[b][/b][color=#770077][/color]GIRL PLEASE THINK ABOUT IT, TRY TO LOOSE YOUR WEIGHT  CAUSE YOU FEEL BETTER AND SINCE HE DIDN`T APPRECIATE YOU ,WHEN YOU FINISHED THAT , LEAVE HIM AND FIND SOMEBODY WHO APRRECIATE YOU FOR WHAT YOU ARE AS PERSON, FOR SURE THAT GUY IS NOT A GOOD CHRISTIAN, GET A GOOD MAN THAT LOVES GOD SINCERELY IF HE DOES HE WILL APRRECIATE YOU DEEPLY NOT FOR THE WEIGHT YOU CARRY,
BLESS YOU.

What are all these fuss about fat here for an african woman? In Africa we dont have any lady that is fat simple. It is only cows that grow fat here in Africa, therefore,  that use of the word 'fat' is an insult to our beautiful african ladies. Our ladies can only be plumpy or big. They become big woman or in our african parlance 'thick madam' and you see them looking gorgous and sweet in their shape, so full of flesh when u peruse their anatomy with your hands and fingers more especially when they play for 'ASS-nal' and 'man-CHEST-er u'. It is only a typical western man that is looking out for an electric-pole-sized woman. Our men should learn to appreciate the roubust bodiness of our ladies than putting them into an unnecssary pressure to shed of so called 'fat' and labellling them same!

Whitelexi abeg o. . . it's too early to laugh so hard   How u deh sef? Long time  

This is not an issue of "love you for what or who you are". The girl said she wasn't this fat when they met   She's being honest about the steady increase in FAT accumulation   Dude, won't take that from her. Dude is being honest and actually loves her enough to tell her. Some would just get rid of her and still leave her fat and ugly  


Stop looking for an excuse to be fat.   Please loose the fat. It doesn't look good let alone sexy . .

poster for the fact that u are not the one that created urself u can do little as far as nature cancered, if he dont want u because u are fat dam him, u can only watch ur weight and the fact still remain that ur bf cant determin how u will be in as much as his is not and cannot be ur God. just guess that he's tired of the r/ship

Stop encouraging her. She just allowed herself get fatter. She wasn't this big. I'm very sure the guy didn't tell her once. She just ignored him until he had to threaten her. I'm not sure he means it. It's just a push.

Only lazy people allow themselves to be FAT and not just big. If you're sick then that's different. Poster are you sick?

Radiant:

Whitelexi abeg o. . . it's too early to laugh so hard How u deh sef? Long time

This is not an issue of "love you for what or who you are". The girl said she wasn't this fat when they met She's being honest about the steady increase in FAT accumulation Dude, won't take that from her. Dude is being honest and actually loves her enough to tell her. Some would just get rid of her and still leave her fat and ugly


Stop looking for an excuse to be fat. Please loose the fat. It doesn't look good let alone sexy . .

I'm doing fine o jare. . . u just decided to abandon us here abi? Anyways, things are very good and i'm pleased, how r u doing?

u should keep in touch though.

am sure am better than most of you judging me. am not God, he created me like this and he knows why,so stop judging me. i thought coming here will make me a little bit happy but it the opposite, no thanks to you guys, am sure all have problems and i wonder how you will feel if you share your problem and instead of advice, you got mocked. thanks

, fatjiulie you are right!!!they don`t kno what they are talking about,

fatjulie:

am sure am better than most of you judging me. am not God, he created me like this and he knows why,so stop judging me. i thought coming here will make me a little bit happy but it the opposite, no thanks to you guys, am sure all have problems and i wonder how you will feel if you share your problem and instead of advice, you got mocked. thanks

Nobody will pat you on the back if you're fat and still increasing. Do you have any problem that is making you gain weight?

fatjulie:

am sure am better than most of you judging me. am not God, he created me like this and he knows why,so stop judging me. i thought coming here will make me a little bit happy but it the opposite, no thanks to you guys, am sure all have problems and i wonder how you will feel if you share your problem and instead of advice, you got mocked. thanks

Hi fatjulie. . .  Perhaps u want to put up a recent pic of yourself, or even give some dimensions, how many stone or Kgs do u weigh? and how tall are u? etc. If u want us guys to give a fair assessment from your bfs point of view, then we need the details.

Different people have their own definition of fat as u may have read so far, but if we can have a mental picture of your case, we will be able to make more accurate judgement for u.

whitelexi:

I'm doing fine o jare. . .  u just decided to abandon us here abi? Anyways, things are very good and i'm pleased, how r u doing?

u should keep in touch though.

I'm doing very fine, thanks. IM ur number to me  

@POSTER
SHOW US YOUR PIC B4 COMMENT,

Rogo:

@POSTER
SHOW US YOUR PIC B4 COMMENT,

You go wait tire. . .

i weigh 70, and 5.2 ft tall

Sorry but you're fat.

fatjulie:

am sure am better than most of you judging me. am not God, he created me like this and he knows why,so stop judging me. i thought coming here will make me a little bit happy but it the opposite, no thanks to you guys, am sure all have problems and i wonder how you will feel if you share your problem and instead of advice, you got mocked. thanks

Not true. Eat right and you won't grow fat.

fatjulie:

i weigh 70, and 5.2 ft tall

Kg? Are you kidding me?

julie, i dont think ur weight is bad! i weigh 60kg and im 5' 4!!!!!!!!! do U honestly feel like you need to loose weight? i mean honestly!!!!!!!! if u do then i suggest u hit the gym but if u think u look sexy as hell then its fine as long as U are ok with it baring in mind though that we can sometimes be in denial of certain things, overall u can cut off junk, introduce fruits & veggies to ur diet & stay healthy!!!!!!!!!!!!

