discoprophet:
Strictly bullsh*t..

What do you mean by 'prime'? If a lady finds it necessary to start doing all these only at her supposed prime(according to you), then I smell desperation and you know what desperation does in this kind of situation. What's all these with ladies and marriage sef? You see a lady of 22,23 flaunting marriage talks already. Seriously these kinda stuffs bring out some level of insecurity in them and make them act b*tchy most times.

This is being fake

jashar:
Some points are valid.

discoprophet:
Strictly bullsh*t..

What do you mean by 'prime'? If a lady finds it necessary to start doing all these only at her supposed prime(according to you), then I smell desperation and you know what desperation does in this kind of situation. What's all these with ladies and marriage sef? You see a lady of 22,23 flaunting marriage talks already. Seriously these kinda stuffs bring out some level of insecurity in them and make them act b*tchy most times.

This is being fake

firstking01:
In no particular order..



At your prime, flee from sleeping with a married man cos that's the time they will come flocking around you...i mean usain bolt yourself away cos you can't bear the consequences in the future(karma)


At your prime, stop playing boyfriend and girlfriend game, for Godsake you are at your prime you don't have time again if he's not willing to take you down the isle unbolt him and let him give other suitors way

At your prime moderate your taste and bring it under control...i mean don't settle for less but be moderate in your choice of partner

At your prime you shouldn't play hard to get....be more open and jovial especially to the male folks cos some of them must woo you, from their make your choice carefully

At your prime, keep your options open even if you are engaged cos there's NO written agreement or guarrantee that he must marry you, reason is because you are at your prime…inshort there's NOTHING like engagement in the bible sef, even mary was bethroted joseph and not engaged to her so therefore, every "engagement is prone to breaking"

At your prime, ensure you aren't idle cos NO man wants a liability as a wife…either you have a good handwork or you are working already

At your prime you must have known how to pray...forget the nature of men, we love you more when you love God


Ok, the above epistle is strictly for girls/ladies who believe in marriage and ofcourse as a nigerian we solely and strongly believe in marriage...but however, if you think you are guilty in any one of these it's never too late you should be thanking God you are opportuned to see this...what you need to do now is refasten your seatbelt and retrace your steps and hit the right mark...


Ok, thank you.

ABEngine:




We do actually have detractors in the house. I believe your parents are still together otherwise your POV is quite understandable.

I have taken sometime to observe animals, the baby mama thing is equivalent to the role of the hen but we were supposed to be higher animals with some sophistication and decency right?

I am only saying there is a big deal with marriage and there is a bigger deal in terms of value raising your family together.

Ask your dad why he stayed married and revert to us.

Flashh:
What happens to getting to know each other better?

You expect a responsible man to just get a woman today, then tomorrow, he takes her to the aisle. A disastrous married life awaits you.

firstking01:
Re-read the that point again bro...was talking about "friend and girlfriend" who most times end up in jamborine.

charleschosen01:
I concur with what u said bro but the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom.Marry a guy or a lady that have the fear of God,i bet u,u've half won the battle in marriage.

Princy13:
Nairaland churning out so many relationship practitioners like Indecency updates.

Truth is,it very easy to tells others what to do than to do what you are told to do.

Let people have their experience.it teaches them better.

The energy spent creating this should have been used to write some other meaningful beneficial article.

All the same I rate this 2.5stars.

Crixina:
don't mind them,
Some people think life is a manual, where if 1+1 gives 2
I once told someone that I can't date a married man cos I don't want someone to date my husband, unfortunately he was a married man, so he asked me “does it mean all women whose husbands are cheating once slept with someone's husband"?

Bottom line, good doesn't always win neither does evil.

bayonino:
Why are you disturbing yourself, how many ladies complain to you that they are finding it difficult to marry, both UGLY, prostitues, and lose ladies are getting married nowadays.

**Ladies please sleep around verywell and mess yourself up, you will surely see a man that will marry you**
Guys of nowadays dont care about values again

Beamborla:
Keep your options open like friend zone or side boo abi spare tyre ko assistant financee?


