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Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by 5minsmadness: 8:01am On Jul 14, 2016 |
kcowen: ![]() Make me sef mark register. Op Runn ohhhh! The prognosis is very poor! Unless u want to use your life as experiment, but I assure u, it's not worth it! |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by salvation77177: 8:02am On Jul 14, 2016 |
No matter what the man have done in the past, he still deserves some respect at least while you were there. The Bible says honour your father and mother so that your days on the planet earth will be long. This word of God will stand to the end of the world whether you believe it or not. So, for your wife to be to treat her own father with disdain even in your presence speaks louder of an impending doom. The mother may do what she with her husband but definitely not the daughter. It's disastrous. Be careful, my brother. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by 0ubenji(m): 8:04am On Jul 14, 2016 |
harsysky:*chews kola* *gulps dry gin*... Erm...bros...so wen ur unmarried sista tells u one day she went to her fiance's ause nd saw him beating his mom mercilessly..which appears to be a routine from wat he told her; dat his mum did dis and dat in d past.. U wud repeat dis same epistle baa? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Nobody: 8:07am On Jul 14, 2016 |
Flee brother Flee!!!
If you can fly, fly!!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Okudiover(m): 8:12am On Jul 14, 2016 |
Be prepared to be the next house boy. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Jamean(f): 8:15am On Jul 14, 2016 |
0ubenji: Well, there's nothing to finish 'cause there's actually nothing left. That's the worse you can reduce a man to. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by dayus12(f): 8:15am On Jul 14, 2016 |
Op: Please yield to all these good advises ooo.... There's no point in investigating further. The lady said the mom turned him to that because he maltreated her, that's wickedness and your fiancee already has that spirit(mentality) in her. Please quit as soon as possible before she carry your name go do something... |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by conine: 8:17am On Jul 14, 2016 |
Run for ur life cus u maybe another victim |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by salvation77177: 8:17am On Jul 14, 2016 |
No matter what the man have done in the past, he still deserves some respect at least while you were there. The Bible says honour your father and mother so that your days on the planet earth will be long. This word of God will stand to the end of the world whether you believe it or not. So, for your wife to be to treat her own father with disdain even in your presence speaks louder of an impending doom. The mother may do what she likes with her husband but definitely not the daughter. It's disastrous. Anyway, there is no problem with out a solution. You may be the solution God is sending to that family. Take time to find out what actually happened and then to mediate. If positive, good but if not, run for your life. Be careful, my brother. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Nobody: 8:20am On Jul 14, 2016 |
sammily:my nigga pls run....or better srill talk to d fada.bt no matter wat, run xus d mom wld b a big part of ur marriage |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Nobody: 8:23am On Jul 14, 2016 |
Okijajuju1:smartest comment indeed. will you be on sit and your momma give your dad money to buy fuel. and you still believed that he shouldn't make hasty decision. OK oooo 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Nobody: 8:26am On Jul 14, 2016 |
Okudiover:the guy have his own ride. he will be very effective running errands. ![]() |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Jumat08(m): 8:29am On Jul 14, 2016 |
nnamdibig:Are you sure the man is going to remember anything? 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by 0ubenji(m): 8:29am On Jul 14, 2016 |
Pascalin90:Dis needless time u fink he shud spend investigating.. If he spends it seekin God in prayers and lookin very well dis time for anoda woman..he'll definitely see somtin better.. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by esejessy(f): 8:29am On Jul 14, 2016 |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Sunsets: 8:31am On Jul 14, 2016 |
I have three (3) points of advice for you. Point 1: RUN Point 2: RUNNNNNN!!!!!! Point 3: RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! for your life. Note: Run only if your life matters to you. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by 0ubenji(m): 8:33am On Jul 14, 2016 |
Jamean:Lolz..bae..u juz only defined ur own definition of FINISH.. Who knws..!!...dey might av more sinister plans in mind to actually FINISH him.. Wickedness is an infinite term.. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by AreaFada2: 8:37am On Jul 14, 2016 |
Ol boy, you're in luck. Congrats! Abeg befriend your future father-in-law quickly. Get useful tips on how to flourish as a servant, maiguard, errand boy and the like in your own house. ![]() ![]() Una commentators sef too funny. This dude wants reassurance that all will be fine, that the man deserves his fate, that as long as the he behaves himself, his future wife will not do such to him, yada yada yada. Oblige him na. He has proposed, he must marry na. Proposed to a woman whose home he knew nothing about, not even if her Dad was dead or alive. ![]() If my junior brother dare ask this kind of help from me, I will use kokobo to design his body and reset/format his brain again. ![]() Haba! 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by dayus12(f): 8:41am On Jul 14, 2016 |
