repogirl:
You don't have to smile but you definitely don't come on line intending to publicly embarrass or shame the lady. How can they remain friends after this?

The trust isn't there anymore.

So because he spent 3800 on a first date, she should agree to being his girlfriend, so as not to hurt his feelings ? Did she beg him to take her out before?

You have a point though. But the society don't appreciate a guy who speak out his pains. I can tell you for a fact a guy like that are less dangerous than those who don't speak.

Look at the guy who murdered his military babe for instance, he was hurt, he didn't speak up and then did the unimaginable. We got to start thinking on both sides, everything comes with advantage and disadvantages.

Fear those who don't talk more than those who speak up about their pains. If someone makes you know your action hurt them, no matter how childish it may seem, appreciate them in a way than those who bottle it up and still smile at you. Trust me, I know what I am saying.

I will embrace this guy for emptying his heart over the ones who bottle up in the name of trying to be a "man" cos they are more dangerous some times.

daretodiffer:
You don't need anyone to disgrace. You have done the job perfectly! You have given notice that you are a pervert and an unintelligent humna being. What else can I do?

bitch go fork yourself, you miserable nonentity. Did I get into your mention or invited you into mine? Did I insult you before you insulted me. May your busy body land you into more problems than you ever bargained for. You want to flex "feminism" on me? You die well. Offline i will land you dirty slap for putting your mouth in my affair uninvited. Look at the amoeba, feeling funky. Go wash your smelly vagina abeg.

Tiny23:




Just agreed with you...but,you can like to tell me to keep the change tho.

Iffa hear!!!!! Gimme my change joor!!! I need am for quick teller transaction!!!

luminouz:

Iffa hear!!!!! Gimme my change joor!!! I need am for quick teller transaction!!!

lol,not giving you o

Tiny23:



lol,not giving you o

Lollll! U know ur joking!!!! U know say if u no gimme d change....wia I go get tfare come visit u eh!!!! N baidei is tomorrow!!!!

agrovick:


Not necessarily a kiss and tell kinda situation, hell yeah guys do kiss and tell



Deal, let's define before we head out. You've to say yes to my sweet nothings

Sources say you are off the shores of Naija

Who told u that all this monitoring spirits sef

pocohantas:
He doesn't need to apologise. This is what happens when people do good for selfish reasons. I help my friends both male and female without expecting anything in return. Some of these guys, their stupidity is in them like peak. I am sure he was hoping to embarrass her, but unfortunately or fortunately...it backfired on him.

I'm happy babes are getting sense. We need more to get sense and stop being parasitic. That's the only way guys like this can be put in place.

They buy you popcorn and think they can bend you anyhow like straw on top bed to administer prick from various angles. He should go and sin no more. For the sensible and responsible guys, the Lord will take away refurbished olosho from your path.

So much likes for this FTC.

This must be the most 'likes' I have ever seen on Nairaland. Possibly the most ever there be!

Bumbae1:

Who told u that all this monitoring spirits sef

Gangan!!!!!!! This is how weddings start ooo!!!!

luminouz:

Gangan!!!!!!! This is how weddings start ooo!!!!

Lol make tolotolo catch u .. we dey fight seff dat ur friend eh

Bumbae1:

Lol make tolotolo catch u .. we dey fight seff dat ur friend eh

Which friend
Turkeytunes
Y? Him no tell me oooo.....
Forgive n forget na!!!!
#givehimalldchangebae

pocohantas:
He doesn't need to apologise. This is what happens when people do good for selfish reasons. I help my friends both male and female without expecting anything in return. Some of these guys, their stupidity is in them like peak. I am sure he was hoping to embarrass her, but unfortunately or fortunately...it backfired on him.

I'm happy babes are getting sense. We need more to get sense and stop being parasitic. That's the only way guys like this can be put in place.

They buy you popcorn and think they can bend you anyhow like straw on top bed to administer prick from various angles. He should go and sin no more. For the sensible and responsible guys, the Lord will take away refurbished olosho from your path.

Dat babe that talked about some customs boss sleeping with her never get sense yet o! This girlsgotsense group na only 5 members dem get jor. The ones wey dey rizin relationship as ATM be like MTN: efrywia u go

this guy as shame us guys all..omase o

this guy as shame us guys all

luminouz:

Which friend
Turkeytunes
Y? Him no tell me oooo.....
Forgive n forget na!!!!
#givehimalldchangebae

D guy no sabi rove person jawe
Me too delicate for him
Lol i need tlc not tough Rove u feel me

Abbeyme:


So much likes for this FTC.

This must be the most 'likes' I have ever seen on Nairaland. Possibly the most ever there be!