Toh! Which guy would be ready and willing to be the option? She katakata no go burst if you find out bae is keeping her options open?

ItsQuinn:
The Op said a girl must be prayerful

firstking01:

At your prime, keep your options open even if you are engaged cos there's NO written agreement or guarrantee that he must marry you, reason is because you are at your prime…inshort there's NOTHING like engagement in the bible sef, even mary was bethroted joseph and not engaged to her so therefore, every "engagement is prone to breaking"

herbie27:
Most of your male counterparts when they woo a girl what do they really have in mind?...A no sex before marriage relationship or what.

herbie27:
"At your prime you shouldn't play hard to get...be more open and jovial especially to the male folks cos some of them must woo you".

Men don't like it the easy way...if you're too easy you're tagged "cheap".

biggy26:


Not really. Being jovial is a plus. It's really not something u pretend to be, its who u are. If u pretend, d guy will know.

But how did u know, are u a man?

Captain001:


We are saying the same thing. When a thief comes into your house what does he have in mind? No be to thief? It's you that will set your standards and boundaries. When most of us come to date it's for one reason, "sex" but don't come with guns to head your head to force you to break your set principles.

herbie27:
I just know that.
And a neighbour that's a married man says so when he talks of his barnies.

ItsQuinn:
You see when I said is it by force to be religious ....what of if you are not religious, is it by force to pray?

Lovelynature:
If I catch you there eh, you go pray by force

Out of everything the op listed, it's only the area of prayer that you are worried about

Chai, your type go dey fear Sunday mornings like kilode.

Your pastor must hear this

herbie27:
"At your prime you shouldn't play hard to get...be more open and jovial especially to the male folks cos some of them must woo you".

Men don't like it the easy way...if you're too easy you're tagged "cheap".

kvngveektour:
op, just so u know,marriage is no longer a big deal cos by just having a few notes,there are ladies who would play wifey for u.cook ur meals, give u kids,Clean ur house.d list is endless

Lovelynature:
Nice points. But I think they should always possess these characteristics not only when they are at the so called prime time. Starting up early will have a long way to favor them than waiting for the prime time to look desperate.


Beauty can attract a man at first sight, but it takes character to keep him.

firstking01:
It's easy for you to say...an average nigerian girl wants to marry a well to do man and have a wonderful family but forgetting the fact that men hate liability...all i'm saying is, as a girl who is already clocking 25, dnt let your husband to be meet you at the state of joblessness...have something lucrative at hand and maybe plus your hnd/bsc.

Dongreat:


Playing hard to get doesn't make you worthy but annoying. Believe me on this. Men like it moderate or better still, understanding but boys like it difficult as they tend to spend all their time wooing a lady instead of becoming productive. Disadvantage is that you may lose the 'prime target' all because the statement "give me more time" seems appropriate to you but at your prime time is your greatest enemy.

Accepting a man on your first date doesn't make you look cheap but sleeping with him on your first day does.

ItsQuinn:
I despise religion that's why

Dongreat:


Playing hard to get doesn't make you worthy but annoying. Believe me on this. Men like it moderate or better still, understanding but boys like it difficult as they tend to spend all their time wooing a lady instead of becoming productive. Disadvantage is that you may lose the 'prime target' all because the statement "give me more time" seems appropriate to you but at your prime time is your greatest enemy.

Accepting a man on your first date doesn't make you look cheap but sleeping with him on your first day does.

Lovelynature:
why do you despise religion Don't go the way of atheists. Atheism is a subject of hopelessness, depression and waywardness. Yeah, I have taken a closer look at the happenings of life and I can tell you boldly that spirituality is as real as the secular world. You haven't seen so many Nairalanders but that doesn't mean they don't exist. God is very real as ever.

Besides, Christianity is not just a religion, but the Salvation Way. The way through which the Almighty and Holy God reconciles sinful men to Himself.

Jesus loves you Quinn