dingbang:
See.. There is dignity in a man being able to provide for himself. No matter the situation, a man should not depend on ladies for his needs...

Preach!
But each to his own.
The thing I think we are missing here is that yes ladies can fall in love with a broke guy and try to stick it out with him but not all ladies.
So please if person no fit do Wetin you fit do no mean say person na gold digger or whatever you wanna call them, truth is they are who they are.
Just be yourself nobody should make you be with what you can't take.

Lashort:
Be with a guy who's broke? For what? How old is he? What was he doing when his age mates were saving (The Bible condemns lazy people)

No I'm sorry I cannot!!!
If I want to be poor I'll remain in my nan's house and stay single Be with a broke guy? (Godforbid)

shame on you
must you survive on a guy's money?
so u actually don't believe without a man u can make it?
you are dreaming to marry a rich guy instead of dreaming to be like Ngozi Okonjo iwela. Dora akunyuli and not forgetting the richest woman in Africa u know them well these are women richer than their husbands.
And you still carry ur stupidity to NL.

Lashort:

Pretty lady

You're twisting my words, nowhere did I mention that a guy should be my source of income. Not that you'd understand how my mind-set works so I'm not going to explain myself

She's a good girl, you're..... Well I can't say.

Lashort:

Pretty lady

You're twisting my words, nowhere did I mention that a guy should be my source of income. Not that you'd understand how my mind-set works so I'm not going to explain myself

She's a good girl, you're..... Well I can't say. ..... Go ahead, Insult me.

bluejean:
the twists n turns of relationships. being financially broke is manageable bt if he z broke in vision, we gats pray

You guys keep shouting vision and hard work.
Do you also know some people's hands and heads are cursed?
And that nothing can grow around them?
Please leave these ladies saying they wont alone.
They are being honest.

Lashort:


What about my own house? Who said I won't have one

Take your stand Babe don't back down for anyone.
Your opinions, your business.

NUEL17:
no wonder u are short

& no wonder you're hairy. Just based on your picture, I'm sure I'm taller than you

niggy73:
True life story,back in 2009,I met my then girlfriend during our nysc year.I watched her carefully and thereafter proposed to marry her.I had just about 5 trousers, and like 6 shirts.She refused my proposals for almost 6 months b4 she finally accepted. I was damn broke and not from a wealthy home.She keyed into my vision of who I told her I would become tomorrow. Today,we are married, blessed with children, I'm a lecturer and at the verge of bagging my Doctorate degree. Women,pls follow dreams and visions not instant gratification, because all of that will fall in...Peace

Now this is a kind of broke to date.
He had strategic plans.
His broke was momentarily.
Guys of nowadays broke is for a lifetime because they have no specific plan.
Just here and there.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jitrMgEZLBc

Is it Love Or Money That Makes Young Men Marry Much Older Women?

all of u girls ranting about not wantin to date a broke dude, mind u, most of d rich ones u are searching for started off as broke niggers and believe me, there was a girl who struggled wit him when he had nothing. now u wan reap watin u nor sow. Holy ghost fire!!

AnnaGray:
It's not strictly about the money.
A person must have something though.
Some combination of money and mindset.
You can be broke, but if you have a positive mindset, goals, dreams, and the ability, then that is ok.

A negative mindset, and broke, no way. No one likes a loser.

All these requires that a girl get close to the man to know him. But sadly without the magnet (money) no girl wants to come close.



Shebi a u dey dat pix so oyibo dey enter NL

Iamdmentor1:


U get money

I get plenty. I'm ballin!!!

Curruption has eaten so deep into girls to extent that a typical runs girl will say she love you this is to decieve you and she will not be asking u for money but you will not know she have more than 30 different men that's fvvking her and giving her money , she knows those men will not marry her but she wants to fools u by not asking you for money so you can marry her and even if you marry her she will continue doing runs. Men really need to be wise

The lure of money is easy for we ladies but despite that, I can date a broke man as a woman but it depends on the situation and if I'm convinced the man is worth it. I'm a working class young lady and the man I'm dating does not have a penny to his name. As much as I'm in love with him genuinely, I'm not stupid. I love the prospects he has, I love the future waiting for him and I want to be there when it comes to actualization because that's where the satisfaction is for me.

siye102:

look hard enough u will find one.

