asuo27:
She force am?, no be him carry e hand carry load.

defender of the universe

uyiekpen26:
https://www.nairaland.com/3358521/did-go-too-far-actions

Hello nairalanders. I opened a thread asking if I went too far with my actions in regards to unfaithfulness and ingratitude of my now ex. I equally stated vividly that I had asked the landlord of the house I rented for her to issue her a quit notice and froze her account too. I also said I'll be going to collect everything from her house with the aid of mobile policemen on Friday.

Today during my lunch break, I got a call from one of her siblings. I was told she was admitted this morning. Initially I thought it was a joke but when the mother called me and told me herself I knew it was serious. She told me she collapsed this morning and that she has not been herself ever since I instructed the landlord to issue her a quit notice and froze her account. She has been begging me not to take the issue too far the way I'm planning to. That I should please tamper justice with mercy.

What I don't understand is this. Where was she when her daughter was acting wild? Where was she when her daughter was busy cheating on me? I made it clear to her that I've taken a decision and I'm not gonna change it. Nobody has the monopoly of toying with people's emotions. My mind is made up and there's no going back.

oga, ask her mom how it's any of your business that she collapsed?




Don't fool yourself into taking her back if you don't want me to curse you.



Let her collapse. If she wan die make she die. Just go to her this Friday and pack the things you bought

oga its like u dnt knw mothers, na all of dem plan say dem hospitalize d babe. oga tel dem sorry bt dey shld move on.ask d mum dis question 'does it mean witout u d gal wont exist? ni mind dem jareh

Nawa o am speechless. Modified: dis case don tire me,dnt 4get to upload photos on friday.do your mind. You both wil get ova it wit TIME na wetin me knw

Mr op forgive leave her please, if she dies now what is your gain

Sbsex:



Oga Op, well if na me I wnt change my mind. I don't bloody care. I wnt reverse anytyn and ntn is going to happen BT us again. I even tout shes died stupid gel

thanks bros. As a mature of fact, I don't care if she dies.

schumastic:


defender of the universe

Stated the obvious.
Why will the guy do all that for a girl he's dating, i don't expect both sex to be mugus while dating.
Just see how is hurting him she cheated, and you men are hypocrites.
When you cheat is OK, when a woman cheats you will wish for her death.

asuo27:
So annoying as if they were ever forced.
But why do some women want to be useless to men?.
And the guy no even try too.

I just don't get it. Why should you allow a man get you an apartment, pay your school fee and all that I wouldn't collect what I can't give back to any man. There might be something the guy is doing wrong but because you've made him Lord over you by footing your bills, you can't complain

xtervaganza:
oga, ask her mom how it's any of your business that she collapsed?




Don't fool yourself into taking her back if you don't want me to curse you.



Let her collapse. If she wan die make she die. Just go to her this Friday and pack the things you bought

Bros I know. I wasn't born yesterday. If she wants to die let her die.

nnamdiokere45:
oga its like u dnt knw mothers, na all of dem plan say dem hospitalize d babe. oga tel dem sorry bt dey shld move on.ask d mum dis question 'does it mean witout u d gal wont exist? ni mind dem jareh

Bros all of them follow. I still dey enter there on Friday to remove everything from that house and even the phone i bought for her.

intbizoil:
Mr op forgive leave her please, if she dies now what is your gain

how is it my business if she dies? Did she think of all that when she was messing around and bringing different guys to a house i paid for?

Aderola15:

I just don't get it. Why should you allow a man get you an apartment, pay your school fee and all that I wouldn't collect what I can't give back to any man. There might be something the guy is doing wrong but because you've made him Lord over you by footing your bills, you can't complain

Exactly!.
Even recharge card. I will send it back to you provided i'm not interested in any commitment.

uyiekpen26:
https://www.nairaland.com/3358521/did-go-too-far-actions

Hello nairalanders. I opened a thread asking if I went too far with my actions in regards to unfaithfulness and ingratitude of my now ex. I equally stated vividly that I had asked the landlord of the house I rented for her to issue her a quit notice and froze her account too. I also said I'll be going to collect everything from her house with the aid of mobile policemen on Friday.

Today during my lunch break, I got a call from one of her siblings. I was told she was admitted this morning. Initially I thought it was a joke but when the mother called me and told me herself I knew it was serious. She told me she collapsed this morning and that she has not been herself ever since I instructed the landlord to issue her a quit notice and froze her account. She has been begging me not to take the issue too far the way I'm planning to. That I should please tamper justice with mercy.

What I don't understand is this. Where was she when her daughter was acting wild? Where was she when her daughter was busy cheating on me? I made it clear to her that I've taken a decision and I'm not gonna change it. Nobody has the monopoly of toying with people's emotions. My mind is made up and there's no going back.

While it may seem that I'm somewhat supportive of what you claim to have done, deep down I don't really care. You seem to be a nice guy but talking about your now ex's misfortune doesn't look good on you.

uyiekpen26:
Bros all of them follow. I still dey enter there on Friday to remove everything from that house and even the phone i bought for her.

no dull bro...girls ain't loyal

uyiekpen26:
Bros I know. I wasn't born yesterday. If she wants to die let her die.

Just because someone shared her cookie with someone else you'd wish her death...
Don't forget to collect your sperms as well.

