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Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Nobody: 4:53pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
jibs4lv:Truth ain't meant to be soothing |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by basadenet: 4:54pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
from my experience, i will adviseyou to stop the relationship because of your future. |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by tushd(m): 4:56pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
My own take.. Thou personally I feel you are pussy wiped.. You stated you had your first sex with her.. So it is understandable that she is dragged you into an emotional level you've never been to.. Hence why you feel your virgin girlfriend is not.. Since you only express your feelings in words and not physical.. Marrying a single mother is a very serious issue.. Not talk of a mother of 2.. For the same man that come on and off.. Be guided my brother and at this point that woman is emotional imbalance and any serious brother that comes would do.. My advise is start up a family of your own, lay the proper foundation... Keep the married woman as a friend.. Help her kids in the best way you can.. #mybit 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by EAZY2422(m): 4:58pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
bodejohn:dude u nailed it spot on @op i think dis is d most open,matured and d best advice u can get anywer...around.but remember what ever decision u choose to take,be ready to accept responsibility for it. |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Nobody: 4:59pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
OP should I bath with HOT oil during harmattan ? |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Lexusgs430: 4:59pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
destinel: Nah so e dey always be, when one get one woman, but go hunting for another, confusion always sets in....... If you are happy and financially able to cater for her kids, as if they are yours, no problems. But if you both have 3 kids togeda, una pickin count don reach 5 b dat........... |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Ogadtop(m): 5:00pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
destinel: There are two places where a man's heart lies: where his p3nis enters and where his delicacies comes from. This mother of 2 knows that, and she is ready to give the inexpirince you those comfort. On the other hand, the other virgin will still be doing shakara with her body, and u cant realy beg and pamper her to open up for u becos u already have free and unrestricted access to paradise. Fast forward ==>> The mother of two may and may not be a good girl, dont judge by what she does now. She may eventually turn out to be a wonderful wife, but remeber, to every divorce, one party still wants the other, and the other party doesnt wanna come back. In the near future, something somewhere somehow can still bring the duos back together. Will u be able to fight for the restoration of your home? She has two kids, how many childrn do u wanna have? Say three. Can u father five children? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by tensazangetsu20(m): 5:07pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
bodejohn:It's not about having an abortion or not. That woman doesn't love the op. She still feels something strong for the first guy that's why she got pregnant for him twice. He's just second fiddle. |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by deprince4today(m): 5:13pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
follow ur heart
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Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by dammyluv911(f): 5:15pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
dear pray about it OK
there is nothing wrong if u both luv each oda |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by tunde1200(m): 5:17pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
nice advise bro weldon. SmartBug: |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by ijayebonyi(f): 5:19pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Emhicee:;DD. You funny o. Child looks like him from waist ;DD. Well, to me if he is sincere, he needs not ask |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Nobody: 5:20pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Bros I read through all your story. I am not going to say anything about anyone committed sin here or not, but what I will say is that the lady is loosed for her to have being messed up like that either by one man or the other. Who tell you when you marry her she will not go out or be messed up by another guy elsewhere. With two kids, humm you may surfer from heart attack you may not recover from the rest of your life. Taking responsibility, coping with taking care or nurturing another children from another father, even the father of those children may still directly or indirectly come to disturb you. Don't be deceived because you are seeing her in church, am a deacon in rccg, I will tell you reality, love is not sympathy pls, forget she has two children, let her go and sought her self back with former man. I beg run for your life, and give your life to Christ, the lady is not but come to disguised in church just to get innocent and responsible man. Let assumed she gave birth the children to one man, and the man dies and she is properly married we will say is better and if she does not sleep with another man like you, because illegally having s*x with her. Pls stop and confess to your pastor and move on with your life, look for another lady or your ex- girl friend with prayer and fasting, but above love is the koko o bros, you must love the person you want to marry o. To talk of it, your parent will never allow this despite the fact that I don't know your parent, but I presumed your parent are from southwest, humm pls run for your life. Your parent may never agreed with you. Olugere@gmail.com |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Hexzyz(m): 5:21pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