Are you one of them?

vanida6:
Here i`m

For Good seek why would i date a man bcoz of money

easier said than done

pweetyphola:
The lure of money is easy for we ladies but despite that, I can date a broke man as a woman but it depends on the situation and if I'm convinced the man is worth it. I'm a working class young lady and the man I'm dating does not have a penny to his name. As much as I'm in love with him genuinely, I'm not stupid. I love the prospects he has, I love the future waiting for him and I want to be there when it comes to actualization because that's where the satisfaction is for me.

as articulate and impressive as u sound,it is easier said than done......when reality stares one in d face, u would understand dat hypothetical situation and real life are miles part.
The koko is that may our loyalty never be tested(in d words of fashola).

jalay:


Attention seeker.. Am sure u are fucking broke as hell

You spot an attention seeker and yet you decide to give her your unneeded attention

Congratulations sir, you played yourself.....

Lashort:
Be with a guy who's broke? For what? How old is he? What was he doing when his age mates were saving (The Bible condemns lazy people)

No I'm sorry I cannot!!!
If I want to be poor I'll remain in my nan's house and stay single Be with a broke guy? (Godforbid)

You are waiting for a man to wipe your own broke ass as well abi? Your situation is pathetic

OrangeDream:
You are waiting for a man to wipe your own broke ass as well abi? Your situation is pathetic

Situation? Which? Lols okay!

am broke and ugly and my two girlfriends want to die because of me.... maybe na my juju dey work

bumi10:
Should I say gone are the days or should I believe that we still have this kind of lady? I mean a lady told me the other day that if a man doesn't have at least N2 million in his account, he should forget about marrying her.

The question is, do we still have ladies who can accept a broke guy?

Exlink Lodge - http://www.exlinklodge.com/2017/04/do-we-still-have-ladies-that-can-do.html

Women generally hate poverty, even the ones from the poorest homes!!

shegxi:
as articulate and impressive as u sound,it is easier said than done......when reality stares one in d face, u would understand dat hypothetical situation and real life are miles part.
The koko is that may our loyalty never be tested(in d words of fashola).

I agree, but what u sud know is loyalty gets tested if u are not satisfied, if u want more than necessary. Not everybody is that way. I am satisfied and im not asking for much. All i want is to be a partner in whatever he is doing. Like I said i'm not stupid. I wasn't lured by just professions of love and big dreams alone. I'm lured by the steps he is taking and has taken to actualize this dreams, I'm lured by the intelligence of his decisions and the fact he is making me a part of that decision making. Come on, what else do I need? At least I can sustain my self and I'm comfortable. He doesn't have much yet he is not an added baggage. It just a Lil patience.

Lashort:
Be with a guy who's broke? For what? How old is he? What was he doing when his age mates were saving (The Bible condemns lazy people)

No I'm sorry I cannot!!!
If I want to be poor I'll remain in my nan's house and stay single Be with a broke guy? (Godforbid)

it is ur type that sees relationship with a guy as an employment opportunity. rich guys don't date a leech BTW?

bumi10:
Should I say gone are the days or should I believe that we still have this kind of lady? I mean a lady told me the other day that if a man doesn't have at least N2 million in his account, he should forget about marrying her.

The question is, do we still have ladies who can accept a broke guy?


Exlink Lodge - http://www.exlinklodge.com/2017/04/do-we-still-have-ladies-that-can-do.html

Some profess with their mouth but in action, they do otherwise

vanida6:
Here i`m
For Good seek why would i date a man bcoz of money

For good seek i support u. 9 gbosa 4 u.

Lashort:
Be with a guy who's broke? For what? How old is he? What was he doing when his age mates were saving (The Bible condemns lazy people)

No I'm sorry I cannot!!!
If I want to be poor I'll remain in my nan's house and stay single Be with a broke guy? (Godforbid)

See the level of your brain capacity, it shows when he makes the money Gan, you'll squander it for him.. Instead of you to help and see how the two of you can move out of being broke, you are there looking for a ready made man.. Infact your brain is paining you

Lashort:


You spot and attention seeker and yet you decide to give her your unneeded attention

Congratulations sir, you played yourself.....

Cos the world need to know how fake you are.

sexybbstar:


U don recognize the window....yes i am

lmao,I thought as much..which campus n level?

cruz97:
lmao,I thought as much..which campus n level?

Humanities and culture.....400l

Alero3Arubi:

Preach!
But each to his own.
The thing I think we are missing here is that yes ladies can fall in love with a broke guy and try to stick it out with him but not all ladies.
So please if person no fit do Wetin you fit do no mean say person na gold digger or whatever you wanna call them, truth is they are who they are.
Just be yourself nobody should make you be with what you can't take.

you are right Alero.. I always like ur comments in nairaland...