2dugged:
hehehehhehe, sentimental folks are too blinded by their sentiments to bother how it really works out there, most of your Nairaland guys and alot of guys out there are operating on fribaults law, and it's time ladies wake up too, yes,infact I intend to raise my daughter that way,because I have seen case where the women helped bring up their men and at the end of the day they get tossed to a corner when things change, infact I have two examples with one of them being a close relative, so please, spare me all your online charade y'all play on this forum, I also encourage every lady reading this thread to read about fribaults law and the red pill, it will be your greatest loss as a woman to take care of yourself and take care of your man too,infact it's an error, even the Holy book says "a man who cannot provide for his house, is worse then an infidel". so my man,park well, and don't let sentiments blurr your logic

ImaIma1:
Op is just playing to the nairaland "commenters" that are always talking about ladies and materialism. Everyone seems to ok the write-up.
Some ladies want everything and they want it NOW. I dont believe that a relationship should be receiving on one part. The lady should spend also and give the guy things as well.
This "broke guys" issue seems to be a popular topic here and the guys here are always reacting bitterly. Are most nairaland guys broke?

funmisticqueen:
a broke guy is someone who cannot provide all of the needs of his family and girlfriends. A poor man cant even provide for himself.

tosyne2much:
So a woman who can't assist a man to attain heights should be applauded abi?

So, you're ruling your conclusion on the fact that your close relative was tossed to a corner by a man whom she supported to rise to stardom? And what is the assurance that a rich man wouldn't have tossed your relative away?

Your point still doesn't justify the subject matter.. Try to come up with a more convincing point.. Try to think well this time. I'm waiting

mrphysics:

I completely understand you and I also believe that you are still missing something about relationship. It is a sin to stay with a lazy man, a man that doesn't look for ways to improve his condition. But leaving a guy because he is broke, my sister, it means you are there for only his money.
I have this lady, we were together since my undergraduate days and one thing I noticed is that she is this Safia type. Coming from a poor homes, she doesn't have the patience to strive in life. So on several occasions, she have asked me to pay her school fees? House rent, refill her gas, and host of other things. I rejected all of them and off she went.
I didn't even bother to know how she is doing, so one day I finally sent her a message to know if she has finally arrived. To my greatest surprise, the guy she gave herself to borrowed her money and she wants the guy to forget about it and at the end the guy had to beat her. Lol. she started explaining and I was laughing.
Do you want me to remember such kind of girl in life? I promised to pay her debt and set her free from that but at my own terms that nothing holds us together.

tosyne2much:
This article is just the truth in its unclodthedness, and I know that many ladies will have the OP hated. They will lay ambush on this thread and will not comment, the one's that will comment will fault this write-up

At least, there are women out there who were able to put an end to their husbands' financial problems, not some lazy leaches who think heaven and earth should be awarded to them because they think they have kitty-cats

Olajumoke is perfect example of a woman who brought herself and her husband out of poverty and mediocrity. If she's as lazy as these ladies who come to Nairaland to express their disgust for financially unstable men, I'm sure that she will still be hawking her bread till now. Any lady that sees relationship as poverty alleviation scheme is very risk to marry. These are ladies that will leave you each time they see the highest bidder.

However, most of these ladies have no visions, no goals, no creativity and can't undergo the stress of making money, therefore, they look for men that will put them in front of their cars and lavish their money on them.

Guys, please say no to broke and lazy girls

Quinn22:
Actually 90% are
They are broke and lazy! They deserve to be treated like trash from ladies

tosyne2much:
The emboldened got me laughing out loud at a football viewing Centre

tosyne2much:
Brother, I just shook my head at his ignorance when he uttered that statement

2dugged:
please, let's be sure to draw the line between broke and poor, let's all face the fact, with this generation of guys that don't know the meaning of loyalty, I personally will there is a lesser chance that you will remain his number one when things change, and by the way, I dated a broke guy but that didn't stop him from cheating. NO WOMAN SHOULD EVER SPEND HER MONEY ON A GUY NO MATTER HOW BROKE HE IS, hence the reason ladies should avoid them all together, a man that cannot take care of himself financially has no business dating

FTBOY:
don't mind the criminal...as if he married his own wife through bidding.

mrphysics:

Are you serious? Alright, guys make the mistake of not wanting to answer some certain names. If you say I am rich, it does not change my bank statement, if you say I am broke, it does nothing. I will call myself broke when I don't have the money to live well. But in as much as I don't borrow money or ask my parents for money, then you should not call me a broke guy. Most Nairaland guys are like this. If you still collect Money from your parent and you come to Nairaland to call guys broke, then your specie is already in extinction. If your brother can not provide your need and you call your boyfriend broke, then you should be arrested mentally.