Gosh i hate fat (orobo to bad o!) chicks like mad. They are so irritatingly disgusting to look at. When ever they see food, they just can stop shoving a candy bar down their throats until their heads look bigger than a ballon, their lips like dunlop tire, their boobs like obasanjo's belle per breast, their belly that is fatter than an elephant's ass and yansh that is bigger than the whole african continent and you expect me to like such a rotund thing?

Abeg your boyfriend was right jare and was even merciful. If it was me, i will have stabbed you with a needle at night to make sure all the unwarranted air you have accumulated leaks out all your orifices before i even look at you.

Better go for surgery you fat doughnut eating fu**ck!

Post your picture if I like your face I will suggest you leave and come to me but if not just be there.
Judging by your name(fat julie) this guy must have endured enough.

@kanye, any particular reason for ur bitterness?? geez!!!!!

hey julie, i use to weigh 80kg, but now i weight 65. i can tell you how i deed it, visit  sweetjulie-healthiswealth..com

sweetjulie-healthiswealth..com

fatjulie:

am sure am better than most of you judging me. am not God, he created me like this and he knows why,so stop judging me.

stillwater:

Not true. Eat right and you won't grow fat.

fatjulie:

i thought coming here will make me a little bit happy but it the opposite, no thanks to you guys, am sure all have problems and i wonder how you will feel if you share your problem and instead of advice, you got mocked. thanks

Ma Dear, Let not the harsh comments get to You 'cuz t's a faceless community.
You should be more concerned about dealing with the issue You have.
Quit seeking favourable comments or encouragement to keep being FAT.
Eat right, exercise Your body and You'll thank us for the harsh comments lerra.
We love You and Yes, You can.

sweetjulie:

sweetjulie-healthiswealth..com

*Thinking aloud*It seems all FAT people are called Julie (SweetJulie 80kg, FatJulie 70kg)

fatjulie:

i weigh 70, and 5.2 ft tall

At 5"2 i have to say it is not doing u any favours to weigh 70Kgs, but you are certainly not fat. Go and have a body mass test and if your body fat is below 20Kg, then it means most of your weight comes from body fluids, bones, and muscle. . .  I dont think your bf should get all upset with u because of that, sit him down and have a heart to heart chat and if he insists, ask him to go and eat shit.

@Radiant, your IM is not working, so send me an email whitelexi@yahoo.com and i'll give u the number. . .

@FaTJulie,

Im really sorry about the insensitive harsh comments you have been getting  . Girl if you feel you have gained weight then eliminate junk foods (crips, chocolates, soft drinks etc) from your diet. Walk more i.e 30-40mins 5days a week (you will be surprised how much weight you will lose). Reduce your portion size as well and drink more water.

Seriously, 70 Kg is not fat. I thought u were like a UK 16 or so. 70kg should be like a 12. That's way fair na.

Now, how many NLers weigh less than 70kg?

Be like you man got issues or simply wants you a size 8/10. To each his own. Sorry for the harsh comments though

whitelexi:

I dont think your bf should get all upset with u because of that, sit him down and have a heart to heart chat and if he insists, ask him to go and eat shit.

Oh no you didn't say that!

^^^ the expert has spoken

Please, dont be in company of those that make you lose your self worth. He should make you realize the health benefit of shading weight and not being critical. You deserve the best, you deserve to be celebrated and not to be tolerated unless you not know your worth.

i think this is a sign of things to come in ur relationship. most times wen guys want to get off a relationship, they start given silly excuses. if u slim down today tomoro another problem will emerge. so my dear i advice u to observe ur bf, find out if ur being fat is the problem or if there is more to it and then make plans to realse urself and move on. a man who truly loves a woman no matter wat will only encourage her to lose weight and not threaten her. But most importantly, u v got to lose those weight, guys dont like fat pple and besides it makes u feel gud and confident, so do it for urself. dont be lazy, be lin

Radiant:



Oh no you didn't say that!

What? I was here thinking she was like 20 stone, from the way she was announcing that she is fat, i thot maybe the guy don tire. . . I didnt know it was a common 70kgs that average guys can sweep off their feet and carry up the stairs sef that he was complaining about.

Arrant nonesense

Maybe he came on you harshly, but it's sometimes difficult for some men to discuss what bothers them.
One of the reasons he's telling you to shed fat is becos he loves you (IMO) or why do you think he dint just
dump you outrightly and go for a slimmer gurl. The way to show you love him is to 'try' all in your power
to lose those extra kilos. Moreso, this kinda accumulate when women get pregnant and they become
'iya apati' at 38. You wouldn't want that, would you?
Join a gym if you can afford it. If not, wake up early morning and jog around your neighbourhood. Also
check out some exercises on the internet for general weight loss and try to cut down on your fatty food intake.
Lest i forget, don't waste your money trying to buy slimming teas and concoctions. Good luck.