Have you not cheated on someone before? Thank God for God. if you were God, we'd all be dead by now.

Kilode!
Should God collect all he has given you including the air you breath in cos of your unfaithfulness?

I don't blame you. I blame the sister who allowed you become her Lord.

Julian08:

While it may seem that I'm somewhat supportive of what you claim to have done, deep down I don't really care. You seem to be a nice guy but talking about your now ex's misfortune doesn't look good on you.

it hurts bro. I know the sacrifices I made on her behalf. If not for anything she should have considered that. At this point, I honestly don't care about any girl anymore. Right now, no woman will even see my 5 naira not to talk of 20 naira.

asuo27:
Exactly!.
Even recharge card. I will send it back to you provided i'm not interested in any commitment.

Lol, its true na..... Even if I'm dating the person. Allowed my ex get me ice cream(yet to overcome my love for that yeye thing ) only while we dated and weeks after the breakup, I bought him ice cream (family size) ........... No time for one man to rub things in my face biko

ladyF:
Hehehe she deserves what she gets. Let her go and work for her 1 kobo. No be you she go turn to ATM.

Here comes the Saint gbogbo aiye . Did he complain he was an ATM Things went awry. Sh!t happens

And who gets to get all she has from someone . And from a man ? Odiegwu

madridguy:
They say as you take love person na so you go take treat their f**k up when they mess up. Oga OP, from your previous narration so far, you're well to do someone. You have money in abundant before you could thinking of getting an apartment for someone, take her to foreign trip " when I never see plane before " doing shopping for her in Dubai. I would advise you tamper with justice. From the look of things, you have every resources to punish the lady both physically and financially but I beg you to cool down so you want buy her casket.

At times when we human see comfort we start to misbehave which I believe leads to taking Shisha and bringing a guy to her apartment.

I am double sure she has learnt her lesson in a very bad way. Forgive her and give second chance. As you do so, am sure you will b relieved too.

For the sake of the love you have for her, forgive her, forget her shortcoming.

Awaiting for your pre-wedding pictures soon.

Are u saying he should forgive her cous the gal needs the freebies
What happens when she is independent, she would still ditch the guy...


Abeg OP, I don't mind completing the Mopols for the weekend job..

Aderola15:

Lol, its true na..... Even if I'm dating the person. Allowed my ex get me ice cream(yet to overcome my love for that yeye thing ) only while we dated and weeks after the breakup, I bought him ice cream (family size) ........... No time for one man to rub things in my face biko

Which one be yeye thing abeg?.
Lol.

asuo27:
Which one be yeye thing abeg?.
Lol.

Icecream oooooo

uyiekpen26:
it hurts bro. I know the sacrifices I made on her behalf. If not for anything she should have considered that. At this point, I honestly don't care about any girl anymore. Right now, no woman will even see my 5 naira not to talk of 20 naira.

You're absolutely correct- it hurts. But what actually hurts you now? The past event or the memory of the past event? You see, the whole thing is in your head. Get your mind off it and you'll be a whole lot better. I know that can be very difficult sometimes but just at least try.
Moreover, you choose what you do with your money.

Aderola15:

Icecream oooooo

So you don't like ice creams?.

Beamborla:

Just because someone shared her cookie with someone else you'd wish her death...
Don't forget to collect your sperms as well.

Have you not cheated on someone before? Thank God for God. if you were God, we'd all be dead by now.

Kilode!
Should God collect all he has given you including the air you breath in cos of your unfaithfulness?

I don't blame you. I blame the sister who allowed you become her Lord.

The way i dey see you ehh, unfaithful spirit nah the only good thing God bless u with.

uwagimboo:


The way i dey see you ehh, unfaithful spirit nah the only good thing God bless u with.

that's the main reason I didn't even glorify her with a reply. They're all the same. Bunch of ungrateful fellows.

uwagimboo:


The way i dey see you ehh, unfaithful spirit nah the only good thing God bless u with.

I don't expect the blind to see.
Brother, you saw nothing. If you did see something, it's a reflection if yourself

asuo27:
So you don't like ice creams?.

Lol, my love for icecream is overlarge that's the only thing I tend to ask for in a relationship

asuo27:
She force am?, no be him carry e hand carry load.

And he wan collect him thing back na

Julian08:

You're absolutely correct- it hurts. But what actually hurts you now? The past event or the memory of the past event? You see, the whole thing is in your head. Get your mind off it and you'll be a whole lot better. I know that can be very difficult sometimes but just at least try.
Moreover, you choose what you do with your money.

thanks bro. I'll do just that. You have lifted my spirit. God bless you.

Beamborla:

I don't expect the blind to see.
Brother, you see nothing. If you did saw something, it's a reflection if yourself

Even a bat looking lady like you get mouth say anoda person is blind

Abeg go use hypo baff, unfaithful thing.

xtervaganza:
oga, ask her mom how it's any of your business that she collapsed?




Don't fool yourself into taking her back if you don't want me to curse you.



Let her collapse. If she wan die make she die. Just go to her this Friday and pack the things you bought

And he should hasten his 'Armageddon' Abi kini gaan Is Friday not too far

uyiekpen26:
that's the main reason I didn't even glorify her with a reply. They're all the same. Bunch of ungrateful fellows.

Baba I hail o!.... Na your money you use buy am so collect everything back!!... No mind all these leeches!