harsysky: Uncle, I don't think you understand what the op was saying or probably you know nothing on how it feels to be in that situation. You said they still love him a bit by still feeding him. No matter what the man did does that warrant the woman trashing his destiny and turning him to a house boy? and you said the guy should save the family. It would have been very easy for the guy to work on the lady if she herself see it as a bad thing and not when she's supporting her mum and explaining to op why they did that. We have a case like that in my family(my uncle married a strange wife and the only thing we can do to save our uncle is prayer cos we were not there when he made his choice and we can't poke nose so much before she finish everyone in the family). I can't advice the op to go further...and I pray God will direct his steps sha... No one is perfect as you've rightly said but some imperfections are still bearable.... |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by tabithababy(f): 8:45am On Jul 14, 2016 |
Na wa o. Some ladies here are saying the man should have been forgiven by the woman as if it were to be them they would even be at peace with the man let alone accomodate and feed him. ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by 0ubenji(m): 8:47am On Jul 14, 2016 |
habeemurfty:Sinx u're of d opinion dat d OP shud nt marry the yeye gurl.. Biko..wat is the investigation for? Need I tel u aw many ppl CURIOSITY has killed?? |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Okijajuju1(m): 8:50am On Jul 14, 2016 |
WinningSun: No point trying to explain things to you. It would be an exercise in futility. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Nobody: 8:53am On Jul 14, 2016 |
@ sammily Do not run, not yet. Help that man. He is a man like you. Go to him, have a moment with him alone. If possible, have him dress up, take him somewhere that his wife and daughter will not be present to influence his statements, gain his confidence and hear the entire stories of the lives. Do not run, without changing the man's life for the better. This is the core reason that your God took you to that man, it might be for the man's salvation that you are there. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Arsenate(m): 8:57am On Jul 14, 2016 |
Billyonaire:wow. Well said. Pls op help that man. I can just imagine what he is going through. Must be really hard. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Elle277(f): 8:58am On Jul 14, 2016 |
whatever the man might have done in the past will never warrant that type of treatment in your own very presence,, bro think twice o,The FAM no get shame at all,be prayerful as you RUN away make their charm no reach you pls!!!!smh |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Beleeez(m): 8:59am On Jul 14, 2016 |
U don enter one chance already, u need breakup quietly else, u go begin watch plate for their house before u do wedding sef ![]() |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by yinkhar(f): 9:00am On Jul 14, 2016 |
i believe they have charmed d man and dats wickedness cos no matter what he might have done in d past doesnt warrant such treatment. its nt a new thing hearing abt cases of husband maltreating wives (a senerio i hate). my dad maltreated my mom and even left us wen i was still at d age of 3, he got married to anoda woman nd later years he fell sick due to cancer and we all came around him nd cared for him nt minding what he has done in d past. Even when he was on d sick bed, we accorded him the respect he deserved until he passed on and my mom forgave him cos d bible said we shud forgive those who trepass against us so our sins may be forgiven. ur girl need to remember dat d bible says honor ur father and mother so dat ur days may be long. ur girl will surely follow her mom footstep cos she believe in her. let her know ur mind before u run away so she can learn lessons. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by stunningjudy(f): 9:06am On Jul 14, 2016 |
Izen:She has a choice of leaving him to his fate instead of destroying him in that manner. And again it's possible the man didn't do anything to them. There's this home video, 'Tea or coffee' , watch it 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by cozyfaithex(f): 9:16am On Jul 14, 2016 |
my brother,I beg u in the name of God,run for ur lyf. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Jollymich(m): 9:16am On Jul 14, 2016 |
Hum' its alright, but its retrogression. Show little kindness. Be a good example and drop embitterness. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Boombijj: 9:19am On Jul 14, 2016 |
My brother, that thing called love don't last forever. She claims to love you now,but believe me, you are going to be treated same way some day. It's a simple sign for you to run for your life. No look back too. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Nobody: 9:22am On Jul 14, 2016 |
Exactly, he was very lucky glossy6: |
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