Nah. U gat see one of smellymouth own. The thing reach like 700. I jus weak

The girl is already a star, first bank gave her 5k, a hair company gave her free indian hair while another company offerred her free nail treatment

Bumbae1:

D guy no sabi rove person jawe
Me too delicate for him
Lol i need tlc not tough Rove u feel me

I feel u...like Felipe lobos on POWER!!!
U want me to restore him to default?

prettyboi1989:
The girl is already a star, first bank gave her 5k, a hair company gave her free indian hair while another company offerred her free nail treatment

N all those made her a star?

luminouz:

I feel u...like Felipe lobos on POWER!!!
U want me to restore him to default?

Please restore him
Me more like cookie from Empire u no look my eye ni mo buru o

luminouz:

N all those made her a star?

give her accolade a better qualification then

Bumbae1:

Please restore him
Me more like cookie from Empire u no look my eye ni mo buru o

* in a sepulchral voice* consider it done my lady
Factory reset 90% loading...
Cookie lion? Am thinking u will be like her sha.....ur tough n resilient at heart.....almost but not quite street!!!!

You were way to childish before but now you are talking! I like the fact that he admits his stupidity. Nice one. Good for the dude though.

prettyboi1989:

give her accolade a better qualification then

Well..how about advertisement??

luminouz:

* in a sepulchral voice* consider it done my lady
Factory reset 90% loading...
Cookie lion? Am thinking u will be like her sha.....ur tough n resilient at heart.....almost but not quite street!!!!

Oshey!

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And guys should stop disturbing ladies for dates.
When a lady says No am not interested, we can just be friends.. Accept or move on.
But some guys can be so annoying. Begging for dates. Thinking such will change her mind. At the end, she feels pity for the guy and go on date with him.

I always tell guys that are hell bent on taking me out. Guy! U take me out? Does not mean I will start falling in love.. Cause am not inlove and this date will not change anything. The smart ones will drop the idea of date .while the ones who think. They are so smart will still dare it..and take me out. Saying its doesn't change babe, just staring at your lovely face on the outing is all I need.. Am not asking for much naw?
I will shake my head and say OK o.. Because I know how guys think and what u will start spreading upandan .. That's why am saying all these before u spend a dime o.
While sometimes I still put my foot down on and say No is no.. Some. Will say na WA o, have never seen a babe reject free movie ,meal and drinks on me. And have been begging u since 3weeks ago. Shebi it's my money? And am the one saying its OK.. Don't worry. Let's just go out on this one date, pere.

So u can see, sometimes it's not the ladies fault.

DavidEsq:

Nah. U gat see one of smellymouth own. The thing reach like 700. I jus weak

You don sai..

That Smellymouth guy with his memes ehn...

Salute to him!!

When will I ever get a hundred for a post??

So going on a date means leading on abi? If you still say NO, the same guy will say she's claiming hard to get. I am glad he learnt his lesson the hard way tho.

Bumbae1:

Good point

luminouz:

Well..how about advertisement??

doesnt cut it. she got blessed through the whole thing. thats what makes her a star in that moment. u werent monitoring the trend on twitter yesterday so you wouldnt knw

LNUGGETS:
So going on a date means leading on abi? If you still say NO, the same guy will say she's claiming hard to get. I am glad he learnt his lesson the hard way tho.

Yes they both learnt a lesson

Benita27:
Have been reading the whole story like all day. Inasmuch as the guy couldn't stand rejection, the girl was also at fault here. Why would she lead him on if she wasn't interested in having a relationship with the guy?. You define your relationship from the beginning, and spending on you would be his call to make to avoid being indebted to anyone.

You just spoke my mind. I believe the guy must have been building some sort of rapport before the date, and hoped for the best. Girls are in the habit of stringing guys along, and this is from experience. They won't say yes or no, won't define the relationship but would readily accept gifts etc. Well it's a two-way thing. Sensible guys should be discerning and put themselves out of harms way.

DeeMain:


Wanted to ignore this but just couldn't resist the pull. When you go out with someone on a date for the first time both of you should be mentally checking each other out to see if if he or she is someone you want to date for real . That's basic. Obviously she's checked him out and decided it wouldn't work. Pray tell, where did the girl go wrong? Which one is leading him on and defining the relationship from the beginning kwa?

And to think I'm reading this from a girl? Common! Agreeing to go out on a first date is not agreeing to date or sleep with a guy. Haba!

I'm not even shocked. I always knew dt Benita27 girl was one of these nairaland oloshos. They are plenty like dt on social media. Guys chat wt them online, give them money to lure them, invite them to meet & then sleep wt them when they eventually meet. They have now become boyfriend/girlfriend.

They don't know Dts modern day prostitution. They think Dts how normal pple date. I'm sure that was d kinda girl dis guy was hoping to meet. No wonder he was angry nothing happened on d 1st date. Lol!