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Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by timilehin007(m): 4:16pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
bros as long as she make you happy bros that is what matters your case and mind is totally the same. Now we have been together for 5yrs and i must confess at times i wonder if God purposely make her go through that rough paths so that she can eventually meet me. She is the kind of lady i craved for and i dont regret marrying her 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Nobody: 4:16pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
VanBommel: smh you guys are something else. |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Bolincosugar(f): 4:16pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Why the discrimination about being a single mother ? A lot of people treat and talk about being a single mother as its a disease Anyways, all i will say is just follow your heart and do what you feel is best for you 1 Like |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Nobody: 4:17pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
destinel:Your pastor asked you to pray and...i 4got...nairaland is ur prayer ground, the Holy Spirit would speak to you through someone who is probably planning to commit the next abortion...kwantinue bro solo 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Nobody: 4:17pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
NemzySeries: You are always lying. Smh. But wetin concern me |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by starlite1: 4:17pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
destinel: Hypocrites. Keep deceiving yourselves, i wonder what your bible teaches you. Every temptation you encounter comes with the provision of a way to overcome it. instead of taking responsibility for your choice and lack of self control, you're trying to channel the blame to something else. Your other girlfriend was very wise to have moved on, before you mess a precious life up. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by madridguy(m): 4:17pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Following.... |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by sisisioge: 4:17pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
crackhouse: old man! Park well! In fact, get out of town! |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Nobody: 4:17pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
NemzySeries:Meaning? |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Curvinus(m): 4:18pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
destinel: Meaning no other woman found you attractive enough to let you do it with her until now? Ok I've seen similar cases and I know how it usually begins and.....ends..... It would seem the lady needs a stable provider who can help her train the two kids she got from the kind of man she truly desires but whom didn't stick around long enough with her. Now you've come around, maybe you never dreamed you could have something serious with such a lady, even though she maybe a bit washed up due to stress and aging.....but still retains some glitter and you are overjoyed. Well, if you must proceed, then you need to have it in mind that you are going in as a stable provider and consolation, not really the elusive stud she once pursued. Also realize your lady already has a frame of reference which would always play a significant role in your relationship. Good luck. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by ElsonMorali: 4:18pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
You won't find any meaningful advice here. This here is the kiddy pool. Lots of yet-to-mature folks in this section. Go to family section and ask for advice. By here's my two cents, If you have doubts already, best not to do it. And If you feel you must do it, ask the father of her kids why he didn't marry her Maybe you'll have a clue there. |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by TeeFriz: 4:18pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Double standard They preach vehemently against premarital sex yet indulge in it. Felt guilty and sorry my foot!!! |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by InvertedHammer: 4:18pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Billyonaire:\\ OP is a virgin that just had his first intimate relationship. The little head is still in control. A few years down the line, he will smile at his naivety (assuming common sense prevails this time). His decision so far is based solely on her side of the story. Would she had admitted it if she treated the ex like a piece of crap? // 1 Like |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Bamz(m): 4:19pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
You're starting a new family, I believe you want to make things as simple as possible for yourself. The lady's situation is complex already, and unless you've got something similar to her (a failed union, with kids outside), things may never be really balanced. She's seen it all, and her experience is more than yours (obviously), and the reason for you coming here is because you know her situation is complex, and it would involve some kind of validation from your family too. It's funny that the answer you seek is within you. Unclutter your soul mate, simplify. PS. I've had cognate experience. 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Bamz(m): 4:19pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
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Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Demo0(m): 4:20pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
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Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by rigarmortis: 4:20pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
destinel: you were a virgin and she busted your first nut. what you really needed more than food and water is to bust off that very first nut. now that you have done that, you will need to caaaaaalm down and take stock of things, otherwise you will make rash decisions, you have "cum" to associate her with pleasure, so you feel you will be over without her. (i am guessing you plunged without the swimsuit, which makes the pleasure even more intense) what you need to do it attempt to date other girls....if your mind keeps going back to her then follow your mind, if not, she was just a conduit to bust off that first nut without the use of your former companions, like lux, premier soap, omo, infact any slippery specimen and the world reknowned saviour of virgins....vaseline. be calm, get to know yourself, dont rush, you are still naive, and she is experienced 8 Likes |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by pirees: 4:20pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Abeg e be like say I go need that trapqueen number based on logistics VanBommel: |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by VanBommel(m): 4:20pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Joavid:abi na lie? |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Nobody: 4:21pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
InvertedHammer: True, that. |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Nobody: 4:21pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Guy, there is no love between both of u, later u will go after young ladies 1 Like |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Nobody: 4:22pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
ebujany: Lol 1 Like |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by goonsmi: 4:22pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
someone is playing game with your head and you're taking her serious I pirry you my blooda 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Iheazy(m): 4:22pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Hmm.. D power of pussy !!!!... 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by mistywole: 4:23pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
guy man. first u shouldn't be asking us this question if u have the gut of a man. And may be you know how weak u are In the family that made u think they won't accept her. bro. u own your life. u know what Is best for u. choose your own woman. Your family won't live with her anyway. My wife happens to be a mother of two now I have my Dayyahn. I love her she loves me. And she's just everything I prayed for In a wife. once again live for you. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by VanBommel(m): 4:23pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
pirees:lol 1 Like |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Zenithpeak(m): 4:26pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Guy, you are in the best possition to advice yourself. You saw her alone, love her alone, and definitely will be with her alone. Make sure you are not marrying her out of pity but out of love.. Knowing fully well that there is a long years ahead if Christ tarried. |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by starlite1: 4:26pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
asuzor11: I tell you the truth 1 Like |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by sekem: 4:26pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
After two!? Chai, töto can confuse some men eh!!! 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Nobody: 4:26pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
comos: Deeep |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by pirees: 4:27pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
I don dial #lol for my phone the thing no go ooo gimme her second number VanBommel: |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Nobody: 4:27pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
You have only swindled one fanny and you are talking of marrying a mama-like babe with two kids. Go and swindle more fannies then you can decide if you still feel the same way you feel now about her. 1 Like |
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