destinel:I know this kind of feeling, when you think you have got it. I can't let it go, bro give it time with prayers, starting with repentance from fornication and accept Jesus as Lord and saviour. Then pray, God will guide you will be happy. sometimes love becloud our reasoning. |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by humberjade: 5:21pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Left to me, it's a no-no...With a kid, maybe, but two? Hell no!!! I wouldn't advice u to go for it or not, after all it is ur life. But know something, marriage is not about pity or sentiment, it's a lifelong decision, and u don't want to start on a wrong foot. It's obvious she's seen it all in relationships, and she has more experience than u, so u need to be smart about this. Forget about the s3x she has exposed u to, and think deep about other aspects of her life. The fact that she's an HOD in d church doesn't follow, she might just be doing all she's doing to win sympathy and trick unsuspecting men in the church to help her in catering 4 her kids. We've heard d stories of ladies who had a very rough n unholy past ending up in d church for marriage. U sure can change a wolf's coat but not its character. Before taking this life changing decision, ask urself these questions 1. Are u even sure her story about her baby daddy is true? 2. Will u still want to be with her in the next 10-15 years? 3. Is she really the best for u? 4. Can u cater for her, her kids, d 2 or more kids u will have with her (to University level), and her dependent folks if there is any? 5. If truly she has learn't her lesson with her baby daddy, why is she still having ceaseless rounds of s3x with u, or have u promised her marriage? 6. Are u sure u are d only one she's seeing? 7. Will her baby daddy always have his way into her pants whenever he shows up? 8. Can u handle d pressure that will follow once u announce ur intent? There are so many questions u need to ask urself bro. Just note: women can be very deceptive before marriage (no offense), only to show their true colours after wedding. However, if u have made up ur mind to marry her after asking yourself these questions, get to know d kind of family she is from, learn about her past 4rm her friends and maybe neighbours if need be. Best of luck bro. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by juman(m): 5:21pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
In my language we say "having children before is not sickness". I think marrying her is good, but pray over it. As a single mother she also deserve another chance. |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by ijayebonyi(f): 5:25pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Well, I know very well that deep down your heart, you already know what you want, so go ahead and do what your comfortable with. Thanks |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by chukagates(m): 5:26pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
watch how some mumu ladies here now go be like.."A REAL MAN IS A MAN WHO MARRIES A SINGLE MOTHER" ..ode full nairaland including Op 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Nobody: 5:26pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Why didn't you ask Nairalanders before intimating with her. After that you now realised that she is asingle mum. Please if I may ask: During your intimacy, was it sounding and testing "single mum, single mum" or "my family will agitate"? Just asking in orther to comprehend well. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by fuckyoumhen: 5:29pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
destinel:Y u dey lie lyk dis eh? the church quoted by d nigga na ur church! dont force me to put up ur pix! @d topic, women r not what u think that they r. their real self will be known to u when u eventually marry them. if u r ok wit her, go ahead & marry. |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Mustiboy(m): 5:30pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Destinel, pls don't listen to these childish brains on here. U should have posted this in the family section, where U would have gotten mature replies. Romance section is just full of senseless kids, ignore their lacerative comments. To the topic, if truly she possesses all those traits U wrote up there, then, she might make a good wife from the way I see it. Though the sex part gave bad impressions on many on here, myself inclusive. Bro, no one can advice U enough on here, just follow Ur heart. I believe U are mature enough to see, in Her, what will make married life with a single mother, a non regrettable decision. Virtually all women have had many dirty pasts, but that of this woman is not dirty, but mistaken. All blames on the Man that used and dumped Her. In conclusion, go ahead and marry Her if U are sure U are taking the right step. *it's the one who wears the shoe that knows where it bites* XO |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by luminouz(m): 5:31pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Prettythicksmi:So she should remain husbandless for life or she ain't worthy of love again or WHAT Tick-tock mouth?!!!! |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by livinbygrace: 5:33pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
With the exception of widows,most single mothers always have issues and clings on their baby daddies,so i will not advise sane young man,except divorcee or widower,to marry single mother.Forget all these epistles,there is always regrets at the end. |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by hillsiderfak(m): 5:37pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
First of all, I can see that you really are very ignorant and very childish, dont you think that lady is older than you, And it is clear you are confused, how can someone that fonicated with you be God fearing, from what u wrote that lady is a master in seduction and she has caught you, I hope you know you and that lady are not born again. You are about to fall into a deep pit, HA! I feel sorry for you 1 Like |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by ednut1(m): 5:43pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
God fearing bt una dey fuk. Nigerians and hypocrisy sha 1 Like |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Drazeen(m): 5:44pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
destinel: Don't rush things. Take your time and trust me those scales will fall off your eyes with time. Single mothers are very good with trapping young guys.... They know how to fvck and also how to treat a guy right.... But there is always an angle. Just don't rush things.... Date her for a long as possible,when she thinks you are just fvcking her for free.... She will show her true colour. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Nobody: 5:47pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Op God will help you, but have this in mind your single mom she is just a church goer that is yet to know Christ imagine her past experienced , she can still have another sex in out of wedlock ,what if she got pregnant again it means 3rd child without married? I think she attending your church just because of husband sake. |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by BABANGBALI: 5:48pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
When virgins fool everywhere |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by pennywys(m): 5:50pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
destinel:bro are you proud to have this single mum, can you be proud of her in public, is she good enough for you? If yes go ahead nd marry her. Exactly this happened to me, but on my own case she was not educated and I can't be proud of uneducated woman and I dump her for the reason |
Re: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by Bolincosugar(f): 5:54pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Fx55: Second hand woman you say ? There are thousands of single ladies that are even worst compared to single mother. Anyway, i don't want to belief am talking to a matured soul 1 Like |
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