things count, flowers, chocolates, calls, time, they are count. it only tells the lady you are intouch with their feelings, that you thinking bout them most times, like i cant go by a shop with a beautiful dress, shoe or ring on display, without looking and thinking how good it will look on my girl. even if i dont have the money to buy it then, at least i have the thought, and women can hear, and see your thoughts. life is an echo, what u give out is what u get. guys shld stand up to their responsibilities and be real Men. |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by r231(m): 1:52pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
Princek12: true talk |
Re: Guys, What Happened To Treasure? (wooing) by frank317: 2:02pm On Sep 02, 2009 |
@ poster, u are just like me,trying to see things the way they and not the way we think or want others to think. However I think you are really neglecting a lot of facts rickie4us: I will really like you to read this post and respond to it. I WILL REALLY APPREACIATE YOUR RESPONSE HERE. then i can really know what you are really all about. etolaiya: we marry because of the need for a patner to build a family with, not so that someone can pay your bills for you. |
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