Xtopher123:


NO MAN Should Ever Spend their Money on a Girl too No matter the circumstance too.. So Guys are the Mugus abi? WTF is wrong with you all..

So the Guy should do all the spending while you sit your lazy self and squander it? I don't blame you I blame the Igbo name ORIAKU if you know what that means

abike12:
I'm not broke and my preference is to date someone that's financially stable. I don't see anything wrong with a woman wanting to date someone with more money than she has. If two broke people date each other, who will help who?

Quinn22:
Independent ladies! Say no to broke guys

Quinn22:
I provide money for myself thank you, but that doesn't mean I should date a stupid rubbish broke guy

Broke guys don't deserve respect! They deserve to be treated like a pit latrin

Quinn22:
I provide money for myself thank you, but that doesn't mean I should date a stupid rubbish broke guy

Broke guys don't deserve respect! They deserve to be treated like a pit latrin

2dugged:
and if she was tossed aside by a rich man,she would have had time to save her money and some of his money too which would have been a win win for her, don't forget I also used myself as an example, but his brokeness didn't stop him from cheating either
as for a woman helping her man to reach stardom, I prefer she becomes a business partner than investing her money in a man,that is the wisest thing to do,imagine you give your body and still give him your money ontop, double loss
if after all this you still are not seeing my points then I can't help you, my signature is there to let you why why you can't see my points

mrphysics:

I completely understand you and I also believe that you are still missing something about relationship. It is a sin to stay with a lazy man, a man that doesn't look for ways to improve his condition. But leaving a guy because he is broke, my sister, it means you are there for only his money.
I have this lady, we were together since my undergraduate days and one thing I noticed is that she is this Safia type. Coming from a poor homes, she doesn't have the patience to strive in life. So on several occasions, she have asked me to pay her school fees? House rent, refill her gas, and host of other things. I rejected all of them and off she went.
I didn't even bother to know how she is doing, so one day I finally sent her a message to know if she has finally arrived. To my greatest surprise, the guy she gave herself to borrowed her money and she wants the guy to forget about it and at the end the guy had to beat her. Lol. she started explaining and I was laughing.
Do you want me to remember such kind of girl in life? I promised to pay her debt and set her free from that but at my own terms that nothing holds us together.

tosyne2much:
I'm glad your response was devoid of insult this time

Well, my observation about you is that you've been hurt by a dude you invested so much on, hence, you ruled a conclusion never to help a man to stardom again.. My dear, this is not a new thing under the sun.. It's just part of life.. I have also been neglected by a friend whom I helped to stardom.. So it can happen to anybody

mrphysics:

Did you see how you have fallen into your own pit. Thanks for the answer, at least I got how you think about guys.

This is exactly how every lady thinks and you were trying to be a good woman by adding His Family though I know you were just talking about providing for his girlfriend. Family is deeper and wider than boyfriend girlfriend.

Taking care of his girlfriend? sorry to ask, for doing what should she be taken care of, and I believe you mean solving all her problems? and her brother at home should be called what? I make sure my sister does not need money from guys, the family provides all her needs and hence the guy should only show a good leadership example and not monetary example.

once again, thanks

Tiny23:
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mrphysics:

If you know who a broke guy is. But you don't know. Any guy that can't provide for HIMSELF is a broke guy. Attaching your problem to him is at his discretion to attend to them.

zainmaxwell:
what about reliability and jobless slay mamas them aw should they be treated?

abike12:
I'm not broke and my preference is to date someone that's financially stable. I don't see anything wrong with a woman wanting to date someone with more money than she has.If two broke people date each other, who will help who?

Quinn22:
It's up to the men, they can do whatever they want.

zainmaxwell:
what does ORIAKU got to do with this

savage......lwkm

QueenSuccubus:


.naaah, this message is NOT applicable to everyone juz bcoz u want to stroke these broke boiz egos...infact, juz go out and see how the earth revolving. U will see there are lot of working class ladies out there with high paying jobs & u addressed them as a BROKE juz bcoz they dont wanna date a broke guy? Really, for real?